Thanks for the advice girls! Just really confirms what I think (ie, stall it for a bit)and maybe have dh with me so that she'll at least seem pleased on the surface.I don't mind false sentiments - would rather that than nasty genuine feelings, as I am such a conflict avoider!
SES, that is such good advice about setting expectations, but I did try something similar when pregnant with dd3, and she started shaking her head and saying, 'oh no, oh no..' before I'd even finished
Gruffalo, oh no not Surrey!!!! I've been there 11 years!!! A big commute but hey I love the place.... Did I get you even for a second???
Right, bed for me, big day tomorrow (Nadal is playing...). Night all, and thanks again, you're such a lovely lot