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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Stupid sex question

32 replies

feelafool · 11/04/2009 18:18

God, I feel like an adolescent asking this.

Have one DS, just over a year old and was not planning on TTC number 2 until next year. I have long cycles normally, around 35 days but this month there's still no sign of AF and it's CD 38 today. I have none of the normal AF signs (although no pregnancy symptoms either).

I shouldn't be pregnant, we use condoms and nothing has split, but sometimes we're a bit "naughty" before we actually put it on. DH hasn't come without a condom on and it's harder than that to get pregnant, isn't it? I'm just feeling soooo un periody I'm starting to imagine all sorts.

I had a 38 day cyle at the end of last year but I was feeling like AF was coming for a day or 2 before it did and this time...nothing.

Someone slap me please.

OP posts:
feelafool · 11/04/2009 18:27

Hi Neeko. well not all that often and as I say not naughty to the extent of him coming but probably semi naughty right around ovulation. And I'm worrying about the whole "dribble" aspect.
I think I'm probably just having a looong cycle. Thanks for the cyber slaps.

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Neeko · 11/04/2009 18:25

Would it be a disaster to be pg now?

feelafool · 11/04/2009 18:24

it's not likely though, is it? Just thinking back to all those Mizz magazines dire warnings to teenage girls.

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Neeko · 11/04/2009 18:23

Hi feelafool It is theoretically possible to fall pregnant without him finishing, but quite unlikely. I suppose it depend on how "naughty" you are and how often. Why don't you just test to put your mind at rest as surely the more you stress, the later AF will be?
Hope you get the outcome you want. Please update on how you get on. Good luck.

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 11/04/2009 18:23

rest, not risk

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 11/04/2009 18:23

A dribble can come out before ejaculation.

Test to put your mind at risk

HeadFairy · 11/04/2009 18:22

If it's not shown up in a week get testing.