emmsy's onwards and upwards part 2, more good new please!

I am tempted to say bothered...
I think what we are missing is that kay did lose a baby hence she needs like we all have the need to replace it, we all know that feeling.

Kay - your response is just proving our point.

speak for yourselves ladies I'm 24

Mermaid & Jools well done for being straight up to Kay...

Sorry Kay hon but as said us women on this particular thread are in our thirties+ mostly & are supporting each other after mc & for ttc after mc...

I think you should just start your own thread about teenagers ttc, although I do feel you have to live your life first before you can give a new life an educated start! You say you've been ttc for ages, but I have friends & also read about woman that have been trying for 7-10 years, that would of made you between 6 or 9 when they started trying so try and get some perspective! Sorry if we come across a bit harsh, but each one of us our own story....

Good luck in wherever life takes you hon... Enjoy being 16!

Kay, this is a thread for women after loosing their babies. You don't seem to acknowledge that.

TBH i think your age will go against you on here; you ARE young to be ttc and being on a college course is not enough to provide for a baby.

I had a baby at your age; it is only because of my husband being a wonderful man that i am doing as well as i am. It is a struggle at any age (we all know that) and i think that living a bit of life first, money house and getting married is a brilliant start to ttc.

Hope this comes across OK - trust me, i know.

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kay what does your own mum think? we are just being maternal. I have nieces your age and if I heard any of them talking like you I would give them the same advice.

As I said Kay - you are not behaving as people expect you to behave on a forum such as this, which is making people suspicious. Nobody is setting out to be nasty - no, we don't know you, but you've joined how many conception threads ? On how many of those threads have you actually bothered to read back, find out what the thread is all about and who the people are ? How many personal messages have you posted rather than just cutting and pasting everywhere as if you really don't care who you are talking to, as long as somebody takes notice of you.

You give aswell as take on this forum. I would STRONGLY advise you to find a thread that contains some younger people and stick to just one or two threads that are appropriate for your circumstances.

This is not said with malice or any intention to upset you

Kay if you are not happy with your choice of thread and aren't getting on well with the people on it then maybe it isn't the thread for you. This is a thread for people recovering from miscarriages and we are mostly about twice your age. Maybe a thread with younger people on it would be more suited to your needs.

Wow, that took ages!!!
blue I am still smiling here
mm hello, welcome back, I have sooooo missed you, glad you are ttc now. We were going to wait an extra month but somehow it felt right when we did it and now I'll be 21 weeks tomorrow
sabs and mermaid I am feeling so much better now, I do think the hormones just highlight what I normally feel after seeing friends and family and make it worse.
sabs first you'll feel little flutters and you won't know if it's baby or wind , but you'll recognise kicks, I got them at 22 weeks with ds and 20 weeks this time for definate.
lion good luck tomorrow, I will be thinking of you.
scorpio glad to see you back and love your pics.
bakingqueen what a hard job you do, you are so very strong, good on ya.
barbie hi your time will come.
vm if you are out there, hello

Well I was back to work today and I got so many comments about how big I am!! Fab aint it

look it seems to me like everyone is just being bitchy towards me and i dont think i should put up with it. so what if i am young its my choice to have a baby and i am not going to stop TTC. it just seems like everyone on here hates me when you don't even know me.

Mermaid you took the words right out of my mouth. I totally back up what you just said to Kay Blue what very good news, congratulations. It certainly looks like this is a lucky thread, perhaps your words on Sunday to the big man himself helped after all.

Neeko are you around? Have you started (non) symptom spotting yet? Well I have sore boobs & a heavy feeling in my groin - let the 2ww rollercoaster begin!!

hey mermaid no this is not a windup. its just that most of the women on my street are now PG and most of them don't deserve kids becos they are drugs ect. and then there's people like me and my DP that have been try for them for what seems like 4eva.
and yes you probably would say that but i am really ready to have a baby and i would rather be a young mum than an older one tbh. i am not a going out person i never have been. and i am acctully ahead of everyone else at my college course.

I'm still trying to catch up but just read blues post and I'm so happy for you, there are a few tears of joy up here, well done girlie. Now back to catch up.......

Kay - I agree with Mermaid - you're starting to put people's backs up all over the Conception forum by just copying and pasting the same messages into hundreds of threads - it really does make people think you are not genuine.

All of the ladies on here are older than you (some of us more than twice your age !) and have been through one or more miscarriages - the point of this thread is to support each other moving on post MC. I don't feel you have even bothered to try and understand what any of us are about or why this thread is here.

There is a twenties TTC thread - you'd be better off on that one, or starting off one of your own.

Not trying to be nasty, but I can see that people are going to turn on you unless you start grasping the netiquette around chatting on Mumsnet

kay honey, phew, what to say? You are so young and you won't go out cos you are jealous of pregnant ladies? Is this a windup? I have to ask cos my heart went out to you and I dont want to waste time on a troll if I don't have to.
I think maybe rather than posting the same thing on all these threads you should start your own? Maybe there are other young girls out there in the same position. We are all old enough to be your mum (sorry barbie) and each of us would say stop, go out have fun, work at your college course, don't have babies yet, you have a whole life ahead of you.

at you all - blue you just sit on that cloud dangling your toes and soak it all up.
mm so glad that you have got to where you are - its never the right time so yeah maybe its what you need, crazy lady!
4ever hope they don't hurt your dh taking blood too much.x
jools 16 pounds is an awful lot, you did so well.

It's good to be back!!!!

Wow jools what a Christmas you will have, it will be so special, you will have you own personal little angel at Christmas.

DH has always been very co-operative , it's just other factors have came in to the equation. After the last year we wanted to take a break till at least March, then I found out I was being made redundant. My mind says we are crazy but I suppose we all need a bit of craziness sometimes. It may just prove that's exactly what we need.

I think all the happiness on here is contagious, I've been smiling all day.

mm - thanks to a non-co-operative DP, I had more or less given up any thoughts of TTC and had thrown myself into weight loss and exercise, resolving not even to broach the subject till after Easter (wanted to lose a few more pounds than the 16 I have managed). I also didn't think I really wanted a baby round Christmas time.

And look at me now - DP got in the mood the night before ov and that was all it took (he is in shock now, so I keep telling him he must have super sperm !) EDD Dec 20th, so I may well be having that Christmas baby to go with my sister's Christmas Day "baby" of 14

blue you ride on that cloud for all it's worth hun.

4ever I guess it's true what they say about good things coming in three's!!!!

As for the sods law, well we shouldn't even being considering ttc for now, I finished up work last week so don't even have a job atm. Gonna be starting to work for myself but until we know how it works out financially we are taking a risk. I think that's why we can't talk about it now. The strange thing is that I feel more positive this time..................sods law, bring it on.

If I am honest ladies I am kind of shocked to be back, this time last week I was taking a break as we weren't even thinking about ttc, what a difference a couple of days make. So glad and grateful to have you all here, thanks xxx.

You stay on that cloud 9 Blue girly! Good philosophy to have - stick with it! I'm really so pleased for you!!!! (and Jools and Mollie)!

Hmmm mysticbarbie whaddayareckon - these 3 get BFPs within a week and so did Lionstar Vjaybigpants and Sabs... wasnt there a third one for Annie and Scamper as well (a sister a friend?)?

Does seem to be a case of happening in 3's! Maybe it will be me, mermaid & barbie together?!?!? We can finally hopefully graduate!

MM!!!! So lovely to have you back here and whooo wooo that you and DH are not actively tntc...

4ever great to hear from you too, it always seems quieter on here when you're not around!

Thanks you ALL so much for your posts this morning, I've been welling up more than once I'm on cloud nine today . The knicker checking and anxiety can begin tomorrow .

afternoon all. hope everyone is ok.

SBP: thankQ. and conratulations.

here's an update about me:
i am now on CD14. hopeing there is a chance somthing might happen after last night , but not sure anything has cause i haven't noticed an ovulation on my FC again . today i am feeling pritty . so thinking i might stay indoors.

Yea - love the 'sods law' preg tips! Been in my house 8 yrs & never done the back bedroom in hope would eventually be a nursery. Relented a few weeks back that it may not happen & why keep putting it off, so cleared it out, sold goods at car boot, then brought wallpaper, the next day we got the call to say we could have this treatment to have our baby hopefully, so I do believe in 'sods law'! Also last yr got sick of putting everything off 'in case', so ended up unintentionally running 5k when 5 weeks PG as well! (Tho Jools does that in a daily gym session so puts me to shame!) Although, you keep up with your normal routine girl, they say if you exercise already, keep going, if you don't, dont start when PG! (like me!)

Mermaid late reply but glad you are seeing the consultant again cos think of you often & hope so much you will get answers too!

Barbie dont worry i'm with ya my old skool buddy! I worried that too! Great to see you too MM!!! xxx