Strictly Come Baby Dancing - TTC Waiting Room & Dance Floor!

Beanie. We are here to talk to, but OH is the best one, and you are certainly not too negative. I know it is hard, but do try to stay as relaxed as possible. Distract yourself with preparations for you ad OH. Distraction is good therapy, and cannot do any harm.

Sorry beanie - completely missed your post. I'm so sorry that the appt didn't go well. How are you today? Please talk to your OH. I'm not going to say that children are more inportant that OHs or vice versa but you really need someone to go through this with you and no one is closer than your OH. I'm sure he has feelings too that he wants to talk about.

Can you get a break away to just try and relax without other distractions together? Easier said than done but I think it might give you chance to talk and who cares if you're not sure what to say and it all comes out muddled, it's better said than not at all.

Take care x

Hey everyone,
Beanie - sorry about appointment today, medical ppl can be so insensitive its unbelievable!! I know how you feel about being negative when you jus want to lift your head up but keep your hopes there as it is definatly not over and there are positive things to take from today. Hope you will stick around

Shayerahol - what a bummer about work, they too are inconsiderate!!

I'm not doing too well today have lost my voice for the 1000th time, and feel like crap, and desperate for af to turn up so can ttc. Its driving me mental!!

Hey to everyone else, Lou, Jammy and sorry for those who ive forgot x

beanie, I'm really sorry you're struggling at the moment. If you do take time out from here then hope it helps you - and we'll be here for you if/when you need us. Can't believe some of the things they're saying to you - so bloody insensitive.

Just found out that my company's relocating in about 5 months - so not sure how much time & energy I'm going to have for TTC with the hassle of house selling etc.! What timing they have...

Hi Lou - I was on Clomid for just 2 cycles when I got a BFP with DD1. We'd been trying for 3.5 years so a success story here. Hope it works for you. Had also been having reflexology at the time so the acupuncture could play a part for you too.

blackrock CD3 Cycle 21 TTC#2
Comma2 CD7 cycle 5 TTC#2
beanieb CD10 Cycle 19 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD13 cycle 14 TTC#1
Glastochick CD15 Cycle 19 TTC #1
thegreatescape CD19 Cycle 6 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD20 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
ClaireDeLoon CD26 Cycle 17 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Jaamy CD27 cycle 18 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
louisplayingthewaitinggame CD31 Cycle17 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
Pinkie08 CD33 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD36
herethereandeverywhere CD40 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD40 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD41 Cycle 1 TTC#4
MollieMooma CD49 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD51 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD66 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD71 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD77 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD82 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
mummy2t CD85 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
bubblebell1 CD100 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

Hi ladies - long time no speak. I fell off the wagon for a bit, have been trying hard not to obsess, and feel much calmer about it all. (at the moment!)
Have been having acupuncture since November and that has made me more relaxed. So much so that i had two 29 day cycles back to back!
Doctor has put me on clomid for three cycles now, I start whenever TEW turns up. He seems to think it will work for us, although I am hearing very mixed messages from everyone.
Anyway, hope you are all okay, sorry to see some familiar faces on here still. We shall overcome!
Beanie- I'm really sorry you are struggling at the mo, I hope they can help you. x
Lou xxx

If they find that I am just old and menopausal I am not sure they can do anything. I don't think I will even be allowed Clomid.

I am far too negative for this thread and so I am going to try to stay away for a while. I have some stuff to sort out in my head.

Oh that is nice! To hell with insensitive infertility-people! Better gut him, I say.

On the bright side, I would think if they find something, they can try and fix it. Even peri-menopause should be somewhat reversible, as far as I understand. Did you read up on this stuff yet? Anyway, if you have a follicle, you wouldn't be menopausal....

Tell your OH what they told you. You are together in this.

Hang in there.

Am struggling to keep positive today. My day three test has come back at 12.2 when Ideally they are looking for under 10 and nearer 7

I had an internal scan and they could see a folicle on the right and say I should ovulate soon but then when I asked for my blood tests and they went through it they mentioned the peri-menopause which has really upset and worried me.

I haven't cried, I just figure what's the point getting upset, but I am just so worried now that I am basically never going to have a child or children.

Once again the person I saw noted that I had missed the deadline for free ivf by a couple of months and said 'you must be gutted' which I thought was a bit crap.

I have called the other clinic about my HSG and it looks like I am going to have to wait until March to have that as it's too late in this cycle.

I don't know what to say to my OH.

Hello all, sorry you're back at the top blackrock, comma and beanie

Re the temping/monitor thing I temped for 6 months, that gave me time to understand my cycle and then it was a blessed relief to give up. But everyone is different, if it ain't a problem for you to do it and you don't feel stressed why not continue? If like me opening your eyes on a morning is a real struggle let alone focusing on a thermometer reading then don't stress.

Personnally I think temping is the worst stresser of all. I did it for a couple of years and was so glad when I got the monitor and stopped...forever hoping it won't drop and then all the guesswork that is still involved on when ov really is...huh. Not to talk about timing and whatnot. Not for me.

They do Comma. My thermometer has run out of batteries, so have stopped temping for a bit.

blackrock CD1 Cycle 21 TTC#2
Comma2 CD5 cycle 5 TTC#2
beanieb CD8 Cycle 19 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD11 cycle 14 TTC#1
Glastochick CD13 Cycle 19 TTC #1
thegreatescape CD17 Cycle 6 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD18 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
ClaireDeLoon CD24 Cycle 17 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Jaamy CD25 cycle 18 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
Pinkie08 CD31 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD34
herethereandeverywhere CD38 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD38 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD39 Cycle 1 TTC#4
MollieMooma CD47 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD49 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD64 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD69 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD75 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD80 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD82 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD83 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
bubblebell1 CD98 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

Comma2 CD5 cycle 5 TTC#2
beanieb CD8 Cycle 19 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD11 cycle 14 TTC#1
Glastochick CD13 Cycle 19 TTC #1
thegreatescape CD17 Cycle 6 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD18 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD24 Cycle 20 TTC#2
ClaireDeLoon CD24 Cycle 17 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Jaamy CD25 cycle 18 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
Pinkie08 CD31 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD34
herethereandeverywhere CD38 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD38 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD39 Cycle 1 TTC#4
MollieMooma CD47 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD49 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD64 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD69 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD75 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD80 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD82 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD83 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
bubblebell1 CD98 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

They rack up so fast, don't they?

I have to admit- I read around in the forum- tthere are so many out there that say the day they moved/got a new job/were otherwise distracted they got pregnant...not entirely unconvincing, even though a lot of that is probably post-hoc....
Anyway, might not be the worst not to use the monitor, Beanie. I was thinking hte same, actually, especially as I abou tknow when ov happens, and not that cheap either...

beanieb CD8 Cycle 19 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD11 cycle 14 TTC#1
Glastochick CD13 Cycle 19 TTC #1
thegreatescape CD17 Cycle 6 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD18 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD24 Cycle 20 TTC#2
ClaireDeLoon CD24 Cycle 17 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Jaamy CD25 cycle 18 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
Comma2 CD31 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD31 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD34
herethereandeverywhere CD38 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD38 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD39 Cycle 1 TTC#4
MollieMooma CD47 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD49 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD64 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD69 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD75 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD80 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD82 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD83 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
bubblebell1 CD98 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

I've added 3 days to each as was last updated on Thursday - hope this is right.

My clearblue fertility monitor trial has finished, they say they say they will send me a printout of my cycles over the last 6 months.

Had a chat with my OH last night and he thinks I should stop using my fertility monitor all together! I cried! but I actually think he might have a point now that I know I will be having more investigations and I have a good idea of when I ovulate anyway. He thinks it will take the pressure off us both and I can see his point.

wave to all.

ooh is it just me or has the page changed?

Hello to all.

Hey everyone,
Hows everyone doing? Beanie so sad AF got you
Myself and DH have decided that we will not wait until AF returns but start TTC again now. Wasnt told of any reason to wait so I feel ok and feel that it gives me something to focus on now.Fingers crossed we wont need much TTC, did a pg test this morning and was BFN so suggests hormone levels have returned normal x

Hi Glasto - was hoping for you when I updated the stats and you were on CD33. How are you?

beanieb CD5 Cycle 19 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD8 cycle 14 TTC#1
Glastochick CD10 Cycle 19 TTC #1
thegreatescape CD14 Cycle 6 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD15 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD21 Cycle 20 TTC#2
ClaireDeLoon CD21 Cycle 17 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Jaamy CD22 cycle 18 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
Comma2 CD28 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD28 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD31
herethereandeverywhere CD35 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD35 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD36 Cycle 1 TTC#4
MollieMooma CD44 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD46 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD61 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD66 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD72 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD77 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD79 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD80 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
bubblebell1 CD95 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

Here comes the AF again, methinks... rumbles aloft....slopes off to find some comfort food.

Having CBT, and able to use it to a degree in the less anxious prone situations, and post anxiety otherwise.

Using the beta blockers at work, and they are working.

On the road to normality of sorts!

Hi all,

Hope everyone is ok. Af as arrived and we have been for talk at clinic. They have suggested IVF so we start in 3 weeks with the drugs to get ovaries started and all that stuff.

Not sure what days af would be due or when things are due to happen so not sure if can stay on thread...

Hello Lovely ladies!

Herethere - CONGRATULATIONS! I am so happy that you've finally got your BFP. The pains are normal - little bean is making itself all comfy in there. Try to take it easy and enjoy a bit of spoiling.

Zen - so for you. You sound very positive, though. Just wasn't meant to be this time round, hun. We've got a whole new year in which to get up the duff!

Sorry not been around much - been sulking! I was so sure we'd got it right over Christmas so when AF arrived the first week in Jan I wasn't best pleased. Still, on 2WW now so am trying to be positive again.

Have just kind of scanned the thread so feel free to shout at me if I've got the wrong end of the stick...
Beanie and Shayera - hope the tests show something tha will give you optimism.

lovley to hear that migola and bean are doing well.

Comma - glad to hear the students survived! It would be so easy to go and hide every month when we don't get the news we want. Sometimes it's a good thing that we have to carry on with the day-to-day things to give us a little bit of distraction. Hopefully won't be too long before you're asking one of your students to help you and your bump with your bags!

Mollie - roll on Feb for a lovely Christmas baby!

Blackrock - how are you?

So Claire - It's good to hear your ramblings - that's what we're here for. Sounds like you've decided to take it easy for a while? You don't sound too sure. Did you ever go back for your blood test results? Did I miss that?

pinkie - good luck with the IVF - how exciting. I'm sure they'll be able to answer all your questions and get you through it.

Ei - where are you sweetie?????

Have updated stats - hope they are ok, just added 3 days since sunday post. Herethere will leave you to graduate yourself and Zen - please add yourslef back on when you're ready to rejoin the madness.

beanieb CD4 Cycle 19 TTC#1
ShayeraHol CD7 cycle 14 TTC#1
thegreatescape CD13 Cycle 6 TTC#2
MollieMooma CD14 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
blackrock CD20 Cycle 20 TTC#2
ClaireDeLoon CD20 Cycle 17 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Jaamy CD21 cycle 18 TTC#3 (mc Mar 08 and Sept 08)
Comma2 CD27 cycle 4 TTC#2
Pinkie08 CD27 cycle 12 TTC#2
WaitingforaSproglettoFall CD30
Glastochick CD33 Cycle 18 TTC #1
herethereandeverywhere CD34 cycle 14 ttc#1
Sparkly CD34 Cycle 3(after m/c Sept08)TTC#2
Theboob CD35 Cycle 1 TTC#4
MollieMooma CD43 Cycle 3 since m/mc Jan08,Aug08 & CP Sept08
Insertsomethingwittyhere CD45 Cycle 8 TTC#1
PeaceLily CD60 Cycle 3 TTC#2 (m/c Sept 08)
Sunnyandwild CD65 ttc #1
happyandEiknowit CD71 cycle 14 TTC#2 (cp april 08 & june 08)
IpodMermaid CD76 cycle 1 ttc#1 (m/mc Oct)
loustillwantsaBFPtoo CD78 Cycle16 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
mummy2t CD779 Cycle 1 TTC #3 M/C June 06
bubblebell1 CD94 Cycle 1 TTC#3

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

LittleSquirt BFP 11th May (CD29 cycle 12 TTC #1) MMC July 07
Knax BFP 30th May (CD31 cycle 4 TTC2)
caspercat BFP 11th june (CD ? cycle? TTC?)
Mentalpup BFP 18th June (CD33 cycle 5 TTC#2)
Emma2617 BFP 30th June (CD43 Cycle 1 TTC #1)
Fruity BFP 11th July (Cycle 5,8 months) TTC#2
HopingCat BFP 1st July (CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2)
DaisyJ BFP 24th July (CD41 cycle 1 TTC#1 mc March 08)
mrsfossil bfp 30th july (cd29 ttc for 4 years 1ds)
Moonlit BFP 17th September (CD33 Cycle 21 TTC#2)
Leaky BFP 2nd Oct (CD35 cycle 2 TTC#3)
Saz007 (due May 2009)
Migola BFP 19th Nov(CD? Cycle 8 TTC#2 CP Aug 08)
Babybump2b BFP 30th Nov
VJay BFP 22nd Dec (CD33 cycle mc June08 & Oct08)

Thanks Claire I am still feeling positive and trying not to think of how many cycles I have been trying for. Have the internal scan booked for next Tuesday but am still waiting to hear from the hospital about the HSG. Might not get to have it this cycle.

Where are we all?

Sorry she got you beanie how are you feeling? I read your posts about your appointment, how are you and DP now? I'm glad he finally understands what it means. Lets hope you get your HSG through soon.

heretherandeverywhere many many congrats I hope all is going well for you!

What about everyone else?

I've not been around much just got to the point where I'm kind of accepting the way things are for us and going back to my thinking before I ever got pregnant, which was, as I said to my DP on the way to a friends DD's 1st birthday party, 'I'm not sure I want to have children anymore'. We hadn't been trying trying and little did I know if I'd tested there and then it would have been positive but I'm kind of evaluating life and our choices and wondering if we could cope without children, bizarrely I think I could cope better than DP. Anyway, ramblings but I hope it explains my absence!

Thanks Herethere and Pinkie.
I was really stressed out about the lecture I had to give yesterday; now its over and I feel fine again (also, period has started and that always blows PMS right away- I am grateful). Bit sad, because I still feel like I should be 2 months pregnant now instead of having to go throuhg ttc-against-time-nightmare but oh well. Nothing much I can do.

Good luck Pinkie. I cross my fingers for you.

Hi all,

Sorry comma that was not good news but i am sure you will get that gorgeous bean soon.(((hugs)))

I am pretty much out for this month as have started spotting. IVF starts when cycle starts properly although it sounds quite complicated but am sure they talk you through it.