Strictly Come Baby Dancing - TTC Waiting Room & Dance Floor!

Good luck beanie

So you have had over 6 months between appointments blackrock I'm shocked I thought once you'd got seen it all moved along OK until they put you on the waiting list for IVF.

I've got spotting so AF here tomorrow or today.

off for my xray in ten minutes!

Blackrock - did they mean this Sept just gone? I would go back and push for a date. good luck and sorry to hear about your crap spotting etc.

Thanks blackrock.

So how short are your cycles? Do you know when you ov?

Sorry to hear that Comma.

Oh I tested pinkie, believe me Got myself into a disgusting testing-frenzy in fact. So no, no implantation of nada, just a crappy af.

This is so odd. I had spotting yesterday, then a bit more spotting today and abdominal pain, but not a proper AF, yet.

Have made an app with my GP again, as the Gynecologist said I would hear from the infertility clinic in November (six months from last app).

My cycles have been very short again, so am going back to ask again. I think this part is upsetting me most as without a proper cycle I guess it unlikely.

Hope everyone else is ok. Am keeping up with reading the thread.

Thanks Comma - have you checked your not pg, sorry if you already gone into this bit but sounds like an implantation bleed to me

From an implantation point i read on another blog that walnuts were good for it so am going to add those to my diet in last 2 weeks of cycle.

Good luck, pinkie!

Thegreatescpe, I feel the same about bd often enough, and so does dh... oh the romance of sweet married life....

blackrock, how are you doing? Everything ok as far as it goes?

Beanie, thanks. I will put a thread up, there has got to be someone out there who knows soemthing....maybe is aftermath of mc? Who knows.

Can't shake hte feeling I should be more Zen about the whole thing and let it happen when it does (aaaaah! runincircles)

Comma2 CD6 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD6 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD7 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD9 cycle 13 TTC#1
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD10
Glastochick CD12 Cycle 18 TTC #1
herethereandeverywhere CD13 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD13 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD14 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD22 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD22 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD22 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD24 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD27 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD28 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
PeaceLily CD39 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD44 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD50 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD55 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD57 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD58 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD63 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd65 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD73 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

Oh Blackrock I so hope it isn't. Hope you are ok.

Comma, sorry to hear about your short period. Not sure what could help

Good luck Pinkie, I have all this to look forward to I hope. Have already had a scan (though it was for something else) but hope I get another one!

Hi Beanieb,

This time they are doing bloods on me and DH, a scan on me and a sperm test for DH (obviously not me )

The no ejaculation thing is for 3 days before the test so that they make everyone have the same baseline for there tests.

The tests are supposed to re check FSH, LH etc and some other bloods that are routine if going on to have treatment with them.

Its a mind field of new tests.

Hi everyone, hope it's going ok.

I had a bad day on the job. Wished I could be something else than a teacher, as I really don't want to deal with arrogant students' entitlement attitude any more.

Anyway, I noticed AF only stayed for a day. This can't be good. Anybody know how to get a better lining going? There can't be much for baby to implant in....[hmmm]

I hope it isn't

and a tear or two. Day 21 and I think AF has arrived, although I have been trying to kid myself that it is something else.

not sure I want to get pg enough to iron his shirts or rub his feet!

Have peeled some spuds/scrubbed some carrots though...

it's my first consultation so I imagine no tests at all, just getting to know my cycle and arranging dates for tests. Why don't they let you have sex when waiting for the tests to be done? Is it because your OH isn't supposed to ejaculate?

You'd think they would at least think to arrange it for a day when you're not likely to e ovulating!

What tests are you having? Blood tests or something more?

Yes, its the one with all the tests YUCK and the scan, then in 2 weeks go back for results.

I was going to cancel as cant bd for 3 days upto the 12th which really interferes with my bd marathon but guess will try and make up for it after the tests.

What about you, do you know which tests they doing and all that

Pinkie, is it your first appointment?
I have mine not long afterwards.

Hi everyone,

I am full of cold and am hoping its going to go before next weeks marathon (bd marathon that is)

We are going to the fertility specialist Jan12th which is afew days before ov so not too ambitious this month for that BFP.

for anyones info have read on another thread that walnuts and pineapple juice are good implanation so will be trying that im sure

Comma2 CD5 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD5 cycle 12 TTC#2
beanieb CD6 Cycle 18 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD8 cycle 13 TTC#1
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD9
Glastochick CD11 Cycle 18 TTC #1
herethereandeverywhere CD12 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD12 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD13 Cycle 1 TTC#4
thegreatescape CD21 Cycle 5 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD21 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD21 Cycle 19 TTC#2
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD23 Cycle 8 TTC#1
Jaamy CD26 cycle 17 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
ClaireDeLoon CD27 Cycle 16 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
PeaceLily CD38 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD43 ttc #1
Aug08 & CP Sept08
happyandEiknowit CD49 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD54 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD56 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD57 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
Zen1980 CD62 Cycle 7 TTC#1
BabyBump2B cd64 Cycle 4, TTC #1
bubblebell1 CD72 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

welcome WaitingforaSproglettoFall wasn't sure if you were CD8 or 20 so I have put you on the list at 9 (one day on from yesterday?) but ammend it if it's wrong

Evening everyone. I'm still in the office (13 hours and counting) so I'm feeling the BD strain a bit like thegreatescape. It's all very well for Zita bl**dy West to advocate relieving stress by "learning to delegate". I can't frikkin delegate anything without me being at risk of being sacked for not doing my job properly, which I'm sure is even more stressful!

I'm sure it's the same about the frequent BD advice and the Deanna plan, like we all live in a world where we have oodles of spare time to be getting us and our men in the perfect mood on a daily basis....christ, I'm doing well if I make it into the bed without having conked out fully clothed on top of it first, never mind summing up the energy and the...err...CM, to get the BD job done.

All I can say to thegreatescape is men generally respond well to a bit of a fuss and treating them like they are about 5 years old when they are sick. Hopefully he'll return the favour with a BD when he's up to it. You could also offer to help with the shirts and offer to do something to help him relax eg: massage/glass of wine/footrub/cup of tea or whatever?

Please may I join?

A newbie to mumsnet and baby making

My next cycle is due around 25 Jan, I'm on CD8 of my current cycle but can't get jiggy this month as I need to finish a course of antibiotics.

I think I'm doing everything I should be at this stage but already getting a little nervous so much for staying chilled.

I guess I'm on CD-20 of cycle-1

Happy new year everyone and happy baby making

Just lumpy boobs - doctor didn't think likely to be anything worrying but wanted it checked out.

Hey Mollie I went past the 1st anniversary of my mc aboout when I broke my foot give or take a day or so. It wasn;t as bad for me as the edd but I know you have other edd's to come and feel for you, come moan and wail to us all you like.

I caved and tested earlier - bfn. I also had a call from breast cancer clinic asking me to ring them to book my consultants appointment so will do that tomorrow.