Strictly Come Baby Dancing - TTC Waiting Room & Dance Floor!

Hello

The house is now empty and i have rescued the laptop from behind the sofa. Hope everyone has had a bit of a rest...and feels relaxed...

I have drunk too much, as knew I was not PG and just wanted to check my CD as have lost track. Will have a break this month and start again in January....

Good luck to everyone for this month!

happy boxing day all

sparklypseudonym ds1 was a surprise but DD and ds2 took 4-5 weeks to concieve after implant was removed but i'm not pining all hopes on this happening again as i understand every preg is different and i'm also getting older
this AF is a killer and i'm so heavy at the moment i leak that much i'm always jumping in the shower to clean myself(sorry TMI)
i hope you have all had a lovely relaxing boxing day and have not had to cook at all today......my DH is in the kitchen as i type

SparklyPseudonym I meant second ever Christmas dinner I have cooked

Yes - still getting highs, got anothr today and it looks like I have Thrush too! Period must be round the corner.

Wave at Mollie

Happy Boxing Day Girls
Hope you all had a wonderful day yesterday, sorry to those that had an extra unwanted visitor

Good luck to those of you testing in the next few days, no pressure but we could do with a BFP lucky start to the New Year!

Come on girls

AF arrived during the night (as expected). We're not actively TTC until Feb after everything that has happened. We decided we needed a few months off but it would be lovely to have a BFP before then....
Hope you all had a fab Christmas. Happy Boxing Day all.

Beanie How come only second ever dinner? Are you still getting highs? Fingers crossed for you.
Theboob Good luck!! How long has it taken you to get pg with the other pregnancies?

Sparkly CD1 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD2 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD10 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD10 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD10 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Jaamy CD15 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD16 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
beanieb CD21 Cycle 17 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD21 cycle 12 TTC#1
Pinkie08 CD23 cycle 11 TTC#2
PeaceLily CD27 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD31 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD32 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
VJay CD37 (mc June08, Oct08)
happyandEiknowit CD38 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD43 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD45 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD48 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD51 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd53 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD61 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)

wow thanks beanie
it looks so strange when i see it written down 4 but after today went so well i know another one will slot in perfectly

i hope you all have had a wonderful day and good luck for 2009 xx

Merry christmas one and all. My second ever christmas dinner went down well, better than last year.

Wave to Sparkly

Theboob CD1 is the first day of your period so even though it had the cheek to arrive on Christmas day you are now officially TTC and in cycle 1 for your 4th!

Theboob CD1 Cycle #1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD9 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD9 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD9 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Jaamy CD14 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD15 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
beanieb CD20 Cycle 17 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD20 cycle 12 TTC#1
Pinkie08 CD22 cycle 11 TTC#2
PeaceLily CD26 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD30 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD31 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
Sparkly CD34 (m/c Sept08)
VJay CD36 (mc June08, Oct08)
happyandEiknowit CD37 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD42 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD44 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD48 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD51 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd53 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD61 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)

hi all....hope you are all having a lovely day,my AF arrived today so not only did i have a 6.30am wake up call but had to cook dinner with cramps

well merry xmas to you all xxxxxxxxx

Hi ladies,
Popping in to wish you all a Happy Christmas. Am really hoping this Christmas spirit brings all of us BFPs.
I'm so sorry lots of you have been having a crap time recently - three people I know gave birth yday and it's so hard to be happy for them...
Day 32 here and temp has dropped over 2 days so am expecting AF tomorrow.
Lots of babydust to all **

hi all,and merry christmas x

now it may sound silly but i have no idea what cd1 is ....im guessing its my cycle but im not sure what it is,i think my AF is on its way does it start from then ????

Merry Christmas Ladies, wishing you all the best!

Good girl for stopping beanie! I had similar thoughts this morning, but then realised that it's CD19 and would be daft! Luckily I have none in the house, and first chance I'll have to buy any will be Monday. Phew!

Happy Christmas Girls

Just a quickie to say thanks to you all for the support and friendship you have all given me this year. Let's keep our fingers crossed that 2009 will be our year!

Beanie Step away from the tests you naughty girl!

Ha ha! I just peed into a jug with the intention of testing (God knows why!) but managed to stop myself

silly!

Theboob TTC#4
thegreatescape CD8 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD8 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD8 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Jaamy CD13 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD14 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
beanieb CD19 Cycle 17 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD19 cycle 12 TTC#1
Pinkie08 CD21 cycle 11 TTC#2
PeaceLily CD25 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Glastochick CD29 Cycle 17 TTC #1
Sunnyandwild CD32 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
Sparkly CD33 (m/c Sept08)
VJay CD35 (mc June08, Oct08)
happyandEiknowit CD36 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD41 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD44 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD47 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD50 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd52 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD60 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)

Hope these are right?

Theboob - I've put you at the top until you know when CD1 is

Another high

I am not going to get a peak, I think that's a certainty, but when will I get a low! I think my period is due around the 29th.

Happens, Mollie. Here is where we rant! Feel free to rant more if you need to.

Beanie I usually reply "Well it's not for the want of trying!!!" That normally shuts them up!

Sorry for the rant yesterday, I was incredibly narky (not much better today) but a little less angry feeling
Thanks for your comments girls.

Beanie...saying it is the sure fire way to stop people asking that question.

I was asked if I was pregnant last week. I am constantly told that we need to fill the rooms in our house....

Take Care

Hey folks.

Sorry I've been offline while some of you have been having a shitty time - hugs to all.

beanie - say it! Or words to that effect. I've done it a couple of times in the last month and actually it's quit good, gives you someone new to talk to about stuff. Not recommended for wider consumption I guess, but I ended up telling my hairdresser and a friend from work after the dreaded question came up. It's nice not to have to pretend, and when I was really down having someone to chat to who isn't family was really useful.

Oh and ... I am not sure if something has happened to me to make people look at me and ask but in the last 24 hours I have had three people ask me 'so are you going to have children then?'

No one has ever really asked me this. Most people who know me well, know I am having issues. I amm a bit about it because it seems everyone is now looking at me and thinking 'she should get on and have kids' and I have to say 'well, I don't know - maybe'

would it be awfully rude of me to say to people 'well hopefully, I have been trying for a year with no success' just to shut them up!

Still a High! my instruction booklet suggests this means I have not ovulated. Hrrmmph.

Feel like I was a bit mean about my family. I know they have problems talking to me about it because I can be so emotional. My sister helpfully mailed me some stuff about adoption telling me to tell her to back off if she was doing the wrong thing. I told her to back off. but we're ok now.

Welcome theboob

Sorry you are pissed off mollie rant away, I went to see my friends and her three kids last night and I didn't think of my 'situation' once which is a move forward [famile]

Welcome the boob and good luck for a 2009 baby.

Mollie I'm sorry you're feeling so pissed off, I wish I could change things for all of us I really so

Beanie sorry you didn't get the response you wanted, silence must have been hard to bear. But you were very brave to raise the subject. My family know about the mc but no-one seems to care or ask how things are now. I remember saying to my mum we were going away because it was our due date and we didn't want to be at home and she changed the subject. It all gets very hurtful when you want to share things with those that should just care unconditionally then you realise you can't.

thanks molly
it sounds like your going through i rough time,but think positive and all the best for 2009 also for you x

Beanie So sorry you didn't get the support you needed from your family Like Blackrock said maybe they were worried about upsetting you, but still a few words would have helped really
theboob Hello and welcome, good luck for 2009

Well I'm really p@ssed off at the moment I'm fed up of people going on and on about Christmas being for kids and how they can't wait to see their LO's faces opening their pressies, it's quite obvious that when we grow up Christmas is for kids without people going on and on about it! (I know I will be like it if and when I have a LO )
I think as it was Christmas Day last year I started having spotting and realised things weren't right doesn't really help as it's all I can think about, and here I am three pg's later and no baby or bump! Really had enough at the moment, and with no end in sight and not able to TTC until Feb (at least) I am struggling to be positive about anything! Somebody please slap me!
Thanks for listening girls, sorry to be so miserable but I needed to vent!