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How about a June baby then (or even the end of May!)

537 replies

JLo2 · 27/08/2008 13:44

Thought I'd start a new thread for those of us who are out for May. Love to see some of my old friends here as well as maybe some new ones

OP posts:
Wishing · 08/10/2008 10:10

Im still here but also on july thred as if nim lucky this month i wil be due very end of june of very start of july!! - im so sorry to hear thst lollys mum1 - ive never really had any help from the doctors when ive been - they just dont seem to care - last time i went docs said we dont really due anything until your 10 weeks so you need to go home and relax!! ITS SO FRUSTRATING!!! [ANGRY]!!!

Im thinking of you, its horrible, but you seem really positive which is fab!

still no news from you yellow flowers - no news is good news - without meaning to sound corney!!
Rip & mint sorry red witch got you - good luck to you twoplease and little miss - and yellow flowers! im on cycle day 13 - it think! and bding going well!! made up with dh and even had an accident with the car last night and dh didnt go nuts and still up for bding!! maybe this month will be lucky month

good luck everyone!!

xxxxxxxxxxxx

twoplease · 08/10/2008 09:36

Hi all, sorry to all those with bfn/af hope july is lucky for you (us)

Little miss- i'm hanging on in here - am on cd26 but have already done a test (bfn) as I have short cycles usually - have few af symptoms though but we will see.....

anyone else still in?

yellowflowers · 08/10/2008 09:12

hi,

look forward (though wish you didn't need it) to seeing you on July thread. x

MintChocAddict · 07/10/2008 23:54

Poor you Lollysmum.
AF got me today I'm afraid so will be jumping over to July thread to start again too. Best of luck to all waiting for BFP's.

littlemissmischief · 07/10/2008 22:03

Oh no Lollysmum - Cant believe they have treated you so badly, do they think people dont have any feelings! It makes me so angry how most of the NHS treats people.

Ripmanwinkle - Sorry AF turned up hun, good luck to both of you on the July thread.

Is anyone hanging around on here... dont wanna be on my own x

RipMacWinkle · 07/10/2008 21:15

Well I'm cd1 so I'm right there hanging on your coat tails....

LollysMum1 · 07/10/2008 20:56

I'm with you RipMacWinkle! On the basis of what the stupid hospital said today I'm on CD 3 so i'll just keep counting now!!

RipMacWinkle · 07/10/2008 20:16

I'm definitely out.

July thread? Third time lucky?

yellowflowers · 07/10/2008 15:56

oh lollysmum1 - poor you. How are you feeling now? We know our own bodies much better than medical staff sometimes. much love xxxx

LollysMum1 · 07/10/2008 14:21

Fingers crossed yellow flowers! Its so frustrating when you get mixed messages from tests!

having been told by GP that test was negative I had what I'm sure was a miscarriage on Sunday night. It was the most horrendous amount in about 20 mins and was the same as when I definitely did have a MC in the summer. Thank god I was at home is all i can say. Was booked in for a scan by the out of hours GP for this morning. Turned up and they knew nothing about it. Refused to see me as "we're full" (forget the fact it was meant to be an emergency scan) and would only do a test which i told the stupid cow would be neg and of course it was. On the basis of that she said you probably had your period at the weekend so no need to do scan. Well thanks very much and if you think that was my period I'll eat my bloody hat (no pun intended). I cannot believe their attitude and am so angry. Rant over now! x

Wishing · 07/10/2008 13:51

sorry for you silently wondering! hope your feeling better

fingers crossed for anyone still waiting!! and congrats if i hve missed any bfp - not posted for a few days

im on cd 12 but as prev posted dh is on one and we are in middle of a huge row so i arent hopeful this month!!

keep in touch
xxxxxxxxxx

yellowflowers · 07/10/2008 10:27

Well boobs really hurt, more than they had, this am. So did two tests - clear blue and tesco. Clear blue did what it had last fri which is very faint line very quickly which then disappeared after few mins and then came up after about an hour very strong - so weird. Nothing on the tesco one. Guess will find out when dr gets results back tomorrow.

LovelyMonster · 06/10/2008 22:00

Hi everyone. yay to all the bfps. Sorry to those who have bfn/af/limbo!!!!

Hope everyone not feeling too down and making the most of lovely glasses of very expensive wine!

I am just starting week 4 so af could come at anytime in the next 7 days. Have had 2 friends this week give birth to beatiful little boys. So happy for them but really pulls at the old heart strings.
Unfortnately Im not feeling to hopeful this month as DH was in Berlin during OV (managed to just catch beginning and tail end of it). But maybe a good thing not to feel too mch pressure this month. Have the normal sore boobs but that always happens around this time.

Trying to stay positive and not feel sorry for myself! Feel very luck to have a lovely DH to love and support me so life not too bad huh!

Hope everyone is feeling well!

MintChocAddict · 06/10/2008 21:52

Hi All,

Thinking of everyone. Sorry about your AF news Silentlywondering. . Hopefully next month'll be your lucky one.

You must be extremely frustrated with the Doc Yellowflowers. I don't think they realise how much TTC can affect people.
Hopefully you'll get some good news soon.

I'm still waiting for AF. Now day 34/35ish I think, but as tend to have long cycles will hang off for a few days to test if no AF by then.

Good luck LMM and fingers crossed for you RipMacWinkle, Dinkyboysmum and everyone else still waiting.

leaky · 06/10/2008 21:38

Hi,

just checking in to see who might be joining me on the June thread....

good luck Littlemiss & RipMacWinkle

will be checking this page over the next few days to see how you are.GOOD LUCK (try not to feel too down Rip

RipMacWinkle · 06/10/2008 21:12

Looking poor for me too. AF due tomorrow/Wed. Tested today - BFN. Have been v pre-AF crampy since lunchtime. Thoroughly p!ssed off with this whole thing now.

Ah well, hopefully af will arrive soon at least.

Good luck LMM, dinky and anyone else who's still waiting.

dinkyboysmum · 06/10/2008 21:06

sorry, work's been manic so ahve been afk for a while. am now 6or7dpo i think, of a roughly 36 days cycle. did one of those very early 10ul tests earlier, BFN, silly of me really, didnt even use FMU! has anyone else used them and gor BFP this early? how reliable are they?

no signs really, keep thinking (.)(.) are sore

yup, think they are! nothing else though.

ohhhh, 2ww is so frustrating...when should i test (and dont even bother telling me 14dpo...it aint gonna happen!) i have some 25ul tests upstairs...when can i waste try those?

littlemissmischief · 06/10/2008 20:42

Oh no Silentlywondering im so sorry hun x

Looks like im on my own then

silentlywondering · 06/10/2008 16:54

red witch got me

yellowflowers · 06/10/2008 10:38

good luck l;ittlemissmischief, thinking of you.

no point me getting another dr appt until gp gets urine test result

littlemissmischief · 06/10/2008 10:34

Oh Yellowflowers - You poor thing! It must be so frustrating for you. I would make another appoint with a different doctor and tell them how down your feeling and how hard this all is for you and hopefully you will get a nicer doctor and better results. I really hope you get this sorted soon hun x

Im now on CD44 and feeling a bit rubbish after my BFN on Saturday, just hoping I tested too early! My boobs have doubled in size and are veiny and sore and have only had one period longer than this one so im feeling optimistic but dont want to get my hope up too much. Am going to buy another test for this Sunday because we are going on holiday on Monday so hoping to get a BFP to go with otherwise I will wait another week and test again if no AF. Its so frustrationg tho!

yellowflowers · 06/10/2008 09:31

Hi,

Went to GP and said either I am pregnant in which case I had period and one positive but after time limit test and several negative ones os am I still pregnant, or negative in which case which sore boobs for last two weeks and metallic taste, and she sent away urine for testing but not blood, and said boobs will just be hormonal.

I am annoyed because yes boobs sore pre period starting but now it is 10 days post period so shouldn't be sore now so hormones wouldn't explain that. And also because I told her about the one positive test but she said it's possible to get a false positive because of an LH surge pre period. This would be fine but the positive result ()after time limit on test) came on cycle day 7 so couldn't be because of a pre period LH surge because the test wasn't done pre period but she didn't seem to understand this.

So now I annoyed because I felt she didn;t get it and knew less than me about these things, and have to wait for urine result and if negative still need to go back and ask for blood test or to get them to check out the very sore boobs.

Have bought another shop bought test (one clear blue and one sainsbury own) but don't need loo so can't test yet.

I just want to cry with frustration.

Wishing · 05/10/2008 00:39

Hello Silently wondering - let us know when you do test - best of luck! good news already that af hasnt arrived. im so sorry to hear about mc last time but you have to try move on best you can. if you get a bfp you really need to try not to worry as it wont be any good for you or the bean!

hop your ok - lots of wishes from me and baby dust coming your way xxxxxxx

silentlywondering · 04/10/2008 18:29

New test arrived in the post today. Stupid thing is I am now scared to test. If it comes back neg I am going to be gutted especially as I had a m/c earlier this year and baby would of been due this week. If it's positive will be pancicking in case it all goes horribly wrong again.

Wishing · 04/10/2008 13:10

dont worry too much yellow flowers if you feel fine in yourself with everything else it might be something you ate??

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