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How about a June baby then (or even the end of May!)

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JLo2 · 27/08/2008 13:44

Thought I'd start a new thread for those of us who are out for May. Love to see some of my old friends here as well as maybe some new ones

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EdgeofTon · 19/04/2025 08:00

Hi all, I'm new. Just saying hi I'm 46 and alone so scared. Had 4 pos preg tests but scan showed no baby.told wait three weeks. At time of scan had zero symptoms now all of them. This is my 4th. Still 1 pos preg tests but now a also 3 neg. Scared to have another scan help

Sans04 · 19/10/2008 03:57

Hi again
sorry to hear that littlemissmischief, but take it easy there is always next month.
wishing hope you'll get BFP at the end and good on you don't test early it seems that anoying DH when we test and test in the earlier stage ang giving them hope and later on when we get AF I thinh it's so disapointing for them more than us. hold it there good luck for you and everyone.

littlemissmischief · 17/10/2008 21:05

Hi ladies

Well got a faint positive on Monday morning and got all excited, then went on holiday and started bleedig heavy that night, so thinking i probably had a miscariage
Have felt like crap since, both emotionally and physically but am now jumping over to July thread and see how we go, Im not sure I can do it all again tho

Good luck to those of you still waiting x x

Wishing · 17/10/2008 19:53

Thanks sans - good luck to you too!! and everyone, i bd my bottom of this month and i have a feeling that i may be lucky - i cant put my finger on it i just feel something is different - NOT symptom spotting didnt last long - im feeling very very tierd and tender boobs, not particularly sore but i know there are there is that makes sense??!

Saw your post on july thread about dh and bding yellow - it made me smile! i feel we have all had to do that from time to time and this month my dh was fanatastic on the bding front but i have had to promise not to start symptom spotting and convincing us both that i am until i get a bfp! he was really upset last month being 7 days late and been sure that i was!!

...........therefore im symptom spotting in secret with you guys!!

im not testing early though im gonna try chill this month and take it as it comes, im not wasting any more pennies on early tests thst just stress me out - and seen as though dh was so supportive i owe him that!

still posting to this thread and july as edd woould be either last day in june or 1st 2 in july if we have stuck lucky - and famaliar faces on both threads i like to catch up with!!... little miss where are you - hope everything ok!!??

good luck to all

xxxxxxxxxx

Sans04 · 17/10/2008 07:00

Hi all
Sorry to hear thatyellowflower, I have lots of love for you, but take it easy hope you'll get it next month. I just ovulated last night when I tested with the ovulation stickes at 3.30pm yesterday so we had beding last night with DH, I hope it will work next month, fingures cross for everyone who is still trying for july baby on this thread.

yellowflowers · 15/10/2008 11:41

Thanks sans04 and welcome back. It was a bfn in the end but full of hope for this month. x

Sans04 · 15/10/2008 11:36

Hi all
conguratulation for all who have BFP, and lots of love for who had AF. sorry I was away, because of my misscarage I was confused with my cycle but for those who have done the new list I am on CD15 now, even the doctore recomended me to not TTC this month but I've heard that just after misscarage there is more chance to concive so based on that method I am trying and tested ovulation still I havent ovulated but I can see a really faint line. fingures crossed for all of us.
yellowflowers onestly I dont have any clue for you but lets hope that you get BFP.

VeryKeenForABean · 13/10/2008 12:05

Any news LittleMiss - sprinkling baby dust all over for you!

Good luck Wishing! Fingers crossed!

I am a bit spotty now, so AF is prob on her way, but got a cold so who knows. Just trying to step away from the tests at the moment!!

Wishing · 12/10/2008 23:04

I will sende you one huge sack load of baby dust little miss!! i hope you get your bfp - keep in touch! im just starting the 2ww!!

sorry to hear about your af's two plese and dinkyboysum! i feel for you!!

Hope you get some symptoms soon vk4abean!! im telling myself not to spot them this month - i should be so lucky!!

baby dust to all xxxxxxxx

littlemissmischief · 11/10/2008 22:14

Dinkyboysmum - sorry AF got you hun, good luck for July x

Verykeen - Hey glad you still in good luck for next week hope the red witch doesnt arrive, could I have a bit more baby dust please really praying for a BFP on monday after my 2 BFN x

VeryKeenForABean · 11/10/2008 20:08

Hi, so sorry for those who are out, thinking of you, and sending lots of good luck for next month x

I am cd30 of a 35ish day cycle, so still too early to test - grrrr. Have them lined up ready for the end of the week - am going to resist. Am symptom free - nothing, not even spots or moods. Always time for that to change - poor DH!!

Baby dust to all

dinkyboysmum · 11/10/2008 14:30

i'm out. af arrived last night, got bfn on hpt this morning (just checking )!!

littlemissmischief · 11/10/2008 13:42

Twoplease - for you, so sorry hun x

Hope you do well next month if you decide to join the July thread.

I'm still well and truely hanging hun. On CD49 and usually 41/42 but have had one this year that was 59 but boobs still sore and swollen and nipples have got much darker but got a BFN on thursday so not sure now?

Go have a big glass of wine and loads of choccie x

twoplease · 11/10/2008 09:33

hello anyone still left on this thread.

well, my BFP has turned BFN and AF started this morning. CD30 which is 5 days late for me. I had well and truely got my hopes up but must be a CP? this is the second time this has happened since TTC#2, i am really pissed off .

not sure I can face the July thread but we shall see.

anyone still hanging on in there for a June baby?

yellowflowers · 10/10/2008 13:40

Hello,

Turns out the reason the doctor needed a retest on the urine sample was because on Monday they'd given me the wrong sample bottle and it had been contaminated (there is another element in bottles used for infection testing apparently and they'd given me this). I was so pissed off.

The doctor I saw was nice. She says sore boobs throughout cycle just one of those things that happens which I don't really believe but I did make her check I had no lumps so she felt them and all fine, so not cancer at least! She also said if pregnant would def show on home urine test and I said fine but therefore why the metallic taste and sore boobs, and sense of smell etc. She reordered urine test and I insisted she get blood test done too. But still came away feeling like a hyperchondriac and like she thought I was mad. I hate GPs.

So upshot is probably not pregnant but thanks to their incompetence won't know for sure until blood test results back next week, and having sore boobs for over two weeks is apparently just one of those things.

So guess I will just assume I am not pregnant. But not 100 per cent certain. Got to BD lots anyway now because if my 3 day mini period two weeks ago was my proper period then now is the time for this month. I am very close to tears.

x

yellowflowers · 09/10/2008 12:21

If I am not pregnant then everyone just smells. This morning I could see no one on the train eating but could smell a sandwich. today at work the person next to me has terrible BO and I can smell a fag on someone across the room. Hope it's a symptom.

Going to doctors tomorrow to do the retest.

littlemissmischief · 09/10/2008 09:01

Got another BFN today

dinkyboysmum · 08/10/2008 20:18

i dont really mind if its af...just odd its come at 9dpo, bit too early for my liking!! if it is af, just wish she'd hurry up and show properly, then can get on with next cycle.

littlemissmischief · 08/10/2008 20:16

Wow Twoplease - How exciting, thats great news! Many congrats

Dinkyboysmum - I agree with Twoplease I would say it is an implantation bleed although I too am not an expert and I havent had it myself.

Lovelymonster - Glad your still in good luck for the weekend!

Yellowflowers - sorry you still have no answers x

I have had belly ache since this afternoon so am a bit worried that AF is on its way. It doesnt really feel like AF though so maybe it is just a stomach ache or something

twoplease · 08/10/2008 19:57

Hello,

Dinkyboysmum - I'm no expert by any means but it sounds like what others have described as implantation bleeds - its not happened to me before so sorry can't be more help. Fingers crossed though...

I think I have a BFP - did my freebie clearblue yesterday and got BFN - was really cross with myself for doing it before CD28 but couldn't resist cheapie boots tests today and BFP not even FMU. I'm sooo hoping its right - no doubt will be peeing on another stick before the night is out!!

dinkyboysmum · 08/10/2008 19:41

cross posted as need advice.

used OPK & got + last Saturday/Sunday, felt sharp twingy/cramps on Monday (so guessed this was O).

that would make me approx 8dpo yesterday. When i went to the loo yesterday evening, i had a smear of bright red stained cm. then nothing more.

today, i've had a little brown stained cm when i wipe. nothing red. have sore bbs, but this could be the case for pg or af!

IS this the start of AF? Very early though? would make for a short lp?

COULD it be implantation bleed?

What do you think???

LovelyMonster · 08/10/2008 17:41

I am still in for this month! AF due any time from now until sunday/monday.

Sorry to those who have had an unwelcome visitor. Big bottle glass of wine tonight. Try to stay positive although i know all to well that sometimes a good old cry can do wonders!!!!

Fingers crossed for everyone left here.

Oh dear yellow. You are in limbo arnt you?? My advice (which you can choose to ignore!)is to think like you are not pg. that way you will not build youself up (ha ha yeah right) and will be a great suprise if you are pg. However dont blame you if you are constantly thinking of it. not nice to not know if your body is coming or going huh!

yellowflowers · 08/10/2008 17:03

doctor called and.... the receptionist just said I have to go in for a retest. So still no negative or positive.aaaaargh

littlemissmischief · 08/10/2008 12:38

Hi,

CD46 for me today and stll managing to hold og doing another test, was going to wait till sunday but brought a sainsburys 2 pack so might do one tom and then Sunday if I need too (hoping i wont tho). Havent got any AF symptoms which is good but no real pg ones either apart from sore big boobs But just hoping I get a BFP this week.

Mintchoc - sorry AF got you hun, good luck for next month

Twoplease - good luck hope you get a BFP

Wishing - I replied to you on the other thread but i will put on here to, thanks for your post and glad you and DH made up x

Yellowflowers - sorry you still dont have any answers must be so annoying - hope it gets sorted soon x

yellowflowers · 08/10/2008 11:38

Hi,

well no news at all really. phoned docs this am and results not back yet - have to try again tomorrow. peed on clear blue stick yesterday and got same thing - faint line not developing properly for hour or so. Did same today and was nothing. Boobs still hurt and have changed type of bra in case it was too small or anything like that but still hurting. Was shattered yesterday and had headaches. But negative test is negative test I guess. If my 3 day period was proper period then I am now entering the bd phase so am going to get busy at home this weekend too.
x