any advice please

Louisesh - sorry to hear that you are still in limbo land. It is most likely that you are having a wierd annovulatory cycle, but that is so so so annoying. I don't want to raise any false hope but it is possible to get negative / low blood tests and still be pg, it happens very rarely but it does happen. So I guess I am saying until af shows its ugly face, just take care of yourself. I hope that you are able to go on Tuesday and keep busy enough to forget about it and enjoy your holiday. No matter what I will be waiting to hear how it went.

I will still hang around here, so you can come and vent if you need to.

numberfour - are you not using the cheap ebay tests? You will go bankrupt if you are not careful . When was af due?

Louisesh, you'll have a brilliant time in Egypt! Lucky you going there. Always wanted to, myself.... sorry about the blood tests being neg.
Nothing here either. All the symptoms, but no AF and neg tests day after day. Costing me a frigging fortune.

Rainbow: hope you're okay

Thanks v.much you 2 .Beta hcg bloods came up as

Louisesh - , how could they leave you hanging like that. So unfair. I wish there was something that I could say that would help. But I know there is nothing that can be said that can support you here. Did the blood test show up anything?

My advice would be to go on holiday anyway, but just try to be careful with food/drink, just incase you are one of the rare people that have a baby without getting a positive pregnancy test. It is so hard. And no matter how un-mn-ish it is I do want to send you a {{{{hug}}}}} anyway, and say vent away here, we are listening.

unbloodybelieveable. no wonder you are peed off. when do you leave for Egypt again?

what does your blood test say?

Well totally and utterely pi..ed off with the gp and EPAU. Went to drs this am saw some crap gp who i had to tell what i wanted her to do!!!! She promoised to ring me back at linch time she didn t!!! I was then informed from her that i didn t fit EPAUS criteria for an early scan!!!

I rung EPAU to speak with the sister there they won t scan me as too early and i was informed to go on holiday next week was my choice and i could "just " cancel my holiday , like you can "just" afford to loose £8oo!!! They suggested repeating my hcg blood tests at the gp as i niformed them i could and would get that done at work soo had the same done by one of my colleagues!!!

Bloody lot of them no use..... The worst thing is i work as a specialist sister in the same trust and was still cut no slack!!!!Where i work we bend over backwards to help patients but again seems like we re the only people!!!

Bloody idiots!!!!

Hope everyone else is ok still BFN and NO af!!!!!

no AF
BFN

hope you're okay, Rainbow!
and Louise!

Good luck numberfour keep testing away!!!! LOL

Hi, Rainbow and Louise
Yes, due this week. Nothing yet. Neg First Response on Sun morning. In bed at 7pm because i was shattered. Woke at 12.30 and I felt green so I had some cereal. Today I am tired and little nauseous.

Rainbow, I do hope that you're okay. Must be really hard - I also hope that your DP is understanding and supportive.

Louisesh: hang in there. There has to be an answer one way or the other.

It s GROUNDHOG DAY!!!! AGAIN still BFN BUT no AF!!!!!Soo sorry for you Rainbowdays but as you say at least you ve got some closure now [just sorry its the wrong closure] You got any other DC?

Thanks very much for your support DH trys [is very trying!!!] but they can t understand can they? I just want to be back in control of my body not the other way round!!!

Hi Numberfour hope you re ok today

Well I am now officially out of groundhog day, bleeding has started. So at least I know where I am at now.

Louisesh - I hope you get an answer soon. I will hang around here to support you till you get your answer. Having come this far with you I am not leaving you yet.

Number4 - you are due af this week is that right?

Hi, All
Hope you're okay, rainbowdays and louisesh. I am bit behind date wise than you but I feel so similar, so I can only imagine how hard it must be for you.
Also neg for me and no AF. And to top it all, DH says he does not want another.

I also am starting to feel that I want to get back to normal.

Oh that "angry face" wasn t directed at you!!! It summing up how i feel!!!!

Soo sorry RAINBOWDAYS its crap isn t it?

I still have no news STILL no AF or BFP1!!! Soo convinced i m not pg now surely it should be showing up as positive now????

Think my stomach cramps were ibs which i have ans is often excerbated by stress so all that would add up.

Now really fed up with the whole "shebang" just wishing for Af now only 10 days till we go to Egypt and want some closure either way SOON

Take care of yourself and indulge yourself catch up soon

Morning, everyone else

I spoke too soon:

It's Groundhog day !

negative test and no af.
I had extreme bad lower back pain all yesterday, and pregnancy tests today confirm that the possible pregancy is over. I just have to wait for the rotten af to arrive now.

Louisesh - I hope you have better news for me than I have for you today.

louisesh - I hope that we get good great fabulous news from you tomorrow...... we will be waiting in the not-so-groundhog-day-room!!!!

Tell you what Louisesh you can come and be ruthless with my junk and I'll gladly clean your house!
Hope you feel a bit better tomorrow...x

Hi BITCHFANNY , fantastic name btw!!!! Thanks for your kind thoughts!!!

MRSDISORGANISED you re more than welcome here, the more the merrier!!!!Well done on your decluttering i ve no clutter [in fact as my DH would tell you i m a bugger for throwing stuff away even before we ve finished with it!!] but our house does need a good clean soo if you want to pop round1!! LOL

Had stomach cramp today and felt very irritable and emotional soo........

Any news and you ll be the first to know [well, 3rd or 4th really after DH, family and friends]!!!!

Hello!
(seemed to have invited myself on this thread....think of me as the avid supporter!)

On the house....did downstairs....gave up doing upstairs, still it's a start! (hate de-cluttering, I'm such a hoarder)

Rainbowdays theres no need to thank me, I would never tell other peoples news....thats for you to do... completely understand your reasons.
Louisesh, still waiting?!! Thats horrible for you....fingers crossed though xx

roll on sunday. thinking of you all, hope its good news

Same old rainbowdays BFN and no AF boobs a little bit sore today but think i could be imaging it!!!!! Pi..ed off with it all just want my life back to normal before i started all this...............

Keep me posted hope you re keeping your pecker up!!!!

Morning mrsdisorganised have a good weekend.

Check in later all x

Same old rainbowdays BFN and no AF boobs a little bit sore today but think i could be imaging it!!!!! Pi..ed off with it all just want my life back to normal before i started all this...............

Keep me posted hope you re keeping your pecker up!!!!

Morning *mrsdisorganised8 have a good weekend.

Check in later all x

today, the elusive second line fainter than yesterday, but still appeared within the 10min time frame. But today feels like I am imagining the line .

I will try again tomorrow.

How are you feeling louisesh?

MrsD - thank you for not saying anything on the other thread yet about my tests, I just feel it would be insensitive, and I am not confident enough myself yet also, how did the house cleaning go!.

Any news yet RAINBOWDAYS ???

Good on you trying to clean your house , Mrsdisorganised you ve got further than me!!!!

5 weeks and 3 days since last af, 12 days late for af, but ..... just hoping that this is it. Spent all day yesterday convinced that I had entered early menopause,and was getting my head around it. By last night I was resigned to not having another baby. So I am being extremely cautious before letting my hopes raise up again, especially having had 2 weeks of evaporation lines on the tests. But I will test everyday from now until I get a definite answer.....

Louisesh - sounds like you have a plan now, and you never know maybe, just maybe you may really get a faint line before you see the doc anyway????

MrsD - thank you, I did not feel it was appropriate today to tell the girls on the other thread, considering what was happening there. But I will do soon.