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Anyone just started their dreaded 2WW ? πŸ‘€πŸ‘‹πŸΌ

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WF1990 · 15/07/2025 08:07

Morning girls, that’s it really, looking for 2WW buddies to get through the longest part of the ttc cycles !
I’m 1DPO, cycle 8 for a first baby 🀞🏼

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WF1990 · 24/07/2025 19:23

@positivethoughts1 I can see it !!!

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EllieWales · 24/07/2025 19:19

@positivethoughts1I can see that and I’m useless at line spotting! Are you planning on testing again tomorrow?

positivethoughts1 · 24/07/2025 19:11

9DPO PM test…. Am I imagining it?????

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WF1990 · 24/07/2025 18:58

@MegLSwelcome !!
fingers crossed for this cycle for you ! (And all of us !!). 🀞🏼

@EllieWaleslooks like we’re very similar 🀣🀣🀣🀣

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EmPeEf · 24/07/2025 18:54

EllieWales · 24/07/2025 18:14

Hi @DaisyKGgood luck for cycle 1! Always happy to provide support when you don’t know if you’re spotting actual symptoms or going mad. The TWW sends me delulu πŸ˜… I have a very rare evening in the house on my own tonight so I’ve ordered dominos and going to sit on the sofa all night because that’s what I would do if I was pregnant. I’m only 8dpo and have no idea if I actually am 🀣

@WF1990I’m not sure if I can see something on there but I’m not the best. Good news about the spotting stopping even more of a positive sign! You should have your answer very soon.

@EmPeEfI tested this morning at 8dpo in the hope there would be a squinter but nothing πŸ˜…

Hunting for squinters gets so old but it’s so hard to wait isn’t it. I think I implant later going by my positive cycles now I’m older though.

EllieWales · 24/07/2025 18:48

@WF1990glad I’m not the only one! I’m getting emotional watching the Kardashians so if I’m not pregnant AF must be on the way πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ˜‚

Hi @MegLSwelcome, hoping you get a BFP! When are you planning on testing? Fair play keeping it chill, in case it isn’t obvious I’m struggling 🀣

MegLS · 24/07/2025 18:31

Hi! Hope you don’t mind me joining. I’m currently 6dpo on our second cycle TTC. I was awful for symptom spotting last month so am trying to be a bit more chill! Obviously still very early but so far no real symptoms. I was away for work in the lead up to ovulation this month so not sure we’ve got much of a chance anyway, but keeping my fingers crossed!

WF1990 · 24/07/2025 18:23

@EllieWalesgirl we’re having takeaway too - faking it till we’re making it 🀣
I think I was delulu with this test. Will test again tomorrow, but if negative I think I’ll stop because AF is due on Saturday and my luteal phase never exceeds 10-11 days so for sure af will show up !

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EllieWales · 24/07/2025 18:14

Hi @DaisyKGgood luck for cycle 1! Always happy to provide support when you don’t know if you’re spotting actual symptoms or going mad. The TWW sends me delulu πŸ˜… I have a very rare evening in the house on my own tonight so I’ve ordered dominos and going to sit on the sofa all night because that’s what I would do if I was pregnant. I’m only 8dpo and have no idea if I actually am 🀣

@WF1990I’m not sure if I can see something on there but I’m not the best. Good news about the spotting stopping even more of a positive sign! You should have your answer very soon.

@EmPeEfI tested this morning at 8dpo in the hope there would be a squinter but nothing πŸ˜…

WF1990 · 24/07/2025 17:56

I know right ! My 7dpo one was definitely some kind of indent or shadow. Spotting has stopped for me… I shall see how things are tomorrow I guess !

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EmPeEf · 24/07/2025 17:50

WF1990 · 24/07/2025 15:58

I thought I would entertain the crowd as I decided to do a dreaded clear blue ultra early after spotting brown this morning πŸ˜… I feel like I can see a faint line (came up within timeframe). But I could also be very deluded (good job i feel quite relaxed about it all, I’m just eager to know either way!)

Can’t be totally certain on that yet but there’s still time 🀞🏻🀞🏻 I don’t know how people get all these super early 8dpo positives πŸ˜„

EmPeEf · 24/07/2025 17:48

PottersBarn · 24/07/2025 15:25

Sorry reading it back it did sound a bit harsh. Apologies @Seasaltandgrass i didn’t mean it to sound that way! I’m autistic and sometimes things come out wrong!

Sending some solidarity to you. I’m autistic as well and I can come across so bad online sometimes πŸ˜… ❀️

WF1990 · 24/07/2025 15:58

I thought I would entertain the crowd as I decided to do a dreaded clear blue ultra early after spotting brown this morning πŸ˜… I feel like I can see a faint line (came up within timeframe). But I could also be very deluded (good job i feel quite relaxed about it all, I’m just eager to know either way!)

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WF1990 · 24/07/2025 15:48

Welcome @DaisyKG!!
best of luck ! I find the first week so long but then the second week passes a bit faster for me !

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DaisyKG · 24/07/2025 15:47

Hello all! Hope you don’t mind me jumping onto this thread - currently in the TWW (3DPO) for baby #1. This is our first month of TTC so completely new to this - have just relied on my app for the first month. I have been off birth control for 5 years now and know my cycle pretty well.

Reading all your posts keeps me sane - still have a while until I plan on testing (hoping to test on 31st)🫢🏻✨

PottersBarn · 24/07/2025 15:25

WF1990 · 24/07/2025 15:10

perhaps the softer way to put what @PottersBarnsaid @Seasaltandgrassis that it take a healthy - issue free couple about a year to conceive and this is perfectly normal. Your post seemed very intense for the first cycle and indeed if you look into things that deep at such an early stage it will be a very unhappy experience but also mentally challenging. So try and preserve yourself take a step back and always remember that things can take a little bit of time and it’s totally fine 🫢🏽 (that being said there are also plenty of stories of women conceiving within the first 3 months!) 🀞🏼

Sorry reading it back it did sound a bit harsh. Apologies @Seasaltandgrass i didn’t mean it to sound that way! I’m autistic and sometimes things come out wrong!

WF1990 · 24/07/2025 15:10

perhaps the softer way to put what @PottersBarnsaid @Seasaltandgrassis that it take a healthy - issue free couple about a year to conceive and this is perfectly normal. Your post seemed very intense for the first cycle and indeed if you look into things that deep at such an early stage it will be a very unhappy experience but also mentally challenging. So try and preserve yourself take a step back and always remember that things can take a little bit of time and it’s totally fine 🫢🏽 (that being said there are also plenty of stories of women conceiving within the first 3 months!) 🀞🏼

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PottersBarn · 24/07/2025 14:33

Seasaltandgrass · 23/07/2025 12:02

Thank you β€” and you're right, it's so hard to stay grounded in the first month. Just to clarify, though, I think I'm only about 10 DPO today, not 15. I had a possible ovulation around the 12th or 13th July based on symptoms and tracking, so I’m still within the early testing window. The brown discharge started around 9 DPO, which seems early for a period for me (I’ve not had proper cycles for years due to being on the pill). I had a tiny bit of red this morning, but nothing since. So I guess it’s a waiting game… but you're so right β€” I need to let go a little and trust that it may take time. Thank you again for the kindness 🫢

If you’re only 10dpo now then what were the symptoms you mentioned feeling hopeful, curious and wanting confirmation about on 10th/11th/12th etc? Ovulation? With the spotting as well around that time what do you think that was if it was making you hopeful?
Pregnancy symptoms can’t start until after an embryo has implanted. An embryo isn’t ready to start implanting until 5dpo earliest. Then it can take a week or more extra to actually implant. Then your HCG needs to rise enough to cause the symptoms.
You mention lots of symptoms that you say aren’t usual for you. But if you’ve been on the pill you won’t really know what’s usual as your hormones will be different now. Symptoms of rising progesterone after ovulation causes all sorts of symptoms that are very similar to pregnancy. Every month my boobs get heavy and sore the day after ovulation. The pain gets worse (can hardly touch them at times) until I get my period and then it stops pretty much instantly.
Obviously you could well be pregnant. But I think it would be helpful to be a bit more patient and relaxed in the coming months if you’re not.

WF1990 · 24/07/2025 12:59

you can always send us a pic and we can all use our line eyes !!! I hope it is a line ! 🀞🏼🀞🏼

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Kayleaaa · 24/07/2025 12:58

Thanks! I unfortunately caved at work, only managed an hour hold after having a coffee so of course bfn, why I did it who knows haha!
Swear I think I see a shadow but my line eyes are not to be trusted at all!
Due tomorrow or Saturday at latest. Might try when I get home, an hour an a half hold is possibly the most I can do as I'm SO thirsty!

WF1990 · 24/07/2025 11:43

@EllieWaleslolling at the breakfast, I almost ordered maccies πŸ˜‚
fingers crossed one lady of the group gets a bfp after @lalalalalala2024fantsstic news 🀞🏼🫢🏽

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GrapefruitZest · 24/07/2025 11:26

Hi everyone. I’ve also tested again this morning at 10dpo, definitely negative still. I guess there’s still time. I’ve actually come to terms with the fact it might not be this cycle which is helping me feel less crazy.
Fair play to you @Kayleaaa for not testing yet! There’s no way I’d be able to wait. Hope you get your BFP!

EllieWales · 24/07/2025 11:14

@WF1990thats even more promising! You’re very laidback about it all fair play to you. My cramps are still there although milder, I took an ibuprofen earlier for something unrelated so they might be having an affect. If it AF I need her to hurry up so I can stop eating for two πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

WF1990 · 24/07/2025 11:00

@EllieWaleswe shall see!! It was so faint and now it has disappeared. Only one brown stain but that’s it !
my boobs are still absolutely killing and usually at that stage they are less painful as progesterone drops so maybe progesterone is still high ! Who knows !
trying to take a stress less approach about it all !
have your cramps stopped ?? X

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EllieWales · 24/07/2025 10:57

@WF1990that’s definitely a positive then if spitting is unusual for you, keeping everything crossed!

Welcome @KayleaaaI too commend you holding out on testing I will probably be POAS every 5 mins by the time I get to 13dpo πŸ˜‚ I understand the reasoning though, there’s still hope! Sorry about your chemical the TWW is hard enough without having that extra fear unlocked

I’m bloody starving even after eating a big breakfast. I’m telling myself I’m not pregnant I’m just a fat b*h but my brain is still like β€˜maybe it’s a baby?’ 🀣