The addictable wagoners have abandoned the waterlogged field back to the safety of the Wagon (with Spa facilities). Thread for those waiting to TTC, those TTC now and other graduates alike!!

Evening all. Cals I am glad DH is with you now, it is perfectly normal to feel as you do, you have been through such an ordeal and need time to recover. I hope you have a relaxing weekend and have lots of people around you who love you!!!!

Diege I hope today wasn't as bad as you thought and that you all come home in one peice.

Tink great news re bean but sorry you still have to wait to find out about the sex....

Hi to everyone else. Who ever was talking about EWCM dont forget you could try egg whites?!? {grin}

take care cal.

back from my shopping in mothercare.
bought bean soft hat with ears on and soft pooh bear shoes.
bought dd with bday money elc rosies world -boutique,caravan and car

Have a nice evening cal x

DH has come home and the doctor has been too. He didn't do anything but as DH pointed out, I'm not crying any more.

Thanks guys.

See you later. x

Tink - gad all is ok, sorry you didn't find out but you will soon enough! Enjoy the shopping.

Cal - You might be along physically but we're all here. Is there anything you can do that usually makes you feel happy? For me it would be watching old re-runs of friends, maybe you could do something like that and just sit and cry a while? Oh I don't know, i'm crap at suggestions. Wish I lived closer i'd just come round, unfortunatley i'm up in Berwick upon tweed.

Keep talking, you don't have to talk about what has happened but I think if you keep chatting to us you'll feel less alone iyswim?

Milk and one sugar for me btw.

Oh, tink, we crossed posts. Can't believe that little one!!! Mischievious little boy? Or sassy little girl?

Cal I'm here. I'm so sorry. The best I can tell you is to just let it out. It doesn't matter if you're hysterical - there's no one there to see you. If it makes you feel better then do it.

i can't get hold of him

need to pull myself together think i'm getting hysterical

someone please talk to me

i don't want to be on my own i can't stop crying

Hi all,

Thanks Ses - looking forward to being able to post a bit more soon. Still struggling but have only dry heaved once so far today and have managed a few small snacks, so not doing too bad. Amazing how much the nausea drains you.

Tink - sorry you didn't find out the sex, but nice to know you have an active LO

Cals - I am not a million miles away from you. Also in Midlands, near Notts.

BTW LBOT, you do know you can get it next day from accessdiagnostics.co.uk don't you? (with a 5% discount) it would mean giving it everything you can and day after ov is sometimes not too late.

LBOT, just make sure you have lots and lots of foreplay so your body makes as much as it can, and drink lots of water and stay really hydrated - might help, won't hurt!

Tink, so sorry you didn't get to find out, hope you're not too disappointed - little minx your mini-tink.

Think I need a cup of tea.

MMmmm Brownies! Sounds lovely!

Thanks about the EWCM. We've tried preseed in the past, but unfortunately didn't have any luck. Would definitely be up for it this month, but won't be able to get a hold of it on time. There's now a similar one available over the counter in the US, but I don't think you can get it here Oh, well, thanks guys!

hi ladies

scan went great all healthy

it a ...

acrobatic

was stood on head

being difficult didnt get a good look had legs together couldnt c boy bits but said that doesnt mean anything so going to have to wait till 4th of oct for 3-d scan.

having fish and chips for lunch in a minute then off to mothercare will have to stick to buying white bits for baby

getting dd some bits with her bday money 2

Mmmm brownies. I baked a lot of brownies when I was on maternity leave with DS...it kept me going through breastfeeding! Fresh baked out of the oven, can't beat them.

Coffee not my thing - def a tea girl

I've fixed it! Yay.

I'm in the midlands, in derby. It would be wonderful if anyone was nearby but I've a feeling you're all miles away.

LBOT, I don't have much ewcm and I used pre-seed the month I got pregnant. I appreciate I'm probably not the best example at the moment but think it helped...

Cals I agree with GYo - I know I felt better when some people knew, as I felt it was really difficult to carry on as if everything was just fine when in reality it wasn't. In hindsight, it would've been so much nicer to tell people when we had happy news to share instead of sad, but it did help to get it out in the open.

Diege Is your DH away this weekend? I thought it was last weekend. I agree a email attachment would be brilliant!

For those of you who are/have gotten pregnant - have any of you done so without much EWCM to speak of? The month we were successful, I had tons, but haven't had much since, except for last month when I was away I was hoping I had turned an EWCM corner, but so far, it doesn't look like it and I had a +OPK last night. Fingers crossed!

Have fun at the scan Tink! Sorry, forgot to say before. Can't wait to find out! I vote boy

Cal - I'm guessing you're feeling quite down about it all today but you're articulating your feelings very well, I think you're doing really well to talk about how you feel. I'm sure it'll help over time... I think you should just do what you want to do and bugger anyone else!

Keep talking, we're all always here to listen, just wish there was something I could do to help in some way .

If there's anything you can think of, just say