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Anyone hoping to ttc in the new year??

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Sabs1981 · 10/11/2008 20:46

I had a MMC in september and was told to wait 3 months before ttc.
Looking to connect with other for ladies who are waiting for the new year ttc
The waiting is so hard!!!

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mrsdisorganised · 20/01/2009 15:53

Hello girls!
Louisesh it's good that RL is taking over maybe it'll help take your mind off it! I know the feeling cars,pets etc!! But I really hope you get a result soon

Sabs You're so right to keep your secret to yourself, I would I'll keep my fingers crossed that 'beanie' stays firmly put!!!

I feel like I'm getting every symptom under the sun,thats only because I keep thinking about it....it's going to be a long couple of weeksx

louisesh · 20/01/2009 12:33

Hi SABS wishing you all the luck in the world that alls well this time..... [louisesh has her fingers and toes crossed!!]

Don t worry about moaning think its a normal way for you to feel after what we ve experienced soo far!!!

Hi MRSDISORGANISED Hope you re well.I m fine same old BFN and NO AF!!!! Given up now!!!! Unfortunatly RL taking over , crap cars and pets at the vets and lack of cash!!! You all know how it is!!!!

sabs try and destress , my friend had a MC and on her 2nd Pg was warned the stress she was experincing worring about the same could, obviously, cause her problems!!!!! [easier said than done!!!]

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Sabs1981 · 19/01/2009 20:39

thanks mrsdisorganised for your kinds words... 3 weeks, just praying I get to see the lil beanie, never got to see it first time around...

not planning to let ppl in RL know until 10-12 weeks

and of course MN's know!!!

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mrsdisorganised · 19/01/2009 20:34

Hi Sabs family doesn't count so don't panic! It's when it gets out into the gossip of a tiny villge(like ours) thats when it bothers me about peolple knowing!! Please don't stress yourself out, I know it's hard, but try to relax...10th feb isn't far away! x
Evening Louisesh hope you're ok

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Sabs1981 · 19/01/2009 20:26

hello louisesh and mrsdisorganised....guess there's only 3 of us on this thread...but i dont mind cos you're lovely ladies!

louisesh well im sure the trip will be worth it. You could be getting a BFN as you might be testing too early...dont give up hope!

Have only told my mum, my MIL, my 2 sisters and one of my SIL's (sounds like quite a lot when i write it all down!). Got a GP appointment this Friday and a 7 week scan on 10th feb...not really feeling pregnant apart from extreme tiredness and feeling sleepy and a bit nauseous in the morning. Im just so worried im going to have a mc again.

sorry for doom and gloom

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louisesh · 18/01/2009 20:39

Hi Mrsdisorganised hope you re well.Thanks know what you mean does seem a bit quiet???

mrsdisorganised · 18/01/2009 20:14

Sabs! Congratulations, I'm so pleased for you
Louisesh don't give up hope...it will happen! Enjoy your time away
Onto my 2ww, which will drive me round the bend but 'heyho'! Will busy myself and risit the urge poas too soon

Hope everyone else is ok....although there doesn't seem to be much movement on this thread xx

louisesh · 18/01/2009 20:06

Hi SABSS* Hope alls well with you.This time we re off to Hurgurda, went to Cairo and Luxor last year had a 2 day trip there based from Sharm El Sheik all of it was FABULOUS VERY VERY HOT 40 degrees !!!! Yes went to the Valley of the kings etc... AMAZING!!!

Kinda wish wasn t going on this trip as only booked last mibnute in Nov following my MMC and got to havr the time off work unpaid as my A.L doesn t start again to april so will loose about £600 in wages but hey ho!!!!!

No Af still confused.... Not sure if my AF may not be due to 20th jan!!!! Still showing as BFN accepting now it isn t happening this month.Thinking about it think bleeding was ovulation bleeding which i ve never experienced before.

How about you? Have you told people yet? Have you arranged a scan yet?

Will be in touch???

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Sabs1981 · 18/01/2009 17:35

Hey lou did you have a good night on friday? and what a bummer about your car! and moan away, im here to listen! Seems like its only me and you on this thread anyway! any luck today? Hoping AF didnt visit you. How was Luxor? Is that where Valley of the Kings is? Would love to go there, but cant afford anywhere now!

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louisesh · 16/01/2009 15:52

Hi SABS you feeling ok?

Still nothing HATE this situation would rather know 1 way or the other!!!!! Off out to get wrecked tonight as both DH and me fed up with this and other stuff [car failed its mot needs £800 of work] been a crap week at work feel the need for much wine1!!!

MOAN,MOAN,MOAN sorry!!!

Anyhow definatley very pleased for you.
Again i ve convinced myself i m not. sure the tests should be picking it up now, although if i m not due to sunday again may be nothing to past the same!!!{there again if my cycle is 33 days now will probably mean we BD too early!!!] HO HUM!!!! Going to Hurgurda, went to Cario and Luxor last year along with Sharm El Sheik. Love all of Egypt.

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Sabs1981 · 16/01/2009 10:36

aw louisesh so sorry to hear you're not feeling too good...dotn give up though, theres still hope if you'e having a long cycle and AF is not due until sunday....

thinking of you...

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louisesh · 15/01/2009 19:53

WOW very plesed for you !!!

I m still stuck in limbo STILL . Still no AF 2 days late [although last month was a 33 day cycle which would mean i m due on sun!!!] but still BFN!!! Don t think i am and if so are contemplating looking at adption as can t go through this every month and had all the signs and symptons this month and still nothing!!!Piss.d off with it all!!

However V.happy for you x

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Sabs1981 · 15/01/2009 15:35

egypt...wow, lucky u! whereabouts are you going? i went cairo a few years ago, i loved it!

any sign of AF???

i was naughty again and took a test today (clear blue digital) and it was postitive!!!! took another test (first response again) and it was positive too

you guys on here are the first people to know after DH...i feel so different from last time...so scared and anxious and not quite wanting to believe it...will make an appointment with GP next weeek if my period definately doesnt appear and then for a 7 week scan at EPAU...

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louisesh · 13/01/2009 19:19

Hi SABS glad you had a fabulous time sounds lush oh , the heat!!!! Only 3 weeks to we go to egypt.

Fingers crossed for you but think you know when ....don t you?

Im plodding on ... Lots of BD from 25th dec,[which was "fertile" time!!!] sure had implantation bleeding about 7-10 days later, had intermittent metallic taste in my mouth and nausea.

Due AF tomorrow and of course been testing all BFN.... Know it could be too early but???

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Sabs1981 · 13/01/2009 17:52

hello ladies...see that this thread is a bit quiet.....hope im not a thread killer

well we had a fabulous time in india, went to our home town for the most part but also went to goa for three days which was amazing and mumbai for a few hours. Was used to 30 degrees every day, im glad i missed the big freeze over here!

Also did a lot of BD in the first week of the holiday. Now on my 2ww (or should that be 1ww). AF due to visit me sat 17th jan. Was a bit naughty and tested on sunday using a First Response test which says that you can test up to 6 days early. It was negative. Not really feeling pregnant, apart from tiredness which could just be the jet lag, and slight nausea which feels different from last time, so im guessing it could just be the ends of a bit of delhi belly

would be great to hear from the other ladies and any newbies....!

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louisesh · 11/01/2009 19:24

Hi SABS Welcome back hope you had a lovely time?

Catch up soon x

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Sabs1981 · 11/01/2009 14:34

Hello lovely ladies just a quick note to say that i'm back and I hope i was missed... lol

Had a lovely time, will fill you all in properly later on...need to get rid of this jet lag before I go on jury service tomorrow

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4everhopeful · 05/01/2009 11:53

Hey all - Happy New Year! I'm looking for ex emmsys angels or anyone that has advice on cyclogest pessaries? Been advised by specialist to take them whilst pregnant with low dose aspirin, even tho all recurrent miscarriage tests showed no causes? PLease help?!?!!?

louisesh · 28/12/2008 20:57

Hi All quick question???? Does anyone know how long it takes to get a BFP after BD? i know some tests can take 7-14 to show and i know it depends on the sensitivity of the tests and the ?mui????

Hope all well and had a nice xmas.

louisesh · 26/12/2008 11:46

Hi MRSDISORGANISED try and keep your chin up [i know its not alway that easy] know its hard to ensure you BD at the right times and ensure it doesn t become too much of a chore!!! Enjoy boxing day i m out with DH s family for a meal!!!!! Then more BD

mrsdisorganised · 26/12/2008 11:16

Happy Christmas!!! Hope everyone had a good time
On the wait for imminent arrival of AF...no chance this month I don't think pg is on the cards Oh well try harder this month as I fear DH's patience will wear out!!

louisesh · 25/12/2008 17:01

HAPPY XMAS everyone!!!! Hava a fab time SABS work was ok and had a good xmas eve.Didn t make bd last night too tired.... Going to try today!!!

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Sabs1981 · 25/12/2008 13:32

Hello ladies, hope you are all having a good christmas. Just thought I would post my last for 2008 (sob!). Hope everyone has a good couple of weeks and we all have a much more positive 2009, with lots of BFP's and sticky beans!

Hope this thread is still active when I get back and we have even more members!

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Sabs1981 · 24/12/2008 23:21

hey all..hope you're well. Just one more sleep before i go, yay! Finished packing (well, nearly!) Had the day off work but was so busy. Thought I would catch up with you lovely people

LittleRascal CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am soooo happy for you! Dont forget about us when you join the ante-natal/pregnancy threads...we want regular updates from you.

louisesh was work quiet today? how was shopping and your night out with the ladies.. Hope your BD'ing tonight is successful

theboob sounds as if you had a busy day! Hope you all have a very merry xmas tomorrow

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theboob · 24/12/2008 21:04

congratulations xxxxxxxxxxxxx
all the best for you

well i braved church and it was not all that bad even felt a little xmas spirit when we all sang silet night.....church was more packed than asda was

3 little angles all asleep and i have been tracking santa with them all day and even find my self logging on now they are in bed,drink and relax for me while i can

merry christmas to you all xxxx