The Hut of Gl/Doom... Please don't ask about our reproductive plans as a smack round the head with TCOYF often offends

its lissie btw!

oh sweetheart

AF not officially due til tomorrow, but almost immediately after I posted, I got bleeding and cramps. So I guess I will chalk this one up to af coming 2 days early rather than a chemical pregnancy.

Well I will know soon enough the answer to my previous question, 'cause: "whoops we did it again", one go and yep, two lines on a stick again. I am refusing to acknowledge it this time, as it is early days and right now I am not ready to start even think about getting excited.

I am getting more and more of the opinion that I should forget my deadlines (which would mean stopping NOW) and just see what happens. No medications, no planning, no timing of sex, just forget about trying to get pregnant and just allow it to happen and face the consequences. I mean if I have gotten pregnant 6 times in less than 2 years, then it is fairly likely to happen again (as long as we have unprotected sex!), and maybe, just maybe, a good egg will meet a good sperm and my body will do what it is supposed to do????? Is this possible??? I don't know.

hi rainbows, how are you doing? all a bit odd here, ds is 5yo tomorrow and we are redecorating his bedroom and sorting through all of his baby toys. its making me so sad. im also having the odd flashback to the days leading up to his birth. not good. however we are still here and tomorrow is another day!

farewell Shreks, am sad to see you go, but wish you well on the foodie front. I am still full of admiration as I keep moving my time-frames and deadlines back and back!!! Now not sure what will stop me trying.

Queenie - hope you are doing ok.

shreks, I am sorry and I will miss you. I truly hoped that you would be graduating from the hut with a baby, but I admire your resolve and your acceptancde.

i never use the foodie threads, but hope to see you in chat soon, much love to you all xxx

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shrek - hope that a miracle has occurred for you. You are stronger that I am when it comes to giving up, I keep thinking that I should but can't, but I am just weak-willed and stupidly hopeful. Still I hope that Tuesday you will not be saying goodbye.

Hi Queenie, I am just plain confused. I know I should give up on things, but I can't, at the moment I am having a battle with myself over trying not to try this month as I have to go for smear test anyway. Arggg, why can't life be simple.

shreks, am praying that the witch stays away for you.

how is everyone?

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rainbows - it gets addicitive doesn't it - so hard to walk away ..

whatever you decide I look forward to hearing about it .. x

Lissie can you cat me your addy so I can send you some cyclogest

Duritzfan - so happy that Lenny is doing so well.

Queen - sorry to hear that it is over again, but I really hope that this new consultant will listen to you. When do you think you will get an appointment.

I am really thinking seriously of trying again

Hi all, thank goodness all was well at the scan this morning ...just four weeks left to get to the second trimester ..fingers and everything else firmly crossed ..

Now dh has seen the heartbeat beating away and the baby has grown I am hoping he will begin to get a bit less nervous too..I don't know who is worse - him or me !
Bean has been christened Lenny - Lenny the Lentil

i'm sure everything will be fine. what time is your scan? is anyone going with you?

thanks everyone .. am very very nervous tonight ..x

good luck for tomorrow duritzfan, crossing everything!!

rainbows, sadly its all over. again. however I have an appointment to see dr shehata so hoping i can get at least one cons to listen to me!

Duritz - will be thinking of you on wednesday.

queenie - thinking of you too, are you doing anything different this time, or just waiting to see?

this is weird. I am feeling anxious about pregnancy and it is not mine. Will be making sure I check in here again tomorrow and then while I am at work..... I really hope that you can be my influence to give it another try through having success at your pregnancies.

thank you duritzfan, the injections must be a nightmare!! what time is your scan? let us know ASAP wont you m'lovely?

Just checking in here again ..

Lissie I have been on your other thread so wont repeat what I've said there - suffice to say - am praying and hoping things turn out ok for you this time - despite the signs at the moment ..( need a "sympathy" emoticon..)

I am ok, getting nervous about my scan on Wednesday and my tummy is totally black from injecting Clexane .. its so bad they are talking about having to use my legs as well.. I tell you I will not be impressed if this doesn't work !

Funnily enough the biggest and worst bruise is where dh did my injection once ..needless to say he hasnt been allowed near me since ..

julez, im horrified that they have only just found this! thats awful!!

im ok thanks, still pregnant (at the mo) and still trying to ignore it. I am 21dpo today so only 7 more days to go!!

hey all,

I bowed out of this thread for a while, was at a low point!

Lissie I posted on your other thread in AIBU.

How are you feeling?

Duritzfan, how are you? Did you start on the heparin.

Still no TTC here yet, currently mid testing at the recurrent mc clinic in cardiff, they took the first set of bloods last week, 13th may is the second lot. But, they did find I have a septate uterus, all the scans I have had and only now do they notice. Apparently if a preg implants on the septum then it doesnt have a chance of surviving. Sugery can be done to correct it but there's a chance fertility can be reduced.

The chance of having a successful pregnancy after that goes from 4% to 87%. Which are great statds but I do have to take into account that I have a clotting issue as well.

My head is full at the moment.

nearly forgot (yeah right) i too am up the stick again.

shit!

blimey, its gone quiet in here, how is everyone doing? duritzfan?