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First time TTC?!! Let's get through this together!! Part 2

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bluestarlavender · 08/08/2008 08:11

Hi guys, new thread for us to carry on!

BSL x

OP posts:
summerbird · 28/08/2008 14:36

hey MAF hunny please dont worry, i wondered why you had been quiet. i too have a 'mild' polycystic ovary but my GP and Gynae said it is fine and it is true that so many women have it and successfully conceive.

forget about it now and get back to those yoghurt pots! and your boys sound just fabulous!

group hugs

makingafamily · 28/08/2008 14:05

Meant to post this here and ended up posting it on another thread so cuts and pastes !!

Hey Ladies

Been a bit quiet as had some rather crap news on Tuesday evening, which i have now processed and put into prospective and am feeling much more positive about. As i think i've mentioned before my lovely GP has referred me for all tests so that she can refer me to my local fertility clinic so should it take us a while and we need some medical interventions it would already be up and running. Had all blood tests back a month ago and and STI and Hormone Fertility, Liver Function tests etc all ok. The last thing was an pelvic ultrasound which to my understanding was to check there were no blockages. so along i went on Tuesday, laying there, trying not to pee, with cold stuff on my belly being poked when the sonographer says "have you heard the term polycystic?" my shocked response "yes, but i'm not quite sure what its got to do with this!". Sonographer then kindly showed me on the big screen my polycystic ovaries and advised me he would contact my GP and i would be sent for bloods for further info. Went home cried, had a large Pimms, cried some more, spoke to the boys who were unconditionally supportive, cried more, got on google and then cried a bit less. Spoke to my GP yesterday who confirmed my hormone levels do NOT indicate PCOS and that approx 1 in 5 women have polycystic ovaries and to try not to worry. My FSH is 3 and my LH is 3.4 which i am lead to believe are ok. So essay over and back to feeling on track although am now CD 16, No CM, No +OPK's and No Peak reading on the CB Fertility monitor so sod knows whats going on. So looks like another few days of raised ass yoghurt potting for us

Once again ladies thanks for listening, well reading!!!

Hope your all well and looking forward to fabulous weekends

and Summer STEP AWAY FROM THE PEE STICKS - DO NOT TEST

x.x.x

summerbird · 28/08/2008 12:34

not what i wanted linwin but you are absolutely spot on with your advice! i am at the point now where i am thinking about it day and night, and you are righ too that it could be a false BFN, i will try to resist until Sunday!! (welcome back by the way!)

come on everyone else - give me the same advice as linwin!!!!!

Linwin · 28/08/2008 11:46

Seriously Summerbird I would hold on another day or two. I know its hard but if you wait then you will really be able to believe the results, whereas if you test now you could get a false negative.

I made myself wait until CD37 (my cycles are 35 days) and at least when it came back as BFN I knew it was true and hey presto the next day my old friend AF turns up.

Sorry, probs not the advice you wanted to hear!

summerbird · 28/08/2008 11:30

it was from this website go here

summerbird · 28/08/2008 11:28

check this out girls - what do you reckon? should i test tonight?? (extract from a website)

'When can I test to see if I am positive on an home pregnancy test?'

In order to test positive on a home pregnancy test, there must be hCG present in your blood stream. hCG production starts at an early stage of development, just a few days after conception, before implantation in the uterus, but you will not be able to read until after implantation. hCG enters the circulation almost immediately after implantation of the embryo (blastocyst) on about 7 days past ovulation, producing 5mIU-50mIU of hCG and doubles every two days. Many women are able to get a positive reading at 10 days past ovulation. I recommend waiting until 12 days past ovulation to test. Here are averages:

DPO Amount of hCG in mIU/ml
7DPO 5 - 50
14DPO 4 - 426
21DPO 19 - 7,340
28DPO 1,080 - 56,500

Just because there may be 5-50 mIU in your bloodstream doesn't mean that your body has processed it in that strength in your urine. Every woman is different and even cycles can be different.

Vix67 · 28/08/2008 11:04

Morning Ladies,

Welcome back linwin

Hope everyone is ok this morning. I am enjoying my last few days off work!! Don't want to go back!!

sorry eth im not sure how soon pg symptoms would start?! But you never know spots and sore boobs are definetley a sign!!

xx

saz007 · 28/08/2008 09:42

Good morning ladies

It was quite sunny when I left home this morning but now the clouds have rolled in

Another busy day looming for me...boo!

Hi and welcome michaela linwin

summerbird · 28/08/2008 09:29

eth i am in the same boat trying to work out what symptoms are pre AF and what are potential PG. I still have the spotty face(!) and felt a mini AF cramp this morning which has now gone.

Well today is 14DPO but only CD26 so it could be any day.

eth my GP too was hyper excited when i told her we were TTC

big hello to everyone else! sorry gotta dash as need to do some work now!!

Linwin · 28/08/2008 09:20

Thanks eth - I feel loads better thanks.

I've updated my stats as well...

FIRST TIME FROLICKERS
Frolicking Fiesta
BubbaP - Cycle 2 - CD6
Bonifacio - Cycle 1 - CD 12
MAF - Cycle 1 - CD15
Dawn - Cycle 2 - CD? (Mc Augst '08 )
Saz - Cycle 2 - CD17
Vix - Cycle 3 - CD3
Fairywing - Cycle 1 - CD23
Bluestar - Cycle 3 - CD6
Summerbird - Cycle 6 - CD26 DPO 14
Wildfig - Cycle 2 - CD28
Eth37 - Cycle 2 - CD 23
Linwin - Cycle 3 - CD2

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS
Flirty - 5 weeks - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - 4 weeks 4 days - EDD 2nd May I think

wildfig · 28/08/2008 09:17

Blimey, the sun has come out!

FIRST TIME FROLICKERSFrolicking Fiesta

BubbaP - Cycle 2 - CD6
Bonifacio - Cycle 1 - CD 12
MAF - Cycle 1 - CD15
Dawn - Cycle 2 - CD? (Mc Augst '08 )
Saz - Cycle 2 - CD17
Vix - Cycle 3 - CD3
Fairywing - Cycle 1 - CD23
Bluestar - Cycle 3 - CD6
Summerbird - Cycle 6 - CD26 DPO 14
Wildfig - Cycle 4 - CD2
Eth37 - Cycle 2 - CD 23
Linwin - Cycle 2?
Heylottie - Cycle 7 - CD 6
MichaelaS - Cycle 3 - CD 29

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS
Flirty - 5 weeks - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - 4 weeks 4 days - EDD 2nd May I thin

eth37 · 28/08/2008 09:01

Morning ladies!!
Hope everyone ok today? Linwin welcome back - I hope you are feeling better about things. It is so hard not to become obsessed with TTC, isn't it? I find myself acutely aware of every tiny sensation in my whole body (toes, ears - you name it - I'm like 'is it a symptom??'!) but I hope you're feeling a bit calmer?

Hever and Flirty please don't leave!! How are you feeling?

I went to the GP yesterday about something else (weird ligament strain - not a symptom!) and my GP was so excited about us TTC! I hadn't really mentioned it before and she was nearly dancing on her chair!! I've only ever seen her once before!!

Well, I have got really really sore boobs and a horrid spot on my chin (just so you know!). This is the second month I've had such sore boobs (can't lie on side) and as last month I had decided it was a symptom, this month I know it is impending AF. Thing is, if I were pg this month, it would only be implanting yesterday or today (ish) so when do pre-AF sore boobs become pg sore boobs?! IYSWIM?

FIRST TIME FROLICKERS
Frolicking Fiesta
BubbaP - Cycle 2 - CD6
Bonifacio - Cycle 1 - CD 12
MAF - Cycle 1 - CD15
Dawn - Cycle 2 - CD? (Mc Augst '08 )
Saz - Cycle 2 - CD17
Vix - Cycle 3 - CD3
Fairywing - Cycle 1 - CD23
Bluestar - Cycle 3 - CD6
Summerbird - Cycle 6 - CD26 DPO 14
Wildfig - Cycle 2 - CD28
Eth37 - Cycle 2 - CD 23
Linwin - Cycle 2?

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS
Flirty - 5 weeks - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - 4 weeks 4 days - EDD 2nd May I think

Linwin · 27/08/2008 22:24

Hi everyone,

Haven't been on MN for over a month as I became so obsessed with TTC that I scared myself never mind my poor DH.

Dawn I was so sorry to hear about your MC but amazed and slightly in awe of how pragmatic you have remained. You are such an example to the rest of us.

So turns out I'm just as obsessive either with or without MN, and this weekend had totally convinced myself I was PG - every symptom under the sun, however today my old friend AF showed up on CD 38 - blooming cheek!

Also, and maybe I'm just being paranoid here, been TTC for last 2 cycles only and have had the worst, heaviest and most irregular AF's ever. Humpf.

Anyway, how lovely to be back amongst such supportive girls. Congratulations to those who have little bumps and good luck to the rest of us, heres to happy summer babies!

summerbird · 27/08/2008 22:22

ps wildfig i used to live in Sutton so i have had an operation at St Georges in Tooting - i felt like i was in a pre-war hospital - it is a bit archaeic!! I am v lucky tho as where i work now has private healthcare so i went to a Spire Hospital for my laporoscopy, they even looked after DH with cups of tea etc - it was like a hotel!!

summerbird · 27/08/2008 22:19

oh my gawd wildfig i cant believe that specialists comment about the foetus!!! they really should teach tact at medical school, bliddy doctors really annoy me..! although my GP is wonderful, when i passed out at work in March during a mammoth AF i went to see her a week later and she referred me for all kinds of tests hence my laparoscopy.

heverhoney stay with us, i too thought we could have a fully proficient frolickers thread when we are all successful (as we all will be - i am feeling it with us!!)

nighty night everyone
x

Vix67 · 27/08/2008 21:19

Yeah sounds good and we can have all summer off with our little babas!!

heylottie dont feel too bad, you will get there in the end!! This site is great and you will get loads of tips to help you along the way!!

xx

wildfig · 27/08/2008 21:05

vix absolutely! June is the month...! x

wildfig · 27/08/2008 20:56

Blimey! A pineapple! With or without the spikes?! Why DO surgeons go down the 'greengrocer' route? I had a fruit basket of apples and grapefruit. Suppose it's better than the initial size diagnosis, which was '12 week foetus'. I went red and roared at the specialist that, considering I was risking sterilisation at 32, it was an inappropriate comparison to make. He looked surprised and said, 'Oh yes, I'd never really thought of it like that.' FFS.

Vix67 · 27/08/2008 20:54

Hi Everyone,

Welcome Michaela don't worry about feeling obsessed with the whole ttc thing, it is completely natural and this is a great place to have a good rant aboiut how ur feeling with people who completely understand!!

Wildfig im sorry about your nasty AF, me and you are on similar cycles, so fingers crossed we will have BFP's together next month!! Bet you cant wait to get your dog, believe me they are fairly tying but TOTALLY worth it!! And they are definetley good practice for the real thing!! ( a baby!! )

I am off work this week, had some holidays to put in so have just been spring cleaning and gyming it and dog walking this week. It's going far too fast and would love to be a lady of leisure full time!!

Hope everyone is well xx

heylottie · 27/08/2008 20:49

Ah ha - my fibroid (removed five years ago with myomectomy) was compared to a PINEAPPLE by the surgeon. Oh yes.

Fruit wise I have three fibroids remaining - two grapes and a kumquat (spelling?). So am not too bothered, unless they become bananas.

So I am

TTC 1
Cycle 7 (oh god how depressing)
CD5

wildfig · 27/08/2008 20:07

Poor your sister, Michaela! Fibroids are actually pretty common, but they go unnoticed most of the time - it's something worth checking out, if TTC seems to be taking a while. I found about mine because I lost some weight and realised that the lump in my tummy wasn't, in fact, my spleen . How serious they are really depends how big they've grown, and whether they're on the inside or the outside of the uterus - inside, they take up room a baby needs and are trickier to remove because you need to cut into the uterus wall, outside, they can either be snipped off the stem they grow on, 'embolised' by injecting a little block into the vein that feeds them, or 'shelled' out from just under the outer layer.

I had the full myomectomy, which is a fairly routine operation, but there's a 1/100 chance that if the bleeding becomes too much, the surgeon has to perform an emergency hysterectomy, so unless it's causing problems (interfering with implantation/painful periods, etc), most people just leave them, and they often shrink after the menopause. Not really sure how much diet can affect them. I put my operation off for as long as I could, and havered for ages about the risks but everything was absolutely fine (apart from the hospital food; if anyone's thinking about having their baby at St George's Tooting, I strongly recommend a packed lunch).

Sorry about fibroid lecture, everyone else. Before I was a pregnancy symptom expert, I was a part-time fibroid specialist.

heverhoney1 · 27/08/2008 19:33

Hey all- despite BFP I am still not convinced I am up the duff! I dont feel any different, although I have a feeling all my spots are gonna join together so my face turns into 1 big SPOT.

Welcome back Eth you were missed and welcome to all newcomers.

I prefer it here to the Anti natal thread we are all such fun and friendly people. I would say I want to come back here but I dont I want you all to me coming over there so we can have a FULLY PROFIICIENT FROLICKERS THREAD!!!

FIRST TIME FROLICKERS
Frolicking Fiesta
BubbaP - Cycle 2 - CD5
Bonifacio - Cycle 1 - CD 11
MAF - Cycle 1 - CD14
Dawn - Cycle 2 - CD? (Mc Augst '08 )
Saz - Cycle 2 - CD16
Vix - Cycle 3 - CD2
Fairywing - Cycle 1 - CD22
Bluestar - Cycle 3 - CD5
Summerbird - Cycle 6 - CD25 DPO 13
Wildfig - Cycle 2 - CD27
Eth37 - Cycle 2 - CD 22

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS
Flirty - 5 weeks - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - 4 weeks 4 days - EDD 2nd May I think

MichaelaS · 27/08/2008 19:20

Hello summerbird and wildfig - thanks for the welcome!

I also could not manage a run at the gym, but blamed it on their aircon breaking meaning it was about 40 degrees in there.... hmmm maybe we are having oddly similar symptoms though!

wildfig - my sister has just been diagnosed with fibroids after an operation to remove a huge dermoid cyst on one of her ovaries. Hope she is ok - any tips?

speak soon all!
Michaela

wildfig · 27/08/2008 19:11

CD1 is first day, sorry. Dur.

And PS, I had the most horrendous fibroids too, so can totally sympathise on that front! I had 2lbs of them snipped during a myomectomy at St George's 2 years ago, with several students watching, and taking multiple photos, which they presented me with afterwards. Whenever anyone threatens to show me their gruesome birth pics, I like to get my fibroid snaps out. Favourite quote from nurses: "You know what they call fibroids in Jamaica, love? A DISAPPOINTED WOMB."

[rolling eyes and v signs icon]

summerbird · 27/08/2008 19:10

evening michaela and welcome to our lovely thread! we are on a similar cycle, i am due AF this weekend, and i too have broken out in spots which is also unlike me (did get them up until about 25 and have been ok since) and i too am imagining dizziness and sickness!! i also couldnt finish a regular run i do at the gym last night so i convinced myself there and then i was PG (although 2 weeks of eating cake must have contributed too!!).

wildfig boo on the AF but to all the excess BDing and vino this month!

thats another thing michaela we have regular cyber parties on here, dont know if you caught MAFs civil ceremony a couple of weeks ago - we were all boogying on the pink champagne!!