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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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I'm new and would like to hear from others

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lots33 · 30/03/2009 21:27

Hi, i'm new to mumsnet. I don't have children - yet, I am ttc via a fertility clinic. Going to be having IUI plus medication to boost fertility etc. Would be glad to hear from others using clinics/IUI etc as it's all a bit of a minefield.
Thanks !

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sgibbo · 16/04/2009 19:17

Islegrin sorry posted before i'd finished how are you getting on with the new meds?

sgibbo · 16/04/2009 19:16

Lots33 have they suggested why it is lasting so long? can they perscribe anything for you????

islegrin it's actually nice not having to worry about being somewhere at a certain time to have the injections! Yesterday it looked like DH wasn't going anywhere because the French Fisherman were stopping all the ferries but they've now stopped the strike so he's still going!

islegrin · 16/04/2009 17:06

Lots33 sorry to hear you are still not able to have the test done. I hope AF stops soon so you can move on! Hang in there and keep us posted.

sgibbo thinking of you, hope you are enjoying regular med-free days and nights

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lots33 · 15/04/2009 20:37

Hi all

Sgibbo and Islegrin, sorry about your negative tests, fingers crossed for the next time...

Just gotta hang on in there and believe that it will happen, i suppose that is all we can do.

My cycle has gone hawire....still bleeding so had to cancel the 2nd hycosy appointment.... 3 weeks on Friday. Am just trying to relax and clinic say just to call when my bleeding stops. So it's back to work and trying to relax.

Thanks for all your support and keep me posted.

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lots33 · 15/04/2009 20:37

Hi all

Sgibbo and Islegrin, sorry about your negative tests, fingers crossed for the next time...

Just gotta hang on in there and believe that it will happen, i suppose that is all we can do.

My cycle has gone hawire....still bleeding so had to cancel the 2nd hycosy appointment.... 3 weeks on Friday. Am just trying to relax and clinic say just to call when my bleeding stops. So it's back to work and trying to relax.

Thanks for all your support and keep me posted.

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Kay4MattTTC · 15/04/2009 18:25

evening all.

sgibbo: thankQ for the advice. me and DP have been BDing almost ever night. keeping fingers crossed for you this month.

islegrin: i am trying it is so hard not to let get to me.

islegrin · 14/04/2009 22:43

Another small similarity: my mom mum is a nurse, so if she lived nearby she'd be most helpful in giving me the shots... but then I'd have to endure her undending enthusiasm!!!

LOL - your dh "would jump at the chance"! I just pictured him raising his hand "oooo, ooo, oooo I'll do it!!!" If the roles were reversed, I'd have no problem giving a shot to DH. I guess growing up with a nurse gave me confidence with needles and throat swabs. (sad, sad, sad)

I love that there is a CHANCE! That's what hope is built on. (I'll keep my fingers crossed that your DH doesn't smell too much of French fish on the day he returns!)

sgibbo · 14/04/2009 20:27

islegrin another small similarity I work in shipping to! but not at a shipyard, I work for a shipping line. My DH would jump at the chance to do it but not sure he'd do it right.

The injections are Menopur only one left in the fridge, although it's going to have to stay there

I know what you mean, I keep hoping that i win the lottery!

DH is back on the 25th which will be CD14 so there could still be hope for us this month!

islegrin · 14/04/2009 19:10

kay don't be it will be your time very soon, you are young and full of potential. Just stay focused on your life, and be happy for those others who have been so lucky. will just drive you mad!

sgibbo Alas, my dh works in the tool room at a shipyard... so no medical expertise, there. He's a bit unsure at giving me the shots, but if he had to he would do well. For now, we don't have to fret about it. Are the injections menopur? I had bad cramps yesterday, unusual for me, even woke me out of a deep sleep! But they are better today.

I've been very distracted at work, if I didn't have the house to worry about, I think I'd quit. I think about it everyday... sad, because it's a great job, fun and all. I'm just bored with it and the hassle. Unfortunately I couldn't do without the money - so I've decided to be thankful for what I have and that I'm not job hunting in this economy!

Enjoy your time off the meds, I think I mentioned that there is a track record of pg after stopping clomid... (I know, I know... I'm just saying!)

sgibbo · 14/04/2009 16:47

Hi Islegrin France I could handle but the fishing isn't! I've forgotten what it's like to do it just for fun, i'm going to have to try really hard to remember !!!

i've not heard of the other meds, presume they are similar to what you have now? i have mine in the muscle, my dad is a paramedic so he does them for me I don't think I could do it myself!

sgibbo CD 3
islegrin CD 3
Kay CD 14

kay best thing to do is BD every other day and then you'll have covered all opportunities!

Lots33 how are you getting on????
Making Whats the latest???

Kay4MattTTC · 14/04/2009 13:27

afternoon all. heope everyone is ok.

here's an update about me:
i am now on CD14. hopeing there is a chance somthing might happen after last night , but not sure anything has cause i haven't noticed an ovulation on my FC again . today i am feeling pritty . so thinking i might stay indoors.

islegrin · 14/04/2009 07:49

OK, so I caved. As soon as I wrote the name of the new med on here, I went to research it and it turns out not to have some of the side effects that Clomid has... so I'm going to try it. At least I talked the nurse out of shots in the muscle!!! Ewww those long needles looked much bigger than the other ones.

islegrin · 13/04/2009 23:41

sgibbo France sounds fun, but fishing... not so much. Are you interested in parachuting in for a night or two???
Oh well- it will be great to have you along for the ride this month, then. Besides, it's kinda nice to just do it because it's fun. Might give you and dh a time to just enjoy each other (until the boys fishing trip ).

I talked to the nurse today - she called in my prescription for Clomid again. They wanted to start me on Letrazole/Femara 5mg this month, but dh and I decided one more round of clomid + injectables. That way I can have time to research the new drug. Besides we had good fols last month, so we'd like to give it another go. They also want me to inject in the muscle rather than in the tummy. Clomid 100mg CD3-CD7 and injectables CD5-CD10 then scan, trigger, etc, etc. Work is going to be really busy this week, I'm not sure how I will make it with all of this.

I wonder how Lots33 is doing?

sgibbo · 13/04/2009 21:42

Easier said then done! He's in France unless i want to go with him on a boys only fishing holiday then i've no chance this month

islegrin · 13/04/2009 17:54

Of course she did! Now just have to work on getting you and your DH in the same place in two weeks! ;)

sgibbo · 13/04/2009 11:42

OMG mine showed Sunday late afternoon! Happy Easter,

islegrin · 13/04/2009 06:56

AF showed up Sunday evening... dun dun daa (dramatic music sounds) so it's on to cycle 3 IUI for me!

islegrin · 12/04/2009 10:56

Bummer - I'm in the same boat! Happy Easter, though.

sgibbo · 12/04/2009 10:38

Islegrin I tested again this morning still no AF and still BFN, think my body is going with my natural cycle rather then med induced one which will mean AF either tomorrow or day after.

islegrin · 12/04/2009 08:57

lots33 Huge hugs to you! I'm so sorry about this extra long period and the postponing of tests. What does your consultant say about the 15 days, that's certainly unusual, are they concerned and what are they doing about it? You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you are successful and can relax a bit.

sgibbo still no AF for me either, I'm tempted to test Sunday morning again, but I'm sure it will be a waste. My chest is still sore, which is unusual - but I've been on hormones so that may explain it.

Kay4MattTTC · 11/04/2009 21:31

has anybody else been feeling really latly?

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lots33 · 11/04/2009 16:06

Well I haven't had it yet.....as I said my period was 3 weeks late, ....and i have now been bleeding for 15 days solid! Booked again for wednesday, if I stop bleeding.

I am trying to relax and stop crying! Hope you all have a lovely easter and wish me luck for next week.

I'm going to start a new thread on this one!

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sgibbo · 11/04/2009 13:41

kay after four years i think hope is all thats left!lol

Kay4MattTTC · 11/04/2009 12:57

awww well dont give up hope sgibbo

sgibbo · 11/04/2009 12:49

islegrin looks like your stuck with me, BFN again this afternoon, still no AF though. I'll still be stopping on MN i'll need to find out how your getting on!

Making i get really excited when i go for the scans knowing that your almost at the cruical time, good luck

lots33 how are you getting on? how was the HSG????

Kay we have been TTC#1 for almost 4 years with unexplained fertility, we have had all kinds of test and meds and are currently on clomid with hormone injections and ovitrelle after day9/10 scans. four cycles left with meds then onto 18month waiting list for IVF unless we want to go private