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October 2025 - Halloween 🎃, colder weather and hoping for our BFP’s

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Iris2024 · 23/09/2025 20:47

Here you go ladies!

October TTC thread 🧡 I’m still to get AF and test but set up the group

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Mash0917 · 23/10/2025 06:02

GiveTheGoblinsSnacks · 23/10/2025 05:44

Morning everyone! After 15 months we have this! Last month was a chemical so hoping this little guy sticks!

Oh Congratulations!!! So happy for you! Praying its a happy and healthy pregnancy. ❤️❤️

GiveTheGoblinsSnacks · 23/10/2025 05:44

Morning everyone! After 15 months we have this! Last month was a chemical so hoping this little guy sticks!

October 2025  - Halloween 🎃, colder weather and hoping for our BFP’s
Iris2024 · 22/10/2025 23:01

EmeraldPie · 21/10/2025 08:09

Thanks so much lovely. Really sorry to hear about the miscarriages. It’s hard to stop overthinking everything and imagining what could go wrong but instead trying to enjoy the moment. X

Thank you ❤️ I’ve got my hycosy tomorrow to check my tubes and flush. I hope I get another BFP soon that stays around. Keep us updated on your pregnancy 🤍

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EmeraldPie · 21/10/2025 08:09

Iris2024 · 20/10/2025 23:50

As someone who has just been through two chemical miscarriages they say line progression is every 48 hours and yours are lovely. Like overwork said your pregnant lovely, enjoy the feeling! I know it’s hard as we worry! ❤️

Thanks so much lovely. Really sorry to hear about the miscarriages. It’s hard to stop overthinking everything and imagining what could go wrong but instead trying to enjoy the moment. X

GiveTheGoblinsSnacks · 21/10/2025 06:15

I’m wondering if I should test- day 27 of cycle and temp is 36.98. Had retching in the morning for a week and still have CM but also it’s quite nice living in limbo as a bit of hope.

Mash0917 · 21/10/2025 00:06

EmeraldPie · 20/10/2025 12:58

Hi ladies, I need some advice as this is my first pregnancy and also first time TTC. I tested last Friday when I was 11-12 DPO on a sensitive test and got a light positive.
Since then I’ve made sure on a CB digital and also a couple of other cheaper and less sensitive Boots tests. All positive. But I’ve been concerned as the lines still aren’t overly dark. (Even sometimes with first urine of day). The lines do appear fairly quick within a minute but now I would be 14-15 DPO so thought I’d do a comparison with today and the test on Friday so a min 48 hour difference.
I am just getting anxious as I want to know the pregnancy is progressing as it should but how long does it usually take before the lines are very dark?
should I stop testing as it’s causing me stress? :(

I’ve attached photo. Top is 11-12 DPO and bottom is today 14-15 DPO.
thank you everyone. X

The line progression looks good to me. I was worried with my line progression last month and ended up miscarrying at 6+5 weeks. That being said, I know a lot of women who had slower line progression and have healthy babies now. The only way of knowing is doing the quantitative hcg blood works, have you asked your GP for bloodworks? And also, like overwork and Iris said, you are pregnant right now. Enjoy the moments! Prayers for a sticky bun for you mumma! ❤️❤️

Iris2024 · 20/10/2025 23:50

EmeraldPie · 20/10/2025 12:58

Hi ladies, I need some advice as this is my first pregnancy and also first time TTC. I tested last Friday when I was 11-12 DPO on a sensitive test and got a light positive.
Since then I’ve made sure on a CB digital and also a couple of other cheaper and less sensitive Boots tests. All positive. But I’ve been concerned as the lines still aren’t overly dark. (Even sometimes with first urine of day). The lines do appear fairly quick within a minute but now I would be 14-15 DPO so thought I’d do a comparison with today and the test on Friday so a min 48 hour difference.
I am just getting anxious as I want to know the pregnancy is progressing as it should but how long does it usually take before the lines are very dark?
should I stop testing as it’s causing me stress? :(

I’ve attached photo. Top is 11-12 DPO and bottom is today 14-15 DPO.
thank you everyone. X

As someone who has just been through two chemical miscarriages they say line progression is every 48 hours and yours are lovely. Like overwork said your pregnant lovely, enjoy the feeling! I know it’s hard as we worry! ❤️

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overwork · 20/10/2025 13:04

I honestly don’t think you can use the lines to know how the pregnancy is progressing. The bottom one looks darker to me and they both look positive so I think that at least in this moment, you are 100% pregnant - congratulations!

EmeraldPie · 20/10/2025 12:58

Hi ladies, I need some advice as this is my first pregnancy and also first time TTC. I tested last Friday when I was 11-12 DPO on a sensitive test and got a light positive.
Since then I’ve made sure on a CB digital and also a couple of other cheaper and less sensitive Boots tests. All positive. But I’ve been concerned as the lines still aren’t overly dark. (Even sometimes with first urine of day). The lines do appear fairly quick within a minute but now I would be 14-15 DPO so thought I’d do a comparison with today and the test on Friday so a min 48 hour difference.
I am just getting anxious as I want to know the pregnancy is progressing as it should but how long does it usually take before the lines are very dark?
should I stop testing as it’s causing me stress? :(

I’ve attached photo. Top is 11-12 DPO and bottom is today 14-15 DPO.
thank you everyone. X

October 2025  - Halloween 🎃, colder weather and hoping for our BFP’s
underthethree · 20/10/2025 03:45

@Mash0917sounds like a plan!! Yeah im now second guessing myself about potentially testing on 9DPO. It feels a little early to be fair, it just happens to be a day off for me 😅 otherwise I’ll be testing midweek when I’m rushing around trying to get out the door for work.. but we’ll see! 😂 I love Halloween, so im hoping it’s a lucky month for us!

Mash0917 · 20/10/2025 03:02

underthethree · 20/10/2025 02:57

@Mash0917ahhh yes let’s be buddies 🥳 I can usually tell when I’m O as I get O pain. But I starting doubting myself the past 2-3 months so decided I’d get strips and track it this month to make sure. Nothing surprising, I did lend up O as usual on day 12/13. And my O pain was actually really painful this month. Like much more painful than most other months. So if I didn’t have the Lh tests, I still would have known 😅

I am considering only testing early if I get symptoms beforehand. In my previous pregnancy it was actually really noticeable to me (boobs felt heavy/painful which never happens to me outside of pregnancy/breastfeeding) and I swear I felt implantation happen 😂🫣 I waited to test until something like 11dpo and got a pretty strong positive then.

I am actually off work next Monday when I’ll be 9DPO so that’s why if I do test early it will probably be then 😂 but yeah, if no symptoms, then I won’t, because I don’t like the heartbreak 😪

I’ll keep you updated if I notice any symptoms throughout the week. Might be better to voice it here instead of caving and taking early tests! 😅

Sounds like a plan. I usually don't test till 10dpo. But let's tell each other if there is any symptoms. That's probably better than me going crazy overthinking.

underthethree · 20/10/2025 02:57

@Mash0917ahhh yes let’s be buddies 🥳 I can usually tell when I’m O as I get O pain. But I starting doubting myself the past 2-3 months so decided I’d get strips and track it this month to make sure. Nothing surprising, I did lend up O as usual on day 12/13. And my O pain was actually really painful this month. Like much more painful than most other months. So if I didn’t have the Lh tests, I still would have known 😅

I am considering only testing early if I get symptoms beforehand. In my previous pregnancy it was actually really noticeable to me (boobs felt heavy/painful which never happens to me outside of pregnancy/breastfeeding) and I swear I felt implantation happen 😂🫣 I waited to test until something like 11dpo and got a pretty strong positive then.

I am actually off work next Monday when I’ll be 9DPO so that’s why if I do test early it will probably be then 😂 but yeah, if no symptoms, then I won’t, because I don’t like the heartbreak 😪

I’ll keep you updated if I notice any symptoms throughout the week. Might be better to voice it here instead of caving and taking early tests! 😅

Mash0917 · 20/10/2025 02:43

underthethree · 20/10/2025 02:40

@Mash0917 so sorry to hear about your early miscarriage ❤️ great that you were able to track your OD and also dtd! Best of luck to you in this tww! ❤️ I am 2DPO (tracked Ovulation with strip tests for the first time ever this month). We managed to dtd 2days before, 1 day before, and day of ovulation. Was hoping to dtd once or twice more in the following 12-24hrs but it didn’t happen 😂 but I’m hopeful we have covered our bases with our efforts 😂

I think I might test at 9DPO but I’ll see closer to the time. Do you plan on testing early? I tested early 2 cycles ago, and found it upsetting getting negatives, so then I didn’t test at all last cycle, and actually felt better about it. But I think I’m ready to test early again this month 😂🫣 so we’ll see. It’s a rollercoaster.

@underthethree, Thanks. I usually track my opk with clearblue digital test. They are pretty awesome. But I can always exactly pinpoint my O day because I have endo, and my O day involves pain worse than period cramps.
We are cycle buddies, yey!! Let's encourage each other throughout the tww to NOT test too early. :-p

underthethree · 20/10/2025 02:40

@Mash0917 so sorry to hear about your early miscarriage ❤️ great that you were able to track your OD and also dtd! Best of luck to you in this tww! ❤️ I am 2DPO (tracked Ovulation with strip tests for the first time ever this month). We managed to dtd 2days before, 1 day before, and day of ovulation. Was hoping to dtd once or twice more in the following 12-24hrs but it didn’t happen 😂 but I’m hopeful we have covered our bases with our efforts 😂

I think I might test at 9DPO but I’ll see closer to the time. Do you plan on testing early? I tested early 2 cycles ago, and found it upsetting getting negatives, so then I didn’t test at all last cycle, and actually felt better about it. But I think I’m ready to test early again this month 😂🫣 so we’ll see. It’s a rollercoaster.

Mash0917 · 20/10/2025 02:26

Iris2024 · 19/10/2025 10:57

My period has arrived 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Never thought I would celebrate AF arriving!

Yess!! Great news. You can find your balance now. And start trying again when you feel ready! I'm happy for you. ❤️❤️

Iris2024 · 19/10/2025 10:57

My period has arrived 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Never thought I would celebrate AF arriving!

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Mash0917 · 19/10/2025 06:37

@Iris2024, I'm so sorry you are going through this. Can you see your gp to get some help with your periods?

Mash0917 · 19/10/2025 06:27

Hello ladies, cheking back in after the early miscarriage on 1st October. I gave myself a little break from the stress of this to heal. It took me a week to bleed out and another week for my hcg levels to go down to negative. Until CD 15 there was nothing, not even the slightest lh surge. Then CD 16 I had a straight up peak fertility on the Clearblue digital opk along with ewcm, my endo cramps and all. It was a very strong and painful ovulation for around 24 hours and then the lh surge went completely down just as fast. We did manage to dtd twice in the meantime though, (we are on a romantic weekend away now, that helped. :-p) So here I am, on a very tentative 1 dpo. Anyone else on 1/2 dpo now?

CatsMcGoo · 18/10/2025 13:45

I’ve been reading the conception board for a while now and thought I’d finally jump in and say hi!
It’s CD1 of our 5th cycle TTC baby 2. I know 4 months isn’t a long time in the grand scheme of things. It took 12 months for DS. I really thought last cycle was the one though until I saw my BBT drop 2 days ago.
I’m doing OPKs and BBT, both of which indicate I’m ovulating, but I’m going to switch to digitals this month, and try Conceive Plus as well. And also reduce caffeine and sugar!

Best of luck to those still in their 2ww!

Iris2024 · 18/10/2025 09:26

GiveTheGoblinsSnacks · 17/10/2025 07:38

Hi Lovely, we never got a postive test but showed my charts to our fertility expert and she confirmed it. Took three cycles for normality to return. The middle one was 41 days which was really scary as everything online said it was the start of the menopause.
I had another chemical on my last cycle but our fertility expert thinks this will be a normal cycle. I’m currently 8DPO according to my temperature and CM.
wishing you all the best- this is month 15 for us- it’s hard to feel hopeful but trying to cling onto hope.

Thank you for your message lovely. Yeah I was pregnant August and had lines and digital for over a week then bled, then high LH tests since and then got faint lines again so a second chemical (faint shadow lines from 23rd September to 8th October) head f**k! 😂😂

Still no AF and I’m on CD48. I think I have had a second chemical as my pregnancy tests are clear and now my OPK tests are really really light and low FINALLY!!!!! So I’ll either ovulate now or AF will come. Who knows lol! I cant book my hycosy until I bleed.

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GiveTheGoblinsSnacks · 17/10/2025 07:38

Iris2024 · 15/10/2025 22:04

Hi lovely, I had a very early miscarriage on 1st September and had lines on tests and digital for over a week and then bled. I then had lines on a test again (shadows very faint) 23rd September to the 7th October. There blank now. What happened with you? Interested to know of a “missed” chemical. Thank you x

Hi Lovely, we never got a postive test but showed my charts to our fertility expert and she confirmed it. Took three cycles for normality to return. The middle one was 41 days which was really scary as everything online said it was the start of the menopause.
I had another chemical on my last cycle but our fertility expert thinks this will be a normal cycle. I’m currently 8DPO according to my temperature and CM.
wishing you all the best- this is month 15 for us- it’s hard to feel hopeful but trying to cling onto hope.

AMBM6040 · 17/10/2025 01:18

Sorry to hear so many ladies this month going through a tough time, I’m 2dpo on the last cycle before our ivf starts and keeping everything crossed that this is our month, the thought of ivf scares me but that’s the next step for us, if anyone can share any positive experiences that would be great.

Iris2024 · 15/10/2025 22:04

GiveTheGoblinsSnacks · 15/10/2025 17:15

Could it be a missed chemical? I had that in March and had three very long cycles. It was only when I spoke to someone months later it twigged that’s what it was.

Hi lovely, I had a very early miscarriage on 1st September and had lines on tests and digital for over a week and then bled. I then had lines on a test again (shadows very faint) 23rd September to the 7th October. There blank now. What happened with you? Interested to know of a “missed” chemical. Thank you x

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Iris2024 · 15/10/2025 22:02

ttcnumerodos · 15/10/2025 13:35

I just asked chatgpt (as I do for everything) and it says check in with doc if no period after 6 weeks, so maybe just to get peace of mind? Hope you get on ok xx

Thank you darling, I’m at 6 weeks and 2 days now. My LH tests have gone low at the moment and dropped so I’m hoping something is happening.

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GiveTheGoblinsSnacks · 15/10/2025 17:15

ttcnumerodos · 15/10/2025 13:35

I just asked chatgpt (as I do for everything) and it says check in with doc if no period after 6 weeks, so maybe just to get peace of mind? Hope you get on ok xx

Could it be a missed chemical? I had that in March and had three very long cycles. It was only when I spoke to someone months later it twigged that’s what it was.