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September TTC thread ๐Ÿ’›

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Marvelftw · 29/08/2025 20:00

Hi everyone, setting up a new months thread for those of us who already know weโ€™re out for August. Iโ€™m going on to cycle 3. Hope this can continue to be a place where we can chat and support one another.

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blackberryhill · 19/09/2025 05:43

Official Test Date here (14DPIUI, 13-14DPO) and I can't quite believe it - if you'd asked me a couple of days ago I've have bet a large amount of money on it not having worked. Still a long road ahead of us but for today, I am pregnant!

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GladDenimGoose · 18/09/2025 19:37

Congrats @Wifeymatters and sorry it's negative @LaurLou22.

Has time always moved this slowly? I swear every hour feels like a day

Marvelftw · 18/09/2025 18:47

Welcome and congrats @Wifeymatters !

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Marvelftw · 18/09/2025 17:34

@LaurLou22 Sorry it ended up becoming negative ๐Ÿ˜ž

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LaurLou22 · 18/09/2025 14:35

@CityKitydefo a chemical I think, I used 4-5 different brands and had lines on them for 3 days and then did the same 4 brands this morning and absolutely nothing on any of them.

ah good luck! X

Wifeymatters · 18/09/2025 14:33

Omgomg i might be! 11-12. Day PO and i had just a bit pink discharge 2 days agon that ive never had before. Like pastel pink lol. Today it shows very faint positive in the morning but 5 pm i made again two test and both are faint positives still...! Its very faint so im just very hopeful. On pic doesnt really show much. Tomorrow will do again! omgomg i hope its truuuue!

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Rosie1059 · 18/09/2025 13:38

bluepears96 · 17/09/2025 20:16

Iโ€™m out, AF came today. No May babe for us.

Also canโ€™t but FRER anywhere other than Amazon!!

Good luck everybody, wishing you all the very best. X

I used to be able to buy FRER from Superdrug or boots when ttc baby 1 but Iโ€™ve noticed they donโ€™t sell them anymore in shops! I wonder why that is, they were my favourite pregnancy tests to be honest.

Rosie1059 · 18/09/2025 13:37

Hi everyone! Weโ€™re starting to ttc baby #2 so this is our first cycle trying. Iโ€™m excited and nervous - I lost twins in my first pregnancy, had a successful pregnancy with my 3 year old DC and now ttc for baby #2!

AF has nearly finished, bit nervous to go on this journey again but here we are!

amey44 · 18/09/2025 13:12

Hey ladies I was just wondering if anyone has anything theyโ€™ve tried that they think helped them conceive in the past?
So far iโ€™ve tried
-Pre-conception vitamins

  • loads of other vitamins over the past 2 years -Conception lube -Cough syrup

I donโ€™t think iโ€™m going to track ovulation again this cycle and instead just regularly bd as my cycles are too long and it always stresses me out! Itโ€™s annoying as iโ€™m trying all of this stuff and I think weโ€™re not conceiving because my partners low sperm count. He was given something from a dr to try increase it but they wonโ€™t test levels again yet so idk if itโ€™s worked/working.

CityKity · 18/09/2025 11:48

@LaurLou22 Im so sorry the tests were negative this morning. Do you think it was a chemical or just wrong tests? I hope AF turns up soon so you can get some closure and try again.

CD26 today and really struggling to concentrate/distract myself. AF usually shows up CD26 evening or CD27 morning so not long to wait but I almost bought a test this morning and then chickened out again.

LaurLou22 · 18/09/2025 09:50

Very sadly, all my tests came back negative this morning :( so gutted. Now just waiting for AF and the next cycle x

AMBM6040 · 17/09/2025 22:57

Iโ€™m so confused I had a positive ovulation test this morning so did when my partner got home this evening, I took another test this evening which was now negative and my cervix felt low and tender, surely thatโ€™s abit quick isnโ€™t it for my cervix to have dropped??

overwork · 17/09/2025 22:30

Oooh. Thanks @CityKity I still have the second test from the 2 pack I bought when I tested positive with my son (obviously out of date now), so Iโ€™m probably in the market for some new ones!

CityKity · 17/09/2025 21:45

@bluepears96 so sorry itโ€™s not your month. That sucks.

Tbh I have a feeling as soon as I buy a pregnancy test AF will show up just to spite me. Iโ€™ll hold off for now.
Annoyingly as itโ€™s first month TTC I started on pregnacare conception vitamins which I hear can delay AF which would really mess with my head this month!

CityKity · 17/09/2025 21:40

@overwork FRER = first response early result (https://www.firstresponse.com/en/product-listings/early-result-pregnancy-test)

Itโ€™s just another brand of pregnancy test, but can detect up to 6 days prior to missed period (apparently). I think because they are fairly sensitive by the time you get to the time of expected period theyโ€™re fairly dark (at least in my case) so there was zero guess work required. Itโ€™s the only tests Iโ€™ve taken hence my underserved brand loyalty! I vividly remember buying a back from the boots near work 3ish years ago but havenโ€™t seen them in any shops. Iโ€™m sure any other brand are exactly the same tbh!

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overwork · 17/09/2025 21:19

What is a FRER test please?

SleepySkyRat · 17/09/2025 20:29

@Marvelftw infuriating! I guess Iโ€™m hoping if the symptoms remain and amp up rather than disappear thatโ€™s a clue, but itโ€™s totally guesswork at this stage. Hope your TWW flies by! This one has dragged so far but trying to keep myself busy to distract myself.

LaurLou22 · 17/09/2025 20:28

@7nationbabythank you! Yes my DP just doesnโ€™t understand and seems borderline disinterested which upsets me but he just says itโ€™s because he doesnโ€™t want to get hopeful because itโ€™s not a โ€˜properโ€™ positive. I get it, but I also just wish there was someone who would share my obsession haha

7nationbaby · 17/09/2025 20:26

Sorry @bluepears96- that sucks.

@LaurLou22honestly there is nothing wrong with you - itโ€™s just when you feel so hopelessly out of control taking tests makes you feel a tiny bit in control, I was also obsessed with line progression. My dp didnโ€™t get it at all but I just knew it was the only thing I could do to stay sane. Iโ€™ve got everything crossed for you x

LaurLou22 · 17/09/2025 20:17

@bluepears96ah Iโ€™m so sorry :(

bluepears96 · 17/09/2025 20:16

Iโ€™m out, AF came today. No May babe for us.

Also canโ€™t but FRER anywhere other than Amazon!!

Good luck everybody, wishing you all the very best. X

Marvelftw · 17/09/2025 20:01

Thanks everyone! Letโ€™s see how it goes ๐Ÿคž

@SleepySkyRat isn't the fact that early pregnancy symptoms and the start of AF symptoms are similar the worst? ๐Ÿ˜‚ I really wish pregnancy symptoms could be significantly different so every month youโ€™d get a clear sense of whether you were pregnant or not!

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LaurLou22 · 17/09/2025 19:50

@CityKityiโ€™ve never used FRER! You can get them on Amazon I think? I donโ€™t think Iโ€™ve ever seen them in the shops although I havenโ€™t actively been looking for them haha.

this cycle Iโ€™ve now used wondfo, easy@hone, Premom, clearblue and boots ๐Ÿ˜…

SleepySkyRat · 17/09/2025 19:49

Currently 8dpo, second cycle after chemical pregnancy last cycle. Have typical PMS symptoms, sore boobs, fatigue, even some nausea (but I think anxiety related)โ€ฆ trying not to read into it, as itโ€™s normal for this stage of my cycle. Fighting the urge to test before expecting period as think itโ€™d be better for my mental health not to keep testing in case it ends up another chemical pregnancy. This TWW has been killing me so far and canโ€™t believe Iโ€™ve got over a week left before its test day ๐Ÿ˜ซ

CityKity · 17/09/2025 19:46

@Marvelftw eeeeek good luck this cycle. I hope the TWW flies by.

@LaurLou22 fingers crossed with the tests getting darker, thatโ€™s so exciting!

12 DPO over here and AF due tomorrow or Fri. My skins breaking out a little and do feel the usual PMS symptoms coming on but itโ€™s so hard not to think โ€˜what ifโ€™ anyway! I actually tried to by a test today but canโ€™t find a FRER in the shops anywhere! Iโ€™ve got brand loyalty since these are the tests I took the first time around and came up immediately with a stonking dark line.