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September TTC thread ๐Ÿ’›

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Marvelftw · 29/08/2025 20:00

Hi everyone, setting up a new months thread for those of us who already know weโ€™re out for August. Iโ€™m going on to cycle 3. Hope this can continue to be a place where we can chat and support one another.

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Muddysocks1 · 22/09/2025 07:51

Oops double post!

Iโ€™ve been using proov pdg progesterone strips this month and my progesterone doesnโ€™t look good unfortunately. Clinic said to do a day 21 blood test in the second month but annoyingly not the first. Iโ€™m not sure whether to contact them with the results after Iโ€™ve done the 4 days of test or just wait for next month (as guess they potentially could increase letrozole dose or add progesterone?). Itโ€™s the NHS and just feel a bit like you get the bare minimum.

also though, I did an OPK at the same time and it was 0.47 on premom so a slight spike. Doubt it means anything - I know you can get positive OPKs with pregnancy but Iโ€™m only 8dpo and also I think it would be probably positive/dark test line not like this one. Decided to do a daily OPK instead of early hcg tests ๐Ÿคช

September TTC thread ๐Ÿ’›
September TTC thread ๐Ÿ’›
Muddysocks1 · 22/09/2025 07:47

FarAwayBird · 22/09/2025 00:45

Hello! Iโ€™ve also been lurking with ForGiddy and SureLook. Iโ€™m so sorry @overwork - so disappointing when you had so much hope โค๏ธ

@Iris2024 and @Muddysocks1 Iโ€™ve been thinking of you both. I hope your month is very soon!

Exciting progression, @EmPeEf. I know youโ€™ll be guarding your heart but I have everything crossed for you!

Thank you @FarAwayBird ๐Ÿฅฐ hope youโ€™re doing well โ˜บ๏ธ

Muddysocks1 · 22/09/2025 07:45

FarAwayBird · 22/09/2025 00:45

Hello! Iโ€™ve also been lurking with ForGiddy and SureLook. Iโ€™m so sorry @overwork - so disappointing when you had so much hope โค๏ธ

@Iris2024 and @Muddysocks1 Iโ€™ve been thinking of you both. I hope your month is very soon!

Exciting progression, @EmPeEf. I know youโ€™ll be guarding your heart but I have everything crossed for you!

Thank you @FarAwayBird ๐Ÿฅฐ hope youโ€™re doing well โ˜บ๏ธ

FarAwayBird · 22/09/2025 00:45

Hello! Iโ€™ve also been lurking with ForGiddy and SureLook. Iโ€™m so sorry @overwork - so disappointing when you had so much hope โค๏ธ

@Iris2024 and @Muddysocks1 Iโ€™ve been thinking of you both. I hope your month is very soon!

Exciting progression, @EmPeEf. I know youโ€™ll be guarding your heart but I have everything crossed for you!

Digby86 · 21/09/2025 20:59

ttcbubbanumber2 · 21/09/2025 18:03

Our son is 2.5 years old. Iโ€™m really sorry to hear about your loss, I found my pregnancy with my son incredibly anxiety inducing. Pregnancy after loss and ttc after loss is really hard. Really hoping for a smoother journey for both of us this time!

Ah fairly similar age then โค๏ธ

thank you. Iโ€™m hoping that if it happens for us then once weโ€™ve had the 12 week scan Iโ€™ll be able to settle down a bit. Crazy how much these little people stress us out, even bwfore theyโ€™re conceived ๐Ÿ˜‚

ttcbubbanumber2 · 21/09/2025 18:03

Digby86 · 21/09/2025 17:12

Also TTC second here. Our son just turned 3. How old is yours? We conceived him no problem but had a mc at 12 weeks earlier this year, so am finding it much more anxiety inducing this time round

Our son is 2.5 years old. Iโ€™m really sorry to hear about your loss, I found my pregnancy with my son incredibly anxiety inducing. Pregnancy after loss and ttc after loss is really hard. Really hoping for a smoother journey for both of us this time!

SureLook · 21/09/2025 17:51

@Iris2024 I'm up and down thanks for asking. I'm very anxious and worried about every little twinge. I can't even remember what my pregnancy on my daughter was like at this stage. I'm just trying to take it one day at a time. We're away to Salou tomorrow for a week so hopefully that will be a nice distraction. I've the NIPT booked for the day after we get back so fingers crossed for then ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป
I wonder are your LH tests picking up some residual HCG by any chance? That can sometimes make them go darker.

Digby86 · 21/09/2025 17:12

ttcbubbanumber2 · 21/09/2025 13:33

Hi everyone! Iโ€™m joining this thread currently on first cycle of ttc and Iโ€™m on CD8.

Is anyone else ttc their second child?

I have PCOS and lost twins at 10 weeks before conceiving my son. Hoping for a smoother journey this timeโ€ฆ

Also TTC second here. Our son just turned 3. How old is yours? We conceived him no problem but had a mc at 12 weeks earlier this year, so am finding it much more anxiety inducing this time round

Digby86 · 21/09/2025 17:09

Iris2024 · 21/09/2025 10:13

Iโ€™m so sorry @overwork Keep positive for next cycle and a July baby would it be? Iโ€™m sure Iโ€™ll be there with you as canโ€™t see me catching off a miscarriage bleed and my LH tests have been dark all cycle.

@SureLook How are you doing with little babaa growing my love? Thank you for checking in. Since the miscarriage bleed all my LH tests have been dark so Iโ€™m confused. Iโ€™m roughly 8DPO today and feel under the weather with a cold.

@EmPeEf Id say CD13-14 is when you conceived. After my loss my LH tests have all been dark? Have you had that before?

sorry if someone else has already answered but as I understand it opks can show as positive when youโ€™re pregnant, and it can take a while post mc for all your pregnancy hormones to go back to normal levels. So it might just be the opks picking that up. After my mc I was told pregnancy tests could still show as positive 2 weeks after the procedure

ttcbubbanumber2 · 21/09/2025 13:47

LaurLou22 · 21/09/2025 13:42

@ttcbubbanumber2 haha yes I will absolutely be holding off on testing until after a missed period this cycle, I donโ€™t wish to put myself through that again! X

I have PCOS so sometimes my periods come 3.5 weeks after I last started bleeding and sometimes my periods come 7 weeks after so itโ€™s so rough knowing when to actually test!

LaurLou22 · 21/09/2025 13:42

@ttcbubbanumber2 haha yes I will absolutely be holding off on testing until after a missed period this cycle, I donโ€™t wish to put myself through that again! X

ttcbubbanumber2 · 21/09/2025 13:38

LaurLou22 · 21/09/2025 13:37

@ttcbubbanumber2 this will be cycle 2, looks like I experienced a chemical last cycle which was a rollercoaster, but hopeful for this cycle x

Staying hopeful for you too! Sorry to hear about your chemical last month. I always tell myself I should hold off until Iโ€™m a week late for my period to save the heartbreak but I still continue to want to test from 7dpo!

LaurLou22 · 21/09/2025 13:37

@ttcbubbanumber2 this will be cycle 2, looks like I experienced a chemical last cycle which was a rollercoaster, but hopeful for this cycle x

ttcbubbanumber2 · 21/09/2025 13:36

LaurLou22 · 21/09/2025 13:34

@ttcbubbanumber2 welcome :) weโ€™re trying to baby #2 - Iโ€™m CD3 today. Good luck!

Thank you! Are you on your first cycle as well?

LaurLou22 · 21/09/2025 13:34

@ttcbubbanumber2 welcome :) weโ€™re trying to baby #2 - Iโ€™m CD3 today. Good luck!

ttcbubbanumber2 · 21/09/2025 13:33

Hi everyone! Iโ€™m joining this thread currently on first cycle of ttc and Iโ€™m on CD8.

Is anyone else ttc their second child?

I have PCOS and lost twins at 10 weeks before conceiving my son. Hoping for a smoother journey this timeโ€ฆ

Wifeymatters · 21/09/2025 11:20

The harvest looks good in this thread :) Patience toball ofnour TTCer as well!

And omg i hopenit will remain. Decided to tell husband very secretly and OF COURSE he told the same day to his um brothes and basically all the familia knows now. Ouuuwh! Im just like 2-3 weeks in!!! Oh well! Drinkingdoing my best to keep focus on that little spot inside me now and trusting the soul that already chose us.

Iris2024 · 21/09/2025 10:13

Iโ€™m so sorry @overwork Keep positive for next cycle and a July baby would it be? Iโ€™m sure Iโ€™ll be there with you as canโ€™t see me catching off a miscarriage bleed and my LH tests have been dark all cycle.

@SureLook How are you doing with little babaa growing my love? Thank you for checking in. Since the miscarriage bleed all my LH tests have been dark so Iโ€™m confused. Iโ€™m roughly 8DPO today and feel under the weather with a cold.

@EmPeEf Id say CD13-14 is when you conceived. After my loss my LH tests have all been dark? Have you had that before?

blackberryhill · 21/09/2025 10:11

Oh no - so sorry to hear that @overwork. This process can be brutal ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

LaurLou22 · 21/09/2025 09:58

@overwork so sorry :( x

SureLook · 21/09/2025 09:21

Hi girls. I'm the same as For Giddy and have been quietly following along in the background. I'm delighted to see so many BFPs. It's so lovely. @EmPeEf I am praying and hoping that this is your sticky one ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿปโค๏ธ @Iris2024 I have been thinking of you. I hope you're doing OK x
@YKM2829 @overwork sorry to hear x
Best of luck to everyone still to test!

Marvelftw · 21/09/2025 08:57

@overwork oh no! Iโ€™m so sorry to hear that :(

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overwork · 21/09/2025 08:41

Gosh this whole thing is a rollercoaster, woke up this morning and whoosh - my period has well and truely arrived and with absolutely no warning! So something odd happened with those tests. Either way, lesson learned, I will not be testing before my period is due ever again, itโ€™s not worth the confusion.

blackberryhill · 21/09/2025 08:27

EmPeEf · 21/09/2025 08:15

Thank you for replying. So do you think my period would be due tomorrow instead then?

Maybe, if you have a regular 14 day luteal phase. Mine are short and inconsistent (anywhere from 8 - 12 days) so I'm probably not best placed to answer!

EmPeEf · 21/09/2025 08:15

blackberryhill · 21/09/2025 05:52

Could be an early ovulation - maybe you ovulated on 7/8/9th? You could have had your surge on the 7/8 and then ovulated 24-48 hours later so the LH tests would be negative and the egg would be there at the time you DTD on the 8/9th.

Thank you for replying. So do you think my period would be due tomorrow instead then?

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