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TTC October 2025

318 replies

bluepears96 · 21/09/2025 17:42

Hi everyone,
I’m a bit early but I liked having people to chat to last cycle who were going through similar. It can feel isolating having nobody to talk to about it other than DH when it’s taking up your every thought.

CD5 for me today. Will start uploading LH strips to Premom from CD 10.

Going to try the ‘sperm meets egg’ method this month to see if a bit of structure helps.

sending everybody lots of luck!

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Andrasa · 15/10/2025 11:20

Cornishmaid92 · 15/10/2025 09:17

@LaurLou22 any update? Have you tested again?
I had convinced myself it hadn’t worked this cycle but tested this morning (11/12dpo) and got my BFP! Had a vfl on wondfo so I used a FRER and it’s clearly positive. I can’t believe it :) praying this one sticks and that you’ll get yours too.
Also sending baby dust to all of you still early in the TWW. Xx

Congrats!

bellaflower · 15/10/2025 11:10

Congratulations @Cornishmaid92😍

Anya23 · 15/10/2025 09:46

Congrats @Cornishmaid92 😊

Cornishmaid92 · 15/10/2025 09:17

@LaurLou22 any update? Have you tested again?
I had convinced myself it hadn’t worked this cycle but tested this morning (11/12dpo) and got my BFP! Had a vfl on wondfo so I used a FRER and it’s clearly positive. I can’t believe it :) praying this one sticks and that you’ll get yours too.
Also sending baby dust to all of you still early in the TWW. Xx

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bellaflower · 13/10/2025 21:17

Andrasa · 13/10/2025 18:46

Yep, 2dpo! I have a million tests so I’ll be testing from Saturday.

i had the same concern about work do as work is v turbulent atm so was actually planning on having a single glass of wine and some good control pants. Luckily they’ve booked ours super early and on a date I’m busy so I’m free and clear whatever happens. Just any department lunch to get through but might have the single glass of wine if I feel worried about someone guessing.

I’m not sure when to test. I will try to hold out but I’m meant to be going out Saturday evening, so might test that morning.

my Christmas party is at a hotel that we’ve booked out the whole place. I might excuse myself to my room early if we do conceive this time. This is cycle 4 for us

Andrasa · 13/10/2025 18:46

bellaflower · 13/10/2025 16:54

@Anya23so glad I’m not alone in this horrible patience game.
keeping fingers crossed for you!!

@Andrasasounds like you’re in the same boat - 2dpo today?

anyone else worried that if they are pregnant how on earth keep it a secret at Christmas work party? 🤣

Yep, 2dpo! I have a million tests so I’ll be testing from Saturday.

i had the same concern about work do as work is v turbulent atm so was actually planning on having a single glass of wine and some good control pants. Luckily they’ve booked ours super early and on a date I’m busy so I’m free and clear whatever happens. Just any department lunch to get through but might have the single glass of wine if I feel worried about someone guessing.

bellaflower · 13/10/2025 16:54

@Anya23so glad I’m not alone in this horrible patience game.
keeping fingers crossed for you!!

@Andrasasounds like you’re in the same boat - 2dpo today?

anyone else worried that if they are pregnant how on earth keep it a secret at Christmas work party? 🤣

Anya23 · 13/10/2025 16:52

@bellaflowerI'm four dpo so right with you! Planning to test this Friday, as we're going on a date with hubby without dd

bellaflower · 13/10/2025 16:04

Currently on 3dpo and hating the tww already. Anyone else in similar situ?

Moosey898 · 13/10/2025 09:59

summertime94 · 13/10/2025 09:40

@Moosey898oh wow that's a long time! Fingers crossed for you 🤞 are you planning on doing any differently next cycle?

Nope haha I've tried every combination of any tricks/supplements you can think of! So I'm back to basics (which is actually what's worked for me to get pregnant) - folic acid, vitamin D and vitamin B12, ovulation testing and starting dtd from the first "high" reading on the clearblue ovulation tests.

summertime94 · 13/10/2025 09:40

@Moosey898oh wow that's a long time! Fingers crossed for you 🤞 are you planning on doing any differently next cycle?

Moosey898 · 13/10/2025 07:18

summertime94 · 13/10/2025 05:15

@Moosey898sorry for your loss. I'm CD 2 today so similar to you, I'm going into my 5th cycle now TTC for my 1st baby. How about you?

Thank you. Sooo it's a long journey for me - 9 years since I first started trying (did have a 3 year gap in the middle), 4 missed miscarriages and then losing Ava start of September.

summertime94 · 13/10/2025 05:15

@Moosey898sorry for your loss. I'm CD 2 today so similar to you, I'm going into my 5th cycle now TTC for my 1st baby. How about you?

Andrasa · 12/10/2025 20:45

1dpo and I’m already over the tww. 😂

making the most of having sushi and wine this weekend in case anything shows next weekend.

LaurLou22 · 12/10/2025 17:39

I decided to test this morning 🙄 I cannot help myself honestly 😑. I think I might see the faintest of lines at 9DPO but I could equally just be kidding myself 🤷🏻‍♀️ time will tell!

LaurLou22 · 12/10/2025 17:30

@Moosey898i’m so sorry to hear that, they must have been such a horrible thing to experience, I hope you’re doing okay and have my fingers crossed for you moving forward xx

Moosey898 · 12/10/2025 16:52

Think I'm at a slightly different point to others but if anyone else is at the start of their cycle give me a shout (I'm CD2 trying again first time since we lost our little girl at 22 weeks pregnant start of September).

Doodlestar · 12/10/2025 08:11

LaurLou22 · 11/10/2025 20:07

Can anyone share their implantation symptoms if pregnant before and had them? I’m 8DPO today and from 6DPO I’ve had intermittent cramping, both aching and sharp in my lower abdomen and pelvic area, I’ve also had pain further up which feel just like trapped wind! I feel completely bloated and gassy, had reflux, the lot! I never got implantation symptoms with my first so wondered if this might be some?

I had what I thought was terrible period cramps, one evening while at the cinema. It was SO bad!
I was just waiting for my period to start after that for a couple of days, then when it didn't, I tested and it was positive. So, I think that was implantation, but I'll never really know. It was much more like period pain than like digestion/upset stomach cramp for me though.

Andrasa · 12/10/2025 00:35

I saw a useful thing that said if you’re pregnant enough to have symptoms, you’re pregnant enough to test positive. It helped me to stop over analysing everything - I just tested first thing from about 7dpo because I have no patience, then got on with my day without worrying as I knew my sore boobs or back ache was in my head/pms as not enough hormone to turn the test = not enough hormone to cause anything.

LaurLou22 · 11/10/2025 20:15

@Anya23 ah thank you this is helpful! Well there’s defo something going on in there and if it’s not pregnancy then my digestive tract is in some sorts trouble 😂

Anya23 · 11/10/2025 20:09

@LaurLou22I had a dull lower back ache and weird twinges in my lower abdomen around 11 dpo, the next day I had a positive test (I tested a few days before that and then it was still negative, so I'm pretty sure I felt implantation)

LaurLou22 · 11/10/2025 20:07

Can anyone share their implantation symptoms if pregnant before and had them? I’m 8DPO today and from 6DPO I’ve had intermittent cramping, both aching and sharp in my lower abdomen and pelvic area, I’ve also had pain further up which feel just like trapped wind! I feel completely bloated and gassy, had reflux, the lot! I never got implantation symptoms with my first so wondered if this might be some?

Anya23 · 11/10/2025 20:04

amey44 · 11/10/2025 19:52

Does anyone else get so shocked when friends/family get pregnant? I honestly can’t believe people just dtd and get pregnant after ttc for almost 2 years it seems like a myth

I get annoyed 😅not that we've been trying for so long but two of my friends have gotten pregnant lately, who didn't even want to get pregnant, just forgot to use protection and I'm like...

amey44 · 11/10/2025 19:52

Does anyone else get so shocked when friends/family get pregnant? I honestly can’t believe people just dtd and get pregnant after ttc for almost 2 years it seems like a myth

LaurLou22 · 10/10/2025 16:06

Andrasa · 10/10/2025 16:05

Just use a cheap one first thing. You know you have no chance that early if it’s not first morning urine so means you can just get on with your day without stressing as you’ve tested and seen alrwady

True, although I just think it’s a bad idea emotionally after a chemical last month, it feels like I’ll be putting myself through a lot of unnecessary stress when I could just wait for definitive answer!

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