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Akemi · 03/03/2026 13:32

I had my period last week starting on Tuesday with 1.5 days of medium to heavy bleeding after 2 days of heavy spottting on Sunday and Monday. Bleeding stopped on Wednesday night and I've been light spotting brown since then.

I though last cycle was unsuccessful so on Saturday I took an LH test to start tracking ovulation again and it came back super positive which was weird for my "CD 5" so I took an hcg and came back positive. Not as dark as I thought it would be at "20 dpo" but clearly positive.

I knew straight away that this will not end well because I'm very sure of my dates given I'm tracking with LH and BBT but nobody will do anything! I called 111 and my GP and they both said that because I'm not in pain they can't refer me anywhere but to go to A&E if I develop pain ir heavy bleeding. But I know that by that point is usually too late in case of an ectopic.

The reason I'm so worried with an ectopic is because I know that bleeding before a positive hpt + erratic hcg is a classic pattern, and my tests have been varying in intensity since the first positive on Saturday but all of them are too light for "20-25 dpo"

I really don't know what to do anymore and I'm at the verge of a breakdown. Why is the system so horrible with pregnant women? I just want to know if this is a "safe" miscarriage or get the help I need if an ectopic.

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Akemi · 03/03/2026 20:04

7238SM · 03/03/2026 19:55

I'm glad you got an appointment OP but agree, you made absolutely NO mention of passing clots in any post you made! All you said was spotting, so replies might have been different with this new info!

I have no intentions to argue but while not specifically clots, I did say in my original post medium to heavy bleeding that looked like a period. Heavy bleeding is usually not compatible with life in early pregnancy.

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7238SM · 03/03/2026 19:55

I'm glad you got an appointment OP but agree, you made absolutely NO mention of passing clots in any post you made! All you said was spotting, so replies might have been different with this new info!

BringBackCatsEyes · 03/03/2026 17:43

nb only just read that you’ve been passing clots, I thought it was just spotting brown.

That’s obviously more worrying.

BringBackCatsEyes · 03/03/2026 17:39

It may well be a successful pregnancy. The home testing you have done up to now cannot allow you to “know straight away that it will not end well”.

Early pregnancy is a time of waiting and feeling anxious and many, many trips to the loo (to check). Unless you have a history of miscarriage or ectopic it really isn’t a good use of NHS resources to try and work out what’s going to happen when a woman is in very, very early pregnancy.

I wish you all the best

Nursemumma92 · 03/03/2026 17:25

Early pregnancy is an anxiety riddled time and I'm sorry your GP made you feel dismissed and alone. Unfortunately like all services, demand outstrips supply and so there is a criteria for referrals they have to follow. You have bleeding at a time they expect there to be bleeding and they cannot go by urine hcg tests showing no progression as they are not qualititative and were not designed to measure hcg concentration, just to detect its presence. This is why women are advised not to repeatedly take tests as it just causes anxiety when most often everything is progressing normally.

If bleeding persists or you develop pain, you need to ask again about an EPU referral but unfortunately there is nothing that can be done but to wait. If it was an ectopic at this stage it wouldn't be visible. A private scan at 6 weeks gestation may provide you some answers and if they have concerns then they can refer to EPU for bloods/further monitoring and management.

Really hoping for a healthy pregnancy for you.

Akemi · 03/03/2026 17:22

Foodylicious · 03/03/2026 17:02

Just to add incase it hasn't been mentioned already, you can still get implantation bleeding around 5 weeks, so there is still a chance that is the cause of the brown discharge.
If you are going to do repeated tests (lots of us have been there), try to stick to the same brand as they are not that reliable to start with, and all a bit more/less sensitive than each other.

Have you phoned your EPU directly and asked if they do a walk in? (Some do, some don't).

My EPU doesn't do walk ins or self referrals.

The good news (for me) is that my nhs GP finally saw me and my partner after I sent them an email with the details of my situation: bleeding with clots followed by light hpt. The email was a suggestion of my private insurance midwife.

I want to add here that both the midwife and GP from my private insurance advice service said I should be seen face to face given the bleeding before a positive test, and that I should push for the NHS GP appointment or go to A&E anyways. I didn't want to go to A&E because I'm not in pain and I don't feel comfortable taking space from real emergencies, but I did want someone to see and hear me.

My local NHS GP agreed that I should have been offered an appointment for triage as there was bleeding and that the tests are not strong enough for 5 weeks. He also agreed that now I am being monitored so if I develop new symptoms I can be booked in with the EPU straight away.

Anyways, thanks everyone for their suggestions! Including those who think this is a pavalova and not a real thing to worry about. This is/was my very first pregnancy and I don't have friends nearby and sadly never had a mum, so no one to reach out for advice other than the health care providers.

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InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 03/03/2026 17:10

Try a different NHS GP. You’re allowed to get a second opinion. Be very clear what you’re asking for and why (EPU referral to monitor HCG due to classic signs of ectopic pregnancy).

Starrynight11 · 03/03/2026 17:09

Some of these responses are really unnecessarily harsh! Have a little bit of sympathy people!!!

OP you are right to feel concerned given how many people are let down my the NHS in these types of situations. I don't have any experience or what the 'correct' protocol is but don't let these people make you feel bad for wanting to advocate for yourself!

Sending you support. Whatever you are going through sounds tough and I hope you get some answers soon x

Foodylicious · 03/03/2026 17:02

Just to add incase it hasn't been mentioned already, you can still get implantation bleeding around 5 weeks, so there is still a chance that is the cause of the brown discharge.
If you are going to do repeated tests (lots of us have been there), try to stick to the same brand as they are not that reliable to start with, and all a bit more/less sensitive than each other.

Have you phoned your EPU directly and asked if they do a walk in? (Some do, some don't).

PolyVagalNerve · 03/03/2026 16:55

Usernamenotfound1 · 03/03/2026 14:49

Home tests aren’t quantitative though.

they differ from brand to brand and even test to test. Whether you’re hydrated or not.

you can’t say what your HCG level is based on a home test. You could more easily conclude your hydration is erratic or your kidney function is.

you’re testing at different times of day as well so that will have a significant effect.

blood tests aren’t quantitative though pointless. Even if your HCG is not doing what is expected the answer will be to wait until a scan before any action. So why waste your time and money, and the NHS’s, for no difference in outcome.

waiting is the best course of action.

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Agree with this
stop with the tests in the meantime

Akemi · 03/03/2026 16:51

cestlavielife · 03/03/2026 16:13

Stop testing yourself. Relax.
If you get any pain go to a and e.
Otherwise wait til further along.
You need to stop all this self testing and obsessing. It is not helping you at all.

You will get real things to stress about.
This is not it.
Take it week by week.
Any real symptoms like pain or bleeding go to a and e

I'm sorry that you have or had things that are worrying and stressing in your life, but that doesn't make mine any less "real". I hope things are going well now.

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WhatAPavalova · 03/03/2026 16:15

Usernamenotfound1 · 03/03/2026 14:01

As frustrating as it is though, sometimes the best thing to do is nothing.

there is nothing you can do to change the outcome. Noting will help you keep the pregnancy, nothing you can do to stop you losing it.

only time will help.

there’s no point in doing bloods either as again that won’t change your treatment or the outcome. Whatever your HCG is doing, there’s nothing you can do about it but wait.

there’s only thing you can do is wait until you’re far enough along that a scan will assist in managing a possible loss. Which is about 6-8 weeks. In fact the longer you do nothing the easier it will be to manage- too early and you’ll just be sent away to come back when something shows itself.

if it is ectopic again nothing you can do until a scan or you get pain etc. think about it- this early it’s not as if they can remove both tubes just in case it’s an ectopic, you have to wait until it’s seen.

This

cestlavielife · 03/03/2026 16:13

Stop testing yourself. Relax.
If you get any pain go to a and e.
Otherwise wait til further along.
You need to stop all this self testing and obsessing. It is not helping you at all.

You will get real things to stress about.
This is not it.
Take it week by week.
Any real symptoms like pain or bleeding go to a and e

Akemi · 03/03/2026 16:06

MocktailMe · 03/03/2026 15:58

Also, to commenters stating there is no point doing bloods, that is incorrect. If the HCG is rising, even if nothing can be seen on a scan, they can and will use methotrexate after identifying the pattern for long enough. Similarly, they can and will do investigative lap if needed, again if nothing is seen on a scan and yet the HCG is monitored to be rising over a period of time.

Without taking the bloods you can present at 6 weeks pregnant, see nothing on a scan, and be told you are probably less pregnant than expected, nothing to worry about. With bloods taken you can be certain that isn't the case.

Also, I'm really sorry to hear you went through this twice 😔 I hope in the end you had the outcome you desired.

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Akemi · 03/03/2026 16:05

MocktailMe · 03/03/2026 15:52

Hi OP as someone whose had two confirmed ectopics that both followed this exact pattern I understand your concerns.

Bleeding followed by a string of positive faint tests (later than expected) is absolutely an ectopic red flag.

What should be happening here is beta HCG tests. If the HCG is stagnating, or falling then rising again, or rising slowly, that is another key indicator of ectopic.

Whilst a previous poster is correct that they will be unable to see anything on scan at early stages (or until HCG reaches roughly 1500), a pregnancy with abnormally rising or stagnating HCG that cannot be seen on US is treated as pregnancy of unknown location.

This needs to then be monitored, as if HCG rises, and it is indeed ectopic, it will rupture.

In your shoes OP (and I've been in your shoes where I've been unsure if it's ectopic pregnancy or miscarriage - and I've had both happen) I would be going to EPU and asking for HCG blood tests.

If it's diagnosed as PUL, then whilst you wait to see the outcome, you'll be able to be monitored to keep you safe.

I understand you hoping it's a chemical pregnancy. Obviously you hope for a happy ongoing pregnancy, but if it isn't, then the best you can hope for is chemical.

Good luck x

Thank you so much for your comments. I cried a little reading it and it feels that someone is at least validating my concerns.

Your explanation regarding betas is exactly the protocol my private insurance gp mentioned. But she also said that unfortunately only my NHS GP can issue the referral... hence my breakdown after being told by the NHS GP over the phone that they can't help.

Honestly, thank you.

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MocktailMe · 03/03/2026 15:58

Also, to commenters stating there is no point doing bloods, that is incorrect. If the HCG is rising, even if nothing can be seen on a scan, they can and will use methotrexate after identifying the pattern for long enough. Similarly, they can and will do investigative lap if needed, again if nothing is seen on a scan and yet the HCG is monitored to be rising over a period of time.

Without taking the bloods you can present at 6 weeks pregnant, see nothing on a scan, and be told you are probably less pregnant than expected, nothing to worry about. With bloods taken you can be certain that isn't the case.

MocktailMe · 03/03/2026 15:52

Hi OP as someone whose had two confirmed ectopics that both followed this exact pattern I understand your concerns.

Bleeding followed by a string of positive faint tests (later than expected) is absolutely an ectopic red flag.

What should be happening here is beta HCG tests. If the HCG is stagnating, or falling then rising again, or rising slowly, that is another key indicator of ectopic.

Whilst a previous poster is correct that they will be unable to see anything on scan at early stages (or until HCG reaches roughly 1500), a pregnancy with abnormally rising or stagnating HCG that cannot be seen on US is treated as pregnancy of unknown location.

This needs to then be monitored, as if HCG rises, and it is indeed ectopic, it will rupture.

In your shoes OP (and I've been in your shoes where I've been unsure if it's ectopic pregnancy or miscarriage - and I've had both happen) I would be going to EPU and asking for HCG blood tests.

If it's diagnosed as PUL, then whilst you wait to see the outcome, you'll be able to be monitored to keep you safe.

I understand you hoping it's a chemical pregnancy. Obviously you hope for a happy ongoing pregnancy, but if it isn't, then the best you can hope for is chemical.

Good luck x

BudgetBuster · 03/03/2026 15:02

Akemi · 03/03/2026 14:56

Thank you for your suggestion. I will look into the early scan for sure.

I think I was getting frustrated because my GP didn't even offer to book an appointment to discuss my concerns when I called, and they completely dismissed me saying they can't help and to go to A&E.

I only have a picture of these unfortunately. I took a digital on Saturday which put me at 1-2 weeks but I know based on when we last had sex that I should be further along if this was a normal pregnancy.

I think you need to take a breather here for a second. A GP literally cannot do anything. It'd be a complete waste of time.. and then you'd probably be getting yourself in a spin that they didn't help you (despite the fact that they literally can't do anything).

I would recommend you step away from the tests for awhile as I think you are working yourself up into a bit of a tizz to be honest which won't help anything.

If this is a chemical / early loss then unfortunately there's nothing to do but wait. But hopefully it'll be just an unexpected pregnancy. It actually sounds like you may have had implantation bleeding last week on the Tuesday. Brown blood is usually old blood just getting dislodged and wouldn't be a cause for concern to the medical community.

Nothing suggests an ectopic pregnancy though.

Akemi · 03/03/2026 15:00

I get that there is a protocol but when I called my GP they didn't even offer to see me, they just dismissed me on the phone. I think that is what made me feel so hopeless and scared.

That and also the countless of posts I've read here and in other platforms about people that had a very similar chain of events and tests that turned out to be an ectopic only diagnosed when it ruptured.

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Akemi · 03/03/2026 15:00

LuckyDuck93 · 03/03/2026 14:51

You've said all it takes it action from them but they will have a specific criteria for referral to EPU, in my area they wont refer anyone until at least 6 weeks, regardless of how long it would then take to be scanned.
I understand your frustration, it feels like there is no-one to help in that 4-6 week window, I felt the same when I was spotting, but there would be nothing they could see on a scan anyway. I know how scary it can be, when I mentioned brown spotting for 4 days to my midwife she didn't seem in the slightest bit concerned as it wasnt red/getting heavier, to me it had felt terrifying but to her she said it was totally normal

I get that there is a protocol but when I called my GP they didn't even offer to see me, they just dismissed me on the phone. I think that is what made me feel so hopeless and scared.

That and also the countless of posts I've read here and in other platforms about people that had a very similar chain of events and tests that turned out to be an ectopic only diagnosed when it ruptured.

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Akemi · 03/03/2026 14:56

BudgetBuster · 03/03/2026 14:40

Do you have other tests that aren't in the pictures shown? The ones you've uploaded aren't erratic... they clearly show progression from Saturday through Tuesday.

If it would help you to settle, perhaps you could book a private scan from window to the womb or something similar after the 6/7 week mark?

From what yigve uploaded, there's no reason to get bloods (I only asked about this because you keep referring to erratic HCG, but I don't see anything to confirm this).

ETA: I think you are picking up on the Monday 11.30am line being slightly darker.... but the a different test brands than all the others so isn't comparable.

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Thank you for your suggestion. I will look into the early scan for sure.

I think I was getting frustrated because my GP didn't even offer to book an appointment to discuss my concerns when I called, and they completely dismissed me saying they can't help and to go to A&E.

I only have a picture of these unfortunately. I took a digital on Saturday which put me at 1-2 weeks but I know based on when we last had sex that I should be further along if this was a normal pregnancy.

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LuckyDuck93 · 03/03/2026 14:51

You've said all it takes it action from them but they will have a specific criteria for referral to EPU, in my area they wont refer anyone until at least 6 weeks, regardless of how long it would then take to be scanned.
I understand your frustration, it feels like there is no-one to help in that 4-6 week window, I felt the same when I was spotting, but there would be nothing they could see on a scan anyway. I know how scary it can be, when I mentioned brown spotting for 4 days to my midwife she didn't seem in the slightest bit concerned as it wasnt red/getting heavier, to me it had felt terrifying but to her she said it was totally normal

Usernamenotfound1 · 03/03/2026 14:49

Akemi · 03/03/2026 14:37

I think this is the whole point of my rant. I haven't had blood tests as 111 and my GP said they can't refer me for any of these services.

I feel they are erratic because on Saturday I had a very clear line which was barely visible on Sunday. Then on Monday I had an even stronger line than the one of Saturday but it has gone to light today. Is the erratic pattern that raises concerns of ectopic.

Home tests aren’t quantitative though.

they differ from brand to brand and even test to test. Whether you’re hydrated or not.

you can’t say what your HCG level is based on a home test. You could more easily conclude your hydration is erratic or your kidney function is.

you’re testing at different times of day as well so that will have a significant effect.

blood tests aren’t quantitative though pointless. Even if your HCG is not doing what is expected the answer will be to wait until a scan before any action. So why waste your time and money, and the NHS’s, for no difference in outcome.

waiting is the best course of action.

BudgetBuster · 03/03/2026 14:40

Akemi · 03/03/2026 14:37

I think this is the whole point of my rant. I haven't had blood tests as 111 and my GP said they can't refer me for any of these services.

I feel they are erratic because on Saturday I had a very clear line which was barely visible on Sunday. Then on Monday I had an even stronger line than the one of Saturday but it has gone to light today. Is the erratic pattern that raises concerns of ectopic.

Do you have other tests that aren't in the pictures shown? The ones you've uploaded aren't erratic... they clearly show progression from Saturday through Tuesday.

If it would help you to settle, perhaps you could book a private scan from window to the womb or something similar after the 6/7 week mark?

From what yigve uploaded, there's no reason to get bloods (I only asked about this because you keep referring to erratic HCG, but I don't see anything to confirm this).

ETA: I think you are picking up on the Monday 11.30am line being slightly darker.... but the a different test brands than all the others so isn't comparable.

Akemi · 03/03/2026 14:37

BudgetBuster · 03/03/2026 14:32

I'm not sure where you are getting the idea that your HCG is going up and down and is erratic? Have you had blood tests that determine this?

If you put the Sunday and Tuesday pregnancy tests next to eachother, there is a clear difference (showing that HCG increased in that 24hr period).

I think this is the whole point of my rant. I haven't had blood tests as 111 and my GP said they can't refer me for any of these services.

I feel they are erratic because on Saturday I had a very clear line which was barely visible on Sunday. Then on Monday I had an even stronger line than the one of Saturday but it has gone to light today. Is the erratic pattern that raises concerns of ectopic.

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