Twenties ttc -- all aboard!!!!!

Hey everyone

Hope your all well, joy have you tested?

I have a question for everyone...DO any of you get EWCM after af? I got it on CD 7/8. My cycles are usually quite long nearer 37-40 days, so surley this cannot be ovulation?! Im a bit baffled by it as last month i had EWCM on CD18 but af didnt arrive until CD38, that would sugggest my later stage too long, no?

I'm just so confused by it all. I tried temping, but I just get different temps every day and dont see much of a difference really, but I do have to get up in the night sometimes with DD1?

Hi girls im back!!!

seany im so sorry af got you. did you get to the drs? have they referred you? 13 months is such a long time to be on this ttc rollercoaster. i really hope something happens for you soon.

ray im sorry hun! if she is a close friend then tell her how shit she makes u feel when she goes on like that. when i had my mc in feb i told this woman at play group and she said wouldnt it be funny if i fell pg before you???? i mean please what a bitch??
I hope your cycles get back to normal soon..

rtuff im missing you already. I hope the break gives you the peace you deserve and you come back with a bfp

whitty how was your holiday? tested yet?

ant how are you chick? its gone from 1 extream to the other! If i were you i would stop takin the AC for a while to see if your cycles even out and perhaps ask your dr for some advice.

joy welcome back!! and at such a critical time in your cycle im so excited! this could be a BFP!!!

Hi and welcome to kaylo and plant. Good luck

well i had a lovely time away. the weather was gorgeous and we had so much fun. BUT still no af. i have a drs appointment thurs so i am going to insist that something is done. i cant get pg if i dont bloody ovulate can i???

My fingers are firmly crossed for you Joy!!

Will check back in tomorrow

Hi girls, it's me again, visiting from sabbatical.

Rtuff, you're doing the right thing. A break has been just what I needed to give me some perspective (er, even though it only lasted a mont- maybe longer, let's see).

Ray, sorry you're feeling so shitty. I'm not surprised, you've had a hell of a time.

Ant sorry you are having such a frustrating time.

Everyone else, hope you are good today.

I'm posting because I'm feeling anxious over here and could do with some support. Ironically, the month when I decide to forget about ttc is the month when af doesn't arrive.... I'm now on CD38 (ucl 30-31) with no af. Had slight spotting when period was due... then nowt.

I'm going to test tomorrow and I should be excited- the signs are good- but I'm not. I have been here before just two months ago, when I had that 42 day humdinger. Back then I was convinced I was pg only to be disappointed. The prospect of not only failing to conceive, but having irregular periods, is not a good one. I know some of you ladies here are going through it.

The stress has forced me to suspend my sabbatical!

So anyway... keep your fingers crossed for me please! I will report back tomorrow.

whitty ttc#1 cycle6 ucl 28-37 cd31
Bubblebell1 TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL?? CD47
AngelFairy TT#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28-30 CD40
Rtuff ttc#2 cycle 13 UCL 30 CD5
seanybosmummy ttc#2 cycle 13 ucl 30 cd9
Antdamm TTC#2 UCL ?? cd4
PlantASeedWatchItGrow ttc #2 cycle 1(of my fresh start) ucl 37-41 cd9

Joy27: TTC#1 - On Sabbatical
Everysinglestar: TTC#1 WAITING TIL JULY
Kaylo: TTC#3 Waiting till September

Hey Ladies,

Rtuff - sorry to hear you're off for a while. Hope you get the relaxation you need and get a BFP to boot!! Good Luck.

Ray - Sorry to hear about your insensitive friend, sometimes people dont realise what they are saying at all.

Sounds like evryone else is having a right old time of this TTC stuff. Its driving me a bit mental.

I am now on CD4 as I had a 12 day cycle??!?!?! Don't have a clue as to what is going on there, it was a relief when my last AF turned up, even though it was a 19day cycle, but now its down to 12. I'm a bit worried. Anybody else had this? Should I stop the agnus castus, I havent even been taking it everyday which I know is a terrible waste of money, but I seem to be very forgetful when it comes to taking it.

'had' severe SPD

my grammer/spelling again!!!!

so for you ray

I really hope you get a BFP this month, I'm sorry you're so down.
Your friend really is ruthless and I'm ashamed to say I did a similar thing when I was pg with ds (2nd pregnancy) for one reason or another - I have severe SPD and was in agony most of the time...

But that doesn't even matter, maybe she's grateful she has someone to talk to about all her worries and plans. I still think perhaps she could have invited you into the conversation to talk about your concerns as well though.

I'm sorry if this doesn't sound helpful - I hope you feel better soon.

Welcome back ray sorry about your ruthless friend, some people think the world is all about them and its not. Hope you feel better and get lucky with a bfp just because you think you wont

ok ladies I need your opinion.....this morning when I wiped I had a streak of pink right...which is normal I always have for some reason now before af...well this time I wiped a second time and their was a drop of blood kind of burgundy not really red...then I wiped a third time and everything was gone. my tem was 98.5 which is the highest this cycle so what do you think implantation

Hi guys sorry havent been on for a while been very hectic with new job.

Need to have a moan just had a call from my friend who is 39 weeks and all she talked about is the birth etc i have had 2 mc since she has been rg and last one only 2 weeks ago while do people not think about how others feel.
The last time i talked to her she i told her i was going on holiday and she said "i'd give anything to swop places with you, you have this baby and i'll go away" i very nearly hung up the phone she is so insensitive. Anyway rant over.

I am the same as you guys and fel better knowing i'm not the only one that looks at the mat clothes and dreams of mat leave.

It has been just over 2 weeks since i had the ERPC and no signs of Ov as of yet, we have managed to do the deed a few times so if i have we may have caught it but doubt i have as of yet.anyway not holding my breath for a being pg this month things like that just dont happen to me.

see what I mean lol, missing words out left, right and centre.

I give up...

whitty lol, I don't think a spell check would make any difference for me anyway...just looked at my last post and I forgot to "I" on the first line.

So it's my grammar as well

Oh well...I guess it's still readable

Hope everyones ok!

aww rtuff I dont want you to go...but I truely understand where your coming from...we all do...so enjoy your holiday and when you come back you will bring us all good luck...

kaylo lol the internet needs spell check on these things becuase I cant spell sometimes to...

blimey i really cant spell can?

I had intended to type "looking forward to seeing you back here with newfound optimism and a double lined pg testing kit"

I'm so dumb

rtuff

looking forward to seeing you on here again with newfound optmism and a double lines pregnancy testing kit

take care and have a great holiday x x x

whitty they really do look comfy dont they?
Wish I had purpose to wear them but hey - I will eventually (hopefully)

Still at work

Wanna go hoooooooommmme x

hi everyone....kaylo you just made me feel good that Im not alone I too look at maternity wear...it looks so comfy man lol

Hope everyone is having a pleasant day...im doing ok myself...nothing major

Hello Ladies,

I've decided i'm going to take a break from Mumsnet, i find myself thinking about TTC way too much which can't be helping things so am thinking as i'm holidaying this month also i'm going to (try) and have a wee break and see how things go... i will come back at the end of the month/cycle to see how many BFP's there WILL be and have a little catch up with you all... so....

take care all and good luck!!

2WW two week wait, to test after ov.

Hi everyone, you're right seany everyone is lovely on here

Can I ask what 2ww is please? I'm still trying to get my head around all the abbreviations

Feeling good today whitty thank you, hope everyone else is too. Caught myself gazing at maternity clothes before had to reign myself in...
Oh Well, I guess it will soon be time to start ttc. Trying not to be too impatient cos I know it's a good compromise from dh and it makes sense, this way when #3 arrives dd and ds will be in full time school so will make daytime catch-up naps easier

Anyhow - gonna go to work now I think - dammit - roll on maternity leave

I'm on my 2ww but Im sure not testing lol