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TTCbaby4 · 16/02/2026 15:20

Hello, just looking for some advice and I guess, somewhere to offload!

Me and DH are currently trying to conceive baby number 4, but, I haven't had a period since August 2025.

February 3rd - February 7th 2026, I noticed spotting when I wiped. Pinky, very light, then some very pale orangey, and also some tinged in clear cervical fluid.

One app suggested this was my fertile period..

Another suggested it was my period.

February 5th I started using clear blue digital ovulation tests and on the 5th - empty circle
On 6th I got a 'Still smiley' so, DTD.

Had full, heavy feelings in right side ovary (my dominant ovary) then and since then, but tracking LH with premom tests, all showing 'low' (Highest 0.42)

Cervical mucus now 'thin, lotiony, but I'd class as drying fast or, on the drier side ' on 16th February.

I've been wanting to implement the shettles method but, obviously without having had a period of a structure to my cycle, I'm struggling.

So, feeling a little depleted with attempts.

Anyone else had these struggles with not knowing if or when you'll have a period or ovulate?

I feel like I'm wasting my time.

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laesosalt · 18/05/2026 11:09

@TTCbaby4 @Creepyoctopus Hope you’re both ok. Onto the next cycle and I have all crossed it’s a good one 🥰

I’ve just done a test and it’s negative x

Creepyoctopus · 17/05/2026 23:12

@TTCbaby4 hey i came on my period the same day full swing has the worst period pains as well, eh onto next month i guess

@laesosalt fingers crossed for you xx

TTCbaby4 · 16/05/2026 19:49

Thank you, I hope so! I'm going to try and wait it out each cycle from now on, as easy as that is to say now, haha!

One time or not, I'll hold some hope for you!!

maybe try and hold out this cycle and see if AF comes in a few days.. then you've saved yourself a test ! Personally, I'm sick of using tests early now , Im holding off till 12dpo from now on 😂

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laesosalt · 16/05/2026 19:28

@TTCbaby4 That is wonderful news despite the obvious. I am sure your body is preparing for your baby very soon 🤗 If you enjoy a wine, I hope you are enjoying one!

I was going to test but holding off now as don’t feel it’s likely. I’m roughly 10dpo today so I may cave but do feel AF is approaching. To be fair we only had unprotected sex once after just deciding to go for it. Next month I’ll be on the OPK’s 😂😉

We have got this xx

TTCbaby4 · 16/05/2026 18:57

Hey @laesosalt - have you tested? Sorry I forgot how many DPO you were but remember you said maybe you'd test on Saturday..?

I'm very much on my period now but, grateful in a way to know there's some sort of hormonal activity after so long without having any. This will be my second very obvious period since TTC number 4, so, sad it's come around, but, it's okay because it means the vitamins and healthier eating since November has been beneficial for my hormones!

Looking forward to hearing if you were lucky this month ! I have fingers crossed for you x 🤞🏻

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laesosalt · 16/05/2026 16:28

Happy weekend all. I’m feeling period cramps so not feeling hopeful! How is everyone?

laesosalt · 15/05/2026 07:30

Sending hugs @TTCbaby4 💕

TTCbaby4 · 15/05/2026 07:28

I came on my period today 👎🏻 boooo.

Good luck ladies. 💛

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laesosalt · 14/05/2026 12:11

@TTCbaby4 Keep us posted on how the next few days go 🥰

I’m 8dpo today and got the occasional tingly boobs and tired but nothing else screaming out at me. I’m solo parenting all this week so probably just down to that 😂

I think I’ll test Saturday when the husband is home!

TTCbaby4 · 14/05/2026 08:24

I took a frer test this morning and negative so, I think I'm out. App says period in 3 days so will have to see how well that lines up with predictions!

How's everyone else doing?

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TTCbaby4 · 13/05/2026 14:49

It's still early in the cycle, @Creepyoctopus , test again in a few days if your period doesn't show!

I'm thinking it's going to be more of a hormonal thing because I've been so unregulated recently.

As for the semen situ. I've had the same at times.
Try and tilt your hips/bum up after, maybe have a cushion under your bum, to tilt you for a little while after so that you're angled upwards or, have your legs up the wall, in the air for about 5 minutes after 🤣 find a way to keep it in, like a human vase 💀

it supposedly only needs a minute or so to get into the cervix where it's 'safe'. Then the remaining liquid comes out.

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Creepyoctopus · 13/05/2026 14:33

@laesosalt hey im good how are you?

@TTCbaby4 that sounds quiet promising if you ask me fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

i took a test this morning BFN which i expected I just didn’t think this month would be out month, it’s a bit of a weird one but i always find after me and my partner dtd i feel like all his semen comes out and no matter what i do i can’t get it to stay in, i have googled it and it always says the same thing that its normal for “some” to come out but it’s definitely not “some” it’s definitely most if not all of it i feel like this is a reason im struggling to get pregnant, hmm not sure my heads a bit going wild feeling a bit deflated today

i got pregnant last November, and it was one of the only times that i can remember that it all didn’t come out from what i can remember

TTCbaby4 · 13/05/2026 13:14

@laesosalt Afternoon all!

I had some light, 'periody' feelings, and light cramps yesterday evening around 6pm,
followed by literally one tiny spot of pink blood on some tissue later in the evening after a wee.
literally the tiniest amount, think poppy seed size. I thought it was odd.

Then after another wee before bed, noticed two small perfectly pink spots of blood, again,
light and very small on the tissue.

I wasn't quite sure what to make of it as my cycle has been all over the place this month, from ovulation happening much later than my app suggested, but, I put that down to hormones having a wobble after having my first proper period in a long while, at the start of this cycle.

I'm unsure if it's possibly implantation bleeding, or just progesterone dropping and my period gearing up to start at some point, but so far nothing seen today, so who knows.

It's unusual for me, I've only ever noticed 'implantation bleeding/spotting' when I had a chemical in February, but not with any of my previous pregnancies.

I'm going to give it another day or two and see if there's any more progression or changes to note,
it's my husbands birthday on the 15th so, I'll probably test on the morning of the 16th so not to disappoint myself and him all day on his birthday, or waste a 'good' test! 🤣

How are you and @Creepyoctopus feeling today?

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laesosalt · 13/05/2026 12:24

How are you both today? @TTCbaby4 @Creepyoctopus

TTCbaby4 · 12/05/2026 15:15

laesosalt · 12/05/2026 14:24

@TTCbaby4 Ahhhh once you get those tests let us know! Still early days, keep hopeful ☺️

I’m only 6dpo 🫠 I’ve picked up some tests ready for testing later this week but gosh it’s a pain waiting haha. We literally only DTD once in my fertile window so not getting too hopeful but my third was a one hit wonder so we’ll see 😂

The waiting in the tww is like no other 😂

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TTCbaby4 · 12/05/2026 14:57

@laesosalt yes my youngest was a one hit wonder 😂 I had high and naive hopes this time around, clearly haha.

@Creepyoctopus I felt the same about having a baby around September - December, we have September and October kids and our wedding anniversary is October, then with Christmas in December.. it's all getting a bit expensive 😂 but, future cycles are clear with now being in and around the February due dates onwards, but yeah I think after this cycle, I'm going to stop buying pregnancy tests and just track the ovulation and write down any patterns I noticed cycle to cycle, rather than try and make sense of things online 😂

Every pregnancy I've had I've just 'known' before the positive test, because I could almost feel it, some how, super early on.

But oddly, this time around I just feel it's not happening, I think I'm worried more with the older I get too 😂

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Creepyoctopus · 12/05/2026 14:27

@TTCbaby4same here tbh we only have a few more months Of Trying then we are having To take a brake as all my 3 children are born very very close together and i don’t want another baby born around the same time, im 9dpo so i think you are 10 now i personally wont buy any better test unless i got a positive on a cheap test then i got a bit nuts.

same I’ve definitely lost hope i really don't think this month is my month i just get an intuition, in fairness last time i got pregnant i had no symptoms whatsoever but i did get a very very small amount of bleeding about 9dpo so don’t give up hope x

laesosalt · 12/05/2026 14:24

@TTCbaby4 Ahhhh once you get those tests let us know! Still early days, keep hopeful ☺️

I’m only 6dpo 🫠 I’ve picked up some tests ready for testing later this week but gosh it’s a pain waiting haha. We literally only DTD once in my fertile window so not getting too hopeful but my third was a one hit wonder so we’ll see 😂

TTCbaby4 · 12/05/2026 12:21

@laesosalt you're in the 3 boys club I see! 😂🫶🏻
And @Creepyoctopus two of each would be lovely for you,

I'm girl hopeful but I just want to be pregnant now, I know it's only my 3rd cycle (I think) but it feels like it's going to be a long journey.

I can't work out if I'm actually 9 or 10dpo today but, I didn't realise that my 'sensitive tests' were all used up so, I've had to order some so, I won't be able to test until they arrive, though, I'm losing a bit of hope on my end this cycle 🫠 I thought I'd have some symptoms or something, I'm a bit convinced my cycles are a little too wobbly to have a successful month yet.

How long have you got to wait , what do are you @laesosalt ?

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Creepyoctopus · 11/05/2026 16:16

@laesosalt aww boys are just the best. Well fingers crossed, it’ll be my partners first baby so i don’t think he really minds but there are no boys on his side so i know his parents would love a grandson,

it’s worth trying that’s what i thought anyway and same it’s going slow I’m not too hopeful for this month but still keeping my fingers crossed

laesosalt · 11/05/2026 16:06

@Creepyoctopus I have three boys! Awww wow you could have a beautiful set up with two of each 🥰

I’ll definitely look into it more! Yeah all fine here thank you. Just wanting time to speed up 🤣

Creepyoctopus · 11/05/2026 14:52

@laesosalt what do you have currently? I’ve got 2 girls and a boy, would love a boy but happy either way,

same that’s why i started doing it as i heard it can confirm pregnancy as well as ovulation just thought it might be worth it I’m doing okay today how are you?

laesosalt · 11/05/2026 14:32

@TTCbaby4 Sending all the positive vibes your way. A little girl would be wonderful amongst the three boys. How are you feeling today?

My husband would love a girl but I’m content with either. We found out the sex for all 3 so I recon we will leave this a surprise. Just hoping it happens quickly 🤞🏼

@Creepyoctopus I’ve never done BBT but hear so many doing it! How are you today?

TTCbaby4 · 11/05/2026 14:28

Thanks ladies!

@laesosalt Thank you! Its been fun! 🎉

This is my 3rd cycle, Ive had one chemical since trying, but period to starting I hadn't had a period in about 6 months or so, so my cycles have been unpredictable! As for you, it only takes one time, well timed so! Fingers crossed for you. We only done it once when TTC our current youngest, as Ovulation lined up right when we decided to try! - I've always wanted boys to keep my other boys company, it's all I've known for 13 years, but now, I'm leaning towards a girl for my last, so, it really would be lovely.

What are your 3? Are you hoping for either or?

@Creepyoctopus

Thank you! 🎉

Yeah, it would be lovely to have a positive test this month, would feel very special!

I was doing BBT at the start, but I gave up because I couldn't consistently wake at the same time, and I couldn't tell whether I'd been moving around a lot at night as still night breastfeeding my 2 year old. So, it made charting too much of a headache 😂
The one I had connected the results to the premom app for tracking, I may give it another go if this cycle isn't successful but, I do find the more I add to it the more obsessive I get 😂

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Creepyoctopus · 10/05/2026 17:09

@TTCbaby4 happy belated birthday, i hope you had a lovely day it would be lovely if you got a positive test this month and happy birthday to your son

not much longer now and we can all start testing fingers crossed for us all i have start testing my temperature not really sure on how it works i think I’ve started it a bit late but hopefully i can try get into the routine of doing it anyone else do bbt? X