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Emmsy's onwards and upwards part six - sticky icky babydust BFP central!!!

987 replies

Curlywurlee · 05/07/2009 12:32

Here's a shiny new thread named especially for 4ever, let this be the one where we get lots and lots of new BFPs and everyone's pants get bigger

Ever onwards and upwards for all of you lovely ladies

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cupcakefairy · 07/07/2009 09:16

mermaid rubbish. Sorry TEW got you and that she messed with you this month!

I tested this morning and was BFN but af not due til Friday so if she doesn't arrive over weekend I'll test again Monday...but so far my prediction of good news week isn't exactly coming true!

(Trying not to get hopes up that I tested too early but seriously, af never makes my boobs go like this. )

Jools love the cat story! Maybe she has psychic powers

Neeko that's so funny about your dd! My Mum says my older sister used to be the same, going up to my uncle (who was young, v hip and totally not near having dcs!) and saying 'I've done a potty!' and making him admire her poo...haha! We have all that to look forward to...

Joolsiam · 07/07/2009 09:02

Oh Mermaid It really sounded good for you too. I'll send over a crate of some yummy rose I've just discovered - Blossom Hill Zinfandel is nectar of the gods !

Can't type much I'm afraid - sprained my wrist doing Pilates last night and am trying to rest it. Will have to lurk and catch up individually when I can type without pain ..

Still smiling Neeko Had a night of major insomnia and hot flushes last night - and my cat, who is always loving and purry hit new heights of purring last night when she laid across my abdomen - head on my tum and purred a really strange loud purr for ages that resonated in my abdomen and pelvis - does she know something I don't

mermaidspurse · 07/07/2009 08:18

humpf thats me out definatley fgs. Must have been munching on a bit of tin foil all week then.

mermaidspurse · 07/07/2009 07:55

morning ladies

sabs never ever feel guilty or bad for having a pair of big pants on. we've been through the mc we have been through the early worry and knicker checking and we will be there to hear about all those lovely labour pains You and vjay are part of my medicine if you see what I mean. I am sorry you have been feeling rough pregnant tummys hot weather and too much yummy sounding food. Nor can I believe that you only have 5 weeks left at work wow where did that time go? But hope nasty bullying person is sorted out before you put your feet up.xx

neeko classic potty story I can remeber my ds chasing his cousin round the house with his potty so proud was he of his latest poo which ended with 6 year old cowering behind the sofa and a very perplexed ds

mls please report in and just go gggagagaggagaggaaggghghgh if you need too. Thinking of you.x

well I have period pains only sorted out with a 'beaker' of wine and lovely jack harkness so I think thts me out of the running this month. Still feel sick though. Totally fed up with this 2ww rubbish and stupid stick things and wonder what I used to fill my time with before!

Hope everyone has a good day, fingers crossed that gracie had a better night sleep.

blue* good luck with the bloods and thank you for letting us know so we can think of you!

Neeko · 06/07/2009 22:10

Sabs Never feel guilty. It's good to hear success stories. Hope you get caught up on rest tonight.

Neeko · 06/07/2009 22:08

Hello.

Just to put your minds at rest MLS is ok. She texted me earlier. She is suffereing from the slump after the party high. No doubt this will be a hard week for her but I'm sure we'll all do what we can to make it better.

Kate sorry to hear about your DH. that's rough on him and especially rough on you. hang in there honey, it'll all come good in the end

Gracie How's the tummy now? Please use that as a reason not to go back to work.

Vjay lol at your 2am pee I'm really sorry to hear that you're still knicker checking. It won't be long now til you have your lo in your arms and can breathe a little easier.

Curly Hope you're feeling a bit better. you clearly have the stickiest of beans

Mermaid and Cupcake how are the symptoms going? i'm hoping to log on and see news of a BFP soon.

Jools are you still smiling?

Iggy have you settled back in yet? Hope the tan isn't fading already. Any symptoms for you yet?

Blue The thought of you holding your lo when the next series is on really gave me a lump in my throat. Here's hoping I'll be balancing a cup of decaff tea on a huge bump

Barbie Hope you're having a happy holiday.

mollie Did they give you any reasoning for your bleeding when you had your scan?

Had a sneaky laugh tonight. My SIL who is quite far away from having DC was in tonight when DD chose to do her 2nd poo in the potty in the living room. The smell was awful and SIL doidn't know where to look, especially when DD was so proud and wanted SIL to admire it! It's a classy house this!

SabsBigPants · 06/07/2009 22:03

hello ladies, hope everyone is well. Apologies for not posting properly for a long time, I just get worried about posting about pregnancy news when people are going through bad times, and dont want anyone to get upset with me Sorry I missed the party yesterday btw, sounds like you all had fun!

vj i also knicker check contstantly, i think you're right, once you mc, you cant enjoy pregnancy in the same way. Yesterday I was freaking out as I was having period-pain type cramps, along with (TMI information alert) diorhea (sp?) and constipation, so that was freaking me out, but i think it was just due to the rich foods ive been having for the past few days as Ive been at a wedding since friday (indian weddings go on forever!) I came back early from the wedding and just slept. But luckily there was no blood, I still dont have my appetite back. I also worry constantly that the baby doesnt kick enough, and then i worry whether theres a difference between kicking and movement [hmmm] ???

mrskate sorry to hear things are not going so well. Here, have a hug from me too...

cupcake and iggy just to add about holidays, not too sure if you were around at the beginning of the year on this thread but we conceived whilst we were in holiday in India, in DH's ancestral home! So here's hoping the holiday for you both was successful too!

blue good luck for wednesday

mermaid have you tested yet?

neeko have fun BD'ing! Sending some babydust your way

hoping have sent my details to gracie thanks again! And I like your positive thinking...

curly hope you enjoyed your duvet day....we're all allowed one of those from time to time Sorry to hear your having a rough time at work. I'm still waiting to hear the outcome of the grievance, they emailed me a couple of weeks ago to say I should hear soon. I only have 5 weeks of work left, so I hope its before that!

jools hope the black basque did the trick...i used to go mad on lingerie and buy some constantly but now nothing fits

4ever good to hear youre feeling better....

gracie ive been using palmers cocoa butter and my stomach is so nice and smooth! even my midwife commented on how nice my tummy looked... but ive also heard bio oil is good so maybe give that a go..

barbie i miss our chats too...Hope your having a great time

sorry if ive missed anyone...

VJaybigpants · 06/07/2009 18:50

mrskate sending you big hugs and one for your dh too, depression is so hard for you as well as dh, I've suffered from it before and my sister is currently going through a bout of it, I do worry about her, but she's on medication now and is doing a lot better, I hope your dh feels better soon, he's lucky to have you

VJaybigpants · 06/07/2009 18:48

Hiya, I was thinking of you all last night during my 2am pee I'm still knicker checking!!!!!What's that all about? Then I thought about all of us, mc just doesn't go away does it?

mermaid my back has been fine for a while now thanks, I think it must be the baby's low down position, but I'm no expert.

blue what are pappos? Also, wishing you tons of luck over you blood test and I'm so glad you've already decided waht you're going to do, kinda takes some of the pressure off.

iggy glad you had a fab holiday, are you on the 2ww now?

4ever your anniversary celebrations sound so lovely and romantic, have a fabulous day tomorrow

hoping Sorry af got you, but loving the positive thinking, you go girl

neeko glad the potty training oi going well, well done to your dc

Well I'm off to pick up dh now, he's just done the 3 peaks challenge for the 4th time, climbing Ben Nevis, Sca Fell Pike and Snowdon in 24 hours He's spent today driving back from Snowdon, I'm so proud of him. Him and his team have raised a fair bit for the British Heart Foundation

cupcakefairy · 06/07/2009 18:42

More hugs for you from me kate go get some RL ones from your hubby too!

Curly I hope you're feeling a little better too. Where is everyone else today? MN was acting up for me earlier so maybe it has scared everyone off...

mermaidspurse · 06/07/2009 18:05

oh mrskate I am so sorry to hear that your dh feels so blue. No wonder you have taken a step back. Heaps of love in your direction and hope the sun comes baxck out for all of you especially dollie the smelly collie

curly I hope that your duvet day has helped and you don't feel quite to icky. I am worried that you are not keeping enough down (cluck cluck aunty hen noises) so make sure you go to drs if you really can't keep food in.

mls come and tell us how you are please cos we worry

Curlywurlee · 06/07/2009 16:29

kate just wanted to give u a big hug xxxx

In bed on iPhone but back soon for some proper posting

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MrsKate · 06/07/2009 14:48

hi ya

ive found you all it took some time .

gracie thanks for the walk it was really nice apart from getting soaked . dolly the collie smells of horrible wet dog .your tummy looks really sore i feel sorry for you . beanie dosent like cococa butter

sorry ive not been on in ages i went to a ball on saturday night with work so got all dressed up it was really nice to wear my posh frock.

i hope everyone is ok. well im on day 9 and still no bd and i doubt they will be any dh has refered himself to occupational health for depression agian so he doesnt want to come near me a mo

cupcakefairy · 06/07/2009 14:22

I wrote a message at the start of that and seem to have accidentally deleted it!

It just said iggy it would be soooo lovely if we both made holiday babies and would confirm your theory all the more blue!
Hope the bloods go well blue - I'm predicting a week of good news for all with testing happening and annie's scan...would be a lovely start to our shiny new thread

cupcakefairy · 06/07/2009 14:20

Small pants

gingermumi ttc#4 cd 31
cupcake ttc#1 cd 26
mermaid ttc#2 cd 22
Neeko ttc#2 cd 20
iggypiggy ttc#1 cd 19
Sophable ttc#2 cd 16
Jools ttc#1 cd 15
bakingqueen ttc#1 cd 14
4ever ttc#1 cd 13
Kate ttc#1 cd 9
hoping ttc #1 cd 2
becks ttc#2 cd ?
babyinacorner ttc#2 cd ?
Bluemoon
MLS

On a break?
cupoftea
littlebellsmum

Medium pants

Barbie BFP 6th June
Curly BFP 4th June
GracieGirl BFP 30th May

Big pants

VJay bigpants due 26/08/09
Lionstarbigpants due 26/09/09
Sabsbigpants due 26/09/09
Anniebigpants due 1/12/09
Molliemooma due 16/12/09
Bluesatinsash due 18/12/09
Scorpio due 25/12/09
mm1509 due 5/1/10

iggypiggy · 06/07/2009 13:36

blue i think I would be the same - worrying every day. Hope blood test results are ok - when will you hear? soon after wed?

bluesatinsash · 06/07/2009 13:26

Hi Iggy - doing away thanks , still worrying every day but that will be with me until lo is here. Have my triple blood test on Wed. and fully expect to come back high risk due to age, bleeding and previous mcs. Have already decided not to get amnio or anything diagnostic, what will be will be. We don't get Nuchal scans up here so bloods and 20 week scan is all we can go on..

iggypiggy · 06/07/2009 13:12

Hello blue I hope you are right! How are you?

bluesatinsash · 06/07/2009 13:00

Welcome back Iggy - glad you had a fab holiday in Italy . Hope all that Italian air did the trick bdwise, I'm a firm believer in holidays = increased fertility .

Neeko - found the ending a bit disappointing though was shocked by George storyline, didn't see that coming although he hasn't had much to do this series. I'm assuming Izzy's died as she's a big Hollywood actress now a la George Clooney leaving ER.. I do miss it, hopefully when its back on in January I'll be watching it breastfeeding new lo [fingers crossed]. Really hope your bd action secures a BFP this month, a Spring baby is lovely .

Sophable - sorry to hear you're down, please don't be, as Neeko says a one-off dip isn't necessarily bad news.

Gracie - ouch! re: cocoa butter. I use various oils (Neutrogena/Bio oil/Body Shop) as its v. easily absorbed and not itchy at all. Think its your luck if you escape stretch marks, I did last time but got varicous veins instead .

Mermaid and Cupcake - heaps and heaps of babydust for this week.

Curly - hope you're tucked up in bed and resting. MS is the pits, I have the vomit stained t-shirt to prove it! It does get easier though although it took to 15 weeks for me for it to pass...

4ever - so glad to hear you and your DH had an active, sleeves rolled up weekend. Have a tres romantic day tomorrow, going back to your church etc. sounds just lovely and lots and lots of bd to finish off the day .

iggypiggy · 06/07/2009 11:36

hello hello - manic catch up of emails/ work etc - so no time for MN yet

cupcake fanks for welcome back and for updates while I was away

neeko glad mini milk uptake remained high - pleasing, even if it was virtual how are you?

curly yay for a duvet day - but boo for feeling rubbish. all a good sign i guess I have no mini milks - but will get some at lunch I missed you all too x

Jools am hoping was productive... but stupidly didn't take opks with me - so once again - no idea re: ovulation... sigh...

gracie that's bad about cocoa butter - i quite like that stuff... might review my opinion of it

mermaid I hope so too are you testing soon?

4ever that sounds lovely hope you have nice time!

MLS how are you today?

barbie so pleased about your scan results

waves to everyone else xxxxxxxxxxx

Neeko · 06/07/2009 11:25

Hi Mermaid Holiday is great. I was soooo intended to be a lady of leisure

Potty training is going quite well. Think we're going to have to take the huge bear chair come potty on holiday with us though. Not exactly practical for whipping out in a lay by.

I know it's scary to test, but you're brave and strong. We're here to hold your hand. Good luck!

mermaidspurse · 06/07/2009 11:21

morning neekothelayedback hope you are enjoying your holiday. It sounds as though you are doing everything possible and fingers crossed. Hope also the potty training is going well.

mermaidspurse · 06/07/2009 11:18

hi all in a bit of rushhhhhhhhhh.
welcome back ig hope you bought back something extra from your holiday

hoping so fab to see you so positive well done girl, still think you must be a member of mensa or Einsteins grandaughter though

4ever sparkly rose is a good place to start. I am hoping your lovely dh gives you something sparkly for your anniversary.x

cupcake feel sick and light headed and grumpy so it could just be af messin with my head as per usual. It was the metal taste that really got me wondering. Havn't tested yet, too scared to.

jools yeaheyyyyyy! go go go.

sophable you are awarded this months white coat, don't despair you will get there.

gracie as if your poor tummy didn't have enough pain. ouch x

love to all

Neeko · 06/07/2009 11:15

Morning all.

Curly I'm really glad your husband appreciated my art work. i was particularly proud of it. Sounds like Cupcake is joining you too.

Hoping My hat would look awful ayway regardless of the pattern. I knitted 3 cardigans for DD but they were so awful that she wore them at night so no one saw them I thought booties would be easier and started last time. There's a half finished one on my kneedles and I haven't had the heart to pick them up since

Gracie I used Bio oil and found it really good. I was HUUUUUGE and only have some tiny marks. DH did say it was like getting into bed with an oil slick though.

4ever Your anniversary plans sound great. I'm also at all your decorating. We've lived here since the end of OCtober and only managed one room as DH works so much. Do you and your DH want to visit and have a decorating weekend here?

MLS How are you today? Hope you're not crashing after the birthday high. Is everything still stagnant physically? It won't be long til Thursday and another hurdle passed. Big hug.

Well done to all on the 2ww. I'm hoping to join you soon.

I'm still BD every day too as there's no temp rise here either. My temp dipped this morning so I'm hoping it was ov dip. I wish I had ov pains like Jools and Mermaid's short cycle

cupcakefairy · 06/07/2009 11:07

OOh and welcome back Iggy! was gonna text you last night to find out when you're back but there's my answer! Hope you had a nice time