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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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C1NDY · 22/04/2009 08:44

Hi All,

Hope you like our new home!

OP posts:
Vikks · 16/07/2009 12:30

C1NDY -It's been 2 and half years now. I'm using FertilityFriend.com to record my temps as well as ovulation tests. Tried acupuncture too!

Vikks · 16/07/2009 12:16

Just wondering how far along everyone is in the treatment process? Who?s seeing a doctor and on meds?
I?ve been on Clomid 150mg for 6 months then Tamoxifen 80mg for another six months, had an operation back in Feb, Lap and dye and I?m having another operation next week (Ovarian Diathermy). Anyone else had any of this?
Vikks

C1NDY · 16/07/2009 12:16

Engelbart If you think something is retained? go to the doctor they can do a scan. I MC twice? my last one was at 12 weeks and I found that for about two months I had loads of bits and bobs coming out but it has now settled down? but my cycle is now 29 days it use to be 28 days? so am hoping it will get back to normal soon.

Laurielou Hi there and welcome, as you can see we are a very lucky thread. Put your feet up and lets hope we all get that bfp soon?. Just so I have got this right are you saying that your temp has decreased from CD21, so you suspect you may still have not ovulated?? Or you have ovulated and think you may be pg and was expecting to see a surge? If your temp declines it means AF will be on its way. We love helping so ask away its what we are all here for, to support eachother.

Vikks How long have you been trying? This is a lucky thread. What method are you trying to find out when your fertile period may be in your cycle?

Re-done the list as I missed off a person.

TTC:-
Yellowflowers - AF due 11th July
IggyPiggy - AF due 18 July (ish)
Joolsiam - AF due 20th July
Vikks - AF due 5th Aug (ish)
Cindy - AF due 8/9/10th August - approx. 32 day cycle
Engelbart - AF due 29 July (29 day cycle)
Yellowflowers - AF due mid August
DaisyDot - AF due 3 July (ish) 21dpo

Absent:-
Ray81
hopeforbundleofjoy
Flintski
whatsfortea
Kittycatcat

Graduates:-
SparkyMalarky - GIRL, just under 6 lbs
Heebychick BFP
BeckyMcG BFP
BoosieBoo BFP
Sn0wflake BFP
Pezzina BFP
SmileyCat BFP EDD 04/09/09
Spats BFP
WanabeMum BFP EDD 19th Sept!
Queenie1 BFP
Broodzilla BFP
Kyte BFP
Funtimewincies BFP
Jardins BFP
Wasabi BFP
Lovelymonster BFP
Pinkyblue123 BFP
Dalrymps BFP

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C1NDY · 16/07/2009 12:04

Waving to all the new joiners Daisydotandgertie, Englebart and OnlyWantsOne Engelbart Hi there, I have a DD aged 3 (well next Thursday she will be). I have MC twice and am hoping to have another one day!! But soon as I am 40? if it doesn?t happen by next year then I am happy with my one. Are you trying to chart your cycle? i.e. by using OPK sticks, Basal temperature etc? or are you just bding around your fertile time?? Because if that is the case then you can try other methods? and I am happy to give you a quick guide.

I am doing everything now? Basal temping (which is very interesting as it seems I get a dip before I ovulate, which is handy ? only been doing it for last cycle) I am using OPK sticks also and am using the DP to ensure that I have a plan.

Jools it may be much too early to test. Will the hospital be now monitoring you? Your symptons do sound very promising.

Yellow it?s a shame you are off on hols during your fertile period? I would try and attempt to do it at least once if you can --- a bit like playing the Roulette Wheel? you never know when your relaxed and not having much time is sometimes the best time to conceive if that makes sense!!!

Jools Agree to keep list of BFP with TTC? it just that we are so lucky that the list has grown so much, but hey it is our history so ? I have joined the two together again ? sorry but I think I was the one that knocked it off?.

TTC:-
Yellowflowers - AF due 11th July
IggyPiggy - AF due 18 July (ish)
Joolsiam - AF due 20th July
Cindy - AF due 8/9/10th August - approx. 32 day cycle
Engelbart - AF due 29 July (29 day cycle)
Yellowflowers - AF due mid August
DaisyDot - AF due 3 July (ish) 21dpo

Absent:-
Ray81
hopeforbundleofjoy
Flintski
whatsfortea
Kittycatcat

Graduates:-
SparkyMalarky - GIRL, just under 6 lbs
Heebychick BFP
BeckyMcG BFP
BoosieBoo BFP
Sn0wflake BFP
Pezzina BFP
SmileyCat BFP EDD 04/09/09
Spats BFP
WanabeMum BFP EDD 19th Sept!
Queenie1 BFP
Broodzilla BFP
Kyte BFP
Funtimewincies BFP
Jardins BFP
Wasabi BFP
Lovelymonster BFP
Pinkyblue123 BFP
Dalrymps BFP

OP posts:
Joolsiam · 16/07/2009 12:04

For those that remember Heeby, she going in tomorrow for a C Section

C1NDY · 16/07/2009 11:50

Yellow Blimey... your advert worked.. you should be in marketing... now I have to spend a little time reading all the posts.. so will come back to you all in a mo.... goush, I am a slow bugger at reading!!

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Joolsiam · 16/07/2009 11:28

Welcome Vikks aswell

Daisy - yes, I think I will test in the morning and contact the clinic as I am feeling decidedly odd today - nausea all the time and the bloodhound sense of smell is really making me start hoping again. My abdomen is a little crampy today aswell - not like AF, but some vague niggles that just suggests something is going on in there

I'm gonna feel so stupid if this is all in my mind !! If this is it, then it feels like a good sign that the nausea I'm feeling is worse than it ever got in any of my (failed) pregnancies thus far

yellowflowers · 16/07/2009 11:24

everything crossed for you jools - and I am so pleased we have some new recruits!

Englebart - the tests ordered were day 3 and 21 bloods, internal scan and sperm test for dh. All done now and going back end of Aug for results. Nextstep after that if not an obvious problem is dye test then after that clomid.

daisydotandgertie · 16/07/2009 10:45

It does sound as though you should be contacting the clinic, BFP or no BFP. The symptoms are too similar and obvious to ignore really; it sounds a lot as though your body is gearing up for a BFP.

Will they see you before you actually get a positive test? Your history implies they certainly should.

I'm relieved to read your list of symptoms; I have more signs than I thought. I've had buckets of creamy cm and have got v fizzy nips to add to my list.

It doesn't explain why I have no sign of AF, and no sign of a BFP though. I'm a long way past ovulation now.

My DH spent a few minutes with today's test and a magnifying glass this morning before suggesting a trip to the doctor might be in order. I think he's worried I am getting obsessed .

Joolsiam · 16/07/2009 10:21

Daisy - with the first CP - I had enormous and sore boobage, but no idea of the stages of a monthly cycle / fertile times or anything else really I think I tested on day 26 of a 29 day cycle, got the BFP and then bled the next day, so AF came early and was heavy and clotty.

The second one was 13DPO as I hate the thought of early testing. I was fairly certain though, as I'd had obvious implantation cramps, a bleed and fizzy boobs

Third one - I didn't test till the day AF was due. Again, I was fairly certain - mild thrush, raging insomnia, night sweats, mouth ulcer and creamy cm post ov.

This time - I've got the creamy cm, night sweats, mouth ulcer and thrush, plus nausea, so am still hopeful. I only tested early because I've been told to contact the recurrent miscarriage clinic as soon as I suspect I am pg.

I may test again tomorrow, as I feel so sick today, but may hold off, as if I don't see spotting by Saturday morning, that will be the biggest indicator that AF may not be on her way.

Fingers crossed !

daisydotandgertie · 16/07/2009 09:58

jools - Hurrah! Someone else with ageing eggs. I am quite sure mine are almost atrophied and very definitely wizened. I was 40 in February.

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriages - each one must have been absolutely heartbreaking. You must be very relieved that the genetic testing has come back with good news.

How many DPO did you get BFPs for the previous pgs? I have had a couple of very early BPFs well before AF was due that came to nothing ... I figured that was a combination of atrophied eggs and wizened womb.

There really is no truth in the 'kiss a boy and you'll be up the pole' mantra I was taught when I was young.

Vikks · 16/07/2009 09:50

Just added me......

DaisyDot - AF due 3 July (ish) 21dpo
IggyPiggy - AF due 18 July (ish)
Joolsiam - AF due 20th July
Vikks - AF due 5th Aug (ish)
Cindy - AF due 8/9/10th August - approx. 32 day cycle
Engelbart - AF due 29 July (29 day cycle)
Yellowflowers - AF due mid August

Joolsiam · 16/07/2009 09:37

Daisydot - I'll be 40 in November and TTC#1 aswell. It is nice to have someone else around who is looking to be a more mature first time mum

Fell PG almost without trying last July - CP. Another BFP in Sept but really traumatic sudden and natural miscarriage at 11+5 (and day of my dating scan) in November - 2 days after my birthday. PG again in March - another MC at just under 6 weeks.

I've had recurrent MC tests done, and the results are coming in now - genetics testing is all clear. I reckon it is just old eggs and I've got to keep cracking a few till I find one that is still in date

I am feeling so seasick today, think I may test again tomorrow. Hopefully yesterday's test was too early.

daisydotandgertie · 16/07/2009 09:32

Thanks for the welcome ladies - I've added myself to the list

DaisyDot - AF due 3 July (ish) 21dpo
IggyPiggy - AF due 18 July (ish)
Joolsiam - AF due 20th July
Cindy - AF due 8/9/10th August - approx. 32 day cycle
Engelbart - AF due 29 July (29 day cycle)
Yellowflowers - AF due mid August

I am beginning to fret! I've taken another test this morning (Boots) and got another BFN. I've suddenly got a really strong sense of smell, am weeing ALL THE TIME and have the oddest shooting pains up my fanjo .

A little bit of history too; I'm 40 and TTC #1, had a miscarriage at 6 weeks in April and not a sausage since. I've been temping & OPKing for 4 months - my temps are still up at the moment.

Bodies!

Vikks · 16/07/2009 09:26

Hi Everyone,
I would love to join you. I don?t know anyone in the same boat as me and the friends I?ve confided in think obsessive and keep feeding me the lines that make me want to scream! ?..Just relax?.it will happen?.try not to think about!
DH (33) and me (32) are TTC#1- been trying a while. Hope this is a lucky thread, spread that baby dust around!
Vikks

laurielou · 16/07/2009 09:22

Hello ladies, mind if I pop in?

37 TTC#1, came off pill 2 years ago, although having actively been trying for 2 years (if that makes any sense). Have GP appointment next week for 21 day blood tests.

Question for you knowledgable ladies - I started temping this month. Probably not the best month due to routine being shot thanks to holiday & mine & friends' birthdays so a few drinks. However, I'm on CD 21 & would've expected to see a surge by now. But my temp has steadily decreased since CD1. Any advice would be welcome.

Sorry to stick my head in & immediately demand help.

engelbart · 16/07/2009 09:15

Hey yellowflowers, sorry to hear you're at bottom of list. If you don't mind me asking, what tests are you having done? I am starting to worry that I have problems too, espeically as I had major infections after dd was born (though no-one told me at the time that infections can cause infertility) also had miscarriage in February and am obsessed that something is still retained.

This ttc malarkey isn't much fun is it?

yellowflowers · 16/07/2009 09:00

And by way of introduction to new people:

I'm 31 and ttc number 1. Trying for 18 months. Have just started having hospital tests. Have mild pcos and am overweight. Have hunch I am having a lot of near misses due to lots of symptoms every month that I am sure are not psychosamatic.

yellowflowers · 16/07/2009 08:59

Hello - welcome new people. Thanks for coming over.

Here's list with me at the bottom again

IggyPiggy - AF due 18 July (ish)
Joolsiam - AF due 20th July
Cindy - AF due 8/9/10th August - approx. 32 day cycle
Engelbart - AF due 29 July (29 day cycle)
Yellowflowers - AF due mid August

Ray81
hopeforbundleofjoy
Flintski
whatsfortea
Kittycatcat

engelbart · 16/07/2009 08:56

Have added myself on!

Yellowflowers - AF due 11th July
IggyPiggy - AF due 18 July (ish)
Joolsiam - AF due 20th July
Cindy - AF due 8/9/10th August - approx. 32 day cycle
Engelbart - AF due 29 July (29 day cycle)

Ray81
hopeforbundleofjoy
Flintski
whatsfortea
Kittycatcat

Joolsiam · 16/07/2009 08:55

BFP List Aren't we a lucky thread

Graduates:-
SparkyMalarky - GIRL, just under 6 lbs
Heebychick BFP
BeckyMcG BFP
BoosieBoo BFP
Sn0wflake BFP
Pezzina BFP
SmileyCat BFP EDD 04/09/09
Spats BFP
WanabeMum BFP EDD 19th Sept!
Queenie1 BFP
Broodzilla BFP
Kyte BFP
Funtimewincies BFP
Jardins BFP
Wasabi BFP
Lovelymonster BFP
Pinkyblue123 BFP
Dalrymps BFP

engelbart · 16/07/2009 08:53

I almost threw up when I had my cornflakes, could this be a sympton? But wait I'm only one day post ouvlation...!

Joolsiam · 16/07/2009 08:52

Moved the list up - have put all our absentees down the bottom. I want to go find our BFP list too - losing that list makes it look like those people are gone and that is not the case - I love having them pop back Anyway, I've graduated twice and come back !!

Yellowflowers - AF due 11th July
IggyPiggy - AF due 18 July (ish)
Joolsiam - AF due 20th July
Cindy - AF due 8/9/10th August - approx. 32 day cycle

Ray81
hopeforbundleofjoy
Flintski
whatsfortea
Kittycatcat

Joolsiam · 16/07/2009 08:48

Hello Onlywantsone I'll join you in symptom spotting like a mad woman I retched this morning when scooping the cat litter tray, recoiled at the smell of cat food when I opened it and nearly lost my breakfast when I walked to work through what seemed to be a very stinky high street

A warm welcome to Engelbart and Daisydot too

I'll go off in search of the list - feel free to add youselves

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