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Big cry ttc

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strawberry780 · 01/11/2026 20:34

Just that really. Been trying for years now had a tfmr 15months ago , had a chemical last month. Starting letrozole next cycle which will be next weekend at some point. But I’m ovulating just not regularly so I’m not really sure what help that’s going to be. When I do everything right … Me and partner have had fertility tests all was clear.
had a very big and long cry tonight. It’s nearly firework night which marks another year of BS. 3yrs ago I cried my eyes out at the fireworks because it had been 2yrs ttc then & I’d just started my period and ultimately fed up. So with that round the corner another BFN today. I’ve had enough. And none of my friends or family know what it’s like. And if I hear another person say ‘Give it time’ ‘It will happen when it happens’ I’m going to scream. Or people acting like they know how this feels because they tried for ‘6 months’ …
rant over…

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strawberry780 · Yesterday 06:31

CamomileCream · 02/11/2026 22:38

No, it shouldn't be this hard. For a little while, I'd try to avoid those conversations, or if necessary, people to give yourself a little bit of breathing space/head space. It's like a sore bruise, don't knock it again while it heals

Thank you x

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CamomileCream · 02/11/2026 22:38

No, it shouldn't be this hard. For a little while, I'd try to avoid those conversations, or if necessary, people to give yourself a little bit of breathing space/head space. It's like a sore bruise, don't knock it again while it heals

strawberry780 · 01/11/2026 23:12

CamomileCream · 01/11/2026 21:45

I've been there. Sending so much love. There's no getting away from the fact that it's totally shit

I’m sorry. Yeah it’s just shit. I’m just so exhausted and heartbroken 😔 like it shouldn’t be this hard

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CamomileCream · 01/11/2026 21:45

I've been there. Sending so much love. There's no getting away from the fact that it's totally shit