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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Step away from the first response and noone will get hurt...

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OracleInaCoracle · 16/02/2009 14:29

dh and I are having a last push at ttc. we are giving it either a year or another mc before we give up (haven't told gp ) so i have decided to reopen the anti-testing thread!

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shirleyc · 19/03/2009 09:08

ooh ok lissie that makes sense.

lol @ nunnie.

nunnie · 19/03/2009 09:02

tilting pelvis much better idea, it is very difficult sleeping on head.

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/03/2009 09:02

i dont have sex in the 2ww because of my history. sex in early pregnancy isnt recommended if you have a history of bad pg and mc

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shirleyc · 19/03/2009 09:00

Stand on your head? I just tilt my pelvis, your obviosuly far more athletic than me

nunnie · 19/03/2009 08:57

Never heard of the no bedroom athletics thing in the 2ww tbh. That is the least stressful time thats when I do it cos I want to not cos I need to. I also don't have to stand on my head when finished which is nice.

I think this should also be the step away from the symptom spotting thread.

shirleyc · 19/03/2009 08:54

lol @ nunnie i think i said above a christmas baby would be lovely. What a nice pressie for you both that would be.

shirleyc · 19/03/2009 08:53

Cant take over symptom spotting as i'd be imagining things as much as i want symptoms. Keep feeling my boobs every day to see if there tender or anything nope nothing.......

But then deep down i know im not pg this month. Next month though dh will have to be available at my beck and call! Between day 10 and 20 just incase......

Out of interest someone said about no sex in 2ww? why, am i missing something?

As it is its nice to not worry about it this week anyway.

nunnie · 19/03/2009 08:51

Fingers crossed it will come true for you

I have just done my calculations and guess what, if I concieve next cycle it will be due Christmas eve how lovely. Think I will let the witch come now and explain the situation to her, she will not get a beating on the condition she does not come again for 10 months

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/03/2009 08:46

you know i dreamt last night that i was pg, i got my bfp in my dream, went through the pg and finally had a dd. the dream ended in theatre with me being handed my dark haired dd. its official, im cracking up!!

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nunnie · 19/03/2009 08:44

Someone will ahve to take my symptom spotting duties over for the next week or so. I will resume on the day my AF has gone.

nunnie · 19/03/2009 08:43

Exactly and we will ladies we will get that BFP!!

shirleyc · 19/03/2009 08:42

lol dont we love em

yeah at the 'its all pleasure for them' But hey ho it will be worth it in the end when we all get the bfp!

nunnie · 19/03/2009 08:39

men, let it out I say and the closer he is the better the things we have to go through to concieve for them it is all pleasure

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/03/2009 08:38

lol at shirley's dh, mine says i smell different when period is on the way, he said last night that he thought i was pg this month, but then i was threatening him with a shoe at the time....

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shirleyc · 19/03/2009 08:37

Nunnie dh did comment that i could at least go to the bathroom rather than walk about doing it, as if i had a choice. Lol he did ask me to warm him so he didnt walk into it...

nunnie · 19/03/2009 08:36

My dh says similar right through my cycle .
Pains have gone now so I am guessing thats the calm before the storm, I think next month I may invest in an armour sheild to keep the witch out and put a no fly zone around me.

shirleyc · 19/03/2009 08:34

stinky even

shirleyc · 19/03/2009 08:34

Lissie i wish it was at the end of the cycle this has been every since i started taking pregnacare which was on the 3rd March im a sticky sod

shirleyc · 19/03/2009 08:33

aww i hope your lil sis is feeling a bit better at least she has you there to look after her.

With being out its prob a good thing for your temptation only a few days left till you can test anyway.

Nunnie i hope the witch doesnt come, love all the defences you've got going on though to defend yourself

If im on a 28 day cycle then im due on Wednesday coming. My dh will no doubt point symptoms thats shes coming as he ussually does. Normally in the form of 'what the fucks wrong with you, are you due on!!' lol so im gonna wait. I swear he knows me more then i know myself handy though i must add

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/03/2009 08:33

lol at bottom wind. i get v constipated around end of cycle and get quite a bit of trapped wind!

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/03/2009 08:32

oh nunnie, thats shit. shes a persistant bugger isnt she?

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nunnie · 19/03/2009 08:29

I don't take prenecare (sp?) I suffer with enough bottom wind, probably safer I avoid that. When I was pregnant with DD, my bottom wind became very embarrasing never knew it was coming till it was too late, a person with more self respect would have locked herself in, but not me I like to share

nunnie · 19/03/2009 08:26

What a complete arse, hope you sis makes a full recovery soon

The WITCH is coming, I have tried shooing her away set my dogs on her cat, snapped her broom in half, poked her in the eye, very persistent one!!! Pains got worse in the night, I expected to awake to her but not here yet, until she comes I have armed myself with a baseball bat!

I have learnt by my mistake now, I will only test when I am 9 months late and it is obvious .

If she manages to break through my defences that is another 25 day cycle, which means I am all messed up now and need to work out my calander again.

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/03/2009 08:17

lol shirley, lucky you having bed to self. ds climbed in with us at 5am so i ended up squished between the two of them! going to see lil sis in a bit.

taking 5mg folic acid and special supplements for bones, and low dose asprin too, but am sure that does nothing!

really tempted today. i shant test, cant afford one and dont have any (got rid of remaining test yesterday) but have a small inkiling.

am prob wrong, usually am.

how is everyone this morning

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shirleyc · 19/03/2009 07:51

Lissie im sorry to hear about your sister thats awful, what a shit he is!
As for the chocolate well..... i ate half an big egg dh had the other half! a cream egg and a chunky kitkat yummmyyyy.

Any of you taking pregnancare?? Stupid question but since taking them i have such awful bottom wind! DH slept on the sofa last night said it was incase he still felt ill but my wind didn't help matters im sure!!

I didnt complain had the whole bed to myself yummy stretch space lovely! Best bit was the dog slept on the end of the sofa and not with me heheh.

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