www.wewantaspringbabynow.com

yes hula - i agree totally with you - i think i need to look into a fertility clinic sooner rather than later

trix - we are all obsessed! its par for the course here

Rom, I would seek a second opinion he does not sound as though he knows a great deal about it. I heard that there is supposed to be a very good IVF clinic in aldridge in the West Midlands - have heard quite a few success stories where couples had failed attempts elsewhere...

Can anyone advise me on this. I am on day 19 should I still have CM - I had lots of very milky cm yesterday? Sorry about being so graphic.

Any chance of speaking to someone who specialises (or knows more about) IVF rom? Think your GP needs to take your concerns seriously and put you in touch with someone you can at least chat too.

thanks charlee, hula, debbsy and bella - i will stop being a whingebucket soon!

debbsy i think hula's cryptic numeral (61514!!) is a shortcut for doing smiley or weepy emoticons, but for some reason its not working?!! well, thats my guess anyway

bella - i have spoken to my unbelievably ill-informed GP about IVF (mr. rom has sperm banked from when he had his surgery years ago, but it was of poor quality because it was post-surgery although the sample was taken before the radiotherapy IYSWIM) and asked if that was a better route for us - but he seemed to think we should keep trying naturally for now despite my age, as we did get pg. once. i say ill-informed because he umms and ahhs a lot and quite often admits to not having a clue to my questions, ie. age limits for IVF.

Hi everyone, just joined thread from the last one. I really do hope we get our spring babies - by god we deserve them.

reminder of my stats.

Age 32
DH 34
DS 3.5
TTC for 2.5 years - two m/s last one at 15.5 weeks but baby died at approx 10 weeks (in Dec 05)

Now on day 19 of my cycle - shall be testing on 27th / 28th - usually have a regular 28 day cycle.

Good luck again to all. Please order me a baby head office any sex just a healthy baby. Im obsessed!!!!

Sorry about that Debbsey - as these threads are so busy I tend to write my replies in a text editor on Outlook and then copy and paste. I will have been either a or a (can't remember which without looking back down here) originally. MUST preview!

thanks hula fingers crossed for you what does it mean when you put & 61514 please thanks for support too bella you do feel like that though dont you sometimes lol

Rom - {{{{HUGS}}}}} honey xx
Who have you spoken to so far regarding TTC....ie clinic, GP? What does your Dh think?

Debbsy - oh dear sounds like your Dh is totally out of favour...oops! I must say it made me laugh to read that it is not just me that feels like wanting to punch someone when they say "why are you upset, it will happen"....ARH !!

Debbsey - glad DD?s comment made you smile today  So sorry you are having such a hard time; must be very difficult with DH not supporting you. Really hope your holiday brings you back closer together and you have a nice time.

Hi Handbag. Good to hear your Spa treatment is still on. Fingers crossed for you.

Spacecadet ? sorry to hear about your lost baby  and the hard time you have had. Hope the baby dust this time round is extra sticky just for you.

Charleepeters ? good to hear the scan was all good

Munz ? hope the BD does it trick!

Rom ? sorry to hear you sounding so down 

CD19 here. Must have OVd by now ? well I hope I have anyway. So on for the 2WW ? anyone joining me?

Rom so sorry your feeling down come on cheer up we are all in this together im in still on the verge of crying every 5 mins but i know it wont do me any good and ive got to get on with things mainly ttc and we will do it again i know we will come hell or high water rommy (((((hugs)))) know just how you feel blieve me it hits you someyimes and ur chest gets tight and you start to panic and then you start to cry then you get frustrated cos hubbys cold or wonders why you are so upset and if mine says one more time it will happen im going to punch him in the mouth moments..

sorry to here your feeling rought today rom hope your feeling better tomorrow, thanks again to everyone else for supporting me anyway im off to savage dp weather he likes it or not xxxxxxx

debbsy - hmmmm, i can relate - why are they like this just when you need them most

charlee - i am so relieved and happy for you that all went well today - and sounds like you have timed it perfectly for this month get bd'ing!

milosmum, bella, debbsy and charlee - thankyou for missing me today. must admit, have hit a bit of a ttc slump

will be back on form tomorrow i promise.

wendy - i am starting to think i may have to go the same route as you. did you have to go on a long waiting list - or are you doing it privately? do you know if there is an age limit if it is NHS? sorry for questions....

Make sure he doesnt eat too much and fall asleep

still not speakingto him note lack of dh not a dh in sight just come in joking as if nothings the matter asking me do i still want to divorce him THE BLOODY MAN INFURIATES ME GRRRRRRR GRRR GRR GRR GRR SEEING BLOODY RED AND HE CAN GO AND DO WHAT EVER HE WANTS GO AND HANG HIMSELF BY HIS BALLS FOR ALL I CARE !!!

i know i know waiting for dp to stop faffing about lol plenty of time tonight dont you worry if he moans he tired for work tomorrow it will be for a good cause just cooked him a nice meal to get him in the mood lol

charlie what u doing on here you should be bding lol

Thanks everyone glad im ok to worried about Rom where are you honey are u ok?????

debbsey s right i had the depo and it took 1 1/2yrs for my period to return and another 6mths before i started to ov properly. they never told me that at the time! i even said to the doctor i was coming off it to ttc and he said i should be fine in a few months!!! would never have it again..

Rom are you around? hope alls ok honey...

Rom where are you hun are you ok ??

blimey busy today.
Bella well done on smiley face best of bestest luck to you hun thanks for kind words too feel a little better today went to work today.
Teuch what a coincidence thats where we are staying too was it a nice hotel? nice food etc?And according to ny dates on ff i ovulate on hols wahay (if im speaking to him that is as im still not and hes going to be spending tonight in spare room also)
Thanks for kind words tabs all you guys are fab and such a strong sense of support
Munz hee hee i will if the opp arrises
space cadet ((hugs))
Charlie well so pleased for you darlin glad everythings fine theres alot to be said for these depo injs hormones go haywire on them so gla\d your ok though had me worried for a while.
Handbag thank you to you too ur a star
JUST TO REITERATE YOU GUYS ARE FAB AND SUCH A STRONG SUPPORT XX

Thanks for your suppotr just waititng for dp to get in then were off lol i dont expect much this month surley one onth of trying cant do anything productive???? well im hoping lol, hope everyone else is fine and dandy, wheres rom today????
i hope all testers are lucky this month and i hope everyone else is taking care of themselves

well done charlee- get to it girl!!!

Munz - as many beanies as are available!!!! [GRIN]

Rom - where are you? You know how we like our daily check in from you!!