@Tater05 let those doctors get annoyed...you have to push for what you need and never forget it's a service we all pay for and are entitled to use! Sadly you have to be quite vocal to get the stuff you need I wish it wasn't the case.
What DPO are you now?
@CharLdn I really want you to know and believe that lifting weight and Parma ham did not cause this. At this stage in pregnancy it is almost certainly due to unfortunately an embryo that wasn't healthy or normal and couldn't continue growing. You are a fit active person who usually lifts weights - continuing a normal routine into pregnancy is absolutely fine unless told otherwise by a doctor, and that would generally be down the line if you were having complications. This is not your fault. At all. You did nothing wrong and actually you've done a lot of things right over the TTC journey. You could not have prevented this.
I'm glad you're having bloods done as obviously from the experiences myself and @KT199 had it is certainly important to check that everything is finished and I do hope that's the case for you.
I think looking to get something in place for work will help as you never know what time you might need off with TTC. I will say though that depending on the employer being employed isn't perfect - I don't get sick pay. Admittedly SSP is better than nothing at all, but for one week off only it's £67 then £118 per week after which isn't enough at all. I was prepared for a financial dip for maternity, but the lost earnings from prenancy loss is something I'd never considered and it's racked up a fair amount 😫