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TTC Baby #3 Not our first rodeo 🤠

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olivehush · 28/09/2025 15:05

I thought I’d start a thread for those TTC baby number 3 (and beyond, feel free to join!) It would be nice to share experiences. I feel like where I’m from 3 is the new 2 😅 but I’ve always felt like I wanted a bigger family anyway (I am 1 of 4!)

For background, DD1 has just turned 6 and DD2 has just turned 4. I’m on cycle #2, AF due in a couple of days but I’m testing BFN so roll on cycle #3. I was really hoping to catch before November so baby would only be 4 school years behind DD2 🙈 but what will be will be!

DD1 took 15 cycles

DD2 took 1 cycle

Anyone else??? X

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Outside9 · 07/11/2025 21:56

@PoppyN919 congratulations and welcome! 😊

MamaO88 · 07/11/2025 19:50

Welcome @PoppyN919, lovely strong lines if AF is still 3-4 days away!

mummatara · 07/11/2025 18:21

@PoppyN919i actually dread to think how much money I’ve spent on tests over the years 😳 it’s scary to think about 😂

PoppyN919 · 07/11/2025 18:08

mummatara · 07/11/2025 17:57

@PoppyN919welcome 👋🏼 and congrats thats a lovely strong line 🥳

Thank you! I now need to not bankrupt myself on pregnancy tests over the coming weeks 😂😬

mummatara · 07/11/2025 17:57

@PoppyN919welcome 👋🏼 and congrats thats a lovely strong line 🥳

PoppyN919 · 07/11/2025 17:29

Hi all, have been following this thread for a couple of days!

My 2 children are 4&3, and just got an early BFP today! Still 3 or 4 days off AF, so watching and waiting hopefully.

Would be lovely to have some company on the journey. Sending good vibes to everyone - and nice to virtually meet you all.

TTC Baby #3 Not our first rodeo 🤠
mummatara · 07/11/2025 17:18

@Daisy42016oh I feel that pain my youngest is poorly and last few nights have been hellish 🫠 glad you got a static. Though I hate when you have a random cycle and there is no clue what happening 🤦🏼‍♀️

@olivehushoooh that’s good I’m sure hubby won’t complain 😂 but can be a bit tiring for you! I’ve just started getting fertile cm so I think mine will be around Tuesday/weds next week. We’re going away tomorrow for a night so least we’ll have that if there nothing else this cycle. Youngest being ill makes it hard to fit it in he keep waking up at the wrong moment 🙈

Outside9 · 07/11/2025 13:39

@olivehush Good luck! It's difficult isn't it as you never know for certain what's the best time to catch the egg.

I've been pretty good, until this morning where the nausea started to hit harder. I'm also very tired! Reality is finally setting and I'm having some "oh shit, this is happening" moments.

@mintrobin you're tough for holding out this long, well done!

MintRobin · 07/11/2025 12:26

@olivehush yep, have held out! CD31 today - app predicting period tomorrow. Ovulated CD18 from the tests. Haven't tested, just been waiting to see if AF arrives! If nothing today, then will test in the morning but trying not to get my hopes up!

Hope you're doing OK

MamaO88 · 07/11/2025 11:24

@olivehush I am struggling a bit!

Nausea/sickness is kicking my butt and my boobs are sooooo sore. I most definitely did not have either of these this early with my other 2 children.

On the one hand I’m grateful for symptoms as it is reassuring and helps me with knowing everything must be progressing ok. On the other hand I am knackered and feel lousy haha

Early scan is next weekend, still feels so long away!

Hope everyone else is well

Daisy42016 · 07/11/2025 11:07

Isn’t it so weird! Just for an update I got a solid smiley this morning 🤣 so strange. Day 26 of cycle now! I’ll let you know. No idea what’s going on

olivehush · 07/11/2025 10:57

Hi @Daisy42016 what a conundrum! Have you been poorly at all? Could be your geared up to O but didn’t actually. Or like others have said some people just get EWCM again in the TWW regardless! Hope you get some answers soon 🤔

sorry to here AF came @OliveRose2 be kind to yourself and don’t give up hope!

how are you getting on @MamaO88 and @Outside9 ?

Did you manage to hold out on testing @MintRobin ?

@mummatara I think I will O tomorrow on CD14 however since I last posted (CD8) I’ve had just one bit of EWCM every morning since, but none throughout the day at all! Had a bit more this morning, but again nothing since. I can just tell it’s going to be a bit harder to pinpoint this month…think I’m going just go gung ho on DH until next week and hope I catch it on the right day 🫠 sigh

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Daisy42016 · 06/11/2025 18:32

Thank you! It’s so strange. I tried bbt but my sleep was that bad with my toddler it wasn’t reliable either 🤦🏻‍♀️ I think it was effecting my temperature readings being up and down all night! It’s was clear and stretchy the first time, clear and stretchy day 20 with maybe a wee tiny bit of white and now it’s clear and stretchy with a bit of whiteness too but not overly cloudy any of the times, the first round (at day 13) was the clearest though definitely x

mummatara · 06/11/2025 18:28

@Daisy42016do you normally track ovulation or is this first cycle? I take it you don’t bbt? The CB tests will think you have started a new cycle so they won’t now go static until you get another peak. When I used them and looked at the actual tests they were always darker than a standard opk test would have been I don’t think you can go off what the line looks like on them as reliable. I get quite watery fertile CM after O when I’ve been pregnant so that could be a possibility just too early. Even though the CM is EW is it clear or does it have a cloudy appearance?

Daisy42016 · 06/11/2025 18:16

Thank you for replying! I started day 9 (got a positive day 13) and then continued again (at day 16) due to the continuing symptoms/ discharge! It came up a negative (solid circle) but the strip itself was 100% positive for an lh surge but I know it resets to a blank circle anyway when you start again, then continued to test and have had flashing smileys since 🤦🏻‍♀️ along with ewcm that’s really stretchy - so strange! I haven’t had this before

mummatara · 06/11/2025 18:13

@OliveRose2sorry lovely I must have missed your update. I’m sorry AF showed up she sucks 😢 how long have you been trying? I can’t remember if you said now x

mummatara · 06/11/2025 18:12

@Daisy42016do you have any strip opks rather than clear blue? Clear blue are good but you have to be very specific about when you start them. You can’t just pick them up whenever and do a random test it won’t show a peak like that you have to start the day it tells you to and do them every day until you get your static. Or it just thinks you’re starting a new cycle. When did you start using them? Also have you had a feel of your cervix? How does it feel and is it far back or low down?

Daisy42016 · 06/11/2025 18:05

Me again and very Confused!

I had ewcm and cramps day 13 of cycle, ewcm and cramps day 20 of my cycle - both had positive lh surges, I am now fay 25 and have more ewcm/ stretchy discharge but just a bit more of white in it and have a flashing clear blue smiley - any insight as to what on earth is going on😬 negative pregnancy test too!

Outside9 · 04/11/2025 08:44

Daisy42016 · 03/11/2025 10:56

Hi all! Back again, thanks for the advice! My LH surged again Saturday morning 😭 we BD 0230 on Saturday morning but that was our only chance! I must have failed ovulation during the first peak 🤦🏻‍♀️do you think I’m out? Sooo annoying!

LH peak indicates ovulation is about to occur over the next 12-36hours. So it's likely you did it at the right time.

OliveRose2 · 04/11/2025 08:42

@MamaO88 that looks like good progression to me - totally get feeling anxious though, it's so hard to have no control over how things go!

@olivehush i've had the same question about when to count as D1, and I think the usual advice is not to count the spotting, and just count d1 from when normal flow starts.

I just had my period start this morning so feeling quite deflated. Think I might just have to accept that it's too late for me but so hard to accept as got pregnant so quickly with my last one (which I miscarried) :(

Daisy42016 · 03/11/2025 11:03

This was Saturday morn lh test and clear blue said it was negative!

TTC Baby #3 Not our first rodeo 🤠
Daisy42016 · 03/11/2025 11:01

Was this my true one or could it pick up super early pregnancy hormone (I read about this). I’m so annoyed because the first time we BD loads! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Daisy42016 · 03/11/2025 10:56

Hi all! Back again, thanks for the advice! My LH surged again Saturday morning 😭 we BD 0230 on Saturday morning but that was our only chance! I must have failed ovulation during the first peak 🤦🏻‍♀️do you think I’m out? Sooo annoying!

MintRobin · 03/11/2025 10:48

@olivehush doing OK thanks! Think I'm 9dpo today, but holding out on testing! Due AF by the weekend so will test Fri or Sat if nothing appears by then.

I also count from first day of bleeding; i usually spot the day before then bleed the following day and count that as CD1

mummatara · 03/11/2025 10:48

@Outside9my LP is only 11 days so can make cycles seem a fairly normal length. Before last DS my cycles were around 31/32 days O was around day 20/21 🙄 since having him I seem to be ovulating a little earlier not much but a little so my cycles actually are around 28/29 days now. I usually start testing CD14. I’m glad when we first started trying I tracked everything and learnt when it was because I would have been dtd at totally the wrong time if I hadn’t 🤦🏼‍♀️

@olivehushthey usually say spotting isn’t counted as day 1 it’s from your full bleed. Wow I think those vitamins are doing their thing then looks like you could be O right on time about day 14 ish? I usually get 5/6 days of fertile CM though usually only EW in the couple of days around O