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September TTC thread ๐Ÿ’›

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Marvelftw · 29/08/2025 20:00

Hi everyone, setting up a new months thread for those of us who already know weโ€™re out for August. Iโ€™m going on to cycle 3. Hope this can continue to be a place where we can chat and support one another.

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FunnySam · 03/09/2025 18:43

@Mash0917 Oh no! Keep the fluids up, hope it passes quickly๐Ÿคž
@amey44 Welcome! By now Iโ€™d run and buy a test but Iโ€™m impatient, the longer you can wait the better

@Muddysocks1 Everywhere Iโ€™m looking says 8% chance each month?? Iโ€™m happy with 20% if thatโ€™s what youโ€™re saying haha!

LaurLou22 · 03/09/2025 17:54

@overworktotally agree it does come with lots more anxiety! I think it doesnโ€™t help that I usually ovulate around cycle day 14-16 but Iโ€™m cycle day 20 so just completely thrown off! I feel like I get into a nice routine of knowing my bodies behaviours and then it throws me a curve ball to keep me on my toes ๐Ÿคฃ

blackberryhill · 03/09/2025 17:22

overwork · 03/09/2025 16:14

Oh how exciting! Good luck! Is this monitoring for when you ovulate?

Thanks! It's a stimulated cycle, so I've been on injectable medication to make the follicles grow - the scan tomorrow is to check whether they're growing, to check that I don't have too many growing (more than three and the cycle will be cancelled) and to check my lining is thickening properly. If I have one or more follicles larger than (I think) 18mm and lining over 7mm, then I'll take a trigger shot and IUI will be scheduled for 36 hours later. If the follicles aren't there yet then it'll be more medication and monitoring. Hoping that tomorrow will show one or two good sized follicles and a thick lining ready to go for a Saturday IUI (which would be ideal as means no need to book time off work). Fingers crossed!

PBandJellySandwich · 03/09/2025 16:35

LaurLou22 · 03/09/2025 14:00

Hello!
Iโ€™ve been super stupid and stopped testing a few days ago because I thought I had either missed my peak or it just wasnโ€™t coming. Notice some discharge in my underwear earlier so decided to test and got a clear positive test! We havenโ€™t been having aex in the last few days because we thought we were out! I feel so annoyed with myself and feel like I have ruined our chances this month :(

You still have time - you can ovulate 12-72 hours after the LH peak and the egg can be fertilised for up to 24 hours after ovulation!

overwork · 03/09/2025 16:14

Oh how exciting! Good luck! Is this monitoring for when you ovulate?

blackberryhill · 03/09/2025 15:31

Hello - can I please join this thread? I'm 37 years old and on Cycle 22 (๐Ÿ˜ณ) of TTC #2. We're in the midst of our first IUI cycle - currently on CD9 and hoping to get good news at my monitoring scan tomorrow. I need someone to talk to about this besides my husband who is bored of hearing about it!

overwork · 03/09/2025 15:19

@LaurLou22 I think thatโ€™s where all this testing falls down. You have to be so on it to get it perfect. Weโ€™re sticking with every other day from about day 8 (I know I ovulate earlier than some) until my thermometer says ovulation has happened! Too many chances to miss it if not I fear. That said Iโ€™m not pregnant so donโ€™t listen to what I do!

DaisyKG · 03/09/2025 15:06

Afternoon all๐Ÿ’› currently 5DPO on cycle #2 for baby #1. Feeling quite good actually, planning on testing on Sunday. I found the August thread really helpful last month, so jumping over to the September one!

LaurLou22 · 03/09/2025 14:39

@overworkah yeh I know youโ€™re probably right! Iโ€™m just so frustrated at myself for wasting my fertile window!

overwork · 03/09/2025 14:36

@LaurLou22doesnt that mean that ovulation is imminent, rather than already happened? So get at it you might still have time!

LaurLou22 · 03/09/2025 14:00

Hello!
Iโ€™ve been super stupid and stopped testing a few days ago because I thought I had either missed my peak or it just wasnโ€™t coming. Notice some discharge in my underwear earlier so decided to test and got a clear positive test! We havenโ€™t been having aex in the last few days because we thought we were out! I feel so annoyed with myself and feel like I have ruined our chances this month :(

September TTC thread ๐Ÿ’›
givingitanothergo · 03/09/2025 13:54

around 11dpo here today (didnโ€™t track ovulation) tested this morning and completely negative ๐Ÿ˜‚
I think probably not pregnant ๐Ÿฅฒ

Muddysocks1 · 03/09/2025 11:35

Marvelftw · 03/09/2025 10:44

@Muddysocks1 Itโ€™s crazy to think overall how low the odds of conception are. Makes you wonder how some people ever catch on the straight away! Hoping that trying something new has an impact for you

It is! I saw something on Instagram (so I would take with a bit of a pinch of salt) that said 10-15% chance per month if youโ€™re 30-35โ€ฆ which is so low! But then - we all know people who got pregnant on one go, but also itโ€™s so normal for it to take several months with no issues. So many things have to align! Whilst itโ€™s depressing it also gives me a bit of hope, that it is largely a number game and each month BFN doesnโ€™t mean it canโ€™t happen, might just be a bit unlucky?

amey44 · 03/09/2025 11:29

Joining this new thread ๐Ÿ’•Iโ€™m still in my wait for either af or bfp and iโ€™m getting so so impatient now iโ€™m CD 28. Im considering going to buy a test today? Last months cycle was 38 days (never been that long) so iโ€™m quite worried incase itโ€™s the same this month? Typically my cycles are 30-33 days long.

Marvelftw · 03/09/2025 10:44

@Muddysocks1 Itโ€™s crazy to think overall how low the odds of conception are. Makes you wonder how some people ever catch on the straight away! Hoping that trying something new has an impact for you

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overwork · 03/09/2025 09:06

ah Iโ€™m excited for you, a new month and a new hope!

Muddysocks1 · 03/09/2025 08:20

@Iris2024 how are you today?

Muddysocks1 · 03/09/2025 08:19

My period arrived yesterday (earlier than expected!) so started letrozole today. Seeing this as an opportunity to try something different, apparently itโ€™s still fairly low chances of success but brings you closer to general population (like 20% chance). So even if it works for me it might not be first cycle. But ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป

Mash0917 · 03/09/2025 02:44

FunnySam · 02/09/2025 16:45

@ttcnumerodosHappy birthday to that!! ๐Ÿ˜‚
3dpo, time is moving so slowly and Iโ€™m seeing every PMS symptom as conception/implantation.

Same here sis! 3dpo today. So down with fever, cold and bodyache, I can't be sure if I'm getting my usual pms symptoms or not. :-/

PeonyPatch · 02/09/2025 22:40

Marvelftw · 02/09/2025 22:32

Yes sounds like we are! Iโ€™m also 35, soon to be 36! My partner is 34 and turning 35 soon (same birthday month ๐Ÿ˜‚). Weโ€™re also going to trial doing it a bit more this cycle. Wishing you luck also lovely x

Yes, exactly the same game plan as us haha.
good luck to you both x x

Marvelftw · 02/09/2025 22:32

PeonyPatch · 02/09/2025 20:01

Hi ๐Ÿ‘‹ Sounds like we are at similar parts of the ttc journey! I am 35, how about you? My DH is 36. Wishing you luck as well x

Yes sounds like we are! Iโ€™m also 35, soon to be 36! My partner is 34 and turning 35 soon (same birthday month ๐Ÿ˜‚). Weโ€™re also going to trial doing it a bit more this cycle. Wishing you luck also lovely x

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PeonyPatch · 02/09/2025 20:01

Marvelftw · 02/09/2025 19:06

@Iris2024 Iโ€™m so sorry for you. Please be kind and look after yourself today x

@PeonyPatch Glad your appointment went well. I had an initial appointment on the weekend and now have some blood tests and an internal scan booked in, fingers crossed! How old are you if you donโ€™t mind me asking?

Hi ๐Ÿ‘‹ Sounds like we are at similar parts of the ttc journey! I am 35, how about you? My DH is 36. Wishing you luck as well x

Marvelftw · 02/09/2025 19:06

@Iris2024 Iโ€™m so sorry for you. Please be kind and look after yourself today x

@PeonyPatch Glad your appointment went well. I had an initial appointment on the weekend and now have some blood tests and an internal scan booked in, fingers crossed! How old are you if you donโ€™t mind me asking?

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SureLook · 02/09/2025 17:54

@Muddysocks1 I think there is a way to block anything pregnancy related on instagram. I'm not sure exactly how to do it but I'm sure all quick Google would tell you.

@Iris2024 aww, I'm so so sorry. I was really holding out hope. I know you don't want to celebrate but happy birthday โค๏ธ

FunnySam · 02/09/2025 16:45

@ttcnumerodosHappy birthday to that!! ๐Ÿ˜‚
3dpo, time is moving so slowly and Iโ€™m seeing every PMS symptom as conception/implantation.