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September TTC thread ๐Ÿ’›

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Marvelftw · 29/08/2025 20:00

Hi everyone, setting up a new months thread for those of us who already know weโ€™re out for August. Iโ€™m going on to cycle 3. Hope this can continue to be a place where we can chat and support one another.

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Muddysocks1 · 25/09/2025 19:10

Iris2024 · 25/09/2025 07:01

Literally still only a shadow this morning so another unsuccessful pregnancy I would say. Iโ€™m not buying into it and detaching myself. Why canโ€™t it be me? Why canโ€™t we have happy news and ending?

Oh no Iโ€™m so sorry ๐Ÿ˜–

SureLook · 25/09/2025 12:03

@ttcnumerodos sorry to hear. The let down is horrible ๐Ÿ’”

@Iris2024 do keep us posted. You never know ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿปx

ttcnumerodos · 25/09/2025 12:00

Marvelftw · 25/09/2025 10:48

So sorry to everyone whoโ€™s out ๐Ÿ˜”

@Iris2024 saw your update and am gutted ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž Know you still donโ€™t know 100% but itโ€™s so unfair when it feels like our bodies our playing mind games with us on something we really really want.

Iโ€™m 11dpo today and last night I started having symptoms similar to when I first fell pregnant (really sore boobs, twinges on my side). But this morning woken up and have started to bleed. I literally couldnโ€™t sleep last night, I was so excited because I thought we had done it. Iโ€™m not going to be on the forums much next cycle but am wishing everyone baby dust and sticky beans.

Sending love. I was the same last night, got all excited as spotting started them stopped. I always feel so stupid for being hopeful when AF arrives xx

Iris2024 · 25/09/2025 11:37

Marvelftw · 25/09/2025 10:48

So sorry to everyone whoโ€™s out ๐Ÿ˜”

@Iris2024 saw your update and am gutted ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž Know you still donโ€™t know 100% but itโ€™s so unfair when it feels like our bodies our playing mind games with us on something we really really want.

Iโ€™m 11dpo today and last night I started having symptoms similar to when I first fell pregnant (really sore boobs, twinges on my side). But this morning woken up and have started to bleed. I literally couldnโ€™t sleep last night, I was so excited because I thought we had done it. Iโ€™m not going to be on the forums much next cycle but am wishing everyone baby dust and sticky beans.

Iโ€™m so sorry, itโ€™s heartbreaking and soul destroyingโ€ฆ Iโ€™m just in limbo again, Iโ€™m probably going to be a silent watcher too unless AF comes or tests get darker. Sending you baby dust too โœจ

Marvelftw · 25/09/2025 10:48

So sorry to everyone whoโ€™s out ๐Ÿ˜”

@Iris2024 saw your update and am gutted ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž Know you still donโ€™t know 100% but itโ€™s so unfair when it feels like our bodies our playing mind games with us on something we really really want.

Iโ€™m 11dpo today and last night I started having symptoms similar to when I first fell pregnant (really sore boobs, twinges on my side). But this morning woken up and have started to bleed. I literally couldnโ€™t sleep last night, I was so excited because I thought we had done it. Iโ€™m not going to be on the forums much next cycle but am wishing everyone baby dust and sticky beans.

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Iris2024 · 25/09/2025 10:19

ttcnumerodos · 25/09/2025 09:47

10 dpo today. Just looking back at previous cycles and AF usually arrives 11dpo. That is true, thank you. Right back at you also - you're not out yet. When is AF due for you? I feel your post from this morning in my bones, sending lots of love xx

Just seen your post after this that your out and Iโ€™m so sorry. AF is due Saturday for me. If it comes (which I think it will ๐Ÿ˜ฉ) Iโ€™ll see you in October thread. Sending you so much baby dust โœจ

ttcnumerodos · 25/09/2025 10:04

I'm out ๐Ÿ˜ข off to the October thread. Wishing you all the best ladies xx

ttcnumerodos · 25/09/2025 09:47

Iris2024 · 25/09/2025 09:37

How many DPO are you hun? Youโ€™re not out until AF arrives and donโ€™t want to get your hopes up but spotting could always be implantation. We donโ€™t know until AF comes. Sending love โค๏ธ

10 dpo today. Just looking back at previous cycles and AF usually arrives 11dpo. That is true, thank you. Right back at you also - you're not out yet. When is AF due for you? I feel your post from this morning in my bones, sending lots of love xx

Iris2024 · 25/09/2025 09:37

ttcnumerodos · 25/09/2025 08:33

First time I have had the chance to test early this morning in over a year of trying, usually AF beats me to it. BFN! I started spotting yesterday so thought I was out and popped on a pad, but only getting very light pink when I wipe (soz TMI). Really trying not to get my hopes up!

How many DPO are you hun? Youโ€™re not out until AF arrives and donโ€™t want to get your hopes up but spotting could always be implantation. We donโ€™t know until AF comes. Sending love โค๏ธ

ttcnumerodos · 25/09/2025 08:33

First time I have had the chance to test early this morning in over a year of trying, usually AF beats me to it. BFN! I started spotting yesterday so thought I was out and popped on a pad, but only getting very light pink when I wipe (soz TMI). Really trying not to get my hopes up!

Iris2024 · 25/09/2025 07:47

SureLook · 25/09/2025 07:23

@Muddysocks1 so to hear it's BFN but that's great news about the appointment ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

@Iris2024 are you still using the easy@home? They don't seem to get very dark or be great for line progression.

Easy at homes hun, I canโ€™t believe this cycle is so messed up. Dark OPK test all month and last night blazing! Faint line last night and this morning nearly non existent. Just want my body to go back to normal as all this is a head f**k ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

AMBM6040 · 25/09/2025 07:38

Well I couldnโ€™t resist taking a test Iโ€™m only 8dpo I donโ€™t know why I bothered it was obviously negative ๐ŸคฃIโ€™ve got such bad heartburn so I thought I would try my luck, why do we never learn!

SureLook · 25/09/2025 07:23

@Muddysocks1 so to hear it's BFN but that's great news about the appointment ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

@Iris2024 are you still using the easy@home? They don't seem to get very dark or be great for line progression.

Iris2024 · 25/09/2025 07:01

Literally still only a shadow this morning so another unsuccessful pregnancy I would say. Iโ€™m not buying into it and detaching myself. Why canโ€™t it be me? Why canโ€™t we have happy news and ending?

Muddysocks1 · 25/09/2025 06:41

11dpo BFN for me. But in some good news, the fertility clinic have moved my next appt forwards so hoping the plan can be adjusted

Iris2024 · 24/09/2025 22:32

EmPeEf · 24/09/2025 22:27

Buy these. And take it from someone who had three chemicals in four months (and I didnโ€™t even ovulate the month I didnโ€™t fall pregnant), so it can happen month after month after month, and then the right sperm meets the right egg and it will progress.

amzn.eu/d/7sZbZ0Q

Thatโ€™s what Iโ€™m worried Iโ€™ve got really bad post stress of what happened only a few weeks ago and really worried it wonโ€™t progress and lose again but got to remain positive and hope this time itโ€™s the right sperm and egg โค๏ธ Thank you lovely

ForGiddyDreamer · 24/09/2025 22:30

Ahhh @Iris2024 ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž

EmPeEf · 24/09/2025 22:27

Iris2024 · 24/09/2025 20:07

Iโ€™ve got really sharp pulling in my right hip tonight. I knew I had metallic taste mouth etc. Iโ€™m going to be too scared to test again. The Wandflo tests thereโ€™s so many on Amazon. Could you suggest what ones please?

Buy these. And take it from someone who had three chemicals in four months (and I didnโ€™t even ovulate the month I didnโ€™t fall pregnant), so it can happen month after month after month, and then the right sperm meets the right egg and it will progress.

amzn.eu/d/7sZbZ0Q

Iris2024 · 24/09/2025 22:07

ChaE05 · 24/09/2025 22:00

@Iris2024that's a line ! And your ovulation test is blazing!! You're pregnant ! X

Thank you hun, I donโ€™t quite believe it straight after the chemical. I just have to pray that this is it! โค๏ธ

ChaE05 · 24/09/2025 22:00

@Iris2024that's a line ! And your ovulation test is blazing!! You're pregnant ! X

Marvelftw · 24/09/2025 21:46

Omg @Iris2024 !

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Iris2024 · 24/09/2025 20:07

Iโ€™ve got really sharp pulling in my right hip tonight. I knew I had metallic taste mouth etc. Iโ€™m going to be too scared to test again. The Wandflo tests thereโ€™s so many on Amazon. Could you suggest what ones please?

Muddysocks1 · 24/09/2025 20:03

I see that @Iris2024 !

Iris2024 · 24/09/2025 20:02

EmPeEf · 24/09/2025 19:59

I see it. Thatโ€™s a faint line. ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป it gets darker in the next couple of days but thatโ€™s fine for 11dpo Iโ€™d say.

Thank you hun, I'm too scared to believe it! ๐Ÿ™ˆ I feel so disconnected from the line and wish I could get excited.

EmPeEf · 24/09/2025 20:00

Get Wondfo. Those easy@home never get dark for people. They suck. Youโ€™ll get way better results with the Wondfo.