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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Twenties ttc -- all aboard!!!!!

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seanybosmummy · 16/04/2009 15:46

Hey girls here's the new thread

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 22:07

ok lol good luck for tomorrow!

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whittywantababy6 · 21/04/2009 22:06

Ok Imma wait.....go to bed...

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 22:05

oh god the suspense is killing me! im dying to go to bed but just cannot tear myself away from the laptop incase you test and i miss your result posting lol

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whittywantababy6 · 21/04/2009 22:02

Thanks I need the support the cramping stopped maybe I will test but Im scared to look I wish someone was here to look lol

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 22:01

lol well im sending lots of babydust your way and good luck for the morning if you do decide to test!! xx

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whittywantababy6 · 21/04/2009 21:58

No lol I dont have to pee lol...Imma try to wait til the morning but just so I know af didnt show but I might give in

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 21:57

sorry we posted at same time. I know what you mean,i think i had cp last month (36 day cycle), but i know i cant wait til cd36, i havent enough willpower

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 21:55

oooh your off testing arent you????????

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whittywantababy6 · 21/04/2009 21:54

Its normally 29 days...but last month it was 33 but I strongly believe I had a chemical Pregnancy that time. But thats why I wanna wait til day 33 so Im not disapointed again to scared

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 21:54

if you dont test now you prob wont be able to sleep lol no pressure..... lol

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 21:53

pmsl at them inthe bed with you
how long is your cycle normally?

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whittywantababy6 · 21/04/2009 21:51

lol I want to so bad their in the bed with me...but to scared cuz Im cramping right now....but Im on cd 30 im nervous to go

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 21:51

sorry dont know how i managed to post that twice

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 21:50

Hi whitty,what cd you on?

How can you restrain yourself when you have them in your hand lol I would test if i had any as have been obsessing about early symptoms

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 21:50

Hi whitty,what cd you on?

How can you restrain yourself when you have them in your hand lol I would test if i had any as have been obsessing about early symptoms

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whittywantababy6 · 21/04/2009 21:44

So I went and bought a test of 3...should I wait til the morning

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 20:37

Hey mm i knew you'd be on here, needed a bit of company as dp watchin football
So the tiredness has kicked in good and proper then. What is your due date?

My symptoms continue tho i dont know if they really are symptoms or if its just my body playing mean tricks on me.

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madmissy · 21/04/2009 20:28

seany where are you at now? whats norm cant be arsed to read down im tired

ant chin up chick light at the end of the tunnel {{hugs}}

joy thinks tend to happen when you least expect it and you are relaxed so i read and seemed to have proven to myself lol

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 16:38

Hey girls,

Thanks joy

Poor ant, you sound so disheartened today (i don't blame you though, cant believe you're cd50, thats just torture.) Hopefully your doctor will be able to shed some light on the situation for you,and give you some positive news to focus on.

whitty i understand your frustration- sore bbs are a good sign though (or do you normally get this when af due?)
I know what you mean about being too scared to buy a test, ignorance is bliss as they say. Don't worry you will get the result that you want soon

I have decided not to test this month until af is late. i have been having dizzy spells today (had some a few days ago as well), but i don't know wether it is just my body playing tricks on me or because im tired. Havn't had anymore pink cm though, it has returned to clear again (are you meant to have clear cm this late on in a cycle?)

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whittywantababy6 · 21/04/2009 14:53

Hey ladies, the only symptoms Im having are cramping last nite my bb's started hurting so bad but I woke up this morning and still no af....but still to scared to buy another test...I feel like the moment I buy a test the day AF will show her face...I need a vacation because this is driving me up a wall...not to mention the people at my job...ugh...Im a sour puss today

Antdamm · 21/04/2009 14:28

Hey Ladies,

Still nothing. I have given up all hope.

Got Docs appointment for next Monday - Doubt that will do me any good.
Sorry, am in a terrible mood.

Last nite, we were talking to DP's mum on the webcam (she's in brazil at the mo - lucky git) and DS said to her that he was getting a little brother!! Don't know where that came from.

Joy - enjoy your time 'off' I'm sure it will be worth it in the end

seany - when are you testing??

Hope everyone else is doing better than me

Joy27 · 21/04/2009 14:02

Thanks seany, I feel pretty positive about my new approach. Will still be checking in here, and of course crossing my fingers for you this week!

Ant- poor you! It's awful when af goes awol. That's how I've put this months impending af into perspective- when it doesn't show up at all yet you're getting -ve tests, it's worrying. How are you doing?

Any news from anyone else?

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 13:22

Hi joy , you were completely right in everything you said, and a little break and relaxation (never mind a return to normal sex life) can only do you the world of good

Im glad to hear that your cycle is returning to normal this month, it would have just been so horribly unfair for you to suffer with another 42 day one. Ant is in that boat at the minute, though if i remember correctly she is now on day 50!

Ant i think we should go on a witch hunt for af and pull all her fingernails off for causing you such agony (unless of course she has decided to stay away for 9 months ). I really hope you get some answers soon x

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Joy27 · 21/04/2009 12:41

Hey ladies,

Bubble I'm with you on the cheesed-off front. Hang on in there!

Am on CD30 now and although period hasn't started yet, have had spotting today and also cramps. Am under no illusions- it's a-coming. I suppose it's a relief that my cycle seems to have got back to normal after stupid 42 day aberration last month. But the whole business is so tiresome.

Anyway, as I said yest, I'm going to wait for my period to start in earnest, then am going to forget about ttc for a while. Like, properly forget. I won't go back on the pill, and will still be having sex (er, obviously), but with no counting, no attempts at doing it on specific days, no blinkin folic acid or legs in the air, and certainly no thought of egg white.

Have decided that at age 28, with the knowledge that we can get pregnant (had mc last year as many of you know), it will not do for me to be obsessing so much. I am too young to be stressing like this.

I still want to get pregnant soon, but given our current living arrangements (close family member on other side of wall until June) and general time constraints of life/work, I can't keep putting pressure on myself to get pregnant NOW THIS MINUTE and feeling crap when we don't get joggy with it on designated days.

So I will keep you posted girls, but may be bidding you sayonara in the next couple of days- at least for now.

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seanybosmummy · 21/04/2009 12:24

hehe bubble , the good news is i cant test anyway cause i dont get paid til next week and have hardly any money left to buy them (have to pay for this silly driving test on fri and a lesson on thur-its costing me a bloody fortune)
(6th time!! i am so embarrassed )

When i got pg with ds i wasnt keeping track of my cycles either so maybe that is the key to getting pg! lol

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