Anyone hoping to ttc in the new year??

oh congratulatios sausage that's fab news.
I have just talked to dh about our dilemma, and warned him I might be doing things whilst he's asleep...he didn't say much

Hi everyone,

Hmmmmmmmmmmm vjay -that's a tricky one. If it was me i'd just pin him down whenever possible within those days, tired or not! And I was reading lately how it's the 4 or so days leading up to ov that are really important so I'd make sure you're doing it lots then too.

So.... I have a bit of news.....

I tested yesterday and a lovely, shiny, happy, healthy (I hope!) BFP!!!!!!!!!

I tested again today and yippee! Another BFP!

I couldn't be happier! It's been 7 weeks 6 days since my miscarriage and I feel like the luckiest eprson alive to be pregnant again already.

I am going to treasure every minute of it this time, and take nothing for granted. I'm so happy I might pop!

Vjay - I thought we'd missed the important day for doing the deed, but seems it didn't matter anyway! We just randomly did it lots throughout the month and it seemed to work!

I have a problem. Dh is away this weekend, which is fine because I'm only on CD 10-11, but when he gets back he's going straight onto night shift for a couple of nights, so for the crucuial ov days he'll be soooo tired. What should I do?, could I siphon in anyway?. So much for me being relaxed about the whole thing.

Thanks SAUSAGEMCGRAH yes had a much better day.Hope everyone has a good friday night!!!!

Hi everyone,

It's been a quiet day on here!

Glad you had a nice day louisesh villagemum, I'm going to have a look at thread now to see what hardcore TTC is all about! I am a bit scared by the idea of temping etc. I'm a nightmare as it is without more to obsess about! On second thoughts I'd better stay away.

How's everyone else doing? Big Wave!!

Any news on your visa yet sabs?

Hi ALL VILLAGEMUM doing better today thanks less bleeding AGAIN and feel stonger emotionally today all very supportive at work.Went to tea with my friends was lovely {as knew would be if i made the effort}

Again thanks for your kind wishes ENDLESSNAMELESS

SAUSAGEMCGRAPH Thanks hope you re doing ok. must go its lunch time!!!! Speak later x

Hello barbie, great to see you on here too!!

sausage, know just what you mean about switching from laid back (during pg which ended in mc) to tense...

louisesh, how are you doing today?

iggylou, welcome! There are a million tips on the 'grapefruit drinking' thread - those ladies are really SERIOUS about ttc! Most important thing is finding you when you ovulate though, I'd say.

sabs good luck with your visa!

Thanks for the welcome

anyone got any tips/ suggestions? or is there another thread I should hunt for?

Am taking some Folic Acid... am wondering what elase I should do (apart from the obvious!)

Evening everyone

Sabs - the exercise sounds good. I really should lose the extra 20 pounds I'm carrying before ttc but am craving pasta due to the cold!

louisesh - poor you, sounds like this are pretty crappy at the moment. Chin up hun, it will get better.

Barbie1 - are you around, how did your appointment go today?

Weird -twice -sorry!

Hi everyone,

louisesh, sorry to hear you've had such a bad day. I hope someone can get to the bottom of this soon for you. I know exactly what you mean about wishing the previous miscarriage pregnancy had never happened. I think that so often as it really does seem to take a very long time for a body to recover from something like that - mentally and physically, and it has really affected how I feel about being pregnant in the future. I was sooooo laid back and easy going with my last pregnancy! Now I'm like a completely different person and I don't like it at all. Everything is so scary and I don't trust my body at all anymore.

Hi and welcome and good luck iggylou sabs - good luck with the fitness thing. Classes sound like a god idea. I hope it works. Are your India plans still on at the moment?

Hi to everyone else!

It's Friday tomorrow. Yippee. I am feeling calmer today so those vibes must have worked Sabs. I have also not had a chance to buy any pregnancy tests which has got to be a good thing. Although I am desperate to! I have had massive period pains all day though - a bit weird as AF not 'due' until Sun and normally I don't get pains in the run up to it just when it starts. On the other hand though, nothing suprises me now! Anything could happen!

Hi everyone,

louisesh, sorry to hear you've had such a bad day. I hope someone can get to the bottom of this soon for you. I know exactly what you mean about wishing the previous miscarriage pregnancy had never happened. I think that so often as it really does seem to take a very long time for a body to recover from something like that - mentally and physically, and it has really affected how I feel about being pregnant in the future. I was sooooo laid back and easy going with my last pregnancy! Now I'm like a completely different person and I don't like it at all. Everything is so scary and I don't trust my body at all anymore.

Hi and welcome and good luck iggylou sabs - good luck with the fitness thing. Classes sound like a god idea. I hope it works. Are your India plans still on at the moment?

Hi to everyone else!

It's Friday tomorrow. Yippee. I am feeling calmer today so those vibes must have worked Sabs. I have also not had a chance to buy any pregnancy tests which has got to be a good thing. Although I am desperate to! I have had massive period pains all day though - a bit weird as AF not 'due' until Sun and normally I don't get pains in the run up to it just when it starts. On the other hand though, nothing suprises me now! Anything could happen!

OMp b G SOO PISSED off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thought my AF had finished y.day but then started bleeding again!!!! Been to gps today , following unsucessful call to EPAU and now need swab for strep b and internal exam.Can get these done at work {funnily enough that is what i usually do to pts myself!!!] But thinking i wish i d never got PG in the first place a big fat waste of time and is putting me off trying again if this is it.

Been in tears at work SOO FED up of it all just want to get back to normal!!!

SABS hope troubles in India not putting you off.Off out for tea at friends now [don t really want to go}

Hello lovlies, I see sabs has been talking to herself again .
barbie you found us yey
Welcome igglou, you are not on the wrong thread, some are trying now, some soon.

Sabs1981 - London, No kids, ttc end of Dec/Jan
VillageMum - rainy village in Oxfordshire, 1 ds, 1 step dd, ttc round about now
Louisesh- West Yorkshire, no dc's, ttc now
Sausagemcgrah*, 17 month old DD, ttc now yes please.
*VJay- nr Inverness, 1 ds, ttc about now,
MissieMoosmummy
endlessnameless - Cardiff, no LO, ttc sometime in NY
nomoremagnolia - ttc #1 supposed to be waiting for next cycle to start ttc again after EP but was naughty last night
thumbwitch - Surrey, DS nearly 1yo, TTC at the mo/Dec/NY sometime.
LuckySalem - Wrexham (North Wales) DD 10 months, TTC jan (hopefully)
Totalmisfit8
PurpleCrazyHorse - Cardiff, TTC DC1 Dec onwards
ashleighbeee
MollieMooma West Mids ttc#1 Jan 09 hopefully
Mermaidspurse
timmette
mos schops30
bratnav
mm1509
barbie, newcastle soon to be dubai! ttc dc1 mmc on 15th sept 08
iggylou

Hello - am new on here - just joined... wasn't really sure where to start...

Am sort of TTC from now but also sort of trying to pretend am not that bothered either way.(which I actually am)

so actually - am def TTC - hence coming on here

tell me if am on wrong thread!

Night night all, must go to bed before I slide under the desk with exhaustion!

Sausage who better to give advice than someone who's going through all the same emotions

endlessnameless thankyou, as you might of guessed coming from emmsysangels i too had a mmc and no af ever since

Sabs1981 - London, No kids, ttc end of Dec/Jan
VillageMum - rainy village in Oxfordshire, 1 ds, 1 step dd, ttc round about now
Louisesh- West Yorkshire, no dc's, ttc now
Sausagemcgrah*, 17 month old DD, ttc now yes please.
*VJay- nr Inverness, 1 ds, ttc about now,
MissieMoosmummy
endlessnameless - Cardiff, no LO, ttc sometime in NY
nomoremagnolia - ttc #1 supposed to be waiting for next cycle to start ttc again after EP but was naughty last night
thumbwitch - Surrey, DS nearly 1yo, TTC at the mo/Dec/NY sometime.
LuckySalem - Wrexham (North Wales) DD 10 months, TTC jan (hopefully)
Totalmisfit8
PurpleCrazyHorse - Cardiff, TTC DC1 Dec onwards
ashleighbeee
MollieMooma West Mids ttc#1 Jan 09 hopefully
Mermaidspurse
timmette
mos schops30
bratnav
mm1509
barbie, newcastle soon to be dubai! ttc dc1 mmc on 15th sept 08

Night night everyone, desperate housewives beckons! Sleep well.