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any advice please

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hotbot · 17/01/2009 13:48

lmp was 15 dec... i did preg test x3 times earlier in the week and got faint blue lines each time, today i do another one and it comess up not pregnant... i stillhavent had my period and have felt odd all week wots going on....
i know i shouldposs do anothe rtest tomorrow but i want the virtual alying hands of the mn massive to tell me that i am pregnant
i usually am as regular as clockwork am 38 yrs old btw

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rainbowdays · 20/01/2009 08:13

ITS GROUNDHOG DAY !!!!

rainbowdays · 19/01/2009 22:47

Hotbot - , sorry, does sound like you had a chemical pregnancy / early miscarriage. Would say that I hope that maybe you are wrong and that you are still pg, but sounds like you are sure it is over. I take it that you are ttc, and hope that you get a good big BFP soon. Do let us know when it happens.

Louisesh - hope that we get out of our groundhog days soon.

louisesh · 19/01/2009 19:32

Meant BFP see i m soo used to writing BFN now!!!

louisesh · 19/01/2009 19:31

My first ttc which resulted in MMC in oct 08 was a surprise [although i d come off the pill 6 months before] i was 2 days late for my AF then a BFN!!!

Soo, yes think you re right its better as a shock/surprise!!!

Sorry its soo crap for you

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hotbot · 19/01/2009 19:18

bled quite heavily since sunday - so have no idea whats going on. i am never late, and had lots of bleeding probs with my last pregnancy which resulted in dd, but i definately dont feel pregnant any more...sigh......
louisesh and rainbowdays - so sorry for both of you.this is pants, dd was a surprise and im thinking thats its better that way as all this hoping and planning is rubbish when yuo just want it now

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louisesh · 19/01/2009 12:25

Hi RAINBOWDAYS im fine Still the same as you!!!! Felt Very much like i was going to have AF leg cramps started over last 2 days intermittently still bFN!!!

Definately convinced the bleeding i thought was implantation bleeding was now ovulation bleeding!!! Probably better to be BFN now as off to egypt in 2 weeks time....

Soo STILL "groundhog day"Its horrible isn t it???

rainbowdays · 19/01/2009 10:05

Well its groundhog day here for me again!!!!

Only possible sign that af is possibly going to make an appearance is that I have been taking BBT last few days and my temp went down today, so could be af due in next 24 hours???!!! Or it could be that I got up for half an hour at 3am!!!! . Oh well!

How is groundhog day for you both, hotbot and louisesh?????

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hotbot · 17/01/2009 19:42

thanks rainbow days = being a bit flippant but the money i have spent on pregnancy tests could have bought a stage of ivf im sure

i just want to know as i feel pregnant!!!!

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louisesh · 17/01/2009 18:14

Fingers crossed for you also HOTBOT

Hi RAINBOWDAYS Its horrible isn t it? I feel like "groundhog" day the same situation over and over..... Each day i think i ll try not to test and each day i fail!!! I ve no will power!!!

rainbowdays · 17/01/2009 15:58

Hotbot - were the lines appearing within the 10 minute time limit? or you could have had a chemical pregnancy, where it fails to implant. But that is not much help with cheering you up here. I think it might be best to wait a few days to test again (says she who knows she won;t follow her own advice!!!!), as if it was a chemical pregnancy your af will arrive in a few days, and if not then you will hopefully have built up enough hcg for it to show up clearly on a test!

But just ignore me and test away, as I know it is what I will do .

Oh well the stress continues.

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hotbot · 17/01/2009 14:07

err these tests are crap arent they.....
i tohught the faint lines as per instructions said PREGNANT..arghhhhh

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rainbowdays · 17/01/2009 14:04

Hehehe! there must be something in it, I am in the same boat, LMP Dec 16th, and convinced I ov'd late but even then dates don't add up, usual cycle 27days now on cd33 and still BFN's, only evaporation lines...arggg. I beat you both in age though I am 40! So frustrating waiting for an answer.

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hotbot · 17/01/2009 14:00

oh loisesh , putting out positive thoughts for you. xx

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louisesh · 17/01/2009 13:53

Hi I m in the same situation as you!!! LMP was 17th dec BD at all the right times , had "implantation bleeding" 10 day s later, had some symptons such as metallic taste and nausea intermittently now awaiting AF but nothing all tests soo far BFN!!!!!

Im also 38 and this is my 2nd ttc following a MMC in Oct 08.Hate this not knowing one way or another!!!

louisesh · 17/01/2009 13:53

Hi I m in the same situation as you!!! LMP was 17th dec BD at all the right times , had "implantation bleeding" 10 day s later, had some symptons such as metallic taste and nausea intermittently now awaiting AF but nothing all tests soo far BFN!!!!!

Im also 38 and this is my 2nd ttc following a MMC in Oct 08.Hate this not knowing one way or another!!!