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3dpo anyone else?

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strawberry780 · 22/11/2025 12:25

Hi there ,
currently ttc I have secondary infertility. We lost our son after 5years trying in June this year.
anyone else in the 2week wait? X

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Moosey898 · 01/12/2025 13:59

Sorry to hear that @babydustx . I'm 8dpo currently and have a gut feeling I'm out. If I am then we wait and see if I'll be starting IVF in January as if we are, we won't be trying naturally in December. X

babydustx · 01/12/2025 13:53

Hello ladies, hope you’re all well? 11dpo and BFN for me today. Officially counting myself out so I can mentally move on ready for the dreaded AF to show up on Friday! xx

babydustx · 29/11/2025 19:06

@strawberry780i usually have AF 15dpo so similar to you. I also have AF like cramps this afternoon and I did last night too. My boobs feel so sore, but they normally do anyway before AF. I’ve got two frer left so i’ll test again in morning and then last one 11dpo xx

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strawberry780 · 29/11/2025 10:46

babydustx · 29/11/2025 09:24

Morning ladies!

@strawberry780 that easy@home test deffo looked positive, heartbreaking when there evaps! I had one very similar last cycle 😞

@Moosey898 sorry to hear about your experiences this is for sure a tough ride for you! Really hoping you get some well deserved good news soon!

@Christmascoffeee glad the miscarriage team have recognised you and are then when you do see that BFP to support you!

I’m 9dpo today, BFN on FRER so not feeling hopeful at all! LH is still high so no idea what’s going on and another BBT rise this morning. I had awful broken sleep tho was up with my toddler 1-3am 😖

Anymore testing today ladies? I’m feeling very disheartened like I do every cycle xx

I tested with frer 10dpo bfn. Got cramps today too I do have a long cycle so from day I ovulate 16days later I normally start cycle again. So I’m 6days away from period due 😩😩😩 not hopeful at all this month either 😔 xxx

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strawberry780 · 29/11/2025 10:44

Moosey898 · 29/11/2025 07:12

Ugh I'm so so sorry. Later losses like that are horrific, I know only too well unfortunately.

So I first started trying 9 years ago, tried with my ex for 2.5 years but had a missed miscarriage. We split up about 6 months later, so had a 3 year gap, then started trying again around 3 years ago with my partner now. Since then we've had 3 further missed miscarriages, then lost our baby girl at 22 weeks in September this year due to an infection. She was growing fine, but the infection could have killed me so they had to induce and she was too small to survive especially with the infection, which was the most devastating thing after all the other losses. Similar to yourself, getting so far after so much only to lose her totally broke us both xx

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I’m so sorry 😔 life is so cruel honestly 😩😩 I’m still so angry at the world for it tbh. Probs need therapy but it won’t bring him back so 🤷‍♀️
im sorry you know how it feels I really am ❤️

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babydustx · 29/11/2025 09:24

Morning ladies!

@strawberry780 that easy@home test deffo looked positive, heartbreaking when there evaps! I had one very similar last cycle 😞

@Moosey898 sorry to hear about your experiences this is for sure a tough ride for you! Really hoping you get some well deserved good news soon!

@Christmascoffeee glad the miscarriage team have recognised you and are then when you do see that BFP to support you!

I’m 9dpo today, BFN on FRER so not feeling hopeful at all! LH is still high so no idea what’s going on and another BBT rise this morning. I had awful broken sleep tho was up with my toddler 1-3am 😖

Anymore testing today ladies? I’m feeling very disheartened like I do every cycle xx

Moosey898 · 29/11/2025 07:12

strawberry780 · 28/11/2025 18:26

Oh that’s reassuring! I know it’s soo hard!
we tried for 4yrs then got pregnant naturally in feb this year and lost him at 22 weeks from a severe heart condition. We got the all clear that it wasn’t genetic or anything we did. But I just think what are the chances of waiting so long for him and then getting pregnant naturally to then losing him to an awful condition. 😔

how long have you been trying? Xx

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Ugh I'm so so sorry. Later losses like that are horrific, I know only too well unfortunately.

So I first started trying 9 years ago, tried with my ex for 2.5 years but had a missed miscarriage. We split up about 6 months later, so had a 3 year gap, then started trying again around 3 years ago with my partner now. Since then we've had 3 further missed miscarriages, then lost our baby girl at 22 weeks in September this year due to an infection. She was growing fine, but the infection could have killed me so they had to induce and she was too small to survive especially with the infection, which was the most devastating thing after all the other losses. Similar to yourself, getting so far after so much only to lose her totally broke us both xx

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strawberry780 · 28/11/2025 18:26

Moosey898 · 28/11/2025 15:13

How long did you say you've been trying now? It's so hard when it's just not happening.

I had my baseline scan at the fertility clinic today and have a good number of follicles and they could see I ovulated (from my left ovary) so it was nice and reassuring to know things looked good. And my uterus looked good and has a thick enough lining which I was also worried about because of losing our little girl - wasn't sure if things would be back to normal in there but it looks ok

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Oh that’s reassuring! I know it’s soo hard!
we tried for 4yrs then got pregnant naturally in feb this year and lost him at 22 weeks from a severe heart condition. We got the all clear that it wasn’t genetic or anything we did. But I just think what are the chances of waiting so long for him and then getting pregnant naturally to then losing him to an awful condition. 😔

how long have you been trying? Xx

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Moosey898 · 28/11/2025 15:13

strawberry780 · 28/11/2025 13:44

Same! I think so too 😔 starting to think we might need to see someone at the fertility clinic tbh xx

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How long did you say you've been trying now? It's so hard when it's just not happening.

I had my baseline scan at the fertility clinic today and have a good number of follicles and they could see I ovulated (from my left ovary) so it was nice and reassuring to know things looked good. And my uterus looked good and has a thick enough lining which I was also worried about because of losing our little girl - wasn't sure if things would be back to normal in there but it looks ok

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strawberry780 · 28/11/2025 13:44

Bubs94 · 28/11/2025 10:37

@Moosey898 im in this headspace too. 3dpo today and i just know im out this cycle c

Sending hugs! But we never know what will happen xx

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strawberry780 · 28/11/2025 13:44

Moosey898 · 28/11/2025 09:50

5dpo - surprisingly ok in terms of not wanting to test before at least 10dpo, but I also think that's because I've already made my mind up it'll be negative this month 🤷🏼‍♀️

Same! I think so too 😔 starting to think we might need to see someone at the fertility clinic tbh xx

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Bubs94 · 28/11/2025 10:37

@Moosey898 im in this headspace too. 3dpo today and i just know im out this cycle c

Moosey898 · 28/11/2025 09:50

5dpo - surprisingly ok in terms of not wanting to test before at least 10dpo, but I also think that's because I've already made my mind up it'll be negative this month 🤷🏼‍♀️

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strawberry780 · 28/11/2025 08:59

9dpo bfn 😩 how’s everyone getting on xx

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strawberry780 · 27/11/2025 17:55

Bubs94 · 27/11/2025 15:39

2dpo today. I hate the 2WW! I’m so impatient! I didn’t find my peak so I’m wondering if I even ovulated this month but covered a LOT of days over the ever changing fertile window🤞🏼

Wishing u the best of luck!!
it’s so hard isn’t it I symptom spot all the time it’s so annoying!! Xx

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strawberry780 · 27/11/2025 17:54

ajc1994 · 27/11/2025 10:22

I tested this morning at 9dpo and BFN !

Oh I’m so sorry! Don’t lose hope thot last pregnancy in feb I ovulated the 3rd feb got positive and a FAINT positive at 14dpo. And my son was born sleeping at 22 weeks. Don’t lose hope xxx

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Bubs94 · 27/11/2025 15:39

2dpo today. I hate the 2WW! I’m so impatient! I didn’t find my peak so I’m wondering if I even ovulated this month but covered a LOT of days over the ever changing fertile window🤞🏼

ajc1994 · 27/11/2025 10:22

I tested this morning at 9dpo and BFN !

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strawberry780 · 27/11/2025 09:20

Christmascoffeee · 27/11/2025 09:11

@babydustx thank you 🤗 no reasons found for the miscarriages yet but I'm now under the recurrent miscarriage so they'll see me, if/when I get pregnant again. Will you be testing this week?

@strawberry780 that line definitely looked pink, how disappointing! Its early days still though.

I'm only 6dpo today so trying to hold out testing until next week, ahhhh hate the wait!

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I hate the wait too! It’s soo hard 😩😩😩 xx

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Christmascoffeee · 27/11/2025 09:11

@babydustx thank you 🤗 no reasons found for the miscarriages yet but I'm now under the recurrent miscarriage so they'll see me, if/when I get pregnant again. Will you be testing this week?

@strawberry780 that line definitely looked pink, how disappointing! Its early days still though.

I'm only 6dpo today so trying to hold out testing until next week, ahhhh hate the wait!

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strawberry780 · 26/11/2025 20:06

Moosey898 · 26/11/2025 19:47

It looks a little grey...can you get hold of some other pink dye tests and take one from 9dpo onwards?

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Defo pink! But I took another and it was negative so defo a bad test 😩😩 xx

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Moosey898 · 26/11/2025 19:47

strawberry780 · 26/11/2025 19:35

Well I tested with Frer this afternoon completely negative (obviously)
then done a easy at home tonight and there’s a dark line within 5mins and it started off faint so I think it may be a dodgy batch 😩 xx I’m only 7dpo

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It looks a little grey...can you get hold of some other pink dye tests and take one from 9dpo onwards?

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strawberry780 · 26/11/2025 19:35

babydustx · 25/11/2025 21:35

@strawberry780 I’ll probably cave by 8dpo 🤣 what about you? x

Well I tested with Frer this afternoon completely negative (obviously)
then done a easy at home tonight and there’s a dark line within 5mins and it started off faint so I think it may be a dodgy batch 😩 xx I’m only 7dpo

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babydustx · 25/11/2025 21:35

@strawberry780 I’ll probably cave by 8dpo 🤣 what about you? x

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strawberry780 · 25/11/2025 20:13

babydustx · 25/11/2025 19:44

@strawberry780i’m trying so hard not to symptom spot either😬 My nipples are more sensitive but not painful, feeling really crampy today and bloated but I know it’s really too early!
I was so convinced one cycle I turned away a glass of Prosecco! Never again lol x

Haha! I just want to POAS!!
when will you start testing?
I really hope this our month🥹❤️ a little Christmas miracle xx

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