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Someone calm me down please.

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Bonkerz · 25/04/2005 21:11

Ok i need rational people to calm me down.

As some of you know i have had 2 mc in the last year. My last one was january. Have not been ttc but not been cautious either.

Since mc have had 2 periods first started 26 days after d&c and second was 24 days in to my cycle. I am now on day 34 and would have expected to start af on saturday. No symptoms and small changes are beginning to be apparant, it was DH who pointed out something tonight and then we started looking at dates etc.

DH wanted to go out and get a test tonight but all shops are now shut so will have to wait till tomorrow. Am so scared. someone please just calm me down. fell like i want to cry.

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nitehowler · 25/04/2005 21:34

good luck hun. hope he gets back with a test soon the wait will get to us all. keep us informed. hugs

sansouci · 25/04/2005 21:33

Keep us posted!

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Bonkerz · 25/04/2005 21:31

Dh just rang he cant find anywhere thats open, tried spa and local shops in village. Chemist is miles away so we are gonna wait till tomorrow. Will save a wee sample in morning and test in town tomorrow.

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bubbly1973 · 25/04/2005 21:31

bonkerz good luck, hope its a bfp...dont worry about getting drunk (easier said than done i know) but for all the women who have got drunk and smoked and god knows what else before they found out they were pregnant, they all have had healthy babies

so get that thought out of your head

try to relax and take deep breaths and think nice thoughts

good luck xxxx

sansouci · 25/04/2005 21:31

Please don't cry, bonkerz. If you are pg, go to your gp & ask if you can see an ob/gyn to take you through it. I have a friend who has 4 dds but had to spend each pregnancy lying on her back! I hope you won't have to do the same but it would be good to have some professional guidance. Or maybe you have already done that?

Nemo1977 · 25/04/2005 21:29

lol bonkerz same here b4 i found out wiht this baby i got drunk the week before...

misdee · 25/04/2005 21:27

dont know what to say, as never been in this situation, but another {{{{}}}} for you.

trefusis · 25/04/2005 21:27

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Bonkerz · 25/04/2005 21:25

ok am now crying. What makes it worse is i got VERY drunk saturday night.

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Nemo1977 · 25/04/2005 21:25

aww hun u will be fine
the way i see it is for however long my bean is here whether its a week a month turns into a tot etc then I am going to enjoy it and love it as much as possible

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Bonkerz · 25/04/2005 21:21

when he wants to be. Not sure what to do if i am pregnant though.

SH*T

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Nemo1977 · 25/04/2005 21:21

bonkerz can completely understand ur anxiety hun i had 2 naturla mcs b4 having ds and then had missed mc in dec and currently 6 wks pg..its nerve wracking but got to have hope hun

Flossam · 25/04/2005 21:20

Hurrah for DH! He sounds like a star.

slim22 · 25/04/2005 21:20

hugs and kisses

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Bonkerz · 25/04/2005 21:19

although it will be good news i am dreading being pregnant again! Cant face losing another baby. Dh gone out now to hunt.

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sallystrawberry · 25/04/2005 21:19

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Nemo1977 · 25/04/2005 21:18

ooo bonkerz its soooooooooo exciting..lol

WigWamBam · 25/04/2005 21:18

Good for him, bonkerz. Sit and relax until he comes back. Big hugs.

sansouci · 25/04/2005 21:17

Can sympathise... everything closes up tighter than a tick around here. Try not to be upset, especially as it sounds like it might be good news! Hugs & lots of luck.

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Bonkerz · 25/04/2005 21:17

dh is going to try all the small late night shops, hes on his way out the door now! He was the one who wanted to test tonight!

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Nemo1977 · 25/04/2005 21:17

bonkerz firstly hugs to u hun

do u have a local co op or sweetshop as sometimes they sell tests....just send ur dh on the look out..maybe even a garage?

misdee · 25/04/2005 21:17

if you need reassurence tonight then u need to get a test. does your dh drive?

Flossam · 25/04/2005 21:16

Where abouts are you Bonkerz?

AngelCakeUmm · 25/04/2005 21:16

sorry crossed postes with everyone...blimey this thread has shot up, think i need to type faster

WigWamBam · 25/04/2005 21:16

Honey, if dh were here tonight I'd send him out to get one for you and bring it to you!

Try to relax, I know you must feel on tenterhooks but try and take it easy.

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