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emmsy's onwards and upwards part 2, more good new please!

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barbie1 · 10/04/2009 15:19

Right here we go again!

So far we have been lucky on this thread so lets stick together for all you oldies! until we all get our precious babies.

Here's to the next chapter in our special journey, onwards and upwards

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barbie1 · 22/04/2009 09:43

jools can you not visit a&e for a scan? not sure if this would help? i remember the how frightened i was, nothing or nobody can take your mind off the worry...wish i could wave a magic wand for you...for all of us really.
Im glad you are not going to the gym , one day missing it will not hurt you...
im bored today, days like this i do my own head it! i google way too much and then worry myself silly about what might be happening inside me. I then get depressed, so instead of google im reading crappy gossip pages online...Dh is going to come home a little earlier today and im going to go and get myself a new bikini and go to the gym....I miss not working! Hopefully something should be definate by next weekend then ill be complaining that im nver home
I dont know what i can say to make things better, i wont patronise you because we have all been there, i just really really hope that things work out for you. There are many many thread on here where peope have had bleeds but it turns out ok.
I keep thinking how shit all this is...sometimes i wonder if being on here hinders me rather than helping me...but im learning to take it for what it is, and if nothing more i have made some bloody good friends on here who id much rather talk to then many people iin real life...
Sod the opk's, the temping and the days of the cycle im relaxing and finally being more like myself again..dont get me wrong some days are still bad, im the jealous old witch but thanks to all of you i have more sunny days now, and thats not just because i live in dubai
Right if you have read all of this post i have successfully taken your mind off things for about 3- 5 mins

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4everhopeful · 22/04/2009 09:33

Jools hon also breaking no posting at work rule to hold your hand and send sticky thoughts to you sweetie... Everythings crossed.. xxxx

Joolsiam · 22/04/2009 09:31

Thanks Neeko and Barbie I definitely need someone to keep me sane today - what would I do without this thread

Just had another loo visit and nothing more there. Boobs are still tender and I feel sick - but whether that is MS or sick with worry I don't know.

O god, I HAVE to do work today and I just can't concentrate Think I'm going to skip my lunchtime gym class for once !

Neeko · 22/04/2009 09:16

Jools I'm breaking my no posting at work rule to hold your hand. Hope you are ok. Sending lots of positive,sticky thoughts and a big hug your way. Stay strong.

barbie1 · 22/04/2009 08:57

jools hang in there love, plenty of people spot and bleed throughout their pregnancies with no explaination at all...im here if you wanna chat or maybe getting on with some work will occupy you for a few hours. Thinking about you x

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Joolsiam · 22/04/2009 08:51

Morning all

Barbie - am glad I'm not the only one to go running home in a panic !!

Mermaid - hope you're feeling better today

Am beginning to think my subconscious knew something yesterday - have just started spotting - reddy brown and some stringy bits, so suspect this may be the end Better now than at nearly 12 weeks I suppose .... Am going to try and get on with some overdue work and not think about it

barbie1 · 22/04/2009 08:28

mermaid i know we are v lucky but tend to forget dont we? at least we still have a chance of having a baby, for her she never will with her 'soul mate'
I have a fun week planned out for us so hopefully i can do my little bit in her recovery...

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mermaidspurse · 22/04/2009 08:22

barbie ohh your poor friend god we are so, so bloody lucky in so many ways.

barbie1 · 22/04/2009 06:46

mls i laughed so much at your dd! i think it was the monkey tourch that did it! i hope she is ok now...yuk at the poo....i forget thats all part of having a baby, i dont think ive thought this through i thought it was all lovely cuddles and cute clothes...

annie how you doing today hun? i agree with mermaid with regards to karma...you would feel awful if anything happened, although im sure i would lie for a scan depending how mad in the head im going...maybe just bite the bullet and pay for one?

jools i used to do that all the time, the freaking out and running to the bathroom..left dh and the dog on the beach miles from home and drove like a mad women cos i thought i was bleeding, turns out i wasnt...so lay on the bed in relief, fell asleep and was only woken by dh phoning saying it was raining and did i expect him to walk all the way home! you will be fine

mollie glad you popped back on, i hope you are taking it easy as well as blue

kate your honeymoon looks fab, relax and enjoy each other...the more relaxed you are the quicker you will fall

doozer did you test again?

neeko yep you are the only one not on fb, so come on and join us!

4ever how are you hun?

lion how long now until you get the results? how are you holding up? im thinking about you

sabs enjoy the sun til you go back to work on fri, you will be fine, remember what i told you!

meramid has the pmt gone yet or do we still need to practice our ducking skills?

My friend arrives tomorrow night, its the first time i have seen her since i went around at christmas the week after her bf dropped dead....she gets the hospital report today so is coming here to take her mind off things....so apoligise in advance if im not around too much, i will be lurking and constantly checking on sat to see what flavour bean vjay has got!

On the plus side im here all day today and tomorrow!

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barbie1 · 22/04/2009 06:32

hi gg been up for hours, taken the dog for a long walk and now im lying on the floor in front of the fan because its soooo hot!
Have a good day at work

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GracieGirl · 22/04/2009 06:22

You not up yet Barbie? Just off to work. Enjoy the sun everyone, don't get sunburnt!

doozerhead · 21/04/2009 22:01

Jools - it's perfectly understandable! It's bound to be a nervous time - but lots of hands to hold here. Hope you get a better night's sleep tonight x

GracieGirl · 21/04/2009 21:54

Evening! I got sun burnt!! Got lots of gardening done though, and me and Mum didn't argue too much! Just been looking at the website for your honeymoon cottage Kate, it looks gorgeous!

kate030284 · 21/04/2009 21:52

hey up gracie hows the gardening with mother been lol

GracieGirl · 21/04/2009 21:49

Oh Jools big hug! Perfectly normal behaviour I assure you! (well it is for us lot anyway ) Put your feet up and think calm thoughts.

kate030284 · 21/04/2009 21:48

ahh jools you are bound to be stressing about bleeding and that dont me to hard on you self.xxx tell him its about time you got married lol i got the dress then told my dp that we had to get married the next year being in 2 weeks. we have been together 6 years tho

you lot are getting me excited about going now xxxx

Joolsiam · 21/04/2009 21:44

You lot make me feel old That place looks lovely Kate I bet it will make you relax and regulate hormones. You've probably been stressing about the wedding subvconsciously.

I've been "engaged" over ten years - no sign of a wedding

Can I confess to an embarrassing meltdown earlier

Was in an aerobics class and was suddenly utterly convinced I was passing clots Ran out of the class, ran home crying - up to the loo expecting to see the worst, only to find a little bit of creamy stuff - no clots and nothing red or brown I felt so stupid [blush

kate030284 · 21/04/2009 21:42

i no i was so shocked when we found it through hoeseasons we booked it there and then .i cant wait il report back when ive been to tell if to go xx

doozerhead · 21/04/2009 21:39

I'm good thanks Neeko. Managing to just about keep a lid on the symptom spotting - (.)(.) still not sore, even with all the poking, so suspect it's not a go-er this month - still, onwards and upwards as the thread says! Still going to do another cheapie test tomorrow though!
How are you? Hope being back at work after the hols isn't too exhausting.
Kate wow, looks beautiful too! Not sure what's most gorgeous, the views or the inside of the lodges!

kate030284 · 21/04/2009 21:31

thank you doozer the place is called natures point in north wales got some great pic on website . was 255 pounds for 5 nights

Neeko · 21/04/2009 21:27

Yes please. How are you today?

doozerhead · 21/04/2009 21:22

kate - honeymoon location sounds beautiful
neeko - of course - ice & a slice?!

Neeko · 21/04/2009 21:20

any time.

kate030284 · 21/04/2009 21:16

yeah i realy hope so thanks neeko xxxxx

Neeko · 21/04/2009 21:15

I was 26 when I got married. Anyway regardless of age, when you know, you know. Try to focus on the wedding and hopefully the chill out on honeymoon will be what you need to get your body back to normal.