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Original poster

Someone calm me down please.

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Bonkerz · 25/04/2005 21:11

Ok i need rational people to calm me down.

As some of you know i have had 2 mc in the last year. My last one was january. Have not been ttc but not been cautious either.

Since mc have had 2 periods first started 26 days after d&c and second was 24 days in to my cycle. I am now on day 34 and would have expected to start af on saturday. No symptoms and small changes are beginning to be apparant, it was DH who pointed out something tonight and then we started looking at dates etc.

DH wanted to go out and get a test tonight but all shops are now shut so will have to wait till tomorrow. Am so scared. someone please just calm me down. fell like i want to cry.

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Toothache · 26/04/2005 13:07

Congratulations Bonkerz - I hope it all goes well this time!

RTKangaMummy · 26/04/2005 13:07

Oh Bonkerz

DEFFO BRILL NEWS

Will keep everything crossed for you over coming weeks

Congrats to you both

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Bonkerz · 26/04/2005 12:42

thanks everyone. May be on here more now cos dh and i are only gonna tell people who we need help from etc. are not telling our parents or family yet.

Not eally sure of my dates but if i go by my cycle being 25 days like mast month then my bean will be due on christmas day! its too hard to think about that though. I htink im 6 weeks pregnant so will be demanding a scan in the next 2 weeks really. im also gonna ask for my levels to be checked. Does anyone else have any advice about what i should be asking from my gp baring in mind ive had 2 mc previous (july 04 and jan 05)

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Nemo1977 · 26/04/2005 12:36

aww bonkerz hugggggggggggggge hugs to u hun

Flossam · 26/04/2005 12:36

Good luck!! Congratulations! I so hope it all works out for you. xxxx

Flossam · 26/04/2005 12:36

Good luck!! Congratulations! I so hope it all works out for you. xxxx

golds · 26/04/2005 12:35

Huge Congratulations to you both x

MINNIE1 · 26/04/2005 12:34

Bonkerz,
Congrads,
I understand your feelings as i found out i was pg last thurs and had a mc last year.. Sending you all the luck and babydust i can sparexxxxxxxx*x

leahbump · 26/04/2005 12:28

congratulations bonkerz!

Glad you've got the GP sorted..hopefully they will be supportive and hopefully offer you close monnitoring.

lots of ((())) for you and you dh.

take care of you all (inc bean!)

xx

WigWamBam · 26/04/2005 12:28

Oh, sweetheart, I know this is going to bring a lot of really conflicting emotions, but congratulations. I know it's a difficult time and it'll be hard to put everything into perspective but try not to worry.

Lots of love and hugs xxxxx

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Bonkerz · 26/04/2005 12:26

did a test this morning and i am pregnant.

Feel numb, happy but sad and terrified. havent stopped crying. have arranged to go doctors on friday morning with dh so we can see what we need to be doing.

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Toothache · 26/04/2005 11:43

Nothing yet???

Frizbe · 26/04/2005 11:33

Hi Bonkerz, just read this, wishing you lots of baby dust.

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Flossam · 26/04/2005 10:45

Bonkerz? Any news? Hope you are ok. x

WigWamBam · 26/04/2005 10:05

Thinking about you this morning, bonkerz, hope you slept well and this morning brings what you want it to bring.

RTKangaMummy · 26/04/2005 10:01

Bonkerz am hopping it is

WigWamBam · 25/04/2005 22:05

Sleep well, sweetheart.

HRHDuchessofPeahead · 25/04/2005 21:54

sleep tight!

RTKangaMummy · 25/04/2005 21:54

Sweet dreams bonkerz

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Bonkerz · 25/04/2005 21:50

Thankyou every one. Not sure i want the news to be honest but if im pregnant i will have to be strong and try to cope as best i can. Dh and i are alot closer since the first 2 mc and although this time will be so hard im sure we will talk more and both be scared together! Am not going to tell ANYONE this time either except my mn mates ofcourse so may have to start me own thread if i am so i can bore you all with my emotions. Ok am off for that bath (by royal appointment) and then going to try to sleep. Night all and thanks again. Will let you all know tomorrow.

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expressmummy · 25/04/2005 21:47

its sounds like you will have great news tomorrow well done

sending lots of baby dust your way
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RTKangaMummy · 25/04/2005 21:43

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Bonkerz · 25/04/2005 21:40

am going to take your advice your royalness and go and have a bath. Am in town first thing so should have a result then. will post at lunchtime. Am gonna just relax about it now.

Both Dh and I agree that if i am pregnant then we will go to the doctors on thursday (his day off) together and demand help. We have been told we need 3 mc to qualify for special care but we are hoping if we hassle and beg then we may get seen at epu. I hate this so much.

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Nemo1977 · 25/04/2005 21:38

good luck for the morning

HRHDuchessofPeahead · 25/04/2005 21:34

bonkerz, it is a RULE that you have to get blind drunk the weekend before you realise you are pregnant, didn't you know that?! in fact I would say that it is almost proof that you are....
have a bath, go to bed, try to sleep, and let us know as SOON as you have peed on the stick in the morning?!

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