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ITS ME AGAIN STILL FEELING VERY STRANGE NO PERIOD YET EITHER

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debbsy · 13/03/2005 12:46

Hello again well ive still not come on since my last period on the 12th feb 05 if you can remember the other thread I started is that I had had a light bleed for 2 days only on the 12th to 14th feb 05. I then started to get dizzy spells and very tired with the felling of coming down with the flu which I didnt get .Then because of these feelings my hubby and i decided to do a test on the 3rd march which came back negative,so i thought that was the end of that. then my nipples started to twinge and my boobs were painful around the sides that has now gone.I also had a very thick white string like discharge (sorry) the other day. I have now not got painful boobs as i normally do (always) And i have not come on my period as i normally do but have crampy like pain in my back im weeing constantly and its got a lot stronger i also feel like i could kill somebody ( of which i normally feel week b4 my period)i have never been late if anything early and i have got a lot of indigestion which i never get!! COULD I JUST COULD I BE PREGNANT?? ps i have been tested at the docs for water infe ction 2 weeks ago and it was clear.

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pindy · 20/03/2005 10:24

Debbsy - I know it is no consolation for you - but so many women lose their first baby - the percentage is so high. I did in fact. As I said it doesn't help at the time, but take some reassurance in the fact that you can get pregnant and I am sure it wont be long before you become pregnant again with a happier outcome.

Try to keep cheerful and positive - keep posting so I know how you are doing.

Mine was a long time ago now - ds will be 11 on Wednesday and dd is 12 (13 going on 17 in October)- but you still don't forget. My first daughter would have been 13 now - as you can perhaps tell - I was pregnant within 2 months on losing her - hope the same is true for you.

I am sure you will be able to relax a bit more if you assume you were pg - because you now KNOW that you can get pg!! Hope this helps!

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Debbsy · 20/03/2005 09:40

My mum seems to think that was the case as i had the stinging pain and ive lost a couple of clots.And with all the symptoms i had which werent just in my mind there was physical changes too never mind it just wasnt meant to be spoken to a chinese medicine Dr just, going to see him on friday 25th.

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pindy · 20/03/2005 09:25

you may well have been - perhaps (let's hope) your body was having a dummy run for next month.

Fingers crossed!

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Debbsy · 20/03/2005 09:22

thanks pindy had some cocodomol this morning and got a heat pad on think pain feels worse as i so badly thought i was pregnant thanks for all your support.xx

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pindy · 20/03/2005 09:12

Thinking of you debbsy - try and get some pain killer with codeine in - works wonders.

co-codemol (paracetemol with codeine) Boots do their own brand.

Hope you're soon feeling a bit better.

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Debbsy · 20/03/2005 09:04

beetroot gone on to this time we will graduate thread,in alot of pain with this having to take lots of distalgesic even to move.xx

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 21:21

ok ill post xx

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Beetroot · 19/03/2005 21:08

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 21:04

Thanks Beetroot i feel utterly mentally and physically exhausted spoken to dr previously she said after end of may if we havent concieved that will be 12 mths then we will be referred thats why we have booked our holiday to Cuba at end of may to see if that will work. Ihave had a look aroung that thread didnt feel a belonged there lots of people trying for years would feel like i was winging after only trying for 10 mths.Thanks for everyones support though you have all been fantastic (((( all))))

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Beetroot · 19/03/2005 20:20

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 20:17

Well now started to bleed again think af is here feel sad but also releived as im out of my misery now.

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yoyo · 19/03/2005 19:01

Don't know whether to post or not but feel it ought to be mentioned. Two friends of mine had ectopic pregnancies which took ages to register on the home pregnancy tests. They both felt very pregnant but both had what they described as a "tea-stain" loss which went on for a while before the ectopics were diagnosed. If you are experiencing pain on one side I would go and get checked out quickly.

I really don't want to alarm you but you need to address all possibilities. Good luck.

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 18:25

no more blood now just backache back again i dont think ive ever felt this low in my life!

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kid · 19/03/2005 18:15

Hope you will be able to go to the Dr's on Monday, just so you can find out one way or the other. It must be driving you mad not knowing.

Fingers crossed for you xxx

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 17:35

Thanks Beetroot i have out with hubby and dogs for a walk hubby said ive put a wall up around myself and he doesnt know what to say or do!Came back had a stinging pain in my lower right side(never had that before) and went to the loo and lost a clot.Still feeling very quesy and tired as well.

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expatinscotland · 19/03/2005 15:59

Btw, this is a public forum; just b/c someone doesn't tell you what you want to hear doesn't make them negative. Members are allowed to participate on any thread they wish so long as they are not making personal attacks on others, which I was not. As far as scaring someone 'half to death' just by mentioning what could be behind all these 'symptoms', well, if you get scared like that by stuff you read on the internet that's most unfortunate.

I've desperately wanted to be pregnant before. In fact, I'd love to be pregnant again and post on the TTC threads. In fact I was so stressed this past cycle (most likely b/c we were having two sets of international visitors back to back, one of whom I hadn't seen in nearly 20 years) that I was late and my PMS symptoms were 10x worse than usual. But it doesn't do a/one any good to go mental over it, especially if you are pregnant. Overexposure to corticosteroids is bad for the health.

Hope you get some resolution soon.

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munnzieb · 19/03/2005 13:29

deb - high cervix normally means OV is about to occur - don't know what happens to it thou if ur PG - sorry. THT. good luck

expat ((hugs))

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 12:16

Ok thank you im going to go now need to stop thinking about this as im driving myself mad.Sorry Expat again didnt mean it.

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soapbox · 19/03/2005 12:07

Debbsy - I'm not sure really - with all the signs you are having I would have expected a positive response by now which is why it is worth doing the test you have.

I do think that you need to know one way or another though - as I can see that you are getting very stressed with not knowing

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 11:53

Do you think i have a lot of signs Soapbox?

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 11:51

Im sorry Expat very stressed out at the minute.Soapbox do you think i should do a first response test?

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soapbox · 19/03/2005 11:30

Debbsy - I think that is a little unfair on Expat

I know you are upset and the not knowing must be killing you!

Expat was only trying to help!

Have you done the first response test that you have at home?? If it is neg I think you go to your docs on monday and ask for a blood test which will confirm it one way or another for you! Otherwise you will just stress yourself out with the waiting!

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 11:20

Expat please do not respond to any more of my threads unless its in a positive way you could have scared me half to death if i hadnt known i havent got pcos.Thank you.

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debbsy · 19/03/2005 11:17

Been on the phone to my mum for the past hour crying feel like im going mad (SOMETHING IN MY GUTS TELLING ME IM PREGNANT AND IM NOT GOING TO COME ON) mum is phoning nhs direct for me now as im far too upset feel like i cant go through another day like this NOT KNOWING) to ask their advice feel v v upset today

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