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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Emmsy's onwards and upwards part six - sticky icky babydust BFP central!!!

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Curlywurlee · 05/07/2009 12:32

Here's a shiny new thread named especially for 4ever, let this be the one where we get lots and lots of new BFPs and everyone's pants get bigger

Ever onwards and upwards for all of you lovely ladies

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Curlywurlee · 20/07/2009 22:17

Night moon, night all, really heading to bed now

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BlueMoon1981 · 20/07/2009 22:14

thanks curly and neeko for rescuing me tonight. a few tears escaped then. night night xx

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Curlywurlee · 20/07/2009 22:12

And moon it is still very soon and totally natural that you would be grieving especially after two MCs in such a short period. Big hugs honey xxx

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Neeko · 20/07/2009 22:09

Moon Looking into counselling could be the first step in your plan. Do you want to start trying again? If so, maybe if you explain to your DH that it's the loss of control that's making you depressed he'll come round? Men really don't get the whole thing, no matter how lovely they are. Can you convince him to take your lead and see what happens? Really hope you feel better soon.

Curly Update us when you can tomorrow.

I really am off to bed now.

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Curlywurlee · 20/07/2009 22:08

Moon which part of the country are you in? The midwife in my EPAU mentioned when I spoke to her a couple of weeks ago that there is a counselling service available at my local hospital for MCs. I think it is a good idea, I wish I had known about it before.

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Curlywurlee · 20/07/2009 22:06

Moon I still get sad when I see cots. It broke my heart when we hired a cottage with DH's family and we got the room with a little cotroom attached. I kept wandering in and tormenting myself as to why I didn't have a baby to put in it Life is so unfair but I know there are brighter times ahead for you, and a lovely little one to call your own. I just know it honey xxxx

Night all and thanks so much for the good wishes. I will text gracie tomorrow (if that's ok with gracie) with the results of the scan as I'll have to head into work afterwards, well that's if (please god) things are all okay.

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BlueMoon1981 · 20/07/2009 22:03

curly i wish i could come with you but have my hand instead

we dont really have a ttc plan yet, maybe thats what i need, dp says he wants to wait tho. and neeko counselling has crossed my mind because im worried im getting worse, i feel like this weird person in my own body who doesnt make any sense.

MrsKate · 20/07/2009 21:58

i hope it is curly but im a bit doubtful as no ov

Neeko · 20/07/2009 21:55

Aww Moon Just caught your post. It WILL be the baby's room one day. There's nothing I can say to take your hurt away but have faith and please don't give up yet. Have you considered counselling? In my quest/need to talk about MC with everyone I know a few people who've tried it and said it really helped.
Big hug, honey. xx

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Curlywurlee · 20/07/2009 21:54

Xposted again. mrskate could it be implantation?

Moon I wish I could take you with me tomorrow I'm going to calm down now and focus on the fact that bean doesn't need a scan

I know this is a really tough time and you feel like a mess One thing that really helped me was coming up with a plan of what I needed to do before getting pregnant again. For me it was DIY and it did help me get back to some sort of normality. Are you thinking of TTC soon or does DP still want to wait?

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Neeko · 20/07/2009 21:52

I have my fingers crossed for you.

Think I've posted enough for ten days today.
night night all.

BlueMoon1981 · 20/07/2009 21:52

neeko the house is lovely and it was the 1st time mum has been. but it was meant to be a new house for the baby i keep standing in the baby's room and gazing out of the window. i can't get excited about the house anymore its just a shell.

MrsKate · 20/07/2009 21:47

well i have ?32 day cycle so next monday really unless i crack at the weekend.

Neeko · 20/07/2009 21:44

Curly Eventually my bump caught up and grew past them. Dumbo's mum had nothing on me by the time I popped!

Neeko · 20/07/2009 21:42

Gracie I'll willingly share. Do you wnat left or right? Are you still having your pain?

mrskate OOOH sounds promising. Are you just wanting to be off work with gracie? When are you able to test?

Moon sorry to hear you're still struggling. Wish i could make you feel better. How's the new house coming on. Was that the first time your mum has seen it?

MM Never big Balamory fans in this house but God help me if that signing goes on for years! Have a soft spot for Humf, even though he's a bit of a wimp.

MrsKate · 20/07/2009 21:40

i dont know if im just thinking these syptoms . as same as af .only bd x3 this month day 13 14 15 ish no def ov tho

i wanna come and play in the office with the paper clips too

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Curlywurlee · 20/07/2009 21:40

Jools has AF come???? I'm so sorry if it has

MM thanks for the hand to hold, I need all the hands I can get.

neeko 36F?!!!! scary

gracie don't worry I think they are not meant to grow this big in the first trimester! Plenty of time for your boob job yet

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GracieGirl · 20/07/2009 21:36

Oh MrsKate, I do hope you get to come and help me tidy the paper clip drawer for a few months!

BlueMoon1981 · 20/07/2009 21:36

curly you are so lovely with your posts, they must take you ages. i've just been sat reading the last page of posts after walking the dogs and eating some icecream - you must be a mind reader! it was lovely seeing my mum on the weekend, but it went far too quickly. you hit the nail on the head, i am most definitely a mess, and im not sure what to do anymore....

i hope your scan goes well, when you're in the waiting room, just remember he/she is perfectly fine and doesn't need a scan ok fingers crossed xx

MrsKate · 20/07/2009 21:32

bless you girls ive plenty to spare and not even pg yet

i need some advice ive started with bad cramps period pain type this eve but not due till another week and boobs hurt (but hurt a lot with af aswell)

i dont no what to think ???????

GracieGirl · 20/07/2009 21:27

Neeko and Curly I'm jealous, I've still got an A cup!!! 11 weeks and not even a smidgen of extra boobs!

Curly here's my hand to hold for your scan tomorrow.

MLS bless your DD!

4ever huge hug if you're lurking.

mm1509 · 20/07/2009 21:27

Just checked back in and didn't realise that curly had her scan tomorrow, hope all goes well and will be thinking about you around 10:30.

neeko and mls DD is nearly 6 and still loves the wonderpets, the singing would drive you round the bend, just warning it could be around for a while. Must admit was glad when the bala(bloody)mory phase went..............would you really let your child anywhere near Archie.

Night ladies xx.

MummyLovesSadie · 20/07/2009 21:25

Yes but dd & I both prefer Robbie Rotten!

Neeko · 20/07/2009 21:21

Jools Don't be daft! Rant on here as much as you like. This is OUR thread and we're here for each other whenever, whatever. So there!

Joolsiam · 20/07/2009 21:19

Will be thinking of you tomorrow Curly

Will pop back when I've come round from my massive sulk / hormonal sobfest - didn't want to bring things down when this is Neeko's day