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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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OracleInaCoracle · 16/02/2009 14:29

dh and I are having a last push at ttc. we are giving it either a year or another mc before we give up (haven't told gp ) so i have decided to reopen the anti-testing thread!

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hopeforbundleofjoy · 19/02/2009 18:21

evening ladies!

just wondering if this a good sign or not- for the past few days ive had a thick and creamy discharge- is this a good sign???

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/02/2009 13:34

charlie, not long to go now. my period is due on monday so im a day behind you!

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ScorpiowithabigS · 19/02/2009 13:17

any symptom spotting?

charliegal · 19/02/2009 13:14

on sunday- not long to go, the nearer it gets the more I am tempted.

Today and tomorrow are the crucial days, waiting for my period to start. Almost scared to wake up in the morning if you know what I mean.

Glad you are sensible here, have seen on other threads where the madness of early and repeat testing leads.

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/02/2009 10:06

thanks charlie. you too. wait here with us, we shall dissuade you. its rubbish trying to see a faint line. much better to see a big fat pink line that screams "up the pole" when is CD33 again?

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charliegal · 19/02/2009 10:02

thanks for the advice. Will wait

Good luck to both of you too.

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/02/2009 10:01

you know, i have quite a good feeling about this month. dont know why, but jsut a hunch.

thats why im not testing, because if i do get a bfp and then period starts i will be devestated!

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ScorpiowithabigS · 19/02/2009 09:58

i know what you mean. I will see how it all is later, or tomorrow.

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/02/2009 09:51

well, not good obv... but you know...

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/02/2009 09:50

it should do, your body is still going through its normal process, just a bit earlier than normal. your period (if you get it) will prob arrive at around the time it would have if youy hadnt got pg iykwim. this is a good thing though. your body is recovering v quickly!

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ScorpiowithabigS · 19/02/2009 09:45

ahh ok, i thought so. i have that milky stuff, i normally get a day or two of that first, so im really hoping ewcm holds off till sunday!!

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/02/2009 09:42

sounds like you are oving early. none of my cycles after mc's were "normal" after one mc i ov'd on CD8 and after another i ov'd on CD22. its your body trying to get back to normal asap.

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ScorpiowithabigS · 19/02/2009 09:40

also cp high and open, soft

sorry if tmi but i am beyond that now!!

ScorpiowithabigS · 19/02/2009 09:39
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OracleInaCoracle · 19/02/2009 09:37

i would say wait until the day the clinic has given you. i imagine iui is v stressful anyway and if you test on CD33 there is a good chance that you will get a nice clear bfp!!

well, 10dpo and still havent tested. glanced at the tests in tesco today and then picked up a choc bar instead. how strong am i??

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ScorpiowithabigS · 19/02/2009 09:25

What does IUI involve? If it involves any fertility drugs, i would wait, as you may get a false + and be sad.

I really really hope it is pos for you when you do test!

charliegal · 18/02/2009 22:16

ok, early testers not allowed, let me give you a dilemma.

I am on a 2ww after iui - am on cd 29 but I was told to test by the clinic after 18 days, not 14. That would be cd 33.

The suspense is killing me (especially this time of night).

What would you do? Test? Or wait?

ScorpiowithabigS · 18/02/2009 21:07

yes we shall! Apparently i am cd10. Well cd1 was first day of mc, so i am counting from that. Good job i normally ov late (19ish) or dh would have been away over the best time!

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OracleInaCoracle · 18/02/2009 21:04

ah scorpio, we shall make this thread a monthly occurance again. last time we got loads of bfps!

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ScorpiowithabigS · 18/02/2009 21:01

i hope it is all good lissie

ScorpiowithabigS · 18/02/2009 21:01

well im not testinf for ages so there

And the time after that will be when dh is away, so i will need morerestraint as dh tells me off for POAS too early!

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OracleInaCoracle · 18/02/2009 21:00

still, have a fairly good feeling about this month (today anyway) for me the danger days will be sat/sun. sun im going out with lil sis to a wedding fayre, sat i am sitting in front of the box. not going up town at all!

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ScorpiowithabigS · 18/02/2009 20:55

i have too lissie

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OracleInaCoracle · 18/02/2009 20:54

it is v unfair. i have to keep hiding threads on here.

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ScorpiowithabigS · 18/02/2009 20:52

I had a mc last week , i am ttc#4. It made me realise how unfair the world is