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Immune/NK cells pred thread #34

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Hopeandfaith1990 · 03/08/2025 14:52

Hi all, started a new thread as the old one was full. Not sure if this is the way to do it but I've c&p'd the list of people on the previous one as much as poss:

Old thread here: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/conception/5228367-immunenk-cells-pred-thread-33?page=40

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Deerdancer34 · 22/06/2026 14:52

@AmzTTC Its so bloody hard and no one understands unless they've been through it. And its amazing where your brain can go isn't it, the days feel very long...Have good podcasts etc to take your mind away from it all sometimes. I'm very glad you're getting a scan, do update us!
So because I conceived my daughter through Superovulation (after 4 losses), I decided I would go straight with Superovulation to conceive a 2nd baby but I have just done my 11th cycle 😩 I asked my GP about IVF and she seems to think I could get it through NHS but I've read everywhere if you have a live child then you can't, so not sure about that. I'm thinking it might have to be through CRP, I know many go abroad but I think that might be difficult with my daughter but not sure.
Seriously I thought I would know what's what this time round, didn't think there would be more obstacles!

AmzTTC · 22/06/2026 14:39

@Hopeandfaith1990thank you so much this gives me so much hope, my family all keep telling me not to get so many scans but I just feel like nobody understand unless you’ve been through it! I know pred makes symptoms but I didn’t realise it completely masks them. I’ve booked a scan for tomrorow so I’m praying everything will be okay… im so happy for you reaching 35 weeks, just over a month and you’ll meet your miracle baby💕

@Deerdancer34thank you so much for this. It’s so true, sometimes I forget that it’s more natural for the body to want to stay pregnan than not but it’s so hard. I’m so sorry about your negative. I’ve been following the thread but not completely, would you do IVF under CRP or NHS? & have you tried super ovulation? Sorry if you’ve already said it!

Deerdancer34 · 22/06/2026 13:02

@AmzTTC Its completely normal what you're experiencing. I didn't really have any symptoms in my First Trimester and really it is just endurance to get through it. I always tried to have the mantra that I am pregnant now, I will deal with anything if and when it comes because honestly my brain would just spiral and the panic would get too much. Be kind to yourself and don't worry about having extra scans etc, if it eases the anxiety then do them. Gentle congratulations and one day at a time, we are rooting for you!

I had another negative, so going to seriously consider IVF now...

Hopeandfaith1990 · 22/06/2026 09:09

Hi @AmzTTC gentle congratulations on your pregnancy. 9 weeks is already a massive achievement. I had very few symptoms in my first trimester, it is really really normal with the Pred - it masks it all (aside from giving you a moon face). My boobs were sore but like you that fluctuated all the time and I worried constantly. The only thing that helped were scans but even that didn't last for very long before I was worrying again. Basically what I'm trying to say is that what you're experiencing is very normal, very hard but common in PAL. In my first trimester (I'm now 35 weeks today) I honestly had about 15 scans. Sometimes I got scans two days apart because I was just so anxious. In total for this pregnancy I genuinely couldn't count how many scans I've had, probably works out to about one per week lol.

PAL is so so so hard, especially in the first trimester. You're doing so well but be kind to yourself and understand why you feel so anxious. Your past has caused your brain to build protective mechanisms that make you panic BUT it doesn't mean that anything bad has happened. Sending love xx

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TammyinCork · 22/06/2026 08:51

Jecca88 · 18/06/2026 16:26

Hey ladies, I am pleased to report my baby boy was born on Monday 8th June. Baby Rio came into the world via emergency c section after 52 hours of labour - basically got an infection and his heart rate was going crazy and he flipped so back to back and just safest option was c section. There was a point I thought we were gonna lose him. We are back home now after a week in hospital after he had to be on antibiotics. He is such a good baby and can’t stop staring at him. I still can’t quite believe we have got here. 5 years and 7 miscarriages and - £££ of pounds and tears combined with a concoction of drugs. Sending so much love to everyone on this journey and really hope we can all get there. Xxx

I'm absolutely thrilled for you! Rio is a lovely name - what a warrior! Hope you have lots of support around you for the newborn phase, and are making a good recovery from your infection. You have given us all so much inspiration ❤️

AmzTTC · 21/06/2026 08:43

Hi all,

i just wanted to ask for some advice to anyone who might be able to help. I’m currently 9 weeks pregnant under Dr Shehatas protocol- the past 2 weeks I’ve been nauseous, in bed and I’ve vomitted a few times too- there’s been 1/2 days I’ve had less symptoms but they were still there.

im 9w 2d but the past 3 days I’ve had absolutely nothing - like the slight nausea here and there, my breasts still hurt but even that’s so up and down. I know prednisolone masks symptoms but I’m so terrified that somethings gone wrong again. I’m on anti cramping medication and progesterone too..

has anyone else experienced this? I’m only 9w but I’ve had 5 scans already because I just can’t take the anxiety but I’m scared I’m taking too many scans now!

Sorry if this triggers anyone PAL has got me overthinking everything and I’m so worried now

Deerdancer34 · 18/06/2026 22:20

@Jecca88 Cannot tell you how delighted I am for you! Your baby boy is here 💙 😍 Soak up every precious minute - know its ok to feel lots of ups and downs. Newborn life is hard and when you've been through such a journey, it adds more to it all. Sending you so much love!

@Hopeandfaith1990 Good luck with the coming heatwave!

AmzTTC · 18/06/2026 20:03

Jecca88 · 18/06/2026 17:05

Thanks my love, I would send a picture but don’t want to be triggering to anyone.
As much as it was scary - being in hospital was amazing the midwives are incredible - we got so much support and tips. I feel like it set us up for success. So as much as it was sleep deprivation - I defo have fond memories and lots of laughter - mainly through delirium. He is such a brave strong lad too - having canulars and multiple blood tests a day. Made him super resilient. X

Huge congratulations so so so happy for you. I love love love hearing successful and healthy pregnancies after loss💙. Enjoy your rainbow- you deserve it with all you’ve gone through. I’ve been silently reading and rooting for you

you give us all hope!x

Jecca88 · 18/06/2026 17:05

Thanks my love, I would send a picture but don’t want to be triggering to anyone.
As much as it was scary - being in hospital was amazing the midwives are incredible - we got so much support and tips. I feel like it set us up for success. So as much as it was sleep deprivation - I defo have fond memories and lots of laughter - mainly through delirium. He is such a brave strong lad too - having canulars and multiple blood tests a day. Made him super resilient. X

Hopeandfaith1990 · 18/06/2026 16:35

Omg @Jecca88 I have been so excited to hear from you! Sooo many congratulations and im
so glad he’s here and it’s going well now you’re at home. I can imagine that it’s the most surreal experience. Rio is such a lovely name.

I’m sorry about the infection and having to be in hospital, that must have been so so scary. after everything you’ve been through, it’s just not what you needed. How is your recovery?

I’m so so happy for you my love xxx

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Jecca88 · 18/06/2026 16:26

Hey ladies, I am pleased to report my baby boy was born on Monday 8th June. Baby Rio came into the world via emergency c section after 52 hours of labour - basically got an infection and his heart rate was going crazy and he flipped so back to back and just safest option was c section. There was a point I thought we were gonna lose him. We are back home now after a week in hospital after he had to be on antibiotics. He is such a good baby and can’t stop staring at him. I still can’t quite believe we have got here. 5 years and 7 miscarriages and - £££ of pounds and tears combined with a concoction of drugs. Sending so much love to everyone on this journey and really hope we can all get there. Xxx

TammyinCork · 05/06/2026 15:25

Wow, @Hopeandfaith1990, 32.5 weeks is incredible, and it sounds like the therapy is really productive and doing a lot for you!

@hazeleyesJ Yes, I know of people in the Reproductive Immunology FB group who said they were only on hydroxy rather than pred, and had a successful result.

@Deerdancer34 Rooting for you with Cycle 11 and the next steps in your journey!

@Jecca88 Sending you the very best vibes for the induction tomorrow! Will be thinking of you! The calming music should be helpful!

I am 43 today and my ERA and uterine microbiome results came back on Tuesday. Apparently the only thing they found was that I have low lactobacillus levels, so I need to take probiotics before my FET, which will be in July, they say!

Hopeandfaith1990 · 05/06/2026 13:34

Thank you @Deerdancer34 I’m really trying to embrace the positivity and excitement 🥰 school is becoming more challenging but I’ve just got to get to July 3rd which is the end of term so reaply
hanging onto that.

Super good luck for Cycle 11 for you, praying and manifesting that this is your cycle ❤️❤️❤️

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Deerdancer34 · 05/06/2026 11:25

@Hopeandfaith1990 Well done with your therapy session, its really not easy! Oooo 32.5 weeks, feels even more real when you get to 30+ weeks! I'm glad you feel you can start to get some things ready, hope you get some feelings of excitement- you are allowed 💖💖💖

@Jecca88 Good luck tomorrow, we'll be waiting to hear when you're ready 🥰 I'd advise spray water and good music/podcast distractions! It's really so exciting & nerve racking but you will be amazing - you've been through so much, so you can do this 💪

I'm onto Cycle 11.... feeling a bit emotional about it, we'll see how this pans out...

Lots of love all 💖

Hopeandfaith1990 · 05/06/2026 10:21

Jecca88 · 05/06/2026 10:13

Hey guys,

nice to hear from you @Hopeandfaith1990 sorry it’s been tough - glad you’re getting the therapy and wow - 32.5 weeks amazing! I have also been quiet- all good from me - actually getting induced tomorrow at 39 weeks so please wish me luck. Been a strange week on maternity leave this week - in limbo wondering what to do with myself and can’t quite believe or comprehend what is about to happen. feeling rather anxious and just trying to focus on staying calm - easier said than done.

hope you’re well @TammyinCork and wow @Gems2811 21 weeks is incredible - how are you feeling?

@hazeleyesJ I actually went on hydroxy only for two pregnancies with CRP and lost both of them - one they said was because it was triplets and higher risk anyway and the other one was a blighted ovum - maybe due to egg quality. When I introduced steroids I got to 13 weeks but lost due to chromosome issue and also had an early miscarriage too on both steroids and hydroxy. This pregnancy I am on both - no idea why this one worked.

please send me good luck vibes for tomorrow guys! Xx

Ohhh Jecca I am sooo excited for you I feel emotional 😂😂🥰🥰🥰 you are going to absolutely rock it and your little boy will be here 🥹🥹🥹

it’ll be completely natural to feel in limbo and a bit panicky - you’ve been building towards this for literally years and equally so much of pregnancy is just waiting around ! I’m sending you so much luck and can’t wait to hear how it goes. Remember that it can’t last forever lol this is what I keep telling myself. Xxxx

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Jecca88 · 05/06/2026 10:13

Hey guys,

nice to hear from you @Hopeandfaith1990 sorry it’s been tough - glad you’re getting the therapy and wow - 32.5 weeks amazing! I have also been quiet- all good from me - actually getting induced tomorrow at 39 weeks so please wish me luck. Been a strange week on maternity leave this week - in limbo wondering what to do with myself and can’t quite believe or comprehend what is about to happen. feeling rather anxious and just trying to focus on staying calm - easier said than done.

hope you’re well @TammyinCork and wow @Gems2811 21 weeks is incredible - how are you feeling?

@hazeleyesJ I actually went on hydroxy only for two pregnancies with CRP and lost both of them - one they said was because it was triplets and higher risk anyway and the other one was a blighted ovum - maybe due to egg quality. When I introduced steroids I got to 13 weeks but lost due to chromosome issue and also had an early miscarriage too on both steroids and hydroxy. This pregnancy I am on both - no idea why this one worked.

please send me good luck vibes for tomorrow guys! Xx

Hopeandfaith1990 · 05/06/2026 08:22

Hi all, how is everyone?

I didn't intend on going quiet, its been a challenging few weeks with the heat/pets/work life/life in general! Everything is fine pregnancy wise. One of my cats had a tumour we had to get removed and its been a lot in terms of vet visits etc as she is a very complex character lol.

I'm 32.5 weeks now, which seems insane. Starting to do some preparation in the house and have bought a few things, still needing to quieten the voice inside my head that says I'm jinxing it etc but generally feeling okay. Still doing weekly therapy and had a very challenging session yesterday where I had to talk to myself as if they were on a chair, it was very confronting but cathartic.

@TammyinCork How are you? Are you close to transfer? Apologies, I couldn't remember your timeline/plan.

@Jecca88 how are you?! Thinking of you and wishing you so much luck for the final stages of this current journey lovely. xx

@Gems2811 so lovely to see you're 21 weeks, how are you feeling? Have you had the anatomy scan?

@Deerdancer34 how are you? Glad the HyFosy went well and it sounds sensible to give SO another few goes now you know its all functional and polyp-free in there.

Lots of love to everyone xxx

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Gems2811 · 30/05/2026 21:44

I haven’t had any further immune related losses, I had IVF in the end and I’m pregnant now (21 weeks) and am still on hydroxy. I stopped getting intralipids once I switched to IVF xx

hazeleyesJ · 30/05/2026 21:15

Hi @Gems2811 that’s reassuring to know. Most ppl with RPL seem to be on both and it was panicking me a little. My consultant doesn’t seem to think pred is necessary. Do you mind me asking if all went ok? Did you also go for intralipids alongside the hydroxy?

Gems2811 · 30/05/2026 20:23

Me! Also I only have borderline NK cells. I had neurological side effects from Pred and dr shehata said that hydroxy was what they used during covid and it was very very minimally less effective than Pred standalone

hazeleyesJ · 30/05/2026 17:10

Hi, sorry to jump on. Wondering if anyone has any experience of pregnancy after loss whilst being on hydroxychloroquine rather than prednisone? Majority I know are on both, or just prednisone. I have recurrent miscarriages and our consultant thinks hydroxychloroquine is enough to help.

TammyinCork · 17/05/2026 19:49

Hello all, thank you for your kind wishes! It's been nearly a month since I posted, but I am still waiting for the results of my ERA test... I should get them back in two days. Also - and this was a real pain - the Lister overcharged me by £1158 for my updated immune bloods on 17th March! I spent a lot of time and effort trying to get the money back, and it was only paid back last Thursday - nearly two months after my appointment. Added a good bit of stress to the process :-(

Great to hear how everyone is doing!

@Auberginesky: Lovely news re: your positive. The scans are part of the deal with CRP, which was another reason why I got a second opinion from Dr Thum - he is happy to prescribe medication and is OK for you to get scanned by your own EPU. As someone who now lives in Ireland, I couldn't justify flying back to the UK every time I needed a scan.

@Jecca88: Great to hear that you can go to term without being induced - sounds like everything is going v smoothly! It has been nearly a month since my mock transfer for the ERA and the HRT meds made me feel not great... Achy boobs and tired. Wonder if I could use a different protocol for the actual transfer - Dr Victory says that Letrozole reduces the risk of miscarriage?

@Gems2811: Delighted for you and glad you got such great treatment from ARK! Fair play! Would your IVF clinic be able to prescribe the Clexane?

@Deerdancer34: I didn't want to do IVF either for a long time, but turning 42.5 and no pregnancy after three months of trying on CRP protocol pushed me to it! Would strongly recommend doing it abroad if you do go for it!

@Hopeandfaith1990: Glad the mental health appointments are going well, and that's amazing re: 28 weeks. It's sad that you were shamed for stopping the hydroxy - there was obviously a reason why the IVF doctor told you to stop.

Deerdancer34 · 14/05/2026 21:21

@Gems2811 Aww that's perfect, its what you need to hear because you arrive broken and feeling the worst about yourself. I completely agree its important to have that human touch. Dr E was like a shining beacon & the first person who I saw after 3.5yrs who was positive, said I could do this and give me actual hope! And even now, every cycle she fills me with hope, I always feel I need to see her! Thank you 🙏🤞
When's your next scan? 💓

Gems2811 · 13/05/2026 11:11

@Deerdancer34 I hope the Hyfosy was okay, and hope flushing them has helped 🙏. They're pretty uncomfortable aren't they. You so need a bit of hope and compassion, I actually looked forward to every scan during stims because he'd give me a little pep talk each time, saying that my body has done a wonderful job and that I'd really put my all into the cycle and acknowledge the effort and how vulnerable you feel. It sounds really silly but I needed that after so many years of being told that my body wasn't up to scratch for one reason or another. Dr Edge is good at this too. We'll all be rooting for your next SO cycle xxx

Deerdancer34 · 12/05/2026 14:12

@Gems2811 Thank you so much, that's really helpful knowing what you did and also how it makes you feel because SO can feel really relentless, especially when its not working 😅 I'm definitely feeling a bit better about it hearing your stories, its just a big step and the worry of it not working. I'm glad you found the Ark Dr - you need that person that actually cares and gives you the hope don't you?
Will you find out gender!?

@Hopeandfaith1990 That made me giggle! Thanks Dr S!

I had my Hyfosy yesterday, it took a while for her to find my tubes so hopefully flushing them has helped and she found no polyps in my womb. So I think we'll give SO a few more cycles so I can get my head around IVF 🫣
Lots of love to all 💓

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