Hi all, I'm just looking for some reassurance really. I'm 34 in August and myself and my husband had planned to be TTC by now. Unfortunately a few months ago he has a major vertigo attack and still isn't better, he's been seen by specialists and they don't have answers just it should get better in time. He works in the rail industry and is stressed about having to reapply for his role whilst he is sick as he feels he wouldn't perform well in an interview. He's also become very depressed as a result of being poorly for so long.
We've agreed he needs to be in a better mental state before we start TTC, I'm just looking for reassurance from people who have conceived at 34-35. We plan to be one and done. He's open to doing fertility tests at a clinic so I'm also keen to know if you think that's worth doing.
I'm concerned I'm going to be too old but I can see his point of view and how he's feeling.