********JANUARY 2010 BUS********** Trying for a baby for January 2010?? Join Me!!

Sorry to hear that blocka . Same here, so shift up & we'll open the cans of lager on the back of the bus (how un-ladylike).

In a bizzare way I'm glad. Its the waiting around I can't cope with. At least now I can get AF out of the way, & I'm going to try temping etc this month. I like feeling in control (no good in this TTC business).

At least I'm on the right bus now, & can look forward to a Christmas lunch without worrying about going into labour! How inconvenient that would be!!

Hugs all round, x

MrsJoeMcIntyre TTC#2, cycle 1 (but BFN) UCL 24-26 CD48
bringonthetrumpets TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL ???? CD37 (BFN)
Higglepig TTC#2 cycle 4 UCL 32-37 cd34
Josie22 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 24-29 CD33
Pandapop TTC #2 Cycle 1, UCL 28-31 CD32
thesoo TTC#2, cycle 3, UCL 32-35 CD30
sazlocks TTC#2 cycle 3, UCL 28 CD29
Gingerwine TTC#3 Cycle 7 UCL 26-28 CD28
Gemstones TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD28
donttrythis TTC 1 cycle 2 UCL 28-33 CD27
MarlaSinger TTC #2 cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD27
RTuff TTC#2 Cycle 11 UCL 28-36 C27
Seanybosmummy TTC#2 cycle 11 UCL 30 CD23
MissieMoosMummy TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 28-32, CD23
Wasabipeanut TTC#2 Cycle 7 UCL 30-32 CD22
Georgimama TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL 30-32 CD22
tryingfornumber2 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 25 CD22
Paddington21 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (with clomid)UCL-28-34 CD22
tetleytea TTC#2 cycle 1 on clomid UCL 27 CD22
katnkittens TTC#4 Cycle 1 (after 2 mcs) UCL28/29 CD21
TickysMum TTC2 Cycle 1 (with Puregon) UCL: random CD21
Katlokna TTC#2 Cycle 11 UCL 26-28 CD21
ccpink ttc#2 ucl 28-? cd20
LuckySalem TTC 2 Cycle 2 UCL 31 (last month) D20
Kay4Matt TTC#1 Cycle 10 UCL 25-35 CD20
VeryAnnieMary TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL49 (apparently) CD20
NewMember TTC#1 UCL 28-29 CD 18
Bettymum TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 29 CD18
Liahgen TTC#6, UCL 26-28 days, cycle 2 CD17
skihorse TTC#1, Cycle 6, UCL26, CD14
Yumyum73 TTC#2, Cycle 3, UCL 37-40 CD13
MissieK TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 27-28 CD12
Schlumpf TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 28-29 CD??
alfiesmadmother TTC#4 Cycle 4 UCL 28-31 CD12
sgibbo TTC#1 cycle46 (with clomid, FSH and HCG) UCL 27-29 CD9
Islegrin TTC#1, Cycle 3(or 48),UCL 28-30, CD9
Mrsstripey TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL32 CD9
Chalkpink TTC#4 Cycle 1 UCL30-32 CD8
stephiepug TTC#3 cycle 4 ucl 28 CD4
Higglepig TTC#2 cycle 5 UCL 32-37 cd3
Skibelle TTC#1 Cycle 7 UCL 30 CD3
Hobnob TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL 26-28 CD3
cyphercat TTC#2 cycle 2 ucl 28 to 32 CD4
Blocka TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 28 CD1
Laurielou TTC#1, cycle 20 UCL 30 CD1

Well, I am quitely and sadly moving to the back of the bus....

MrsJoeMcIntyre TTC#2, cycle 1 (but BFN) UCL 24-26 CD48
laurielou ttc#1, cycle19, UCL 30 CD39
bringonthetrumpets TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL ???? CD37 (BFN)
Higglepig TTC#2 cycle 4 UCL 32-37 cd34
Josie22 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 24-29 CD33
Pandapop TTC #2 Cycle 1, UCL 28-31 CD32
thesoo TTC#2, cycle 3, UCL 32-35 CD30
sazlocks TTC#2 cycle 3, UCL 28 CD29
Gingerwine TTC#3 Cycle 7 UCL 26-28 CD28
Gemstones TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD28
donttrythis TTC 1 cycle 2 UCL 28-33 CD27
MarlaSinger TTC #2 cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD27
RTuff TTC#2 Cycle 11 UCL 28-36 C27
Seanybosmummy TTC#2 cycle 11 UCL 30 CD23
MissieMoosMummy TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 28-32, CD23
Wasabipeanut TTC#2 Cycle 7 UCL 30-32 CD22
Georgimama TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL 30-32 CD22
tryingfornumber2 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 25 CD22
Paddington21 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (with clomid)UCL-28-34 CD22
tetleytea TTC#2 cycle 1 on clomid UCL 27 CD22
katnkittens TTC#4 Cycle 1 (after 2 mcs) UCL28/29 CD21
TickysMum TTC2 Cycle 1 (with Puregon) UCL: random CD21
Katlokna TTC#2 Cycle 11 UCL 26-28 CD21
ccpink ttc#2 ucl 28-? cd20
LuckySalem TTC 2 Cycle 2 UCL 31 (last month) D20
Kay4Matt TTC#1 Cycle 10 UCL 25-35 CD20
VeryAnnieMary TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL49 (apparently) CD20
NewMember TTC#1 UCL 28-29 CD 18
Bettymum TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 29 CD18
Liahgen TTC#6, UCL 26-28 days, cycle 2 CD17
skihorse TTC#1, Cycle 6, UCL26, CD14
Yumyum73 TTC#2, Cycle 3, UCL 37-40 CD13
MissieK TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 27-28 CD12
Schlumpf TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 28-29 CD??
alfiesmadmother TTC#4 Cycle 4 UCL 28-31 CD12
sgibbo TTC#1 cycle46 (with clomid, FSH and HCG) UCL 27-29 CD9
Islegrin TTC#1, Cycle 3(or 48),UCL 28-30, CD9
Mrsstripey TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL32 CD9
Chalkpink TTC#4 Cycle 1 UCL30-32 CD8
stephiepug TTC#3 cycle 4 ucl 28 CD4
Higglepig TTC#2 cycle 5 UCL 32-37 cd3
Skibelle TTC#1 Cycle 7 UCL 30 CD3
Hobnob TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL 26-28 CD3
cyphercat TTC#2 cycle 2 ucl 28 to 32 CD4
Blocka TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 28 CD1

hiya hun, have u tried doinf ur temps, this is a great sight
www.fertilityfriend.com/p/163/index15a.html?gclid=CInC9LGmrJkCFQulQwodAEWjJw
everything is automatic, i had no idea when i ovutated and this really helped, i can pinpoint my day now =, iv tried ovulation lits and they didnt work for me x

Morning ladies,

Sorry about all the BFN's over the weekend.

bringon I DID indulge in big DP hugs, a Cadbury's Buttons easter egg & a large glass of wine. Mmmmm, maybe I shouldn't have, as still no AF! Like so many of you I was convinced within an hour of my BFN I'd have my AF........

Now I'm getting cross with my own body! Its like my head & the rest of me are not speaking to each other - how messed up is that?

Also cross as even if AF arrives I have no idea how long my cycle length is now, so more confusion if I start OPK! Argh!!!

And I know all this tension I'm heaping on myself isn't going to help, but how do you stop that?

Answers on a postcard please........

ha ha yes. havent had so far ths moonth i dont think,so maybe i am just late ov this month ....

have to agree I've considered 2 a day too - but so damn expensive! I think probably the egg white cm best indicator! Start knicker inspections!!!

yes im now doing them, then thinking should i do 2 a day , then joined these forums, gettig a bit obsessed but been trying without usig any tests for a long time so thought would try to do it this way, think im more confused now with all these dates!!! he he

just baby dance for fun!!! - in the middle two weeks and then pj's back on for the 2ww I think the sticks just provided me with another thing to obsess over

so if you dont use them would you just have bd all that week instead ? dont think i can have a positive after wed so ill just test uill then. quite frustrating!! ys maybe they are a bit naf

Baby dancing!!!!Sex! Good - I'd say it was your sticks then hon. I bought them ffor the first time this month but know a lot of people don't think they're very good. I got one positive but that was really early - day 9?!? Just because I was so excited to have sticks that I thought I'd start early. Sad I know. Anyway I didn't get any other positives despite having major pains on the 13th? surely that was too late after the positive to be connected? I've also had a few days where even the test line hasn't been very good and I've guessed I've drunk too much but really they've just been a bit naff!?

i dont know what BD stands fom bt i know what youo mean , yes i did sun mon tue & fri but not wed or thur.
my opk is just the cheap sticks not a good expensive one either

meant to say the opk's are NOT 100% or anyway near!

hi girlies - sorry for all the BFN's. Hugs!
Milmolmand - from what I've gleaned - mostly on here I have to admit the opks are 100% so you might have ovulated anyway. Have you been bd'ing? Or I have also heard that sometimes you ovulate every other month as your ovaries take turns and not everyone ovulates from both?!? Let's hope it's the former
Blocka - I'd agree could be one of those freaky bleeds that you have while pregnant?!? More likely than implantation now I'd think. Give it a few days...
Marla - could you be too early in testing?
I'm now cd 19 and still convincing myself at every touch and turn. Sure it could all be in my mind and given the crappy results we've [ it does feel like we doesn't it] had this weekend you'd think I'd be more realistic. But I'M NOT. Still got weird heavy head, occasional dizzy/ nausea !!!Aargh!

thanks donttrythisathome ok so ill just keep testing for lh surge. just thought didnt ovulate as my 14 days before my next P was the 16th .

Blocka - I was really convinced you were pg too....

Milmo - UCL - usual cycle length, CD - cycle day, BFN - big fat negative (as in pregnancy test), AF -aunt fanny i.e. your period, BD - bonk.
You probably haven't oved yet, you might be on a long cycle.

I think no HPT for me unless AF doesn't arrive. Been like a bitch all weekend though so the witch can't be far behind

hey blocka it could be implantation bleeding or it could be a false af that happens sometimes around the time actual af would be due... maybe take another test tomorrow or the day after if af doesn't make her grand entrance?

hi ryig to figure out what all the abreviations means as im new here !!
im on day 18 been doing ovulation tests since day 11 no positive result yet . confused . been off the pill for 2 yeas but not trying but not ovoiding ,just started doing OPK tests this month & trying on days off the ovulation calculators but why no positive result ? been doing tests since last sunday
HELP!

I need some advice from you lovely girlies.

This morning, I thought it was game over. A BFN and I am spotting. My AF is not due til tomorrow, and usually, when I 'come on', it is very heavy straight away for about 3 days.

Today, it has been (TMI alert!) clear CM with blood streaked in all day. No sign of the grand entrance my AF usually makes.

Is it too late for implantation bleeding? Do I still have a glimmer of hope or am I fooling myself??

hi ryig to figure out what all the abreviations means as im new here !!
im on day 18 been doing ovulation tests since day 11 no positive result yet . confused . been off the pill for 2 yeas but not trying but not ovoiding ,just started doing OPK tests this month & trying on days off the ovulation calculators but why no positive result ? been doing tests since last sunday
HELP!

Hello ladies

Im really sorry for all the BFN's
It really does make me feel grateful for what i already have, i really do count my blessings.
I dont know you lovely ladies keep on going every month.
Im going to re-test on Tues

Graduates
EffieGadsby TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 33-37 CD45 BFP

MrsJoeMcIntyre TTC#2, cycle 1 (but BFN) UCL 24-26 CD47
laurielou ttc#1, cycle19, UCL 30 CD38
bringonthetrumpets TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL ???? CD36 (BFN)
Higglepig TTC#2 cycle 4 UCL 32-37 cd33
Josie22 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 24-29 CD32
Pandapop TTC #2 Cycle 1, UCL 28-31 CD31
thesoo TTC#2, cycle 3, UCL 32-35 CD29
sazlocks TTC#2 cycle 3, UCL 28 CD28
Gingerwine TTC#3 Cycle 7 UCL 26-28 CD27
Blocka TTC#2, cycle 3, UCL 28 CD27
Gemstones TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD27
donttrythis TTC 1 cycle 2 UCL 28-33 CD26
MarlaSinger TTC #2 cycle 1 UCL 28-30 CD26
RTuff TTC#2 Cycle 11 UCL 28-36 C26
Seanybosmummy TTC#2 cycle 11 UCL 30 CD22
MissieMoosMummy TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 28-32, CD22
Wasabipeanut TTC#2 Cycle 7 UCL 30-32 CD21
Georgimama TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL 30-32 CD21
tryingfornumber2 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL 25 CD21
Paddington21 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (with clomid)UCL-28-34 CD21
tetleytea TTC#2 cycle 1 on clomid UCL 27 CD21
katnkittens TTC#4 Cycle 1 (after 2 mcs) UCL28/29 CD20
TickysMum TTC2 Cycle 1 (with Puregon) UCL: random CD20
Katlokna TTC#2 Cycle 11 UCL 26-28 CD20
ccpink ttc#2 ucl 28-? cd19
LuckySalem TTC 2 Cycle 2 UCL 31 (last month) D19
Kay4Matt TTC#1 Cycle 10 UCL 25-35 CD19
VeryAnnieMary TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL49 (apparently) CD19
NewMember TTC#1 UCL 28-29 CD 17
Bettymum TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 29 CD17
Liahgen TTC#6, UCL 26-28 days, cycle 2 CD16
skihorse TTC#1, Cycle 6, UCL26, CD13
Yumyum73 TTC#2, Cycle 3, UCL 37-40 CD12
MissieK TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 27-28 CD11
Schlumpf TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 28-29 CD??
alfiesmadmother TTC#4 Cycle 4 UCL 28-31 CD11
sgibbo TTC#1 cycle46 (with clomid, FSH and HCG) UCL 27-29 CD8
Islegrin TTC#1, Cycle 3(or 48),UCL 28-30, CD8
Mrsstripey TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL32 CD8
Chalkpink TTC#4 Cycle 1 UCL30-32 CD7
stephiepug TTC#3 cycle 4 ucl 28 CD3
Higglepig TTC#2 cycle 5 UCL 32-37 cd2
Skibelle TTC#1 Cycle 7 UCL 30 CD2
Hobnob TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL 26-28 CD2
cyphercat TTC#2 cycle 2 ucl 28 to 32 CD3

Just updated for today. I am refusing to move to the back of the bus until my AF makes a proper appearance.

Oh, laurielou so sorry about your BFN, that must of been tough for you both. I am starting to wonder whether these home pregnancy kits are a good idea. I would rather wait in ignorance for my AF or a bump to appear! Its so painful not seeing those lines. I know, I didn't see it on two tests today .

awh blocka really really sorry to hear about your BFN. was really hoping this weekend would be the one for us!

big hugs, chocolate and a big glass of wine for everyone dealing with af at the moment.