Twenties ttc -- all aboard!!!!!

Oh Whitty Have you told him about the preseed? I've also heard good things about it!! When is it you get married? ((((hugs))))
I don't know what to say honey - could it be a blessing in disguise perhaps? It may not be much of a consolation but if you conceived after you were married - you would all have the same name on baby's birth certificate.

Is he open to discussion on it? If you're getting married in next few months - you may be showing that much anyway so it will be an exciting secret for you to keep.

Whatever happens - I wish you well hun - looking forward to seeing you on here again

xxxxx

Hey girlies, hope everyone is enjoying the weather...ant I hope your birthday was lovely...beans Im sorry af got you to...

Well ladies I have bad news to bare well good and bad...I ordered Presees since everyone claims they get pregnant the first time...but the only issue I now have is that the dear love of my life wants to wait until we get married now since we have been ttc for 8 months. So I think Im out of the race until January we shall see he said hes not going to try anymore but he isnt going to prevent it....I think he will use the pull out method...

so once again I drank another bottle of wine and cried because I was really anxious to try the preseed and I dont want to try it and then feel like I trapped him... oh well gotta go...

Happy Birthday Ant and Bubble's sister. Hope it's pampered bliss for you both.

Whitty hope you're enjoying you're break hun and you're not as stressed.

Beans DAMN AF!!! Although she's due to get me next week as well - Monday if she's punctual!!

Bubble I'm good thanks hun - you? Hope everything with clomid still good Sick leave seems to have done it's job so far - feel back to normal but think when I get back to work it'll hit me again, oh well. Gonna start TTC in 4-5 weeks so am just focusing on that and hoping for best Have really enjoyed the 5 weeks off tho - reeeeally don't wanna go back

Hoping everyone else is fine and dandy xxx

Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday dear ant
Happy birthday to you.

hope you get spoilt and have a lovely day.

whitty make sure u drown ur sorrows babe. then get back on this ttc rollercoaster and get a bfp this time

mean im sorry af got u. good luck for this next cycle..

kaylo how r ya honey? is the sick leave driving u round the twist?

xxx

Ant, happy birthday!!!! 24 is a fab age!

Af found me.

Hope we get some bfp's soon.xx

Hey Everybody just checking in...I had a good day relaxed and had a whole bottle of wine to myself and nice big one...

ant happy birthday honey...whew I cant wait to hit 24 the end of the year anyways enjoy your day and dont worry about ttc

As for the rest hope you guys are peachy

Hellooooo [waves frantically]

I'm still here

How are you two?? Not many people on here lately is there?
I wonder how Whitty is? So for her - hope she's doing ok.

Ant Happy Birthday for tomorrow - I'm 24 too - it's fab!

Bubble Sooooo glad theres no side effects as of yet Very much hope it stays that way for you hun.
Hope your sister has a great birthday (and you enjoy the celebration.

x xx x

ant its my sisters birthday tomorrow aswell!! Happy birthday... get really drunk and enjoy urself

on day 5 of clomid no side effects as yet.. fingers crossed they stay away.

Goin out tonight with DH and tomorrow away for my sisters birthday CANT WAIT

hope ur all well..

xxxxx

Hey ladies,

Well, AF got me this morning but I knew she was coming. Roll on next week.

How is everyone else?
Bubble? Seany? Kaylo? Whitty? Suzhi? Joy? Meanbean? Any news? Any progress?

Its my birthday tomorrow!! Yay! And I will be 24. Woo hoo for me.

Hope everyone is well.

Hi Whitty I'm glad to see you here still!

Can I be honest with you...I was so clueless about TTC when we were trying that I didn't have a clue about temping and only vaguely understood ovulation - enough to but the test sticks and have a go with them. I'm not doing the temping this time either - I'll forget or not do it right or not get time etc... I'm rubbish with stuff like that. And I'm pretty sure my mum and sister, auntie etc never did anything like that either.
I think sometimes it can make you MORE stressed with it all because you know you've done everything right and exactly how it says on websites/books.

I'm glad you're not leaving
Take Care hun - enjoy your time together cos it definitely goes out of the window when you have kids [we barely have time to do it nowadays at all!!!

x xx xx x

thanks kaylo right now that was probably the best thing I have heard and thank you for the smiles...

I will take a break just going to enjoy the moment wont worry about when I ovulate might not even temp...just take a break I wont leave you guys though

Whitty Please stay with us...I have faith that it will happen for you but I certainly understand how heartbreaking it can be. It took a while to conceive our DS but it's so worth it, all the waiting around - all the worry while you're pregnant, I had SPD and was even grateful for that.

Please try to stay positive - I know it's difficult. If you need to take a break from TTC then do that...you never know It might even happen then when you're not trying.

Thinking of you! p.s - did you get the smiles I sent you (couldn't afford recorded delivery )
xxx
Hows everyone else tonight?
xx xx xx

Hey ladies well Im officially out I dropped a blood clot...this is now cycle 9 dont thing Im cut out for this.

errrr Whitty - I meant CHIN up not CHIP

Well hello

Whitty Chip up honey - it ain't over yet! Sending you smiles and optimism

Beans Does that mean you're testing tomorrow if no sign of the monthly witch?

Bubble Glad to see you smiling chick! Sending you lots of happy vibes ---->

whitty sorry about the spottin. BUT it aint over til its over treacle xxxx

kaylo i hope this is my lucky month too. i dont fancy taking this clomid again.

how u doin?

whitty, huge hugs coming your way. (((hugs)))

kaylo, I got you hunni, my typing is really bad, lol....I blame fat fingers lol.

bubble...oh I'd love to be 21 again....28 now and I can feel 30 looming...yikes lol!

I'm on cd 29...this is cycle 2 after the mirena coil...last month I had 29 day cycle...ovulating on cd 13/14...

I thought it would be similar this month, we missed babydancing fron cd 10-16.

BUT af isn't here yet...if I'm not visited by the witch tomorrow then I'm in with a chance as bding would have been right.

I'm trying not to get my hopes up...no doubt the witch will ghet me tonight....

My PMT has been really bad the last few days so no doubt in reality she's coming....we all live in hope though don't we lol.

Hey ladies hope everyone has a better day today...I believe I am out once again this month as for I' am spotting...so today will be a day that Im not thrilled about not in the mood.

hope everyone is better and I wish you guys would come back

Hiya Bubble - how are you? Not too bad I hope - hoping this month is your month B as we can see the side effects are worrying you.

Back later x xx x

Morning girls!

how is everyone?

ant if i were you i would go to the dr. it doesnt seem to me that you are ovulating... pls ask for some kind of help from the dr. its agonising enough each month waiting for AF but 56 days indicates there is def a problem xxx

Well i started the 100mg of clomid last night. im dreading it to be honest... last month i was evil. My MIL is coming to stay thursday for a week and i hope i can control my self.

next weekend is my sisters 21st... we are goin out and stayin in a hotel. just the girls.. i really cant wait.

missing you too. come back everyone!!

who can't spell?? lol

Of course I meant diet coke, and not doet

Hi ladies - how are we all? Everyone enjoying the thunderstorms???

Rach In truth I have no idea why we're waiting til September - I'm ready to go now but DH insists on September. A good thing really tho I guess as he initially said "How about waiting 7 years?" Then he was gonna book himself in for the dreaded snip . I told him if he did I'd divorce him not the best tactic but it did work at least and it got my point across loud and clear, well that and lots of distraught tears.

Ant Nice to see you back on here - I thought you were a dead cert for a BFP too!

Joy - Hope the time doesn't drag on and on for you hun - for once lets wish the time away - just ever so briefly

Whitty - Hows your puppy doing? Is he/she settling in ok?

Suzi - Hows things with you chick?

Beans - Everything ok? Any sign of AF or dare I say...a BFP?

Bubble - I'm truly sorry the clomid didn't work but please don't despair, it will come right in the end (I expect you're sick of hearing that )

Seany? Everything ok? I'm still holding a little hope that somehow there's a little BFP just waiting to be identified...not wanting to bring false hope but it's just so strange...

Sorry to anyone I've missed - promise it's not deliberate.
I'm off to try and calm down now as have had doet coke and it's sent me more than a little wacky.... I really should know better...

Hey ladies,

Sorry I have not been on, busy sorting out house for DP's parents visit next week. Lots and Lots and Lots of cleaning

Still no sign of AF, I reckon that she make an appearance on the 17th(ish) and that means she would be back to a 56day cycle (oh the Joy!!) I wonder if its worth a trip to Docs or if I should let it go like this for another couple of months to see if there is a pattern?
I'm so annoyed that I got myself worked up when I had that one day period and nothing else after it. I had utterly convinced myself that it was going to be a bfp

Joy - Hope the time flies for you leading up to your scan so you can see your bean.

Whit - congrats on your pup. What kind is it? What his/hers name?

Rach -Don't want to be too nosy, but what happened to you? Why are you complaining?

Kaylo - here's hoping time also flies for you

Suzi - Hope you are okay

Bubble? Seany? Where are you guys hiding?
Sorry to anyone I've missed

kaylo - I put in my complaint- and the nurse I first told was sooo cross, but I was too shocked to say anything at the time, but it was the horrible smile she gave me that made it worse, it was really patronising and sickly

Why have you got to wait until sseptember kaylo (sorry for asking!!)

Hello joy thats great that you are approaching your 12 week scan. I wish you all the luck in the world.