TTC any which way DP CM BT OPK Grapefruit drinking ....

Jools - keeping everything hopeful for you for tomorrow.

Hi everyone,

Jools - what a fab gp you have. my thoughts are with you and sending lots of positive vibes your way. good luck for tomorrow im sure everything will be fine.

af returned for me about 6 weeks post mc however i continued to have light bleeding for 9 weeks. was also having pos pg tests too which nearly drove me insane! good news that you are not cindy.

Yes another lovely day. I live and work in SW. (from nz jools, not living there...at the moment...).

hope everyone has had a nice day..

sounds okay kitty - I hate bosses though. How do you have to show improvements?

I often work in Soho too ladies but I think I might stay just a computer presence - I think I am only comfortable talking about my secretions etc because you don't know me and I don't know you. Though I am sure you are all as lovely in real life as you are in person.

Glad you have had a lovely day pinkyblue. I am off to sit in a friends garden. Loving the sunshine! Damn witch, hope she doesnt get you!

Hi ladies, what a beautiful day, well it is in Berkshire....

Jools I have everything crossed for you, sounds like you are getting good treatment.

I have still not tested, have feeling AF will be here tomorrow as expected, temp dropped a bit today so I guess that is not a great sign

On positive side had fab day out in the sunshine with DD

Spooky wasabi i am in Floral St - the Opera house end. And we get lunch delivered from wings on Drury Lane everyday. If you are ever in the area....
Just had my appraisal. Was as i expected. Got to work hard for next 3 months, am going on a course and boss wants evidence it worked in that time.

C1ndy I work in New Cross.

I used to work in Cov Garden too

But live & work in SE London now...

Kitty I used to work near Covent Garden - my old office was on High Holborn just round the corner from Drury Lane. If only we had realised this then we could have had lunch!

Cool. I am an Essex girl. He he. Was born in Ascot bust spent most of my life in Essex.

Thinking of you Jools fingers crossed for tomorrow.

Where are you C1ndy i am in Covent Garden. Lovely out there isn't it!

Thinking of you jools - in rush so no time to post more or respond to all the messages but will do later.x

Just back from GP, who did an internal exam but couldn't see anything untoward. Given the relatively small amount of blood loss, she thinks there is still hope. I did up to recently as was still feeling nauseous, but my boobs appear to be deflating now ... The abdominal aching is now quite uncomfortable - like a nasty AF. I don't know how much blood and clotting you would see at under 6 weeks ?

Have got a scan - for what its worth - at 10.10 tomorrw. Not sure they'll see anything conclusive anyway.

Lovely GP did put my July CP onto the computer today, so that I can go back to her and get referred to the recurrent MC clinic if this MC is confirmed.

Having told my boss and got a sympathetic response, I'm now off to put my feet up in the garden for a while ...

Hi Iggy yes fingers crossed your normal cycle will resume in a month or so. By the way, don't beat yourself up about what you said to this person you know who had the mc. Whats done is done and you can't go backwards. I do know what you mean though. I found out recently that my next door neighbour who has just had her first, had an mc when I was expecting my ds. Several times we had conversations about how excited I was, when I was starting maternity leave etc. It must have broken her heart at the time.

Yet when I saw her big bump when I had the mc I was so jealous and sad. It's swings and roundabouts really. It certainly has made me a lot more careful about what I say.

I just did a test - your post reminded me that I meant to wasabi and was negative - so am guessing everything gone for me - which is good cos it should mean AF should come in a month then?

C1ndy I think a little spotting afterwards is normal - I got it for about 10 days after the main event. I got most of my info on this from the Deanna website

www.pregnancyloss.info/waitingforaf.htm

This section should take you directly to the recovery scenarios. I found it really helpful.

I think if you had anything left there you may be getting pain. Have you done a test recently? My clinic told me to do a test and call them if it was a BFP - this was about 2 weeks afterwards. If it is BFN then I think you can reasonably safe in the knowledge that everything has gone. Sorry

Kitty am fine - just made me think, that's all.

Wasabi the worst thing is I clearly remember asking someone I know whether they wanted any kids - she said 'hopefully one day' then 6 months later I found out that she had just had an MC at 11 weeks after 6 years of ttc... felt v. v. bad... She likes to talk about her MC, which I used to find odd, but I can sort of understand now.