September TTC thread 💛

Oh Honey, I am so sorry. This is a pain only a mother who has lost as well will understand. Big hugs. You are right, the good thing is you can get pregnant, and you have a lovely kid as well. Lots of love for you. 💖

Thank you @Marvelftw and @Mash0917

Im bleeding now so that’s that 💔😢 My birthday today and don’t feel like celebrating when I’ve lost. All I can do right now is cling on that we can still get pregnant and we have our daughter ❤️ Sending baby dust to everyone still to test. I’m moving on and trying again and see when I get peak this month to try again.

Are you taking prenatal supplements?

@FunnySam , this kills me every month. Now I came down with something last night. Fever, cold- the works. So my bbt chart is out the window now. :-/ How are you?

@Marvelftw you are right. it seems like everyone else gets pregnant so easily! I would probably go crazy without you guys. Best of luck to us! <3

@Iris2024 Hugs darling. How are you doing now?

@ChaE05 Are you bleeding full on? 6 dpo seems awfully early. So sorry. :-(

@Muddysocks1 Sorry to hear you are spotting. It's so hard. :-(

Hugs, It’s hard when it feels like pregnancy is everywhere. We’ve got a couple of friends pregnant or with newborns, as happy as you are for them it still stings X

Hi everyone, thought I’d jump in now to
follow along while I wait for ovulation/tww.
We've been hoping to conceive for around a year and had a MC in July. Recently found out my b12 and potassium are quite low. Apparently they can both cause problems with fertility, so really hoping the supplements and changes to diet will help 🤞
Good luck everyone, hope it’s a sticky month all round! X

I had some spotting today (13dpo), not expecting period until 15dpo (progesterone, it’s normally 12-13 days) but maybe it’s coming sooner. I’m desperate to start the next cycle!

Saw a couple of things on social media about other people’s pregnancies that made me feel really rubbish earlier. Should really delete Instagram for a bit as there’s constant reminders - but also nice things that take my mind off

@PepsiMax4lifeI see what you mean, are these 1st urine of the day? And are the lines coming up straight away or after a while?

Just when you thought the TWW couldn’t get any longer… Glad it’s not missed and you’ve managed to make the most of it! 😂 Laughing at grabbing your DH to your lair - going to start using that line

Oh no 😞 are you particularly stressed? I had a few months of mega stress at the start of last year and my luteal phase lengths were random, and they’re usually v regular. Hope the call goes well 🤞🏻

Lovely!! Good luck!
Do you have a gp call or private?

Hey gang, checking into this month’s thread. 1DPO today (I think) although need to wait for my BBT to rise tomorrow to be sure. Had a positive OPK on Saturday afternoon and some cramping yesterday, so I think I ovulated. Managed to DTD yesterday morning so fingers crossed for something to stick! This is cycle 2 of (properly) trying for baby #2 after giving it a few months of ‘not trying and not preventing’ to no success.

Fingers crossed for you all!

Well that's me out...my period has arrived scarily early. At only 6dpo marking it a 5 day luteal phase 😪 something clearly going on with my body. My luteal phase is usually 11 days. I also started spotting early last month at 10dpo before a heavy flow 3 days later. Never known a luteal phase so short. No chance of pregnancy with that. Feel so defeated right now. Hope they will do something for me when I have my fertility call next week xx

@ChaE05 Thank you so much lovely, my head has been in the shed for a week now. I’ve not had a loss before. We have our daughter who is 6 and this was cycle 6 of trying again this year. I guess the silver lining is that we can still get pregnant 😢❤️

@SureLook I did one this morning and still faint line 😩😢 just waiting to bleed still.

Hi all, currently around 9dpo but didn’t do an opk or anything so could be out by a day or 2 either way. Though my cycles went back to regular very quickly after having a baby almost 7 months ago . They’re usually 27 or 28 days long and I’m on cd23 now !

i though i was closer to 9dpo yesterday and got an itch to test but of course it was completely negative (which doesn’t feel so bad knowing i was possibly only 8dpo 😂)

im so convinced im pregnant? Im noticing so many possible symptoms but have done since around 5 or 6dpo so I think im just delusional 🤣

good luck to everyone this month 🤞

Hey everyone,

First time posting here. After feeling absolutely exhausted on the weekend, I took a test yesterday and another today. Going back through my clue app, I’m 12DPO today.

there’s lines but they’re so faint, I’ve done two Clearblue digitals and they both said not pregnant. Anyone been in a similar position? I just want to know whether to get excited or not 😩

Top one is yesterday 11DPO
Bottom is today 12DPO

@ChaE05 honestly I think id have gone mad without these threads, its so easy to feel lonely when ttc. Mine is the same, although I think he would be accepting of us looking into it in the future, just waiting for him to have his tests done too and then can re-evaluate. I think its the hope that gets you every month isnt it, every month i say i wont get my hopes up, but by 11/12dpo im already planning pregnancy announcements 😆
Sending you lots of love too, we'll get there im sure❤

@LuckyDuck93i feel this 🤍 so fed up and constantly asking why I'm not getting pregnant. Everything coming back normal, but keep thinking surely something is wrong? Cut myself off from anyone pregnant around me. I just can't handle it. Also started to wonder at which point to look into IVF. A conversation Im dreading to have with OH. He's very much, oh it will happen it's just taking time. But the longer we leave it the older we get. So I know how you are feeling. Sending love ❤️

@ThisHangryTiger aww, sorry to hear that ❤️

@Iris2024 have you tested again? Could you ring the EPU for advice?

@LuckyDuck93 sorry to hear you're feeling fed up. It's a hard journey ❤️

@Muddysocks1 sorry to hear it's BFN ❤️

@Iris2024with my chemical I knew it wasn't progressing as like you my tests were staying the same. I think I first tested about 13dpo and then exactly a week later started to bleed. Just in limbo until then like you say. Hope it won't be too long and you can just move onto the next cycle. Sorry if I've asked previously. Have you had a loss before? Xx

12DPO and BFN so definitely out here. Just waiting for period now. So much waiting!!

I think if you track your cycle it doesn’t matter so much about dating - I’m sure lots of women with irregular cycles and PCOS don’t have a 28 day ish cycle for that (going from last period)

Hi everyone, jumping over from the august thread as AF started today, feeling VERY fed up as this is our 14th cycle ttc #1, ive had bloods etc just waiting on a scan but so far everything is normal. Seems like absolutely everyone around me is pregnant right now, it seems like it is so easy for everyone else, im sure its not the case, but can't seem to get out of that mind set.
Hey ho, on to the next cycle we go, grateful to have all of you to rant to 😅

Thank you @Mash0917

@ChaE05 Thank you hun, I’m stuck in limbo and I had cramps yesterday but no spotting or anything. Ive not had any blood at all since I found out over a week ago. I’ve woken today and nothing. I’m so confused.