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August TTC thread ❤️

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SureLook · 07/08/2025 19:45

Hi all.

Just setting up a new group to continue the chats and support.

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EmPeEf · 27/08/2025 19:16

Guys, I need help. I’d ordered some more cheapies the other day and thought I’d take one this evening to check everything was done. But there was a faint line still.
I did the last ClearBlue I have and it’s darker than it was yesterday. Do I need to go and get checked out? I thought they’d be blank by now. It’s darker than it was on Sunday when I got my first faint line on the Wondfo.

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SureLook · 27/08/2025 19:08

@Iris2024 I'm sorry you're so upset. Did the doctor seem concerned with the "faint" line? Why won't she send you for bloods? Good idea ringing your fertility clinic.
There is definite progression on your tests, though. The cheapies are just that, cheap! So I wouldn't rely on them too much.

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Iris2024 · 27/08/2025 18:43

Tests from today.. and clear blue from Sunday to today!

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Iris2024 · 27/08/2025 18:40

I’m so so sorry @EmPeEf it’s absolutely heartbreaking. Sending love to you too @SleepySkyRat ❤️😩

@SureLook @Mash0917 Im crying non stop. I just can’t help it. My easy at home test was darker than it has been today and my clear blue still has a line and they’re darker than they was Sunday and Monday but I just have a bad feeling and I don’t want to lose the baby. I don’t know if the pregnancy is progressing. When I was pregnant with my daughter I did one cheapie and digital on the same day and that was that. Went to the doctors and she confirmed the pregnancy with a “faint” line but can’t send me for bloods which I’m annoyed with so I’m going to see if the fertility team will. She said there’s some blood in my urine so has given me some antibiotics and said to wait for the midwife to get in touch. I’m shutting myself away even from my partner and I just need to know all is okay! Sorry for rant! My tests from today below…

ForGiddyDreamer · 27/08/2025 17:50

@EmPeEf very sorry to read your update. Take care of yourself xx

SleepySkyRat · 27/08/2025 15:20

@EmPeEf I’m so sorry to hear that. It truly sucks. Just know you’re not alone, and it’s ok to grieve. I’ve spent the day curled on the sofa with chocolate and the dog, make sure to take care of yourself too xx

SureLook · 27/08/2025 15:17

@Confusedhun it's hard to say since you didn't track ovulation. Did you have any other signs of ovulation?

@EmPeEf aww, I'm so sorry ❤️

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EmPeEf · 27/08/2025 13:41

@SureLook proper bleeding today and pain so definitely all over. Thanks for checking in.

@SleepySkyRat I’m so sorry, love. I’m right there with you x

Confusedhun · 27/08/2025 13:23

irongiulia · 27/08/2025 11:48

Looks like I’m pregnant this time around (cycle immediately following the long one) if all goes well ❤️ I also suspected supplements as I had started pregnacare and know some people have reported longer cycles but really not sure I think sometimes it can be a random one off (very unhelpful when ttc!)

Congratulations love! That’s so great to hear. I’ve never missed a period in my life before so this weird and it’s been 18 years 🙃 x Hope it all goes well!

irongiulia · 27/08/2025 11:48

Confusedhun · 27/08/2025 11:38

No just use flo, so weird because I was suppose to use ovulation sticks last month but didn’t end up doing that! Would’ve been so helpful if I did. I don’t know about stress to be honest, I feel like I am always stressed generally but no more than usual, thank you xx did your period come the following month on time ?

Looks like I’m pregnant this time around (cycle immediately following the long one) if all goes well ❤️ I also suspected supplements as I had started pregnacare and know some people have reported longer cycles but really not sure I think sometimes it can be a random one off (very unhelpful when ttc!)

Confusedhun · 27/08/2025 11:38

irongiulia · 27/08/2025 10:53

I have pretty regular 28 day cycles but last cycle period came at cd 37 - I kept hoping I was pregnant but no test was positive. That month I had no clue about ovulation so might have just ovulated late (stressful period, I travelled a lot). Do you track ovulation at all?

No just use flo, so weird because I was suppose to use ovulation sticks last month but didn’t end up doing that! Would’ve been so helpful if I did. I don’t know about stress to be honest, I feel like I am always stressed generally but no more than usual, thank you xx did your period come the following month on time ?

Confusedhun · 27/08/2025 11:36

SureLook · 27/08/2025 10:50

@Confusedhun hello and welcome! That is confusing alright. It could just be a one off random delayed cycle. Did you start any new supplements this month or anything like that?

No new supplements. Haven’t changed anything really. Do you think it’s just a delayed cycle instead of pregnancy?

irongiulia · 27/08/2025 10:53

Confusedhun · 27/08/2025 10:44

hi all, long time lurker & ttc since December last year after MMC.

in a bit of a pickle. CD34 today. Did a clear blue digital ultra early test with FMU this morning said not pregnant. Did test Saturday morning no lines. So confused normally have a 28-29 cycle each month pushing it CD30.

seeing as I did a test that shows up to 6 days before period and it was negative then am I just skipping a period ?

I have pretty regular 28 day cycles but last cycle period came at cd 37 - I kept hoping I was pregnant but no test was positive. That month I had no clue about ovulation so might have just ovulated late (stressful period, I travelled a lot). Do you track ovulation at all?

SureLook · 27/08/2025 10:50

@Confusedhun hello and welcome! That is confusing alright. It could just be a one off random delayed cycle. Did you start any new supplements this month or anything like that?

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Confusedhun · 27/08/2025 10:44

hi all, long time lurker & ttc since December last year after MMC.

in a bit of a pickle. CD34 today. Did a clear blue digital ultra early test with FMU this morning said not pregnant. Did test Saturday morning no lines. So confused normally have a 28-29 cycle each month pushing it CD30.

seeing as I did a test that shows up to 6 days before period and it was negative then am I just skipping a period ?

Muddysocks1 · 27/08/2025 07:54

SleepySkyRat · 27/08/2025 04:52

Sadly my faint lines turned into fainter lines, spotting and now full AF. Looks like a chemical pregnancy/early miscarriage. Trying to be positive about it all, but had this sinking feeling when I saw how the line wasn’t progressing and should have been darker for 14dpo. Hope everyone is doing ok, going to take some time to process then will be back for September’s TWW.

Oh no I’m sorry @SleepySkyRat, it’s so unfair!

Mash0917 · 27/08/2025 07:35

@Iris2024 , How are you doing now? Please let us know. Hugs for you! 💖

SureLook · 27/08/2025 07:13

@SleepySkyRat aww, I'm sorry to hear that. We'll be here when you come back x

@EmPeEf @Iris2024 how are things today?

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SleepySkyRat · 27/08/2025 04:52

Sadly my faint lines turned into fainter lines, spotting and now full AF. Looks like a chemical pregnancy/early miscarriage. Trying to be positive about it all, but had this sinking feeling when I saw how the line wasn’t progressing and should have been darker for 14dpo. Hope everyone is doing ok, going to take some time to process then will be back for September’s TWW.

EmPeEf · 26/08/2025 21:21

@ChaE05 due around now. The apps thought earlier because I registered CD1 as the first day of bleeding from last month’s loss, but I OV two days later than normal. But I’m 14dpo today.

SureLook · 26/08/2025 20:48

@Iris2024 aww, I'm sorry. The stress and upset of it all is horrible. As Far Away said you could be more hydrated. And sometimes those cheap tests just don't go that dark. I'd go by the FRERs more than the cheapies. But your 12dpo is definitely darker than your 10dpo so there is progression.
And look at those Clear Blues, definite progression there.

@Mash0917 that's great to hear 👏🏻

@FarAwayBird delighted to hear that ❤️

@YKM2829 nice to see you back! It really is all consuming. You were right to step back for a bit.

@EmPeEf aww, I'm so so sorry. I really am ❤️

@amey44 welcome back!

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ChaE05 · 26/08/2025 19:20

@EmPeEfI'm so so sorry 😌 I just know how sad and worried you will be feeling. When is your period due?
These 'chemical' miscarriages (hate that term) are unfortunately so so common. Like they say....most won't even know they have happened ! Unless they test. I know it doesn't make it any easier but I guess what I am trying to say is, it doesn't mean necessarily there is anything wrong with you. These happen more than we know. I don't think the doctor will have referred you if he didn't think there was anything they could do. Sending you love x

YKM2829 · 26/08/2025 19:17

ChaE05 · 26/08/2025 19:14

@YKM2829good to know I'm not the only one with painful ovulation!
I also had 2 internals with my miscarriage. Plus recently another pelvic ultrasound. So that's 3 in the space of 6 months and all came back okay and no signs of anything. I know pain can be normal. But what is considered normal and what is considered not! Xx

What I know is if you have to take heavy dose codeine I. E I take 30mgcodeine 500mg paracetamol regularly daily and it only just takes the edge off. Then that is considered not normal. But it depends who you speak to. I had a convo with a gp she said she also takes the same I said well that isn't normal either. She turned round and said yeah but there's nothing the NHS will do about it. 🤷🏽‍♀️
I've heard anicdotally other people across the UK have better conversations with their gp but that's a dime a dozen I reckon x

ChaE05 · 26/08/2025 19:14

@YKM2829good to know I'm not the only one with painful ovulation!
I also had 2 internals with my miscarriage. Plus recently another pelvic ultrasound. So that's 3 in the space of 6 months and all came back okay and no signs of anything. I know pain can be normal. But what is considered normal and what is considered not! Xx

amey44 · 26/08/2025 16:59

Hey guys! I’m a little behind on this thread as i’ve tried to not think about ttc but I hope everyone’s okay! I’m cd 20 now an unsure if i’ve ovulated? I’ve not got any symptoms but i’ve also not been tracking so I’m really hoping I don’t have a long cycle this month😣I’ve done quite well with not thinking about ttc but now i’m just wanting to know if i’m out or not😬 I hate this last week (or two) before af it’s so draining

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