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September TTC thread ๐Ÿ’›

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Marvelftw · 29/08/2025 20:00

Hi everyone, setting up a new months thread for those of us who already know weโ€™re out for August. Iโ€™m going on to cycle 3. Hope this can continue to be a place where we can chat and support one another.

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StayingHopefulx · 17/09/2025 18:53

@Marvelftw fingers and toes crossed ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป thatโ€™s fab news

overwork · 17/09/2025 18:52

Woohoo thatโ€™s fabulous news - fingers crossed!

Marvelftw · 17/09/2025 18:07

@LaurLou22 Thank you! I will cry such happy tears if I got pregnant this cycle ๐Ÿ˜ญ

And thatโ€™s great to hear your tests have gotten darker! ๐Ÿ˜ Fingers crossed xx

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LaurLou22 · 17/09/2025 16:51

@Marvelftwhot all my fingers crossed for you!! I remember getting my periods back after my first baby and the ovulation pain and period pain the day before I started bleeding were immense! Theyโ€™ve gotten better over the months though haha!

I took more tests (there is something wrong with me yes ๐Ÿคฃ) and they all have lines on now and are getting darker I think. Trying not to get hopeful!

Marvelftw · 17/09/2025 16:44

@LaurLou22 That would make sense! I ovulated later this month too so wonder if mine will also get pushed back slightly.

Am currently 3DPO and generally feeling ok. When I first came off the pill I used to get terrible cramping straight after ovulation which I hated because I felt that there was no way anything could successfully implant with that happening ๐Ÿ˜‚ Hoping this gives me a good chance this month.

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LaurLou22 · 17/09/2025 10:41

@Marvelftw thank you, yeh usually quite regular and if not usually a couple of days early so itโ€™s almost unheard of for me to be late. I ovulated hate this month though - about 5-6 days later then usual! So maybe thatโ€™s pushed everything back x

Marvelftw · 17/09/2025 10:38

@LaurLou22 Ahh Iโ€™m sorry, that sounds really tough ๐Ÿ˜“ Are your periods normally quite regular? Maybe stepping away from the tests for a bit and waiting to see what happens might be a bit better mentally as difficult as it is x

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StayingHopefulx · 17/09/2025 10:37

Okay, I raided my cupboards for pregnancy tests and I found one but the control line is barely visible itself so I presume itโ€™s out of date! Getting ready to go buy a fresh one because bleeding is still pretty much non existent anymoreโ€ฆ

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LaurLou22 · 17/09/2025 08:13

@Marvelftwiโ€™m 13DPO today and period was due yesterday but Iโ€™ve been getting these stupid lines for a couple of days now and I just donโ€™t know what to think. The other tests I do are either so faint you can barely see them at all, or there is nothing there, but these wondfo tests keep showing a line. It also seems that my lines are always darker in the evening and not the morning?

I know thereโ€™s very little hope now, I would have seen some sort of progression on other. Tests I think by now. But itโ€™d hard not to test โ€˜just to checkโ€™ ๐Ÿ˜ญ what I really need to do is lock the pregnancy tests away and wait for my period to start because Iโ€™m not doing myself any favours here..

AMBM6040 · 17/09/2025 08:07

@underthethree Iโ€™ve just got a positive on my ovulation stick so will be busy over the next couple of days ๐Ÿ˜Šgood luck to you, letโ€™s hope this is our month ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป

Angelyoga · 17/09/2025 07:44

Hi all!
Thanks for sharing your stories with us!

I had another gyno appointment yesterday. The endometrium is less than 3mm, up .6 since last time. Still too thin, suggesting ovulation/implantation is unlikely occur.
Yes I know, ttc without a cycle is madness!

I'm afraid I will need to wean completely in order to be able to get pregnant (without taking hormones). So frustrating when I am not ready to stop bf.

underthethree · 17/09/2025 06:58

Just checking in- ovulation in T minus 3 days ๐Ÿ˜‚ I have DH warned that he will be needed a lot over the next few days ๐Ÿ˜‚ best of luck to anyone else approaching OD soon!

Sylviasocks · 17/09/2025 06:34

Hey! Hope you guys donโ€™t mind me joining. Iโ€™m on cycle 4, 3DPO. TTC #2.

Started on Conception Max tablets this month and feeling hopeful, LH peak has been more definite then the last 2 cycles I tracked and previously I have conceived both prior pregnancies (one loss) on cycle 4.

@StayingHopefulx maybe test again in a couple of days, I had some sort of bleed with my first and it wasnโ€™t evident until I found out I was 16w1 at the 12 week scan ๐Ÿ™ˆ

Good luck everyone! ๐Ÿ€

Marvelftw · 17/09/2025 05:51

@StayingHopefulx Oh itโ€™s still very early days, but I do know how it feels to get those noโ€™s after consecutive months. Iโ€™m currently in my 3rd cycle of trying again and it already feels like itโ€™s been ages! My cycle has always been very regular but I do have a slightly shorter luteal phase. Donโ€™t feel guilty if you find out you are pregnant and have been enjoying your hols. The baby will be way too tiny at this point to have been affected by anything.

@CityKity Youโ€™re not out until youโ€™re out! There was someone in last months thread who got pregnant even though they had been feeling unwell over their fertile week.

@7nationbaby Welcome, sorry to hear about your loss.

@GladDenimGoose Hey welcome to the thread and good luck on your journey.

@LaurLou22 How many DPO are you?

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StayingHopefulx · 17/09/2025 00:56

Iโ€™m also spiralling now because when I got my (or what I thought was my period) I did a test and negative, so I started to enjoy the all inclusive holiday we were on, which I had been avoiding drinking for potential babaโ€ฆ now the guilt will eat me if it was implantationโ€ฆ

StayingHopefulx · 17/09/2025 00:52

@Marvelftw to be fair we are only on cycle 2 so I know silly to be disheartened! My cycle is all over the place being honest! how about you?

my period has been seriously light this round, I usually have a really heavy day where I almost need postpartum pads, but havenโ€™t got that yet only one really large gush and spottingโ€ฆ could this still be implantation or is it going on too long I wonderโ€ฆ day 5 of very light pink spottingโ€ฆ never had it with my first pregnancy x

Iris2024 · 16/09/2025 23:03

7nationbaby · 16/09/2025 15:52

Hello, Iโ€™m joining too - not had a chance to read through everything yet though. Iโ€™m cd ~13 but last cycle was a chemical/miscarriage

Welcome hun โค๏ธ I had a very easy miscarriage too last cycle. Had positive pregnancy test and digital and lost just over a week later. Itโ€™s shattered me but weโ€™re straight back trying again just like yourself. Sending baby dust and hope we get it again โœจ

I'llBuyThatForADollar · 16/09/2025 21:52

Hereโ€™s hoping!!!๐Ÿคž good luck everyone โค๏ธ

LaurLou22 · 16/09/2025 21:51

So sorry girls, I think Iโ€™m spiralling ๐Ÿ˜ซ.
do these tests look like theyโ€™re getting darker? Iโ€™m still barely getting anything on the other strip tests but I realised these detect at 10 MIU and the others are 25.

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LaurLou22 · 16/09/2025 20:54

@7nationbaby I honestly donโ€™t understand that sentiment. It doesnโ€™t matter if you have no children, or a whole brood, losing a pregnancy, or a potential pregnancy not coming to fruition is still devastating, especially if itโ€™s all you want to expand your family xx

7nationbaby · 16/09/2025 20:51

@LaurLou22 Iโ€™m sorry, itโ€™s so shit and thereโ€™s really nothing that can be said or done. I told lots of people this time and it was good in some ways to have people understand why I was being so crabby, but some of the stuff people said really hurt - like oh at least you already have kids

CityKity · 16/09/2025 19:53

@GladDenimGoose hello! Iโ€™m CD11 cycle 1 today too! Good luck ๐Ÿคž. Iโ€™m due AF in 3 days so letโ€™s see how it goes. Not optimistic this month as was sick over ovulation but you just donโ€™t know. My first pregnancy we DTD once and I still donโ€™t know when in my cycle that was. Definitely going into TTC2 a lot more informed!

I do feel very pre-menstrual today so definitely expecting AF to show up, Iโ€™ll just be annoyed if itโ€™s late because of being sick this cycle.

LaurLou22 · 16/09/2025 15:55

@7nationbaby so sorry to hear this, fairly sure Iโ€™m experiencing a chemical this month. Good luck to you! X

7nationbaby · 16/09/2025 15:52

Hello, Iโ€™m joining too - not had a chance to read through everything yet though. Iโ€™m cd ~13 but last cycle was a chemical/miscarriage

GladDenimGoose · 16/09/2025 13:15

Please can I jump on this thread? It's our first month TTC our first baby and I'm on cd11. I'm trying to be relaxed (easier said than done) and not tracking ovulation - just DTD regularly. Im not naive to how long and difficult the journey can be but still feeling hopeful! Sending baby dust to everyone here