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The addictable wagoners are welcoming some lovely newbies and enjoying seeing some oldies return! Thread for those waiting to ttc, those ttc now and graduates alike!

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SesHasapinkline · 19/09/2008 09:40

Here we are on another new thread! Let's hope it's a lucky one

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Diege · 16/10/2008 09:51

Morning . Another very restless night - woke wide awake at 2.45, then lay in bed heart pounding worrying about early scan , and then not feeling sick yet (at 4.4 weeks ). Just as I was dropping off at 4.30ish bloody works van parked outside house and started digging up the road . You have to laugh...
Good luck with results Nat - they seemed to arrive in post at 11ish at our clinic. Def should be there by midday .
TINK - NCT sales are great. Be sure to get there early though!
KAY, your work is operating illegally by not giving you a risk assessment. If they won't even provide a chair for you they will have to 'suspend' you on full pay, or find another role for you that you can do without too much discomfort. I'd definitely try talking to your manager/maternity rights helpline ect. Plus are you in a union? Even if not if you contact your local branch they'll tell you your rights. You'll be surprised what a phone call from a union rep, oe even someone in the CAB can do. Do it!! You don't want to lose what you're entitled to [bossy emoticon]
GLASK, boo to sickness Are you still on your meds are does GP still want you to cut down?
Right,best get on and clear my pig-sty of a house, plus write another lecture...

glaskhamhasoneintheoven · 16/10/2008 09:39

Morning all- another pretty pants day, been sick 3x before i managed to drag myself out of bed... managed some toast though, so as long as i keep it down i should be ok!!

Congrats HBJB!! there aren't many BFP's any more.... we need more ttc'ers!! I miss the weekly testers!!

I need to arrange my 16 wk check soon too GS- i'll be 14wks tomorrow!! Amazing!! into the 2nd trimester!!

tinkisgoingtohaveapumpkin · 16/10/2008 08:42

morning

congratulations heebeej - thats great news

gruff - we were away when i was 16 weeks so i saw midwife @ 17 weeks too no problem she listened to hb.

kay - good luck with midwife.

nat- good luck with results

we now have our new shower
plumbers finished fitting it @ 7:30pm last night. it is much better than old one which kept getting so hot that you couldnt stand under it.
this one is a mira sport.

i am 27 weeks today cant believe i am starting itno the 3rd trimester already is going so quick

we are going to have a look in town dd loves running around and sitting in all the rides.

i am going to look in an nct sale a week sat hoping to get a cot mobile and a baby sling

SesHasapinkline · 16/10/2008 08:36

Thought 10am would be pushing it but I know how impatient I would be!

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NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain · 16/10/2008 08:15

Agree with Ses, the week off might just give you enough of a boost to go a couple of more weeks or something. Though having said that, NEVER feel like you have to go to prove yourself to anyone, no one would make you feel like you're 'letting the side down' by giving into it earlier than planned, and if they did then tell them a big eff off from me!!

Gosh, 10am Ses? I was thinking if I rang before lunch they'd think I was being pushy! LOL I just really really really hope they don't insist on me staying in, it would be an absolute nightmare...

SesHasapinkline · 16/10/2008 08:04

Good you've got next week off Kay

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kayzisexpecting · 16/10/2008 07:50

I know that if you are signed off after 29 weeks they can force you to start your ML early. But I do get 9 months and I'm not planning to go back so I wouldn't mind.

I have a week off next week so I might just see how I am when I go back. I was stupid enough to think that this pregnancy would be exactly the same as the one with DS where I could have worked until the day before he was born.

SesHasapinkline · 16/10/2008 07:42

Morning NJ! I'd give them til 10am... Fingers crossed.

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SesHasapinkline · 16/10/2008 07:40

Thats disgraceful! In the retailer I work for, everyone gets a risk assessment which is then reviewed every 3 months. I'd def consider being signed off if it makes you feel this bad. I guess the only thing is that if you are signed off they can then force you to start your ML early - 35 weeks I think.
I'm v with them for you!!

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NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain · 16/10/2008 07:37

Morning

Huge congrats Heebee I am really pleased for you

Kay, good luck at MW's, hope you get something sorted for work.

Gruff, took me a while to work your post out, I thought you meant the 6 week check after the birth, I was trying to figure out why you'd need to book it now LOL

So how long do I wait for the results? She said she'd ring, but I know I'll still be waiting at bed time unless there was anything absolutely dire.

kayzisexpecting · 16/10/2008 07:36

They haven't even done a risk assessment. My supervisor has told my manager we have but we haven't. I can't have a chair or anything because its a health hazard. My MW did say last time that I can go to my GP and he should be able to sign me off early.

SesHasapinkline · 16/10/2008 07:29

Morning

Kay - have they reviewed your risk assessment at work recently? Do you have a chair or stool available behind the counter? Maybe talk to MW about this too as she may have some suggestions. Hope she manages to help with heartburn too.

Am of so many of you MNing working from home today. I need to head off for a meeting in Maidstone soon.

Heebee - hope you've woken up with a grin this morning!

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kayzisexpecting · 16/10/2008 07:20

Morning,

Nat, I'm glad they did something about it and I hope the results are ok when you get them back.

Heebee, Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm at the MW this morning. Finger's crossed she can give me something for my heartburn as its driving me nuts!!

I'm really struggling at work. I'm only doing 4 hour shifts but by 2 hours into them I'm feeling dreadful and can hardly stand up. Why I thought I'd be able to cope until 37 weeks I don't know.

I hope everyone is ok!!

GruffaloSoldier · 15/10/2008 22:57

Great about you being at home tomorrow too

GruffaloSoldier · 15/10/2008 22:57

Ok great, thanks Gyo!

GYo · 15/10/2008 21:57

hi gruff. I went for my 16wk check at 17wks and the mw listened to the HB. Dont think it matters too much about dates. Dh came in too which was great as he remembered to ask things I would have forgotten.

Also at home though working tomorrrow.

Congrats heebee! Fantastic news

GruffaloSoldier · 15/10/2008 21:18

Thanks Diege!

Not sure why seeing GP, see MW for rest of appointments! Yes really want DH to hear HB too so will take him then YAY!

Im at home tomorrow too WHOOOP WHOOP!

Diege · 15/10/2008 21:16

Hi GRUFF . The following Tues would be absolutely fine. Do you see a midwife at all at the appointment or is your care GP-led? It would be fine to have dh with you; will make him feel really involved etc. I think they do listen for heartbeat at 16 weeks from memory .
Right, that's it from me - ready to drop. Speak tomorrow on my skive at work from home day

GruffaloSoldier · 15/10/2008 21:15

16 weeks check i mean!

GruffaloSoldier · 15/10/2008 21:11

Hello all!

CONGRATS HEEBEE! Yay for good news!

NJ - im glad things are being done for you at last. Fingers crossed they sort you out

Glask - sorry to hear you are feeling ill again.

Hope everyone else is ok.

Was just wondering about 6 week check. Mine has to be with GP for some reason and I need to book it soon. If Im 16 weeks on the Thurs is it ok to book it for the following Tuesday? Is it the done thing for DH to go in with you? And will HB be definitely listened for?

Sorry for all the questions but I have been thinking about it for a while and I thought Id better get on and actually do something about it!

Thanks

Diege · 15/10/2008 20:19

That's brilliant news HEEBS, really, really pleased for you . I think we must be due around the same time? Did you have a feeling you might be pregnant?
SES, can't believe you're nearly out of first trimester! Must have been great having a good early scan - it has inspired me to push for one rather than burying my head in the sand!

mummy2olivia · 15/10/2008 20:16

Congrats!!! love good news!!

SesHasapinkline · 15/10/2008 20:09

Oooh! I'm excited for you.
Keeping everything crossed.

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Heebeejeebee · 15/10/2008 20:05

Thank you!! As much as I've thought about it, dh and I want to wait until 8 weeks to have a scan - last time they scanned me as I went for an early appointment (I've suffered from epilepsy in the past) at 7 weeks and it went wrong just after..

SesHasapinkline · 15/10/2008 20:01

Heebee - congrats
Fantastic news

My EPU were v understanding seeing as they'd seen me for 2 ERPCs this year and did me an early scan. They wouldn't do it before 8 weeks though. Hope you manage to get referral and fingers crossed for a sticky bean!

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